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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I lost my temper said horrible things and my wife of 10 years is leaving me now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I was having a discussion with my wife who became very angry with me and started to cry.It was a minor misunderstanding but she went downstairs and laid on the couch.I went down and appologized if i said something that bothered her.She pushed me away(she often wants space)She ... (270 words)

Fiance broke up with me because he had never dated anyone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help my ex of four years left me seven months ago, three months before our wedding beause he said that it would always be in the back of his mind he's never dated anyone else and he could't marry me until he knew for sure I was the right one for him. So he needed to ... (166 words)

Friendly things to text to a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was wondering what are some just like friendly things to say to my crush if i wanna text him. He knows that i like him. I have used hey, hows ur day going, and i "accidentally" texted him a question that was obviously not meant for him and he just joked about it and then i ... (95 words)

I wonder what happened?

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I am in love with this man, we have known eachother for nearly 5 years. He has expressed to me that he was interested in me, but that was before our huge fight. Anyways, I saw him last Sunday and he was staring and smiling at me when I walked off, but he was super quiet ... (199 words)

3 years and I don't know if I love my boyfriend anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, ok so here is my problem. It sounds strange but I don't know if I love my boyfriend anymore? We've been together about 3 years. We had our ups and downs with a little breakup in between. He was always a little immature and never would look ahead at the big picture ... (609 words)

Online boyfriend won't meet me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my bf on xbox live. We have known eachother for 3 years. Two months ago we decided to start dating. We talk all the time. We web cam and phone and sync with netflix movies. We are so close and know just about everything about eachother. But there's one thing and that is ... (127 words)

Every time we have sex I bleed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am in a relationship with an older boy and i have lost my virginity to him and now everytime i have sex with him i bleed is this normal???... (30 words)

He's already got a girl..could it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am really in love with a guy who seems to be in love with me. He flirts and hints a lot about wanting to kiss me. He said he'd date me if he didn't(here's the catch,you guessed it:) he has a girlfriend! They have a shaky relationship. It's ok at times and then gets worse but ... (86 words)

I'm not gay and don't like gays so why am I thinking like I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I watch porn quite regularly and it's usually straight porn. I have sex with girls quite regularly and i do enjoy their company but for the past couple of years i've been thinking about boys too. I have started to watch gay porn and i love pictures of "twinks" and very sexy ... (192 words)

Boyfriend doesn't know what he wants anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i met about a year ago and started dating within 2 months of knowing each other. i'm 18 and he's 17 and now we've been together for over 1 year. when we first met everything was wonderful and has been up until last week. lately he's been hanging out with... (402 words)

Can you harm yourself by masturbating too much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I enjoy masturbating and find myself doing it perhaps 2 or 3 times a day. I am 16 years old and i'm extreamly horny all the time. I am worried if i masturbate too much then something might happen to me. Will anything happen and have i got something wrong with me because i ... (63 words)

My mom is taking me to get a pregnancy test, I'm scared, don't want to raise a baby, please help?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and could be pregnant, i had sex with my ex 3 month ago and have missed every period, my mum has only found this out today, so she is taking me for a preggy test but the thing is im to scared incase i amm. im not sure how to bring a baby up at my age, iv always wanted O... (72 words)

Two years and I'm still hung on my cheating ex!

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6 September 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I am still hung up on my lying cheating ex for 2 years now! Is it because we're still friends- we talk on the phone multiple times a day/ hang out. I think he must know I still like him- and he continues to hide and lie if he's dating someone. I really don't think I know this ... (211 words)

I'm bummed! No one remembered my birthday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - yesterday was my birthday and no one remembered. instead my boyfriend hit me up for fifty dollars a week before saying he needed money to pay a bill, instead it was because he already spent his whole check buying video games for himself- 350. worth, and wanted one more game. he ... (128 words)

Went with my ex on a trip but like another guy and I think he got the wrong impression!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well i'll start from the beginning, I've just been in Greece for 2 weeks, went with a male friend who used to be my boyfriend. I went with him because we get on well and wanted to see if we could get back together. Over the course of the holiday he probably held my hand/put ... (619 words)

I like her but I don't want to like her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all, i'm close friends with this girl. We do talk alot and she trusts me so she opens up. We speak few hours on the phone each week or try to meet quickly for 20mins just to talk! Anyway everytime i go near her or talk to her i've realised she's on my mind afterwar... (131 words)

Was it the right decision not to go over to his house and hang out?

