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Archived questions from: 30 September, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Can you lie to the court house about being married before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - Ok i just want to know do you have to tell the court house that you were married befor?...

How can I accept he loves/likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for just about 2 weeks with my boyfriend, but we had been hanging out for about a month before that. Before all of this we knew each other years ago and then he moved away, came back, but we never got back in touch til ...

My girlfriend was drugged and raped and I blame myself.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18, We have been dating since high school. I go to college in a town that is 4 hours away from our home town. Last April during our last week of school I invited (begged) her to come down and attend the last class bash ...

Is it normal for attached guys to flirt with other women via email?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I need a mans point of view please. My question is: Do guys write/email etc.. other girls in a flirting/even inappropraite way even when your in a relationship with another? Is it an ego thing? Do guys usually intend on something to happen or...

Got busted for shoplifting!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I GOT A SHOPLIFTING CHARGE N I DNT WANT THIS TO MESS MY LIFE UP..WHAT CAN I DO TO GET IT EXPONGED N HOW MUCH DOES IT COST? I USUALLY DNT SHOPLIFT BUT I NEEDED SOME STUFF AND I DIDNT HAVE MONEY! CAN YA PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE...

Should I go back to the books and graduate, then try for university again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My question may not have any relevance to love... But ill give it a try, back in 2007 i did my matric but i failed so i didnt graduate from high school,i was gonna study neurology, since i had a grade 10 certificate i could go to college and opte...

Isn't reality better than fantasy when it comes to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My Psychiatrist BF who is 41 has a 'collection' of over 100 DVD's almost ALL of which are about hetero anal sex, and a few male sex ones. He says he is only "curious" but this 'seems' different to me. I think in the past he had turned to it to ...

Like father, like son, in sexual habits! Should I talk to him or be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years and have since the very beginning been very comfortable and sexually open with one another, more so than any of our previous relationships. He has several unique fetishes and I've never thought much of ...

How do I get over my insecurities about (not) dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I used to joke a lot with my best friends about growing old together as cackling cat ladies, and how we'd all live in a string of houses on adjacent properties and sit on our porches with shotguns in our laps, terrorising the neighbourhood children. ...

My ex is sleeping with his girlfriends best mate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone Well my ex bf is now like my best friend we get on really well even if we do have are little tiffs, But basically he has a gf who is pregnant and i slept with him once after that and it hasnt happened since as i felt guilty even th...

My boyfriend has threatened to break up with me if I have an abortion! How do I get him to understand it is my choice?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Yesterday morning I did a pregnancy test and it came up positive but I don't know how many weeks yet. I have no desire to be a mum or ever have a baby I just don't like them so I knew straight away that abortion is the only option. Howev...

Has he changed his mind about getting married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about one year. A couple of months in (when we started talking about exclusivity, etc.) we discussed what we were looking for. I'm 29, and I don't want children and haven't really thought much about ...

If you were me you can forgive a cheater? Do you think cheater will repent and stop hurting others?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - We married 23 years and have 3 lovely children. He is 56 and me 43. I am a teacher at school and I am a nice woman. We have a happy marriage and he never intended to leave me. We are French and live in US. One day I found out he cheated on me wi...

Do you think this girl is still attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 2 months now but we have been hanging out as if we were a couple for about 3 months. I have known her for about a year and have always been attracted to her. Our relationship started out with her ...

Cheaters: how do you know if they have changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Do men that cheat ever genuinely change??? if they do how do you know that they changed?...

Dating 3 weeks, when do I shave my pubic hair, before we get married or before sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - i've been dating this guy for 3 weeks. i don't know if i should shave my private area before he and i get marry? or before we have sex? ...

Is this a sign I should just let him go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend of almost 4 years told me yesterday that he needs a break because he has not slept with any other girl. He said if I don't want to wait than we can break up. I don't know what to do. I know he loves me more than anything else and on ...

Is it normal to feel dirty after fooling around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I recently started dating a guy. This is my first relationship. He was my first kiss, etc etc. We haven't had sex yet but we've been slowly moving forward. A few days ago, we were messing around, to the point where i took off my shirt. I was...