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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I be confident again and make my dreams come true?

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3 September 2009 (F)

- Over the past few weeks I have been feeling really emotional due to the fact that I feel worthless and as though I have nothing in life. I am coming up 19 years old and have nothing to show for it. I went to college for two years but now I have finished I don't know where to go ... (155 words)

Dating an ex-boyfriends best friend..go? or no go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

- Should I take this risk... I was a guy around four months ago and it didn't work out between us however we are still on speaking terms and I would say we are 'aquaintances' rather than friends. Over the past month or so me and a friend of his have got relatively close... (238 words)

We are msn friends, but she never initiates a text or a call! Should I text her more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi how do I talk to this girl in school I have her phone number, msn and stuff but she never texts me (unless I text her first) or she nevers starts the conversation on msn. I think she used to think I liked her but how do I hint to her that I like her, eg. Shall I text her ... (100 words)

Met my real sister on facebook but am feeling scared to meet up in real life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I’m 14 and I’ve just found my biological sister on facebook and she’s really nice and kind and she acts like she really cares about me and she’s just said she loves me even though we only met on facebook a few days ago. Let me start from the beginning. When I was born my ... (283 words)

She doesn't seem that interested in me, what do I say or ask to make this work out?

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a really big problem this is pretty long but i need help. One of my best friends has a sister that really liked and she liked me to. so we decided to go out and now everyone is cool with it. At first it was great cuz I Love her and shes the first girl ive said it to a... (225 words)

If she had said very immature things to you, would you consider still liking her? And what should she do to make you like her again?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello =] This question is for anyone to answer? If your a guy and you like a girl and she messed up by saying really stupid and immature things would you still consider liking her or not? And by meaning messed up like really emailed emailed you saying e.g to many i don... (166 words)

His friend called him a child molester, should I not talk to him?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and i talking to an Senior(17 years old) and we like each other a lot but his friends make me feel unconfortable because they are much older than i am. And then one of his "friends" called him a CHILD MOLLESTER because we talk and i dont know if i should ... (71 words)

She's a name without a face... why would she never want to meet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been talking to this girl over msn for about 2 years now. started off as just good friends but in the last few months it has turned into something more for the both of us. first off this girl has been through alot over the past couple of months, her mum died recently an... (276 words)

He liked me so why did he pick another girl over me?

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3 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - basically....lasy year mn and some mates went out to one of my other driends bday at a club...i got a bit but not drunk. the entie time we were there i knew i just had a connection withthis guy who was also there for her bday. he satyed with me the entir enight, and even qhen i ... (214 words)

Why do we have to watch porn every single night?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Unique porn problem ~ married very sexually active and outgoing have or will try anything at least once. My husband has always liked porn when we were younger it bothered me but, I have 5brothers and I know what boys do :) - but, now the porn is on every single night we ... (305 words)

Coud sciatic nerve be my preejaculation cause?

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with ejaculating too soon. I was in a car wreck when I was seventeen end since then I have had this problem. The wreck hurt my back and gave me a sciatic nerve through my hip. Is this the source of my problem? Also in the last year I have began to lose ... (64 words)

Why can't I be around his daughter? Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theresz disz guy that i have been talkin to for a year now. hes 31 and has a 4 year old daughter. im 18 years old, so thats not the problem..whenever i want to come ova, his daughter isnt there. he told me nobody comes ova wen his daughter is there, but i dnt believe it. i ... (115 words)

21 year old female suffering from depression

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I suffer from depression and sometimes have episodes where i get violent with others and i even hurt myself sometimes. I am a very emotionally weak person and the people around me try to help but I do things to keep them away. Even if it takes for me to make them angry just so ... (93 words)

Online girl with boyfriend

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - First of all, I feel stupid for having the feelings I have - it's so easy for me to fall for someone, it's unbelievable but this girl lives about 6 hours from me and has a long term boyfriend. I feel like a fool for the way I feel about her. We have been chatting online ... (590 words)

I cant stop lovin someone I shouldnt?? (HELP!)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well in front of my house there is a construction site and lots of men work there. There is this one guy who is very good looking, hot, cute. He isnt the hottest guy ever but b/c im so used to him i really like him. And ever since we saw each other we keep looking at each ... (122 words)

