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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She slept with someone else while we were on a break

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4 September 2009 (M) - Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years, recently moved into my own apartment. was feeling very confused and anxious about my life at the time of the move, esp since it was the first time I ever lived alone, and began to doubt my relationship. see a year prior we used to rent ... (624 words)

My marriage is falling apart and I am confused

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 8 years and I am falling out of love with my husband so I told my husband almost 2 wks ago that I wanted out and so I have this guy friend that I was talking to and we ended up sleeping together but now he is like 7 hours away from me and I still ... (231 words)

Three's company or Three's a crowd?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not sure if I did the right thing. For the past year I have been in a very emotional love triangle. To make the story short, I had been dating this guy for almost 4 years when we decided to break up because of the different paths we were leading while in college (Brian). I ... (618 words)

Should I force him to have sex with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound weird but am I crazy for wanting my fiance to have sex with and date other women before we get married? He hasn't taken me up on the offers and says at most he just wants to feel a large pair of breasts but I feel insecure that I am not enough for him and ... (157 words)

He wants space what is that supposed to mean

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and at first things were fine we lived together and he always wanted me around. But now he says he needs like a week of space and doesnt want to be around me as much but he doesnt want to break up. I love him and he loves me ... (94 words)

Please help me, I want to contact him but I don't know.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately I have been thinking of this guy I know I haven't seen him in a while,I know him from way back from school/college. I have always thought he liked me and I did have feelings for him, I even told him about how I felt in a note to him with my number. After all these things ... (206 words)

How to be an ideal gf and mkae the relationship better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know small tips from mature men and woman here on how to keep a relationship working and what all is required? and if i as a girlfriend, could know how guys want their perfect gfs to be like? ... (45 words)

Crushed Dreams

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Ive got a problem, its not massive as its effecting me horribly, Im a male 16 year old, and as usual storys go, there is the girl I know to well, I know more about each other than we do about ourselfs, this is the events between us so far - summer 08 I admitted I l... (369 words)

Is she too young?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hey people im 15 and i like this girl that is on the soccer team i help out at she about 12 to 13 and ive known her for two years now i would like to ask her out or something but i dont know if thats wrong because of her and my age i really need advice what do uou think?... (65 words)

I got her pregnant, and we want to keep the baby! How do we do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im 14 and i got my 15 year old girlfreind pregnant . i used a condom but as i saw afterwards there was a hole in it and she got pregnant. i cnt tell my mother cause she will kick me out i dont no my father. we want to keep the baby but we dont no what to do. please help... (67 words)

How Should I Talk To Her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - There's a girl I started to like near the end of last school year. I was writing notes to her and having other people give them to her and then started shouting that I loved her in hallways. Then someone told me to stop, and there was no more of that. However, this su... (504 words)

No sex for 2 months..what is up with the husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im married for 8yrs.im 29 and my husband is 36.i have a great job and 3 wonderful kids.my husband is k nothing really changed.we talk go out together and laugh together.we didnt have sex for 2 mnths nw and i asked him about it bt he just shrugs it off.i dnt knw how to deal wit ... (69 words)

Online relationship--he's become too dependent almost obsessive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just told his guy I've been seeing off and on for about 4 years that I'm breaking up with him for good and that I want to try to be with someone else. It's an online relationship, and we spent nearly every day talking, even if it wasnt in the boyfriend/girlfriend way. ... (195 words)

I don't need him but I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months now. Before we started to date - he sacrificed his once a month weed smoking habits because he knows I don't like them. Now, six months later, he texts me out of the blue because he wants to go to a football game tomorrow ... (314 words)

Girlfriend being forced into marriage with her cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I am in need of some serious help. I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years.we love each other so much and really wanted to get married but she was being forced by her family into getting married to her cousin. Her family dont know about me and if they did... (224 words)

Ex keeps blowing hot and cold

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4 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my ex keeps blowing hot and coald one day she wants to talk the next she is nasty she asked me to leave and i did i take our 2 kids every day to let her work and one night at the weekend i cant take much more from here i toke all her crap for ten years now i relised i should ... (84 words)

Is she just waiting until the time is right to have a relationship with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so here is the deal I will try to make it short. I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years about a year ago August...it was a really rough year for me...I dated some girls casually between but nothing I was intrested in...April came around and I started hanging out with ... (636 words)