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6 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Okay so this guy asked me to hang out. He asked me to come to his new house that him and his 2 buddies just got. Since this was going to be the first time that we're hanging out, I didnt think it will make me look good if I went over his house. I thought the right way for us to ... (371 words)

Is this kind of blowjob practiced?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - bj a novel method my girl friend does felatio in a fantastic way.she keeps half of it and gives rhythmatic sqeezing with her lips unlike toand fro usually performed.this literally rips me off to come within few minutes.is this kind of bj described or practiced?... (48 words)

Came out of abusive relationship, met nice man, how do I keep the negative thoughts away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is going to sound a bit silly to some people I am sure...but I need some advice... I have recently come out of an abusive 4 year relationship - I had 2 children with my ex. He moved out to be single and wanted me to wait for him to decide whether he wanted me but I ... (355 words)

If I don't have the symptoms of pregnancy anymore, could I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hii i was wondering if someone can help me! my last period was on june 28 and my boyfriend came in me on july 12! i was feeling all the signs of being pregnant like tender breasts and fatigue so i took a pregnancy test and it came out positive but on aug 20 i started bleeding ... (69 words)

My husband says I'm jealous because I don't want to swing, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i save my marriage? been together 7 years married 2,recently seperated because he has an obsession with swinging,i tried a few clubs with him but couldnt face anything sexual ,i love my husband with all my heart and all this is totally destroying me ,i want my husband ... (200 words)

He flirts with me a lot, says some nice things, but I am not sure of his feelings for me, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 13 and one of my best friendz he is 15. In sixth grade we were like BFF and then moved to Florida for a while. Then in 8th grade he came back and we instantly were friends all over again. But now since we are going to different high schools we mostly talk through the ... (225 words)

My fiance wants to have a civil partnership ceremony instead of a conventional wedding, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance shocked me yesterday with his revelation. He said "Sit down, we have something WE NEED to talk about!" Me and him got engaged 2 years ago, and set a date for April 2010. I asked him what it was, and he admitted he wanted us to get married by civil partnership r... (188 words)

My parents are divorced, my dad has multiple problems, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, can you help me? My parents are divorced, and since then ive gotten less close to my dad. Its been about 5 years. He totally changed and hes never happy, and often, like today he does spiteful things. Anyway im older now, and instead of thinking hes just a grouchy old man,... (220 words)

Why is my ex boyfriend reading my emails but not responding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age - ex boyfriend of 15 years, that I lived with, dumped me two years ago. I loved him very much! more then i could express in words. he ended up marrying a foreigner. His third marriage. blocked me from his email, won't talk to me. Pretty much disowned me and my kids, now grown. ... (166 words)

How can I talk to my girlfriend about taking it to the next step?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i have been with my girlfriend for about 10 months now. I really love her, but i dont know how far she would be willing to take it yet. We havent gone much farther than making out, so i dont know what would make her feel uncomfortable. Even though i told her anytime she ... (117 words)

My ex husband is hassling me and it's affecting our daughter and my new boyfriend! How can I get him to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My X husband drives our new family crazy. He is complete Drama and I’m afraid it is affecting our 6 year old daughter he and I have together. He is a bully, a really nasty person. Name calling, yelling at the front door then denies it or acts as if it’s not a big deal. He ... (300 words)

I feel like I don't fit in because of my weight...are there any diets that work?

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im 29 married wit 3 kids.i work in the travel industry and feel i dont fit in due 2 my weight.im about 10 kg over weight.i just want to lose it quick and easily.i feel unhappy and unattractive because of my weight but just dnt have the willpower 2 stick to any diet.if there.s ... (70 words)

I woke up to find I had wet the bed! I'm 18! Is something wrong with me?

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so this is REALLY awkward for me, but I woke up this morning and saw I wet the bed! I haven't wet the bed since I was TEN!! What's wrong with me? I'm 18 years old and wetting the bed again? are you SERIOUS right now! I would've been soo embarrassed if my boyfriend was ... (120 words)

I've been missing periods, and I'm not sexually active, so what's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I started my period in January 2007 and to start with they were really irregular, like in June of that year I had two 7 weeks apart But recently i have been kind of getting into a 3-5 week cycle. But now I haven't had a period since 11th July I've never had sex so I c... (91 words)

Should my friend get married to her boyfriend who has leukemia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend has recently come to me for advice, and I'm not sure what to say to her. For now, we'll care her Katrina, and her boyfriend, Craig. So, Craig has leukemia and his doctors claim that he has three months to live. Oh, yeah and he's eighteen while Katrina is still... (158 words)

I met a lovely man online, but he messaged my friend telling her he wasn't dating! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I meet this man online in July. We corresponded through e-mail for a month and then started dating the first week of August. We have been dating for a month now, a few times a week. I really like him and we always have a good time. We are at the point where we were ... (336 words)

