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I want my ex back but there are 2 other girls involved now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi I known my ex for 6 years and we've dated for 1 year and 5 months... recently we both entered college. my ex took a levels and that ment homwork everylesson it got to the point where i was only seeing him once a week and hardly ever getting to talk to him... we br... (175 words

I've never had to get over anyone before -- how do I do it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - i was having an affair wed been seeing each other for about 7 years, his wife found some texts id sent nothing too bad, and hes managed to convince her that im nobody..im supposed or at least i thought i was the love of his life lol so now im not allowed to see him anymore, all ... (147 words

She wants to get married even though she's told me she doesn't love me. What?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 51-59 - She has asked me to marry her even though she hs told me she doesn't love me and that she is not 100% with me. What should I do now? A month ago I read my partner's notes (they were left laying around when I went to her place at her request to check on things as she was away)... (445 words

I don't think my boyfriend trusts me like he says he does. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I feel like he does not trust me and if he doesn't now than he never did! anyway, if he doesn't trust me it makes me think that he doesn't love me or wants to break up. He gets all mad and jealous for the stupidest things. I ... (498 words

In love with him or are we just very sexually compatible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - So I've been going out with this guy for 6 months now and I've decided to end it. Things just aren't working and I feel the relationship isn't really equal. He seems way more into me than I'm into him. The thing is, I'm not in love with him anymore and but I've never been ... (224 words

He has a lot to deal with, relationship in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 51-59 - Just your thoughts on this one. Met a guy recently - really great but he has alot worries in his life at the moment. Both his parents are really ill - one has just had a stroke and the the other has psorosis of the liver. He has moved back in with them as he feels he needs t... (331 words

Finally talked to him, how to start a conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey!!!i talked a lot about the huge crush i had on this really cool boy(who really liked me too) and i said before i never talked to him cause whenever he tries 2 talk 2 me i do anything to stop it cause im too too too shy. in this summer break i kindda suffered cause i was af... (430 words

My ex was sick and I ignored him was that bad?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 36-40 - My ex and I had just started being friendly after months of being bitter to each other after our break-up. The other day, I asked him thru text about the shop where he bought his car. Then he replied to explain a few things then said to me he is not feeling well. I did not ... (143 words

Should I wish my ex-girlfriend happy birthday?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi this is Zahir Yousafzai from Pakistan. It’s been two months since I broke up with my GF. Her birth day is around the corner and im in a fixed whether to wish her birthday or not. if yes, then I would be more than obliged to hear from u guys that what would be the best way ... (126 words

I want a second date but don't want to be a stalker chick!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - I had one date with this guy - in early August. We played phone tag until Sept. 8. He'd leave me a voicemail, I'd call back and leave another voicemail. We just couldn't seem to connect. He used a company cell phone, then he quit his job. He must have turned in his company cell ... (215 words

I love my wife but I think divorce is the best answer

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 36-40 - I Really want a divorce, my wife doesnt. im still hurt and in love but i need to move -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- First of all i want to say thank you for reading this and im begging you to please read it all and i know... (1605 words

Chemistry yet he likes someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey all! Id really appreciate some advice, as i dont seem to be very good with things involving my own life lately. Well im 18 years old, and about a month ago i split up with my boyfriend of a year and 7 months, it had got to the point where it was more a friendship that a... (728 words

I'm about to lose my best friend my sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - How do you get a 21 year old girl to see your point of view and worries? My sister left right after work straight for a party then she didn't come home till 11:30 in the afternoon and she was obviously to drunk to drive. Then a few days before that she told my mom she did LCD ... (172 words

My boyfriend wont include me in his life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 36-40 - Ok, im gay and im 27, my boyfriend of one year is 21. He is very mature for his age and looks mature.. he works in a corporate enviroment and he is Jewish... Im Russian/Italian. He is so obsessed and concerned about what others think about him that its ruining our relatio... (1196 words

How do I stop loving him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - Am afraid i wont be able to get over him.there's this guy,we met late last year.he called me a lot and we hung out alot.he wud tell me things he didnt tell our friends and all.he said he liked me and was really into me.i really liked him too but didnt show it cuz i wasnt sure ... (281 words