What are my ex's intentions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We dated for 7 yrs and broke up 9 months ago. He did it w/o an explanation. He called for the first time after 6 mos then again after 8 mos.. the 2nd time he called he asked if we could meet up. I dodged the question .. so he called again a week later trying to schedule a day. ... (308 words)

Did I handle things wrong? I don't want to be labeled as "the crazy bitch"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to get your take on this. I want to apologize but not sure if it’s even worth it. I’ve been dating a guy for about a month ½. Total gentleman, pays all the time, opens doors, can speak for himself and hold a conversation, helps when needed, and so on. I made it ... (418 words)

LDR--her dad thinks anyone on the internet is a sex freak

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is my first time here...I have a question that I need answered, and if anyone could help, that would be terrific, but please, I don't need someone passing judgment on me. Well, here goes. I'm in a long distance relationship with this girl I met 5 years ago,and fo... (328 words)

I hate my life, I've ruined it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - here goes i hate my life ! why ? well because im a complete and utter idiot ! 6 years ago i made the mistake of leaving my ex fiance. he was a nice person but didnt really show me any love or affection and i found he let me pay for stuff rather than him. im so ashamed of my... (340 words)

I'd like our friendship to be more but I don't think that it ever will

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy from school who I have liked as more than a friend for a very long time, we have a very good friendship at the moment and i enjoy spending time with him. I would like our friendship to become more but I don't think it ever will. He is a person that I have never ... (156 words)

Why is my ex so interested in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex boyfriend and i have a child together, my ex doesnt see my son very much but when he does he feels the need to have a long conversation with me when my boyfriend isnt around and when his girlfriend isnt around. he asks me about my relationship with my boyfriend and seems ... (121 words)

Grounded for life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At the begining of the summer holidays I did something reallllyy stupid that made my family very very angry. They told me I was grounded for life. I didn't think they were serious and were just saying it 'cause they were angry, but now I think they were being serious. I'm not ... (111 words)

IF he loves me so much would he still want flirty texts from another woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age - Re update on text cheating husband. Thanks for all the constructive comments but nobody answered the actual question I posed..... If my husband loved me as much as I'm sure he did (and still does) and was so full of regret, do you think it is likely or unlikely that he... (192 words)

Why does he stare so much and contradict himself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've liked this man for about 5 years and we became friends about 2 years ago. Before we became friends he would stare at me..watch me as if he's watching every move I make. Now we are friends, we've got into a couple of arguments, one 2 weeks ago, and I told him that he ... (244 words)

I want to talk to him but get tongue tied

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I've wasted a golden opportunity. Just over two months ago, the guy I'm after asked me out twice and I told him I wasn't ready just yet for a new relationship. Seven months prior to that, I had gotten out of an abusive relationship that lasted two years and it just ... (239 words)

Went through divorce, thought this guy was interested, now he's got a girlfriend! Did I misread him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Two years ago I agreed to allow my real estate broker (single) to join my team even though I thought I was a conflict of interest. I was married at the time but shortly afterward the broker began to flirt with me (i.e. checking me out and letting me watch him, sitting toward me ... (268 words)

Don't know how to tell mom about my internet girl

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4 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl on the internet and we got on really well with each other straight away. We now have each others msn and mobile numbers and we talk regulary. We are both 15 and want to meet up with each other but she lives in Wales and i live in London. Although the train ... (103 words)

He's fine around others so why does he act depressed around me?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age - my partner is feeling very depressed. I'm struggling. i dont know if its for real or just for my benefit as he seems to be fine with others. he said it because mainly i argue with him but i know its him that turns on me when i ask certain question. i did finish with him but he ... (74 words)

Why does my b/f have a problem with me comparing both of my pregnancies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a child from a previous relationship and am pregnant again with my new boyfriends baby. im noticing that the pregnancies are different and in some way are comparing the differences between this pregnancy and my last i dont mean to i mean i know all pregnancies are ... (82 words)

Pregnancy changes and my boyfriend can't understand!

