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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do. I've tried almost everything and nothing seems to work. He doesn't feel he has a problem. I'm getting more depressed by the day. All we ever do is sit around and he drinks. I love him with ...

How do you handle stress in a bad marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I have been emotionally eating and have gained a lot of weight because of my marriage problems. Now I would really love to lose like 30 lbs, but things in my marriage are just not getting any less stressful. What are some good ways to deal with ...

I need your opinions here. What does love feel like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - There appears to be two types of love. One is the love for a sibling or family member, and the romantic love between intimate partners. I myself am devoid of either. I never have (and probably never will) felt love for another due to my abnormal p...

I'm beginning to think I'm terminally unattractive!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - This is a difficult one to come out with, as I'm genuinely beginning to think I'm terminally unattractive... I'm 26, have a great job, a fab circle of friends, enough freedom/money to go enjoy myself travelling, etc, but am permanently single. My ...

Has anyone given up on finding love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (?) - This is a strange one. Has anybody out there ever been close to giving up on the idea of ever finding someone whom they are very compatible. In a sense is it sensible to give up o finding love. In the past I was with a girl and we broke up. Ive go...

My neighbour saw me being spanked by my mom!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I was recently being spanked by my mum in our lounge, after 'backchatting' her, when my neighbour's 13 year old daughter came round and saw (and heard) everything!!! I was in the middle of the lounge grabbing my ankles yelling out, whilst my m...

Is it weird for someone to go clubbing by themselves? And is it dangerous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Is it weird for someone to go clubbing by themselves? And is it dangerous? When I go clubbing I often see alot of guys just by themselves and I see them the whole night, just standing by themselves, like as if they arent there with anyone. ...

The weirdest dream ever...!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Hi, any psychological help on the following, last night was the very first dream I could remember for a really long time. I'm not sure if it could mean something.... It goes like this, there was this house, a house which my family and I stayed in ...

How do I tell her I'm not interested without making things akward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - I have been going to collage for a few weeks and there is a woman that has been in my english class. She could very well be as old as my mother or a little younger and she has been looking for me all the time and making passes at me after i helped ...

Why would this crush make me sad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - For some reason i am punishing myself for likeing this one guy. I hate that i think about him, and want to get to know him better. I met him maybe a week ago, but I am married. My marriage is going through a really hard time right now and the ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about the rape? I'm scared I will lose him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - Last year i was raped at a city bus stop. My mother and father both know about it, but my new boyfriend dosent. We just started going out 3 weeks ago and i dont no if i should tell him or not. "Rob" tells me everything and i want to to, but i just ...

How do I nudge him to fall in love with me? Or come clean that he can't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I know you can't make someone fall in love with you, but does anybody have any tips to move it along? We spend all our free time together, can talk about anything, and never fight. I don't know what the hold up is. I let it slip that I had fallen ...

How do I politely say, "I'm a moron!" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - I accidentally dialled a guy that I like. I don’t know how that happened. Seriously. I didn’t mean to go anywhere near his number. Seemingly his number was still on my call logs from weeks back (??!). The situation is awkward because he and I...

Ladies: What is the 'decent size penis?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) - One for the ladies, i know most of you will say size doesn't really matter it's the way you rock the boat, but what do ladies think is "the decent size penis" ...