What is this supposed to mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age - How can you tell if this is real or something else . Met a girl at work a couple years ago . We talked once in awhile , mostly about nothing . Then one day we were going by each other and she stuck out her pinky to shake pinkies . Well that little thing went all through and ... (338 words

Are my resentful thoughts called for and how long should I allow myself to recover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 51-59 - My partner left me after 18 years together. Three weeks later I found out that she was with someone else. She wasnt upset in anyway and ended it with a twn minute coversation in a supermarket coffee shop with her friend sat next to her. It really hurt me because I never cheated ... (109 words

Why is he ignoring me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - I like this guy a lot. We had sex about a week ago which was my first time and now he's ignoring me. When I call he doesn't answer when I text he doesn't text back. If he does he says he's working. I really don't know since he use to do it before he had sex. I don't know what ... (166 words

Is he cheating on me and how can I stop us from falling apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - So, Im 18 and My Boyfriend Is 20, we've been together 2 years but i just don't know if he loves me anymore.. he tells me he does but would rather be out with his friends than spend time with me, he always seems to be on his phone which is making me very insecure and ... (154 words

Can I trust her now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 41-50 - I've been dating my girlfriend for a year now, and things are really great. My problem is that I found out that she used to be very permiscuous. She was also a substance abuser. I dont believe she has ever cheated on me, but my imagination gets the best of me sometimes. If a ... (105 words

Does she have feelings for me? She's my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi everybody! i soo confused at the moment what to do... im really close with my best friend and we are seriously overly protective of each other and love each other to bits and are upset when either of us upsets one another... last year she was telling me her guy friend w... (232 words

I know most of his friends, why don't I know her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 51-59 - Recently married but been with my husband for 10 years. We of course have been through our ups and downs, and even separation in our relationship after I found out he had a baby outside of me. After 2 years of being separated we had a baby and got back together. We just got ... (269 words

Has he moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi Men, Would you like a girl that screwed up and said stupid things like e.g if you dont email me,you think I am stupid I can find out through people etc..I didnt mean it but i was listening to peoples advice and I apologised to him and he said its fine we all make mistake... (297 words

We broke up but still say I love you and still text! what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay so i had this serious relationship for almost 7 months. The guy and I were each others 'first' and I was his first girlfriend. We discussed a future together and everything. I really love him, and up until yesterday he said the same. Weve been broken up with for 3 days now ... (147 words

She has stabbed me in the back, should I move jobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F - Thanks in advance to all who answer here. I work in the corporate world. Most of my colleagues are ok but my current team is rather backstabbing. Last year I was part time and there was a person on the team who really was a decent person..I admired her for her decency and her ... (182 words

Our mom s too clingy and our nan has just passed away, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi hope you ca help me its about my mom my moms mom our nan died nearlly two months ago and it was hard for everyone she was like our second mom too were a close family since then though its been really hard with my mom ,ive moved out living with friends and shes round ... (263 words

Should I go to his country?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 36-40 - Me and boyfriend we have been together for nearly a year. We have planned ahead for the future as we will live together when I start university again, he is planning for a little business, etc. however we are both going through financial difficulty. Now he is very depresse... (151 words

Went on a date, I hear from him 2 months later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - I recently went out with a guy who said he had liked me for 2 years but was way too shy to approach me. The date went great and he said he felt it went the same way. Then for 5 weeks i heard nothing. i text him(nothing too pushy just a hi, how you? sorta thing) but got no ... (209 words

To tell him how I feel? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age - I have met a wonderful man through internet dating... we chat for 2/3 hours on the phone every day... how refreshing to talk, rather than text and msn! After 2 weeks he started to get a bit 'fresh' although he said he was looking for friends. I have recently been diagnosed w... (156 words

Any chances we could get back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - 1 month and 5 days ago.. my boyfriend broke up with me, his feelings changed.. he says. im still in love with him. and we still talk till this day and we still see each other.. we don't act like friends though when were around.. and we've been having sex. i really wanna get ... (69 words