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i make my boyfriend understand what i am going through? Im 10 weeks + pregnant and im getting really tired and moody and i tell him its my hormones but he still cant seem to understand and its causing more arguments.... (46 words)

How can I help my drug addicted son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age - How can I help my drug addict son? We sent him to rehab, we helped him, to not live n the street, we sent him to many programs, but he can;t change. He did change a bit, but he is suffering greatly, and not ready to make good choices. My heart is broken, but I don;t see, what ... (81 words)

2.5 years of marriage and I'm wondering if there's any hope for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know if there is any hope for my marriage and I am feeling so lonely and lost. I will turn 27 in a few weeks and have been married 2and a half years. I meant every word of my marriage vows and want everyone to be aware that I don't take marriage lightly. However my ... (210 words)

One minute she loves me, the next she's breaking up..unending cycle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age - I was with Jenny for three months. I really thought Jenny was the one. She couldn't be without me, she told me she'd never loved another man as much as she loved me, she wanted me to move in with her and spend the rest of her life with me! (A bit soon, I thought, but I could ... (335 words)

I have these urges to cheat

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im on the verge to cheat on my boyfriend. i posted a situation about four days ago and now i feel like cheating on my boyfriend. im the type of woman that wont even give a guy a second due to the commitment i made to my boyfriend. but since everything fell sour i have these ... (63 words)

I feel used all the time, how can I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a man whom i love. He says he feels the same way for me. We have been dating for 3 months now. He at first acted like i was the only woman on earth for him. He treated me so nice, and all that. Now as i know him, his true colors are coming out. But its too late, i ... (200 words)

How do I stop my feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, there's this boy at my school that at a time I REALLY liked. I gave him a rose for valentine's day and a candy cane for christmas. Of course i signed both anonymous, due to the chicken that I am. Everyone told me he found out who it was anyways. After finding out he still ... (332 words)

Should I be greatful that she cut ties with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 35 year old married man with kids. I had a really close friendship with a woman with whom I worked for about 5 years and she recently left the company. Our relationship was very intense in that it even got to the point in the last 6 months that we talked about our ... (245 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me, should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really at a loss right now. My bf has broken up with me, but I'm not sure if it'll be permanent. It all started when we agreed to get an apartment together, so I picked up a second job to pay for school and get ready for the apartment. However, he ended up getting a job ... (291 words)

He wants to meet for sex, should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what I am doing, I keep blowing hot and cold with this guy who I really like. We have known each other for a few years, never dated but we used to work together, we have kissed a few times, he wanted more but I said not at work but I was really scared to move o... (162 words)

Do you think he's interested? If so tips please?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently a senior student at school and today I've been noticing glances from this cute guy in my class. About 6 times actually in a 30 min period. He sometime kept looking at me but sometimes quickly looked away. When I laugh he would look at me with a smile and after ... (85 words)

What's the best way to approach him and why is he behaving like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I really like this guy I’ve been speaking to on the internet for a while. We speak every day online and get on well. I see him a lot more now coz we go to the same college. He’s a really shy guy and he’s told me that he has trouble with stuff like eye contact... (226 words)

How can I stop picking fights and holding grudges against him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a very long story n i dont mean to bore anyone so i guess the shortest way of saying it is this: i met a guy 4 years ago, he was a friend from the beginning and the more we hung out the more friends we became, but for some reason i felt the need to be a bit colder wit... (512 words)

How do I tell my parents his real age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, well this is a straight forward question. My bf and i are in love, there's no other way of saying it. Though we have not yet met each others parents. But I have told my mum and dad that he is 16 but he's really 19. I am nearly 16 though. He doesn't pressure... (157 words)

Why was my ex so nasty to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so fed up at the minute and can't understand why my ex is being so nasty to me. We recently split up after an arguement and never spoke about it afterwards. About two weeks before we split up someone had left a voice mail on my phone telling me my ex had been playing away, ... (333 words)

How can I show my daughter that her fiance is an ass?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) age - My daughter is 23 and has been dating "Jason" 25, since high school.I always looked at him as a good kid,a little inmature but figured he would grow up to be a respectful guy. Three weeks ago my daughter came home in tears saying that she she found out Jason had cheated on her ... (250 words)

B/f & I fight all the time, it becomes physical

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I always had a fight because of misunderstandings. We used to yell and speak out harsh words and insults to each other until now. Our relationship stayed long for one year and nine months now, but we still fight ang it seems like we still don't know each ... (154 words)

Married & bored, wife will only do 2 things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im married. and my sex life is boring. am and my wife are young(under 25). and she doesnt want to try new things. i told her its boring time and time again. i say lets go to the sex store and look for something new. hey turn this was lets try this lets try that. let me go down, ... (115 words)