Why does he never see it from my point of view?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that he constantly thinks I have something to hide or that I'm not telling the whole truth...then later I find out lil details he's left out and when I point it out; I'm over-reacting??? Or how everytime I just want to vent, he can never just listen...It always turns ... (245 words)

He forgot our anniversary. Should I be angry?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My husband ignored our anniversary it was our tenth. two years ago i took him back after cheating on me with a teenager while i was pregnant. you would think he could do something. we have no money but i made a card got dressed up and made a nice dinner. he said he didnt fo... (120 words)

Dating two people at the same time?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi...I have a question about dating two people at the same time. Sorry it's long... I have been dating Guy 1 for 2 1/2 years now. We lived together for 2 years and we have a solid relationship. I recently graduated from college and moved back home (2 hours away) and he's s... (329 words)

Perhaps I'm not such a good judge of character?? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy who is a friend of friend a few months back. We got on well even though he appeared quiet and reserved initially. Eventually we left the bar together, leaving our friends behind to go to another bar where we chatted for another 4 hours - everything from previous ... (650 words)

What game is he trying to play?

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3 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - a guy i liked has told me he likes me whilst he is still with his gf. he then asked if he asked me out would i say yes? i said he needs to be single first. he then said he has left her though i don't think he has. i didn't hear from him for a while and then out of the blue ... (207 words)

Opinions needed! Why has he not text me back???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why has he not text back? I slept with a guy 6 days ago after the 3rd date. We only want a casual thing but i want to know if it is going to happen again. The thing is i asked him afterwards if i would see him again, he said yes but didnt know when. I emailed him the ne... (344 words)

Heartbroken new mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got married to the father of my 2 month year old son. I thought everything was perfect, but to my surprise... there were many things that I did not know about. We've been together since we were 17 years old, and now we are both 21. He has wanted a baby fo... (274 words)

What's expected of a Homecoming date?

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I need to know what is expected of a women when going to homecoming. I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 16 (yes I failed twice) but my girlfriend is 14 and homecoming is on October 10th and I need to know what all I am supposed to do. Should I take her out to eat, do i buy her ... (77 words)

Should I put up with the conflict for a while longer so he doesn't leave on deployment on a worse note?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im was married at 18 and gave everything for my husband. He and I had only been with each other but he wasn't happy married and I knew it. A few years ago my mom passed away and I flipped out. I left him and started just sleeping around. He found out cuz I told him and we ... (375 words)

Conversation stopper, how can I keep the conversation going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi my name is sarvath and im 31 years old still single well my issue is well i had and still have so many boyfriends but i want a female friend with whom i can share my feelings well now i do have one as we speak on phone.the problem is that i dont no what to speak and how to ... (156 words)

Why doesn't she tell me she loves me anymore?

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend won't tell me she loves me anymore. It's just bothering me because she used to tell me she loved me but now she just won't and I don't know why. We've only been dating 6 months and she's only 14 and I'm only 16 but I just don't know what happened. We just got ... (117 words)

How can I take control of this "out of control" situation?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age - I feel like my marriage is really in trouble and we have only been married a year. We married later in life and he has grown children from a previous marriage. They are his top priority. He makes sure their needs are met even though they are all better off financially than ... (395 words)

Why are parents unable to stop underage dating and sex?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been reading different questions on this site for a few weeks. I see that there are a lot of teen age dating and sex questions. Teen age, while being most enjoyable, is also the most risky and stupid time. It is the time when one can make or break the rest of one'... (201 words)

Too old for this "Does he love me or doesn't he? routine!

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This man is driving me nuts!!!!!!!!!!!! We get on well. Very well and always have a great time and laugh. He knows I'm strong and I won't put up with crap!!! But this thing of "does he love me does he love not" is getting kind of tiring and boring. I've never met anyone l... (394 words)

Love problems, porn he's not into me anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, where do i start? Me and my fiance have been together for about 8 yrs. I'm turning 21, and hes 30. My fiance used to be really interested in me, always touched me, did all the little things that count, like have a romantic song playing when i walk in the door and just pull ... (1637 words)

I've been lying to my online lover about EVERYTHING

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im 29 and married for 8years.a few years ago i started chatting with a very nice man.but lied 2 him about everythn,my race, marital status and so on.i managed to never snd hm pics.we fell in love in the virtual world.nw he wants to meet me and i cnt bring myslf 2 tel hm the ... (59 words)

Advice for keeping her spirits up? And assertiveness?