Ladies: How long do you wait to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - ladies,how long do you wait before you have sex with a guy-I'm confused because if you make them wait a long time,they may cheat and if you don't they may use you-what to do ?!... (35 words

Is it ok to have sex with both men and women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (? age 36-40 - hi i like have sex with girls as well as boys but i am afraid to tell to my mom and i one thing i wanted to ask is when i am with my girlfriend she says that i don't make her happy in oral i dont how to make her happy and when ever i go near her she 1st tells me to a complete... (103 words

B/f inconsiderate and puts all the blame on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone, this is my first time writing here and I'd really appreciate some honest answers. Thanks My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years and I love everything about him, I honestly do! But whenever we have a day planned and something happens (usually... (396 words

How can I trust anyone? Including my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - I've never been able to fully trust my husband; when we first started dating, I had had several bad relationships and family issues, where I felt that most people hurt me and let me down, or just left me. When I met him, he was still getting over his ex and would talk to her ... (702 words

Do I tell my parents or hide it longer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - over the last few years i have had several crushes consisting of both sexes. I struggled alot with coming to terms with it and have now accepted myself as bisexual. However admitting it to myself is alot easier than admitting it to anyine else. I have only one sibling and he is ... (129 words

I know hes trying to impress me but it makes me a little mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - Things have been good for me and my best friend Rob. The other day after school I wrote him a have a nice day note and he was trying to figure out who wrote it all day. So I texted him that I knew who wrote it and he begged me to tell him. I told him that it was me and he said ... (189 words

When does friends become more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 41-50 - I am confused, nervous and scared all at once. I met a girl a little less than a year ago. We talked about getting involved. She was in a bad relationship. My words and strenght helped her through it. She told me youhave inspired me and unlocked a part of her that she ... (308 words

How to stop the feelings without giving up the classes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am currently doing 3 fitness classes a week at my local gym. I get on really well with my instructor but i am confused about the way i feel. I have feelings for her and will do anything during the classes so that she notices me. I know she is married and also has a child and ... (124 words

My husband's 3rd affair and I feel nothing

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age - I am at a cross roads, I confirmed on Friday, what I knew in my mind for a couple of months, that my husband is having another affair. This will be the third affair I know of, and in the very early days he had a few one night stands. We have been together 20 years, and married ... (385 words

Three years together and now he says he needs time for himself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age - My boyfriend and I have been together for close to three years and have been through a lot together. He has always been there for me. We are different in many ways but in the important stuff we are so good together and very much alike. We each have two teenagers and the four ... (160 words

Boyfriend says he's bored in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - hey i am 21 years old. i have a boyfriend who is of the same age and we have been together for 3 year. he is a great guy. very devoted to me and i know he would never intentionally hurt me. we both love each other very dearly.... but something doesnt feel right to me of late.... (315 words

My best friend is cheating on his girlfriend and it bothers me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - OK I'm in a fix! My very best friend is a guy. We're very close and he tells me a lot of 'things'. Well, my friend, lets call him M, has a girlfriend named N. Being a country of racial differences, his mom opposes. He says she's very understanding and loving, but there's two ... (172 words

She's pregnant by another guy and broke up with me, I'm heartbroken

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 30-35 - she is the same age as me and in truth weve known each other for about 4 1/2 weeks and we've "liked" each other for just as long. well about a week ago she broke up with her boyfiend so i asked if she'd go out with me and she said yes. well ever since then i feel like she has ... (205 words

8 years chatting with a man almost 30 years older than me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, Aged 16 (just) I began going on internet chat rooms, it was a phase that lasted only a few months however, I began chatting with a man aged 48. We have continued chatting over the past 8 years(!) though have both long since abandoned going in chat rooms. He is ma... (303 words

Can't stop thinking of girl from boyfriend's past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - I can't stop thinking about this girl that has caused so many problems between my boyfriend and me. He said he doesn't talk to her anymore (he chose this) when I asked him one day out of curiousity. But that was during mid-summer. Lately, I've had two dreams with this girl. One ... (381 words