Slip sliding away...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i keep slipping out during sex or when g/f is on top she carnt really move up and down as out he pops despite her being tight.when we start im ok pushing into her but when i pull back thats when the problem starts I have just over 5 inches and my girlfriend has only ever ... (85 words)

Parent's marriage on the rocks and its breaking my heart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have growing concerns over my family. My parents are going through a rough patch in their marriage. The problems seem to be mostly financial. We're encountering some money problems and their taking their toll, particularly on my mother. Mum is used to, what I would consider ... (264 words)

I think my teacher might be interested but if I screw things up I still have to have him for 1.5 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i´m 20 (people think i´m a bit older cause i look older and i´m very mature) i´m a good looking woman and i´m interested in a guy that is 35 and single (he is totally single so that´s not a issue here) and he gives class in 2 of my classes in college (technically he is not ... (512 words)

Where can I find Mormon girls willing to have sex before marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Ok, so I'm a 24 year old Mormon guy. I'm not the best Mormon guy, but I do want to get married in the Mormon Temple. It is what it is. I started having sex when I was 20, and I have been with a number of girls that are Mormon as well, and I have been with a number who are not. ... (151 words)

Will I be alone for a very long time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Well i wrote about m previous experience on here about my first time experience in a brothel (first time ever) and what it taught me.... that i want a slow meaningful relationship with a girl (as i know for sure i dont want just sex as i know how bad it can be) Now ... (346 words)

I want our relationship to go back to the way it was

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and recently things between us are really confusing. when i call to his we jst sit and watch tv, or eat. we rarely talk and when we do its about nothing, jst basic conversation. when i try talk to him about it, he gets all ... (264 words)

I need reassurance that I'm NOT pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i hope you can reassure me that i'm not pregnant because it really is the last thing i need right now. I had unprotected sex 3rd July, and i was getting ALOT of signs of pregnancy, even to what i thought was implantation bleeding (light brown spotting a week later) tbh,... (271 words)

I want her back in my life. Its so sad to throw it away

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i need help. i have been married for 9 months now and my wife left me last week. we have been arguing for months about silly matters and managed to resolve them but recently things started to get worse. the past 4 weeks we have had breaks, slept at friends, slept on the couch, ... (476 words)

He found out I spoke to his friend and he hates me talking to other people, now he wont call me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - He dont like me talking to anyone apart from him but i spoke with his friend he found it out. Now he is angry on me. He is not calling me now? What to do?... (35 words)

Can I repair my relationship with my step sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have massive feeling of love for my step sister. We didn't grow up together and she is alot older than me. I have recently admited to her that i have a crush on her. She doesn't really seem to mind, but i feel arkward around her and i am scared to speak to her just incase i ... (130 words)

How can I solve this? it's very hard for me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I'm having a trouble with my relationship right now.. because we both study at same school..and we're batch mates..but even though the case is like that.we're having lack of communication.we don't talk and everything.we just talk more or less once every two weeks but it's j... (115 words)

Dumped by my bofriend because I slightly lied about my sexual history

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need men's advices. My boyfriend with whom I have been with for 6 great months dumped me 3 days ago because I decided to be honest and admit I had lied to him regarding my past sexual history (I told him I had slept with 10 guys instead of 13). I told him I was sorry, t... (184 words)

Do girls like when guys think about them while they masterbate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Do girls like when guys think about them while they masterbate? There is this one girl I have really fallen for. We met online and we havent met in person yet, but she is just so amazing and she always turns me on. She is not really sexual as much as me, but I always fantasize ... (152 words)

Do I confront her about her behaviour or should I just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

4 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl for almost four years now, and I love her to death, as a friend, not as a significant other, just to make the issue clear. I first met her at a job we both worked at. I was working there with a friend of several years, and he and the girl in question ... (632 words)

I'm ready to have sex with him but very intimidated by how much more experienced he is than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm 16 and entering my junior year in high school. My sophomore year I spent 9 months dating this guy who I really had feelings for. We broke up in April and I was really down and missed him. In June he confessed that he was still in love with me. All summer w... (231 words)

He wanted me to contact him urgently, then we spent the night together again but now I havent heard from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy a couple of months ago and we had a one night stand. I sent him a couple of messages after that but no reply so I forgot about him. Out of the blue he called my work last weekend to leave a message for me to contact him urgently. I sent him a txt and he called, we ... (88 words)