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I would like some advice of keeping my partner cheerful, as quite a lot of the time, she cries a bit. I am a carer for her, as she is physicaly disabled....... We have been together over a year. I would also like some advice on how to support her assertiveness, b... (96 words)

Lots of eye contact but when I tried to talk to her, she said no

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I had been noticing her for last 2 years though i never felt any kind of ... (268 words)

I like the way he smells when hes dirty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 months is very athletic. He plays sports, goes to the gym and works out everyday. Some days he showers three times and uses body spray after each shower. I don't want him to think I am weird, but I like the way he smells when he doesn't shower. We started ... (274 words)

G/f got fired because her phone kept ringing and I was the one calling her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a major problem aunts, i have been dating a girl long distance and everything has been going great because of how much she likes me, i didnt think long distance could work but it is lol. Well we can only really talk most days at 12am till 2am because she has collage and ... (604 words)

Destined to be single and alone for the rest of my life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm late 20's and never had a girlfriend and don't think I'll ever have one. When I was a child I was often called ugly by girls, this made me resent them, and I never so much as bothered try to talk to a female about going on a date. During my teenage years I rarely left th... (353 words)

Recently separated and in love with friend of 15 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - OK I think my best friend is in love with me. He helps me clean is supportive and loving when he thinks i am in pain. He finds reasons to bring my name into the converstion at social gatherings where i may or may not be present and he has admitted to being very sexually ... (565 words)

Can a person change after cheating/hurting you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, Last month I organized a home party for my birthday, to which my girlfriend was invited as well (obviously). The thing is, she had way too much drinks, after which she did some things with another guy I didn't like at all. In my own house. Under my own eyes. Not cool. ... (357 words)

Friends with the ex--is it stupid of me to think that the friendship might last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well about 1 month ago me and my girlfriend of about 2 yearas (not quite) borke up, on good terms. At the time it was more of a break, to take one step back. Anyway, as most relationships say, we made a promise to always be bestfriends / friends. So for the last month w... (337 words)

I really like him so why do I blow hot and cold with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what I am doing, I keep blowing hot and cold with this guy who I really like. We have known each other for a few years, never dated but we used to work together, we have kissed a few times, he wanted more but I said not at work but I was really scared to move o... (163 words)

Why won't he let me perform oral sex on him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am a 21 year old girl, and my boyfriend is 26 we've been dating a lot, and are active with our sexual life. we had practically every type of sexual relations, even foot fetish and everything, but what bothers me, why wont he let me give him a blowjob?!?! i was a v... (108 words)

What prompted her to cut off all contact with me?

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A long story short. I met this girl in Germany over the summer (she's 19, I'm 30). Things were great, we really connected and enjoyed each others company. There was without a doubt love coming from both sides. We lived together for about 2 months before things began to fall ... (397 words)

No affection, no sex and yet husband says he loves me and doesn't want a divorce

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) age - If my husband works all the time like 7 days a week, and long hours. And he became impotent years ago. He does not do anything with me. Nothing around the house, like chores. He seats all day in his office and works.The children are grown , but not doing too well. He is tota... (261 words)

Breaking up and then getting back together..should I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. Me and my Boyfriend split up march this year after being together for two years. While we were together we went through of lot of upset.He thought it was ok to go out with mates and dance with other girls. Since we split we have been meeting up and having casual sex. There ... (122 words)

Why are all the ladies in contact with their exs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I split from my ex about 7 months ago and we still used to see each other as friends and when she needed help. She had a lot older man who wanted to be with her and they flirted when we were together and that destroted my confidence. In the end we split at the end of January. I ... (148 words)

I'm cheating but I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a bit of a predicament i really like this lad that i slept with but there are a few problems: 1. he has a girlfriend and a child with her. i woz telling him about my break up about 2months ago and he sed that he knew exactly wot i meant wen i sed that i loved my ex to... (166 words)

Is his cannabis really any worse than me having the occasional fag socially on a night out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - really just looking for some opinions and advice. I've recently got back with my high school sweetheart after 5 years apart and everythin is gonig really well, however I've recently learned that he smoke cannais maybe once every one to two weeks. I'm not sure how I feel ... (411 words)

My girlfriend is very close with her ex's but wont let me meet them! Should this be a warning sign?

