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writes: Okay so this guy asked me to hang out. He asked me to come to his new house that him and his 2 buddies just got. Since this was going to be the first time that we're hanging out, I didnt think it will make me look good if I went over his house. I thought the right way for us to start would be to go on a date or go out somewhere but def not his place. He gave me his cell# and address bcuz my cellphone is broken. He asked me what time i wanted to hang out and i said i'm not sure i'll call u after work. I also told him i would rather us go out somewhere and he just smiled and said "okay just come to my house and then we'll plan something" so I said okay. Then i got home and after a couple hours i called him from my mom's cellphone but he didnt pick up cuz he was sleeping. Then I payed for my cellphone bill and got it activated again so i sent him a text telling him that if he still wanted to hang out he can text me or call me. Then like 20m later he texted me saying he just woke up and that " I could come by but that he was planning on stay home all day" Wich means he wasnt plannig on going out anywhere. So i texted him back saying "I would much rather us go out somewhere, but if u dont wanna do that today then we'll hang out some other time when you feel like going out somewhere" and he texted me back sayin "sounds good". Part of me feels like he doesnt wanna make the efford to take me out.I do like him, but the other day him and i were talking about other people and their relationships and he said that he does not wanna be in a relationship at this age bcuz it wont work out. Do u think i made the right decision by rejecting his invitation to his house?? What do you guys think of all this?? Male opinions will be appreciated as well. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much guys!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): he tried to play you! get on with your self. he will be trying all kinds of tricks to lure you into that bedroom of his. do not act a fool!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): if he was into you- really into you, and not trying to get you alone in his room, he would jump at the chance to hang out with you. he clearly is not, get over him, and ignore his texts/ calls. eventually he will get back to you, hoping that you have become desperate enough waiting on him that you will do things- his way. don't. let me tell you, i am a guy and i know how this shit works. ;)
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