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writes:i'm with a guy who wants to marry me. Yet alarm bells are ringing?He has his own business in istanbul and two other businesses in another city. But my friends say he is using me for passport and visa. Has anyone any advice for me?
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (11 October 2011):
 Never seriously consider to marry until you really know a man.
Something is not settling with you, so dig a bit deeper before you take any proposal seriously! Chances are you are RIGHT that something is wrong.
Best wishes.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 October 2011):
 are YOUR alarm bells ringing?
how long have you known him?
do you know him in real life or just on the internet?
how did you meet?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (11 October 2011):
 ALWAYS listen to alarm bells. Always, always, always.
Why are your friends saying that???
And, if he is so established with businesses in different cities, why would he need you for a passport?
Also, how do you know him, and how long have you been seeing each other? Is this going really fast for you, or is HE giving off red flags?
Never ignore alarm bells.
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