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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

He's never given me any reason to doubt him but I cant get over his past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Hi, my partner of five years is 62 and I am 53 hence we have a lot of life experiences between us. When we first got together he told me a lot about his past and if I'm honest I was shocked as it consisted of 4 unplanned pregnancies, 3 abortions etc ...

The girl I used to bully wants to go on a date with me! Any ideas why she would want to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - im slightly confused by this, i used to bully this girl when we were both 13-14 im a girl too (im not proud of it and i know its worng) now we are both 18 and i got a phone call from here saying that she forgives me for bullying her and wants to go ...

Which guy will bring me the most happiness? Who should I trust the most?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - last night my bloke asked me to sleep with him, i said no, by sayin no resulted in him pushin me right by the stairs. i nearly fell down them. do u think he would ever hit me? also i have been reading his comments and it appears that he is meeting ...

I'm having a second affair after I promised I would never leave him again, do I stay with him or follow my heart and be with the man I love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - This could be a long post but I have to lay it all out. I am a married woman and have been with my husband for 13 years. He was my first serious relationship (I met him when I was 20). About 6 years ago I had an affair and told him I was leavin...

Why does it hurt to have sex even after 5 years of sexual activity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Hello all I'm kinda new at this so please work with me...I'm 20 years old and lost my virginity at 15 I've had 3 partners in that time one of which I was with for 4 years and we did it on a regular basis and even now it still feels like he rips me ...

Can girls feel you cum inside of them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - I have a weird question. I hooked up with this girl for the first time (without a condom, stupid I know) and she rode me for a few minutes and came on my penis. After she finished cumming she asked me if I had cum inside of her and I was puzzled ...

He didn't tell me how old or sick he was, and I've me someone closer to my age

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am 62 years old (but a very young 62). I'm active, I exercise 5 times a week and everyone tells me I don't look my age. I'm in good health and take care of myself. Six years ago, my husband of 32 years passed away. Three years later I met a ...

What is the best thing for everyone in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I am overwhelmed. Nine months ago or so, who I thought was my best friend started dating the guy that I had a huge crush on for over three years. I know he wasn't an ex-boyfriend, but he was still a huge part of my past. He and I always had a mor...

How common is it for guys to try to push you into things sexually?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - ladies how common is it for guys to try and push you into things you don't want to do sexually or to atually force you-I've encountered a few guys like this and I want to know whether it's normal but girls just don't say that it's happened to them ...

Guys: Is monogomy a myth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - guys have you ever been completly faithful to a woman throughout your relationship-I'm starting to wonder whether faithful men are a myth,all my boyfreinds have cheated...

Why was he so intensely into me only to drop me later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - What is it with guys who come on so strong in the beginning, pursue you like crazy, get your hopes up so much and then just drop you like you never mattered at all? I met someone online and I seriously thought he had a lot of potential. The f...

Do I have a disorder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 years old and I don't remember the last time I was truly happy. Sure, I laugh and I smile but I can't remember what true happiness is like. I haven't felt it in a long time. I don't have a bad life, I think I am a good looking girl and...

Feeling lost about myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys. I know this is going to sound a little crazy but have you ever felt like you werent really you? i mean for me i fell like the world is going so fast but im just standing still and not included in it. I honestly dont know why i fell this ...

Visit my son in jail? Or write a letter telling him how his behavior is affecting the family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - My son ended up in jail, after several probation charges with shoplifting and others, to support his drug habits. Now it is the 10 th year of this struggle. We tried to help him,many many times. Right now ,I'm hesitating if I should visit him in j...

I needed a hug, not a French kiss!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - is it normal that a girl would just want a hug from her boyfriend rathar than a french kiss ,,you see ,2 of my friends died at a car accident, and i was crying so when we met , i hugged him and i started crying he hugged me back but then afterwards ...