What can I do to get past my fear of kissing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a problem.i have a lovely boyfriend who loves me and stufff like that.we've been together for a week.the problem is i have never french kissed and i have no experience with this and i'm afraid to do it.i told him this and he said no problem.he is 18 so he has ... (109 words)

Does my best friend love me, or am I being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - does my best friend love me? i met a guy on an internet website last year. We were talking for about 3 months before we met up. he is 24 and i am 32. he is an artist and draws naked women as well as being extremely intelligent (he has two degrees from oxford and cambridge). ... (356 words)

I like masturbating to transexual porn, and I think this may be stopping me from losing my virginity...will things change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i wrote a question in a while ago saying that i had a problem because i was very confused as i'm striaght but i am attracted to transexuals. Last time i wrote in i sed i was finding myself wanking over transexual porn and hardly ever over straight porn. Now this hasnt ... (201 words)

How do I get my ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My name is dapo and i've been in a relationship for just more than a month. I met this girl at a time when i wasn't even thinking of dating anyone but for some reasons, she stole my heart away and we started dating 1 week after we met. There wasn't enough time for us to ... (161 words)

She's expecting more than just friendship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - About one month ago I met a really nice woman online. We hit it off and have been writing several e-mails daily. I lead her to believe I also wanted to eventually become more than just her friend. Now she insists on getting together but I now feel different. I don't want to ... (123 words)

Taking a shine to a female tutor, should I proceed cautiously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just started at college and i have taken a shine to a female tutor. It is distracting me from my work. She is fantastic, with a great smile and personality. I even stay behind to talk to her. She touches my arm alot and rubs it. when she talks to me. It makes me go weak ... (86 words)

My mom wrote a very hurtful message on my facebook and now I hate her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I really need help here. I have a Facebook account, and I posted that I was interested in women and men for friendship and networking. I never thought deeply about it until a week ago when my mom sent me the following Facebook message. "I am extremely upset tha... (423 words)

He didn't leave me his number

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this pretty cool guy the other night, and he ended up staying over my dorm. We hooked up (and by that, I mean only made out), and he had to leave for work in the morning. When I woke up, he wrote me a note, saying that he had a great night, and that he's sure he'll ... (149 words)

Do all guys want their girlfriends to be "one of the guys"?

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6 September 2009 (F)

- Do all guys want their gf's to be 'one of the guys'? By this, I mean do guys want their gfs to behave and act like their male friends? Do they want their gfs to get completely drunk off their face with all their friends? Do they want their gf's to make lame fart jokes with ... (95 words)

I want to find my soulmate and not be hung up on this guy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have recently brokem up with a guy whom I have been seeing for the past 2 years. I miss him terribly and desperately want to move on with my life. I am involved in social activities etc and I do meet other guys but the thing is there is just no form of attraction, (... (116 words)

Ex won't communicate or be civil with me

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6 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Just over 4 months ago my girlfriend and I split up.we had been together for 2 years. For the last couple I thought things were not right but didn't say anything. I was convinced that she had met some else and finished with her. The next day I tried to reconcile but all she ... (213 words)

Do other people keep secrets from their parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - just out of curiousity, do lots of other ppl keep keep many secrets from their parents? i have been in a relationship with a guy for almost a year and a half now and we were very close friends before. i can't tell my parents anything about it because they have this belief that ... (173 words)

How do I get my x husband to stop causing drama?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My x will not stop causing drama. We have a 6 year old daughter together im worried she will have long term effects by all of this. He continues to cause problems during pick ups and sporting events etc. I am in a new and wonderful relationship, my daughter loves him and we ... (239 words)

He says he'll give up the drinking for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently split up with my partner having been in a relationship for 4 years, we lived together however i have asked him to leave for the second time. The first time i had ended the relationship was due to him drinking and stopping out all night, which then he came home ... (154 words)

Was she really not able to talk or just brushing me off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a phone numer of this girl [She's an exchange student from Italy]. My friend gave me her number and she never see me before. I called her today and she said she's busy and can't talk right now. Does it mean she doesn't want to talk to me ? Should I call her again ... (82 words)

She left and now she wants me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, She left me on Friday, Since Thursday was going to well, We didn't speak, Never even looked at each other, So the same night, I phoned to speak to her about things, Telling that I'm going to try to improve our relationship, She didn't sound to motivated that night, The ... (198 words)

Worried about my 16 year old sister dating a man 25

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hai, i need your opinion/advice on this. I have a sister,she's 16,and lately,she's been seeing this guy,he's 25.I dont know where she got him but overall,Im pretty worry bout her.He does seem nice towards her,but thats not the point,im afraid he's trying to take advantage o... (82 words)