I got married and I still love my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old Ive got married like 10mothes ago ,he is nice guy so good to me he loves me he take care of me but am not happy with him i feel like i did a mistake to marry him cause am faking my love to him i left my ex bf when i was in my country in France we had really ... (280 words)

I'm worried about my boyfriend's uncertainty over the future of our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

4 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I truely appreciate an honest answer. Two weeks ago my boyfreind went to college. He was very con ldr's and has been since the first time we kissed. we both knew in the beginning we would end up in seperate colleges. A week before he left, he said he wanted to do it,... (241 words)

Do I stay with my fiance or risk everything with the new guy?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I really need some major advice. First things first, I met my currently fiance of 9 years online when I was in my early teens, and we used to have a good relationship, we moved in when I was still young, and now live up north. Well we started getting into bad arguments, w... (312 words)

Should I stay or walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-husband and I have been dating on and off since our divorce and have a six year old daughter. After our divorce he got involved with another woman and has been living with her for several years and has a child with her. He is not working and is needing his parents to h... (242 words)

It was my boyfriends idea to have a threesome but he flipped out when me and the other guy started having sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 4 years has been asking me for a 3 sum for a long time, I agreed to have a ffm 3 sum if he would have a mmf 3 sum for me. Since we thought that if we gave in first the other would back out we opted for a group thing with another couple.which was planned this afternoon ... (157 words)

Should I leave my fiance who treats me badly and give this other guy a chance?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with the same guy since I was 16, I'm 23 now. Were engaged and live together. For the last 9 months he's gone ever night until 3 or 4 in the morning with his friends. I play World of Warcraft online and met a fellow Marine friend of my friend's. We clicked right away ... (137 words)

I'm dating 2 guys, and one of them has never had a girlfriend before!

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that a guy I’ve been seeing (though he’s been interstate for work for the past month) has never had a girlfriend before. That’s a 22 year old guy who hasn’t had even a casual relationship before. One of his friends just let it slip accidentally to me – we ... (384 words)

I'm falling for him, but I'm afraid that being so much older I can't give him a child

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4 September 2009 (F) age - I am in a relationship with a much younger man, (he is 29 and I am 46). He thought I was younger and I thought he was older. We have been dating for 6 weeks and I am afraid of falling in love with him, since I cannot have children. I tried to break it off with him and he said ... (407 words)

I'm 22 and she's 38: can we have a successful romantic relationship?

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4 September 2009 (M) age 36-40 - The love of my life is older than me. I’m twenty-two and she is thirty-eight. She is such a beautiful, happy, and generous woman. Can we have a relationship? What to do? Can we move into a romantic relationship? How? ... (46 words)

I feel like I have to choose between my boyfriend and my career!

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4 September 2009 (F)

- I feel like I have to choose between my relationship with my bf and my career. Heres the story. Basically I live in one town and my bf lives in another. Im 20 and hes 23. I am currently completeing a degree at university, therefore am stuck living where I am at the moment... (329 words)

My husband is obsessing over everything I might have done

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got married 4 weeks ago. My husband and I were both virgins on the wedding night. I am 27 and when I was 15 going on 16 I had a boyfriend. We did a lot of things, but never sex. My husband did nothing, he only ever kissed a girl. Now he can not stop obsessing over my ... (173 words)

Should I run away? My family is taking advantage of my kind nature!

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi friends.please help me as i have no one to turn to.and thanks in advance. problem is that i cant see any cruelty being done to anyone or even to me.when i am present at the scene i dont let anyone be cruel to anyone.i just hate rude people.but i am surround... (314 words)

Is this guy just using me?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well i met this guy on the internet and we talked for while. but the problem is, hes 20 and im 15. he thinks im 16. i invited him over and my mom thinks he goes to my school and is 17. we kissed and stuff and i let him finger me, and then he wont home after a while. the next ... (147 words)

I desperately want a father -- is this guy fit for a chance?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've always wanted to have a father ever since I was little. Someone who would teach me how to throw a baseball, have a father/daughter dance with, beat up the first guy who breaks my heart, and someone who would give me away at my future wedding. I'm always jealous when I see ... (414 words)

What's a queef?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What is a queef? How does one queef? Does you vagina have to be loose to queef? How do you prevent a queef?... (24 words)

Do outgoing guys get shy or was he just being nosey?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so that other day I bumped into the friend of this guy I used to date friend. My old date name is Joe and his friend is Paul. So after I left my destination, I bumped into Paul in the cafeteria, he started talking to me about a few semesters ago when I was dating his ... (430 words)