Was it date rape? Or alcohol?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hiya, I'm 16 years old and about three months ago i think i could have been date raped. I was on holiday with my friend and her parents in Spain for a week, and we had been getting very drunk every night. On the Thursday night we began to walk back to the appartment when a c... (425 words

Son can't get job because of semi pornographic photos found when he was younger

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 51-59 - My 19-year-old son applied for a job this week, I wished him good luck. He did OK in the interview until the interviewer said they would not be able to hire him due to a background check. They said they'd found pictures of him "in the raw" on a website hosted by his old h... (219 words

I'm really worried our relationship won't last 6 months because of distance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and i'm thinking of moving in with my boyfriend of a year, i really love him and we get along great when were together, but he's in the army and he goes away alot. Sometimes hes away for two weeks or even a month at a time. he's going to be posted next year and ... (205 words

He glances over his shoulder at me. Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - So I was sitting with some people the other day and he made some jokes (I was the only one around his age) a few minutes later he went to talk to some other people and I kept noticing him glancing over his shoulder at me. Later on he comes over to me now sitting by myself and ... (78 words

Blisters on my husband's penis means???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have a new concern. My husband recently started itching pretty severely on his legs but it wasnt until the evening after he had taken off his work clothes and was getting ready for bed. I attributed it to a new laundry detergent. Well yesterday, after performing oral sex on ... (145 words

Why does my father act the way he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - i fell out with my dad september last year and he was still comong to visit my mum ( they have a strange relationship) and i hated it i started to self harm. however they have fallen out now for good witch i am happy with although we made up. my half brother, who is my mums ... (192 words

What is the longest time you've survived without seeing your partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - 1.) What is the longest LDR (long distance relationship you have been in? 2.) Why did it end? 3.) What is the longest time you've survived without seeing your partner?... (36 words

Does he like me and just trying to make me jealous or is he like this with everyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS!does he like me and just trying to make me jealous or is he like this with everyone? is he trying to make me jealous?does this guy fancy me or is he just like this with everyone?help me? the first day of college i was sitting in class and then craig* ... (704 words

Are all the men on the internet cheaters?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - I met a French man who lives in Rochester NY, in a dating website. He is a CEO and chairman one of big company is NY. He told me that he separated with his wife 5 years and had an unhappy marriage and already sent divorce dox to the court just waited divorce finalizing. From US ... (666 words

Well I'm Surprised - he called? Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 51-59 - Like the story seems to so often go .... i was dating this guy and we were also becoming great friends as well as a growing romantic interest. Basically we were having loads of fun he introduced me to all his friends and met mine as well as our families then boom- when I wanted ... (1572 words

How do you stop all the feelings and get over someone fast?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 30-35 - so im back. I asked a question about my girlfriend leaving me. I was told that i would get over it and able to stop this numbness that I feel. its been a couple months. I still think about her everyday, I look at my phone every couple hours. just to see if I got a text from ... (88 words

I don't have a man, I have yet another child. Is divorce OK in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - this is going to be kind of long, but i really need advice. i have been with my husband for 9 yrs, married for 7. we have 2 boys, 6 and 4. i was pregnant when we got married. i have always been a hard worker and even though i got things from my parents, have a drive to be ... (572 words

Co-worker has g/f but is flirting with me..or is he just being nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 36-40 - I started my new job about a month ago. So far it’s been great my coworkers are nice and helpful. They have been very welcoming. Everything was find until about a week ago, one of my co-workers has started to get more comfortable with me, we been teasing each other back and ... (231 words

I gave teacher a BJ under the desk, can we get in trouble?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - i just turned 18 and i'm graduating high school this year. ive had a teacher for 3 years now that i have fantasized about for a long time and friday i gave him a blowjob underneath his desk. will we get in trouble? he just got a divorce so do you think we could be together? im ... (61 words

Girlfriend sitll has feelings for abusive ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 September 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok, so my girlfriend and I have been going out for about 2 months now. I like her a lot but there's something that concerns me and makes me think that maybe I should call this quits, for my own mental well being. She was previously in a 2 year long relationship tha... (288 words