I can't tell if he just looks at all girls or me or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I got a crush on this guy at work and there is some kind of chemistry between us.. which is pretty much visible i guess since one of my coworker asked me discreetly if we had something going on. We are always joking, teasing each other and laughing.. sometimes we get a bit ... (225 words)

Ex boyfriend says he still cares

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

- Hi all, please could you tell me what you think of an ex-boyfriend texting to say he still cares , and wanting to help in a sutuation involving a family member. we've been together 5 years , but split up 6 weeks ago. he was originally driving past my house alot tc ,but not... (159 words)

Does masturbating have side affects?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi does masturbating have any side effects?... (7 words)

Trying to find someone from school, how do I ask his possible friend without giving him the wrong idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been searching for a boy(now he is a grown man)who we had a crush on each other in 1992-1994.We both went to the same elementary school.I was in second grade and he was in third grade.We also was in the same school bus.He would stare at me and did not stop starring.I ... (251 words)

Why didn't sex hurt the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay im new to this but i really do neeed advice. My boyfriend we were both virgins when we met.and of course where not anymore.and yuh know the stories i hear about how when you lose your virginity its suppose to hurt! right? well mine didnt.it felt great better than hurting.... (88 words)

Exercises for tongue strength during oral?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Does anyone know what i can do to help strengthen my tongue so i can give oral to my girlfriend for longer? right now i have to take breaks every few minutes and just keep going without the aid of my tongue, which i presume wouldnt help get her an orgasm. i need help!... (54 words)

I am lost and numb to the massive pain underneath, please someone tell me if there is something wrong with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. ive been here a coulpe of times. asked my questions. got great answers. i need just one more. as much as i turn to this site i hope this to be the last time. it is a bit long but please bear with me. i need help. my first real relationship. we were in love. or atleast ... (498 words)

If I don't like him as more than a friend, then why do I miss not hanging out with him as much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known my male friend for 3 years. During these 3 years we've been hanging out alone together, going to eat, cinema etc. I know that he used to like me (more than a friend) but I was never interested in having a relationship with him (as i'm not physically attracted to ... (320 words)

Update: Do you think I've blown my chances because I didn't turn up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. If you've read my previous question, you'll know about this guy who I met for coffee and we ended up kissing. I've "known" him for about a year 1/2 and my perception of him is he is shy and a bit of a loner. He's quite nice looking (to me at least) and I've always ... (449 words)

Should I take this as a sign that Sam is the one who I should choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out to a few clubs with friends last night and there was this one random guy hitting on me way more insistently than anyone ever before! So he'd tried to kiss me maybe 8 times when I started wondering why I really didn't want him to kiss me - there seemed to be more to ... (162 words)

I think he is interested in other woman but I have no proof. Should I walk away, leave it or see if something's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a question. I would like to find out if my boyfriend truly loves me and has me as his number one, or if he is not serious about me. We've been together for 2 years. First one was great and he was madly in love, then he dumped me and begged for me back. Since t... (283 words)

Should I cut my hair if my friends disagree?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My friends say I shouldn't cut my hair but i think I should what should I do?... (17 words)

Am I falling in love with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Omg, Im going crazy over this guy. ive been talkin to him for a little over a yr now. i think about him all the time. i go to bed thinkin of him and wake up thinkin of him.the only place i ever wanna be is with him. when im with him, im always happy. he keeps me ... (111 words)

He may never come back now except for visits and I miss him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know how to rise above my situation. I was in a long distant relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months, we've now been together for 10. I've only got to see him three months out of the whole ten months we've been together. I waited 8 months for him, because I l... (278 words)

Is she a friend that I can trust?

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6 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I work for a small company i am married.In my workplace I have a female who works with me along with 4 other members.The issue is she treats me as a friend but doesnt want to talk to me in office or outside where as she is very close to other Guy who works with us .she always ... (100 words)

I can't tell from the situations if she's interested in me or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am currently very interested in a girl I met in a class about a week ago, and I am left wondering what my next move should be. I am 21 years old, she is 20. So my main question is: "Is this girl interested in me, and if she is, what should my next move be?" ... (602 words)

How do I get her to talk to me and get over her fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated my girlfriend for 9 months. The last few months things got rocky, she was jealous of me spending time with my best friend (a girl) and all the rumors that were spread around about it. So she broke up with me, yet she still had very strong feelings fore me, and decided ... (164 words)

I"m constantly afraid he's upset with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is there something wrong with me? I am constantly afraid my boyfriend is upse with me. When I write to him and he don't reply I think he is upset with me. When I call him and he doesn't pick up I think he is upset with me. Something I do something that might upset but for the ... (131 words)

Should I have accepted his marriage proposal?