Why do I have to wait hand and foot for this guy?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sick of loving my ex boyfriend. After everything he has done to me, I still wait hand and foot for him! He has broken every promise in the book. He has cheated on me, tried to control my life, broken up with me, and gotten back together with me a million times. He got me ... (220 words)

Feel tainted because of a player: any tips on how to forget the whole thing?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help. To cut a long story short, I was played and lied to by someone I loved. He was living a double life telling me I was his gf when he already had one. I was the one that never met his family and friends. The only reason I can think that he did this was that he ... (359 words)

Why should I go to this wedding? I hate family gatherings: what do I do?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Why should I go to this wedding? So my so-called family can ignore me the whole time? To join in an awkward hug? I hate family gatherings, and my mom makes me go to every single one of them. Each time I try to join in on a conversation, I'm ignored, even by her--the one who... (461 words)

He's content, I'm confused: how much more should I take?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating "Craig" for about a year and 3 months. Things were awesome at first we were crazy about each other, couldn't get enough of each other until one day out of the blue, he changed. He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore even if I say it to him, he doesn't do the ... (241 words)

I think I'm becoming gay and it is stressing me out a lot!

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4 September 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am a extremely paranoid person. I used to think I was getting cancer and that I had breathing problems. But now it has become a different thing. I think I'm becoming gay. I keep thinking I'm becoming gay and it is stressing me out a lot. I don't find girls... (171 words)

I want to get to know him--is my plan 'stalkerish'?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on a bartender at the hotel I used to work at. The last time I talked to him he was blatantly flirting with me, but I had a boyfriend at a time and I deflected his advances although I was attracted to him. I haven't worked at that hotel in about 6 months, ... (236 words)

Am I a horrible daughter?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My mother is insane. She has some serious problems and feels the need to take it out on everyone around her. She is cruel and won't listen to anything I say. She recently screamed in my face as we were driving because I told her some of my friends want to drink. And I was... (199 words)

So why is it okay for him to ask me what I've been doing, but if I ask him, I'm nosy?

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4 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I need help understanding what this guy is thinking. I just started working at this gym and I am very attracted to one of my co workers who is a trainer. The first day we introduced ourselves to each other we were on the computer and he requested me on Facebook. That day I went ... (381 words)

My mom caught us having sex after I told her nothing was going on between us! I'm hiding at a friend's house... help!

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE HELP!!! I am 17 yrs old and my mom just walked in on me having sex with my neighbour, he is 28. She has asked em if anythig was going on between the two of us for the last few weeks and I said no and when I went over today she waited about a half an hour then just wal... (120 words)

Basically I feel totally unwanted uncared for and hopeless.... yet I love him so madly...

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I am hitting severe depression over this problem. So please someone help. today i almost ended my relationship with my boyfriend we have been together almost 2 and half years. Im constantly feeling totally unwanted and uncared for. It seems like i am banging m... (332 words)

He rarely initiates and when he does, it's like a tap here, a touch there. No passion.

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I'm having intimacy problems with my bf. I'm a woman who is very used to have intimate relationships with my partner more than once every 7 days. For the past two months, its been only once every 7 days. I always initiate. Always. And on the rare occassion he ... (174 words)

I've moved on but his friends haven't!

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok i was dumped by my 1st love about 2 months ago now, it was a traumatic time, expecially when we both decided we must be friends as we hang around in the same group socially. But a week ago a new interest came along, and i decided i would give him ago. Me and my new boyfriend ... (144 words)

Not even a peck yet! Should I make a move?

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks...we both have expressed interest in each other. BUT, so far not even a peck! I know he is shy and wants to take things slow. But, the tension is killing me! Should I make a move? Will he be put off by it?... (55 words)

I'm ready for having sex but I'm really ashamed of my body!

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I have a guy friend that I used to (and still do) fancy quite loads, and recently we've started to talk more which I love. All of a sudden, we started getting onto the subject of sex - which I really, really don't mind at all! After a while we decided to think of ... (132 words)

How to heal a broken heart while being around people who are in love

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4 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently been trying to get over a breakup. I have been very sensitive emotionally. My emotions become intensified when I am around my older sister. She has a relationship now with a guy who she is in love with. She thinks this may be the One for her. The issue is ... (301 words)