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Archived questions from: 1 September, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Am I misinterpreting his actions? I'm avoiding him at work now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Hi I am a gay 18 year old male, closet guy and I have had a part time job for about a year, And new guy started and at about 3-4 months ago at first I hated him and now think I fancy him, I have spoken to him a lot and we have so much in common w...

I dreamt about a guy the total opposite of my boyfriend, what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. i love him very much. we had some obstacles such as alcohol use and committment issues also it bothers me that he still has no job. recently i had this crazy dream that a guy that i dated ...

I'm never around for my son, and I cheat on my husband. Am I a bad mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Am I a bad mother? Out of my sons 3 years of life iv been gone for 2 years. Im in and out. Im either deployed or in training. The only person he knows is his father who has him. But my relationship is going down the drain too. Iv been gone most of ...

I'm struggling to cope with looking after my elderly father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My mother died January 2008 and now my 84 year old father lives with my husband and 24 year old son. My father is from the old school where he doesn't know how to cook, laundry, etc and cannot be left alone at night. However, he is alone during ...

I'm worried I might be wasting time on this man, I really want to settle down with him but he seems to be unsure of what he wants!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now - I am 34, he is 39. Neither of us has children, although he has been married before when he was in his early twenties. Their breakup was amicable, they had grown apart. At the...

Will the guilt over cheating on my girlfriend ever subside?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years now and I truly love her. She is the girl of my dreams and she feels the same about me. The thing is I cheated on her about 3 years ago with one of her friends. I really don’t know why I did it as I was ...

His friends are teasing him about dating a black woman, how do I get him to stop caring?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I have a great boyfriend, we've been dating for several months and we spend practically every day together. He is white, and I'm a black female. Recently, however, he's been letting me know that some of his friends are 'teasing' him about dating a ...

Should I end my relationship now I know that my partner would leave me if I couldnt have children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend (we've been together 4 years) has started mentioning having children together. I am not sure at this stage as we have spent little time together over the last year as he emigrated. As I am due to move out to be with him next month the ...

Is my girl using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Ever since i let my girlfriend move in with me she has changed so much. When we first met she was active, sporty and outgoing but ever since she moved in with me she has changed so much. She don't goto the gym anymore, she never does housewor...

Married man dilemma!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - Hello, Whenever I heard of stories of women falling in love with married men, I always used to say to myself that this is never going to happen to me. But right now I am faced with the truth that I do have feelings for a married man. Well, I cannot...

Is there a chance he is thinking of reconciling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

1 September 2009 (F) - I was with someone for over 3 years... rather than rehash all the tiny things that made me insecure, jealous, just didn't feel right etc... I can admit i was wrong on some of those things and reacted too jealous at times and should have been more ...

I need a reason to call her! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (M) - So, im in 9th grade, me and my crush are getting along great, flirting alot and stuff, i just got her number today, and i really want to call her, the problem is i have no reason to. We have no homework, we arent actually girlfriend and boyfriend ...

How do I tell my mum I feel uncomfortable telling her some things without hurting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

1 September 2009 (?) - Hey, I have big problems with my mum. I want her to understand that I feel uncomfortable telling her things about my life, yet not get her too hurt about this fact. how can I do it?...