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Archived questions from: 18 September, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How do you get over the fear of opening up to someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - So I have the generic problem of not opening up to anyone because I'm afraid of being vunerable and/or rejected. This has ruined my friendships in the past, and made relationships with boyfriends really difficult. I am 19 and now in my first seri...

Will I look like an idiot for writing to the man I'm in love with, "my thoughts are with you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - I feel so stupid. I am in love with a man and he recently wrote to me to tell me that he is going through an emotionally difficult time. I responded that "I understand and that my thoughts are with him". After sending it I realised that the ...

I'll do whatever it takes to win him back. Are you up for the challenge?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I’m gonna tell you the whole story becouse I want help to get him of the other women and I’m gonna fight with everything I’ve got but I can’t do it without your help, well ere goes my husband is the love of my life and when he left it was like I ...

Should I marry him for papers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi! Thank you for reading my question, I really need help. I'm going on four years with my boyfriend. I love him very very much, but the problem is that I feel pressured to marry him. He doesn't pressure me, he only mentioned this once long time ...

I have no idea what his relationship status is and now just go with the flow!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I met this guy about a year ago at the gym (he works there, I'm a member). After a month, I started crushing on him. It always seemed he liked me too, but he wouldn't make a move (I thought he was a slow mover). Also, he's younger than I a...

How am I supposed to tell him I only want to be his friend without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - There's this guy who i met a few days ago when his mom brought him around my house.I agreed to talk to him as a friend only.but his mom wanted to match make us.i made sure that i was only giving out friend signals to him but then i overherd him ...

Since he lost his job, he's changed: alcohol, drugs, lying to me, avoiding me... should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - I am dating a man who in the past has been a very thoughtful, kind and decent person. He lost his job three months ago and since then, has been drinking heavily and taking narcotics to "numb the pain". He is exceptionally depressed and worried ...

How can I see the positive in all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi, So here is my story, I am feeling really really low, I don’t know where to start a massive combination of things. Firstly I hate my job, I have been here 2 years almost and am treated with no respect. I am 30 and treated like a teenage wo...

Help! my baby's dad could be a rapist!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - dearcupids, i really dont know who to go to now! im hoping someone will have a bit of advice, im 17 and i met this great guy when i was 14 and i instantly fell for him, i didt think he was interesting so i guess it was a secret crush i had on him, ...

Feeling lonely... is my boyfriend going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I dont know whether im being pathetic but this is just the way i feel. I'll start by telling you how old me n my partner are as i feel at this age i shouldnt be having these problems. im 23 and partner 24 and we av bin togetheer for 2 ...

Help me get over her please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - So I've been hanging around this amazing woman for about 2 years now, about 4 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend and I told her a few days ago that i had a crush on her and really liked her, but she had an EWWWWW look on her face and said ...

Is it your opinion that this could be rape?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Ok i know sum one that is 13 and she has a boyfriend that is 18 and they been going out for a while and she lost her virginity too him and they both wanted it and some of her friends says thats rape i don't think its rape if the too people that is ...

I feel like using condoms is making my sex life go down the drain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now, and the problem is, whenever we have sexual intercourse, (we use condoms) I tend to dry up so easily. I really love him and want him very much, although I will admit we do not do any ...

What do I do about a drunk boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - What do I do about drunk boyfriend? My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years and we have one child who is three. I recentley broke up with him because his drinking has become a problem. I allowed him to come back because it hurt me to see h...

Why is love so unfair for some people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - I told this girl how I felt before summer, hoping to spend time with her and to get to know her a little better; I asked if it would be okay to pursue her; but of course... of all things, she doesn't feel the same way. I was surprised and have ...

How should I phrase this letter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - Nearly 2 years ago my relationship with my parents rapidly deteriorated because they would get drunk and out of control, and then constantly abuse and threaten me and my fiancée. I was thrown out of my home by my mother, who is an alcoholi...