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6 September 2009 (F)

age - I am 45yrs old and still a virgin. Had met someone who was introduced by a friend and i kinda like him,he is 57 widowed w four children. After a few months of constant communication he decided to proposed marriage and much to my excitement i answered him "YES" without further ... (98 words)

How do I move on from my girlfriend? And how can I socialise without it affecting my studies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am feeling pretty down today. Basically me and my girlfriend of 2 years nearly broke up 1 month ago. Since then we have remained friends, seeing each other every 2 days at leasat (she lives 200 M from me..) Anyway, she still loves me but is not in love with me. A... (251 words)

I was lying about who I was and all of sudden he stopped texting me

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past year and a half i have been texting this guy who is 27 years old. I am 17. the situation is a little messed up because I texted him to ask him some questions about his friend who i liked but then me and this 27 year old guy started talking everyday. i pretended to ... (374 words)

Flirting with me and yet found out she has a boyfriend

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6 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - okay. i am a 30 year old male. a few months ago i started going to the library to study for school a few days per week. this went on for a while. while i was going, a girl that works there started being really friendly with me. i could tell she was attracted to me. she would ... (146 words)

Is it bad that I crave my boyfriend's attention a lot?

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure why but I crave my boyfriends attention a lot. I want him to talk to me when I want him to. Console me when I need him and just be there more me when I need him to be. Which he isn't sometimes. Today I spend time with him and we had a great time. Now I am c... (191 words)

Should I continue to hope for a future for us?

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up alittle over a month ago. I miss him alot and I still love him and he tells me the same. He says he wants to get back together...but things got to change between us first..I have to accept his friends..which I now do. And I have to give him his space which ... (207 words)

He acts like a jerk, gets me really worried and then acts normal again

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it like, love, or lust? 1. I see this guy and am instantly attracted to him. I fantacize about him kissing me, etc. 2. I get to kinow this guy and realize that we have a lot in common.. even really random things, like favorite ice cream flavors. 3. I get to know him furt... (127 words)

Should I stop having this FWB situation?

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since I've gotten my feelings hurt awhile back, I have not been worrying about a relationship. I just want to have fun. I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months, and we meet up and have sex, that is all I really want from him, and he knows this. but he is always ... (156 words)

I'm 26, afraid of women and never had a girlfriend

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6 September 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Hello. I've got something i could do with some advice on and i've not gone on the net about it before so please forgive me if i maybe dont explain this particularly well but i'll give it a shot. Basically i recently turned 26 and i've never had a girlfriend. I've never even ... (363 words)

Should I give it a shot? She's now available!

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6 September 2009 (M)

- Greetings, During 2006-2007 I(Male,39) was in an amateur theater group where I met a girl(Elli 26 then, 29 now). Elli and I would sometimes flirt and she would ask me questions about whether I was in a relationship. I think she was sort of attracted to me and I was to her... (561 words)

Should my mom contact her brother since their mother died?

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6 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My mother has dilemma. She has an older brother who mistreated her by verbally abusing her most of her life until she got married. Then he was nice to her and took a pro-active interest in her life until their mother became ill, which caused a lot of adversity and jealousy ... (91 words)

He broke up with me because he's losing his job

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me 2 weeks ago, he said is because he was losing his job and couldnt be in a long term relationship at the moment, I have a child and he wants one as well, he said the future is what worried him because he would need a better paying job to ... (147 words)

I don't want to mess with him if he has a g/f but I really like him

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm going to start from the beginning. Last year, when I was in tenth grade, I changed schools (didn't move far away or anything, just changed schools) and I met this boy. He's good friends with one of my best friends (who I've known since before I changed schools) so I ... (183 words)

Our relationship isn't as strong as what I thought

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - while on a night out last night, everything was goin well, my boyfriend was telling people how much he loved me, how good i looked etc and i was so happy. that was until the end of the night. At the end of the night he disappeared, ignored my phonecalls, started shouting at me ... (401 words)

Falling in love after 1 meeting?

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, asap if poss please....I need to know if it's possible to fall in love with someone after only meeting them once and talking online? also, i need tips on how to play hard to get? help on both will be much appreciated :) x... (52 words)

I think I have a panic disorder

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6 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this isnt a relationship problem but i need help. i think i have an anxiety disorder or something. then i panic and have a mild panic atrack. its really weird and extremely hard to explain in words, but ill try. okay so sometimes ill feel like its hard to breathe and like i ... (216 words)