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Archived questions from: 2 September, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

A Dignified Life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 September 2009 (?) - As the years go by, as the number of bodily aches add up, as the dream of having a feline I can go home to fades more and more, I often wonder if humanity would be capable of standing on their own two feet. If they would choose the options that ...

If he doesn't want to admit he has cheated, does this mean he can't or won't change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband for 8 1/2 yrs now, married for nearly 5 and have 2 beautiful children together. My problem is over 2 yrs ago my husband started an affair which lasted for several months. During this time he never admitted that he had the ...

I've been away at college for two weeks, but I think I've made the wrong choice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hey okay so this isn't a relationship problem persay more of just asking for advice in general. So I am away at college its my freshman year the college im attending is 14 hours away from home I know its only the second week and I need to give it ...

How to get through to financially irresponsible fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I love my "fiance" to death, but since we have been living together, and especially now that I have a ring on my finger, I have been taking our problems more seriously. Here's my thing.. my parents raised me to be responsible. I always keep on t...

I am in love with my manager, but I don't want to spoil things for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - hi everyone, i'm a 20 year old guy. And i really have this terrible love problem. I am in love with my manager. She's 22 years old. And ever since i started working for her we've been friends. One could say that we're close friends. Last y...

What should I do ? I think I'm starting to fall in love with him and I don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - A couple months ago I got a job in the food court at my mall. I met this guy (we'll call him Chris) but never paid much attention to him since we rarely worked together. Then one day, it was just the two of us opening in the front of the store and ...

My married, younger boss has started taking an interest in me..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Im 41 single never been married, no childern, and have just started really enjoying being in my 40s. About 3 months ago I landed a fantastic new job. but, 10 year younger married boss has now started showing interest. late phone calls at night ...

I love him, but its not the right time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy for about seven months and I completely love him and he loves me, but I can't handle it anymore. I love him so much and I don't want to hurt him, but how do I tell him right now just us the right time. ...

I'm having an arranged marriage, and my fiance would rather spend time with his friends than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hi,I have got engaged around 5 months ago. I am basically a very shy and introvert kind of girl, but my would be is extrovert and very social. He has a large network of friends and contacts. Everytime he remains busy with his friends and all. ...

I said no when he proposed because our star signs don't match

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Im so confused what to do.... Im 23 yrs old.. I am in relationship with a guy(he's 5 years elder than me) for more than 10 years now.. we've been through many ups and downs... his parents knew about us and they had approached my parents without ...

I feel so ugly, how can I look better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Gah... how should I start this off... (I'm not so good at writing these haha...) well... Pretty much starting two years ago, I have been feeling ugly. Not only that, but I know I have gained a lot of weight and it shows, which makes me even ug...

Can a Man and Woman remain friends when they have mutually admitted an attraction for each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Can a Man and Woman remain friends when they have mutually admitted an attraction for each other . I am divorced and have known the guy in question for ten years . He helped me emotionally by talking ( no sex !) through the break - up . However now ...

I had an abortion because we decided we were not ready for another baby, but now he has changed his mind and wants to try again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Heres my story i have a daughter shes 7months after her i made the mistake and got pregnant again me and my bf decided we wernt ready for another baby so i got an abortion, but now my bf wants another baby! i dont understand i just had that abortion ...

Why would I rather have a bad guy and try to change him, then have a good guy that doesn't have to be changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - How come after every relationship ends, I say I want a good guy. I want a guy that will finally treat me good, with the respect I know I deserve but how come when a guy like that comes around, then I don't want to take the chance? Why w...

How do you fall out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - This is more of a discussion question than problem, but i've been thinking about it and would like some opinions. What is love, and can you fall out of love?...

Does magic exist? Thoughts on childhood and growing up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - When you were a child, was everything somehow magical? You always knew something that the adults didn't. It wasn't a secret, just some form of fleeting knowledge that fades with age. When you were a teenager, weren't you in a hurry to grow up? You ...