I love him and want him, so what's holding him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I had been together for 4 years. During our relationship, we became best friends. During the last year of our relationship, I experienced lots of stress from trying to finish my senior year of college. I slacked on our relationship because of class ... (414 words

Sex, stomach hurts after, pregnancy concerns?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - I had sex with a guy i met in class last night. This is the only 2nd time ive done sex. But this time my stomach hurts today. We used a condom but, idk how i will be able to tell if im late on my period because i got off birthcontrol a lil before may and doc said wont start for ... (80 words

Is he a good guy? Is he being genuine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - I'd like some thoughts on this situation. I've been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and things are going well. We can spend hours together, talk on and on, and just have a great time. He's been really slow to make a move on me, kiss me etc but as I've given him the 'green light' ... (268 words

He can't have sex with me because I'm pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am 24 weeks pregnant and today I tried to have sex with my bf. We started but then he stopped, stating that we shouldn't keep going. I asked why and he said he doesn't know. What? I wanted an answer. He told me that he think it's a males intuition or whatever. Bull! I think ... (75 words

I give the best advice I can, but I feel helpless

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (? age 36-40 - When my friends come to me for advice and help, I listen and offer advice to them. I get upset sometimes with them when they don't listen to me. I know they have to learn for themselves, but sometimes when we are in a situation, we can't see clearly so someone on the outside ... (206 words

My boyfriend has been away for three weeks, and I feel hollow and vulnerable without him. Is this feeling normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - This is really strange but, my boyfriend has been away to Canada for three weeks out of 10 and without him I just feel very hollow, and like half of me is gone/ just no here. I don't know why I feel like this but I feel very vulnerable. And I just miss him so much. We've been ... (156 words

Does he seem to be interested in me? Or is he just a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I like this boy in my class and i was wondering if he is interested in me??? He stares at me when he has a chance...... He walkes to my desk and makes up an excuse to talk to me............ He and his bestfriend were fignting over who would give me my bag. then... (159 words

Young girl needs help about periods

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 26-29 - I have an issue, i dodnt know where else i could ask this. i havent had my first period yet. but i have discharge so bad that it goes through a pantiliner and then through my underwear. i want to use a tampon (and i have been) but i am soo afraid of tss that i dont know ... (110 words

I'm concerned about a friend's sister

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 26-29 - Ok, I'm in a little predicament. There's a kid i'm friends with on facebook. He goes to my school, and he's in our little group of friends. Well I don't talk to him much cuz ever since elementary we've fought constantly, so it's awkward around him but we get along now. But ... (265 words

He's dealing with family stuff, but I love him and don't want to lose him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - So, I'm in the Army National Guard. I met my boyfriend while we were training to get deployed. We have a great time together. He says he loves me to death and he was even thinking about asking me to marry me. That was untill he found out that his grandpa is about to die. He ... (210 words

I'm married to an alcoholic and I'm tired of being mother and nurse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 51-59 - I really do not know what to do. I have been married for 13 years to an alcoholic. We have two beautiful boys. I am miserable. He has been seeking help through AA on and off for the last year, but still he chooses to sneak and get drunk. Last night was an example. I went ... (321 words

I would like him to ... talk to me ....do nice things for me ....and more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have a few things bugging me so here goes. Firstly how do I get my partner to talk to me? I have been with my partner for about 7 months now and I find it hard to talk to him. Recently I tried to talk to him about how I feel and he just became defensive and wouldn't talk ... (166 words

Why would he watch porn right after we have sex?

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27 September 2009 (F age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life. It is always fun and full filling, one thing tho... Sometimes after we have sex and i leave or go to sleep he goes on the pc sometimes within the hour and watches porn. I have expressed how this makes me feel and he continues. Am I ... (114 words

I forgot to tell him about my vow of abstinance!

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27 September 2009 (F age 30-35 - Im a too in love with my boyrfiend and Im 16 and have taken a vow of abstinance that I would love to uphold. The problem is I kinda forgot to tell him that 6 months ago and now Im about 80% sure he thinks he's gonna get to sleep with me and Im about that much sure that I may ... (106 words

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