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3 September 2009 (M)

age - My girlfriend of 7 months is very close with her ex husband and ex boyfriend even though they both left her, she considers them "good friends". She keeps her relationship with the both of them very seperate from our relationship and is insistant on keeping it that way. She ... (401 words)

Is it a sign of weakness that I cannot hold my cum long enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - when i watch a video or talk about sex my penis gets hard and i experience precum...why is that? is it the sign of weakness? how can i avoid it? i cannot hold my cum log enough, how do i last long?... (42 words)

How can I pleasure her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this girl i've been with said that she always fakes her moaning during sex, because she's very hard to please and has never reached orgasum through sex or through oral sex... is this normal, how can I 'pleasure her' ... (39 words)

I'm 13 and have feelings for my friend. What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I've been friends with this girl for nearly a year, and we tried dating for 2 weeks. To be honest, it was probably the most awkward relationship i've been in. But after that, i was still like best friends with her, and still am. But i think i still have feelings for her... (74 words)

Problems with my son since my husband passed away. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age - Our eldest son is 15 and has gotten in the habit of borrowing my records without permission (it seems he likes Sixties music). While he was at school yesterday, I was looking for another album. I found two others in his room, so I started searching everywhere for the third ... (264 words)

Together for 6 years and replaced in 2 weeks... will he ever come back?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my boyfriend of 6 years left me. We lived together for most of that time and spent every hour of the day together apart from when we were at work. He said he didnt love me anymore and moved out. With tears in his eyes he asked me not to hate him and asked to be ... (258 words)

Can someone please tell me what's going on in his head??

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and I have been devastated. I really love him, but I read that if I ever wanted him back I should cut all contact, so I did. I heard through the grapevine that he had gotten a new mobile phone number too, so in a way that made ... (185 words)

Husband says he's not gay so what's his interest with "transmen???"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has recently lacked interest in sex in the last few weeks - and everything I've done has always ended in rejection. I tried: • Lap-dancing for him (but he fell asleep whilst I did it - he loved this previously!) • Cooking him a romantic dinner (but he'd been out dr... (497 words)

My loneliness drives me into bad relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

- Friends are great but when I'm single I get lonely and end up in bad relationships. Seems to be pretty consistent so far. My dating isn't great. I have a good time but nothing ever develops. Either I'm not interested or she isn't. Now I've been single close to a year ... (147 words)

Help!!!! In love with my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm in a serious relationship with a girl, Will have been a year in October, But I think im in love with my best friend. We have knwon each other for about 3 years now, and we first met when I was going out with this guy she was mates with, My friend is also gay. The... (125 words)

Can someone tell me what the hell happened here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age - I have dated a guy for 3 months whom I really liked and we got on very well, he told me that he enjoys my company very much and there was also lots of chemistry. After around 6 weeks he asked me to see each other exclusively. He was not always very attentive with texting/... (504 words)

Help!!! He wants to take my virginity at 13!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi my name is kylie, i have a boyfriend and i dont think he loves me. all he really wants to do is take my virgintiy away from me, and it scares me. PLEASE help me im scared!... (38 words)

How can I repair my "sister" relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help. i have a crush on my step sister, She is older than me and we didnt grow up together, but i also class her as a sister. i enjoy talking to her and asking advice from her, but i decided to tell her my true feelings the other day and now i feel i have ruined ... (132 words)

I proposed and now she wont answer my calls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - kindly help me out, am finding it difficult with my relationship.acturally i propose to lady and her reaction has been so bad that she hardly pick my calls.am so worried in that i usually find myself thinking about her,emotionally am not balanced.i love her even though i do not ... (53 words)

I'm not sure if I love him as a friend or more. How do I know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

- Im involved in a rather complicated situation. I have been frineds with this guy for 3 years almost now. He came into my life when I was going through a huge crisis. I was honestly about to have a break down. And he came in, and was there for me. He supported me and helped me... (591 words)

My younger lover seems to have gone off sex, has he lost interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid Tell me I am in a relasionship for almost 5 years. My fiance is 10 years younger then me. We have 2 kids together . We use to make love a lot, but 6 months ago things just changed? We havent made love ever since. I did ask him and he said that it is because he... (157 words)

He says he has women on the side just in case I cheat on him so he wont look like a fool!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and - of 6 yrs. Have our ups and downs. He has cheating on my once in the past about 2 and a half yrs ago. we grew up together. High school sweethearts so technically I have been dealing with him 6 or about 10 yrs. He got me a ring he talks about marriage ... (118 words)

What does he think of me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I heard this, that words Dont hurt but we all can say that thay do. I been told things that are not always nice all my life. But thats not whats bugging me. I have a friend that a guy and I also have a friend thats a woman I didnt think she dislike me but she be so cold with ... (275 words)

The father of my child has left me for another woman, what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a question i love this guy very mutch we have a daughter of 3 and wer together for 8 years. his with someone for 3 months now. we had sex 3 times while his with this woman . she dropped him but now his back with her. what do i do now.... (54 words)

Who do I choose, Guy A or Guy B?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okaay guys, I need help and fast! I fell in love with this guy, lets call him Guy A. We had something so special and a lot in common. However I listened to a small rumour, said by a friend who I know liked my Guy A. Now I realise she could have been jealous, especially as nobod... (278 words)

How do I build a sexual connection with an experienced woman with concern to the issue that I lack experience?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

3 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have a problem. I've been dating this woman and its gotten up to the third date. She is two years older than me, much more experienced, and voiced that she does not want bad sex. I've only had sex with one girl in my life and even then it wasn't anything ... (368 words)

Should I wait or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HEy i really need help well i've liked this guy now not for too long as i never really realised that i did but alot of sutff has happened. he came over other night i had a little gathering we were there we held hands like magic it was mental i didn't intend it to happen i... (626 words)

I need opinions from married or committed bi-sexual men.....

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm involved with someone that's bi-sexual. He's 29. On his bi-sexuality: -He does not want relationships with men. -He does not want candle light dinners with men. -When he's out, he's looking at other women. Not men. -There is no emotional connection with... (509 words)

My boyfriend begged me to end things because he has feelings for someone else, but now he wants to give things another go!

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 14months.we've had our ups and downs like every couple but we both love each other.however he has meet this girl through a friend a couple of times and has admitted that he has started to like her.yesterday he had no idea what to do ... (120 words)

Why risk the chance of pregnancy?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If man know when their are cumming, why is it that their still will cum inside? (Especially when they are avioding getting her pergnant).... (24 words)

I love her and she doesn't want anyone to know about us

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi just wondering what to do i love this girl very much but she doesnt want annyone to know about us only a few people know about us every time i go to school and sit around her its like hiting a brick wall in our relationship she tells me she loves me but if i say somthin... (165 words)

Early in relationship shes saying she wants to settle down

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is the whole story of my last 2 months: It was a girl I knew since high school, but we never kept in touch, and now a couple months back, I met her again for the first time. After the first meeting, we really clicked and our conversations were interesting and ... (711 words)

40 day long period

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 years old, i got my period when i was 12 and i have had my period for 40 days straight as of today. I was on the pill but after 20 days of having my period i stopped, i dont know why i am bleeding like this, but i'm extremely worried and i dont know what to do. Help me ... (64 words)

How do I tell my mom about the older man?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old, and i hve been talkin to this guy for a yr now. hes 31 years old . i really like him, moree then anyone knows and i dnt want to keep hiding things from my mom. we have such a close relationahip but i want to be more open with her. should i tell her about him, ... (69 words)

I cannot cope with the guilt I feel of my mother dying

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother has just died of lung cancer and I cannot get over the feeling of guilt. I'm absoltely devastated - I loved her so much and she was far too young to die. She has been in pain for many months and has seen the doctor upteen times. The last time I saw her was the 20th... (450 words)

Why hasn't he made me his girlfriend?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been talking to this guy for about a year now. we arent officially together but the topic of being in a relationship has come up once or twice. me and him have been through a lot....i really like him, i may even love him. hes told me that he likes me, but i just dont ... (72 words)

Why after 8 months would be be in touch?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy back in December...started dating on Dec. 1st and dated for 28 days. We knew each other for two weeks before hand. A friend(Brian) of mine from college set us up,Chris went to another college (actually the one I am at now). They were best friends and have be... (431 words)

Why do I want sex so much?

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months, and our relationship was great up until recently. I've become atached to her, I want her to be around all the time, and I'm always wanting sex. I can't seem to look at her and not think about sex. Its to the point that everytime ... (109 words)

Its so pathetic that I seek an invisible lover online!

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this foreign guy on Internet and we've been chatted online on and off for about 1 year.At first,he wrote me for asking a language partner and we just talked about life after that.I think we both know quite a lot about each other because romance wasn't involved and we were ... (278 words)

Afraid of my 1st sexual experience because I don't love him!

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - a women : hello. i will get married in 18 septembre 2009 and my question is how i well have sex with my hasben and i dont love him i am soo fried that i well refus him because i don t feel conftrouble when he tatch me and I am so ... (117 words)

What's the big deal about race?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand what the big deal about race is. I've been in an interracial relationship for nearly 3 years and my fiances family and friends seem to focus a lot on me being white. His family is latino and were born in mexico and his friends are mostly african american and ... (90 words)

Dating a guy who's got a past of betrayal

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating a guy that i really like but I am desperately afraid because of his recent past. His now ex best friend betrayed him with his ex girlfriend of 7 years. I don't know the details of what happened but I am assuming they must have hooked up or may be going out now. This ... (127 words)

My ex wants to give us another try, just after breaking up with someone else

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex who I have been broken up with now for over 4 years very recently got out of a very long relationship of probably over 2 years. She has made it more than clear that she would like for us to be together again which totally took me by surprise. So, we've been hanging out. ... (170 words)

My GF started crying when I asked her to cut off everything with her ex

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - HI EVERYONE, I'M 28 years old I have a sex problem. My fiancé don't like having sex with me, cuz I'm not packing. She cheated on me twice that I know of, I don't know what to do she cheated on me - with her ex boyfriend she still wants to call him. This dude has her cell phon... (143 words)

He keeps in touch with a wide network of friends, including women. Am I overreacting?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age - I am a 47 year old woman who is on her second marriage. My first marriage lasted 15 years and my husband divorced me for another woman. I am on my second marriage of 6 years. My husband is really a kind and caring man. There is an issue that bugs me and I want to know if I ... (236 words)

He says he's against online dating, yet has an online GF

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met someone online for more than a year we have been internet friends, he planned to come meet me and see what happens, he has other friends also that he plans to meet in my country. He always told me he will not fall in love online and only desperate ppl claim they are in ... (226 words)

My dating problems seem to come from preferring to be alone

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been thinking a lot about my dating problems (as you do) and I think what it all boils down to is that I just like being on my own. Does anyone else feel like this too? I like being independent, cooking and shopping for myself and I even prefer being alone with my thoughts ... (127 words)

I offended her over a little thing, now she won't have me back

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was dating this girl for little over a month. She has had guys do some very bad things to her. A year ago her ex husband talked her into an abortion. The day of the abortions he stayed home and got drunk with his friends. That is why he is here ex. Something happ... (199 words)

He changed his pet name for me -- am I overthinking this?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know that this question is ridiculous -- I'm embarrassed to ask my friends because I understand how silly it sounds. But the guy I've been dating for a little while has suddenly stopped calling me "sexy" and now calls me "baby" exclusively. We haven't had sex yet, but I can't ... (75 words)

Date raped and now pregnant..don't know what to do!

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive struggled to barley even say this, so i really do apolagize if it gets a little long. Ive just run out of people to turn to! And i need to talk to someone. Sorry. Im now 17, and i was with a guy for almost 18 months, aged 14-15, but at 15 we found out i was pregnant and... (536 words)

Wasting my time and he isn't that interested?

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a great man for a for a few months now and just recently, a friend of mine mentioned that he was back on the dating website we meet on and he is active. My friend had signed up when I told her how wonderful it was meeting him, she was hoping to find some nice ... (190 words)

He was obsessive about calling but now he's not calling!

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright!! i'm gonna lay it all out. Ive been dating this guy Kris for 2 months now, he is twenty seven, and I'm nineteen. We started dating and everything was good. He said he loved me like two weeks in!! Way fast but I thought hey maybe it can happen like this. We also slept ... (247 words)

He says he only went out with her so he could see me

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3 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i like this guy to make this simple ill use the names, me, james and kate, well basicly ive been friends with kate for like 11 years, close friends, and a few month back we was out one night and met this guy, james, i was like omg look how fit he is, but she was like ... (291 words)

She texts with the ex and doesn't see it as a problem

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all, My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year now. Before our relationship, her ex and her met up and slept together a few times, including him cheating on his then girlfriend with my girlfriend. So I had my suspicions at the start of our relationship. A ... (169 words)

Looking for a vacation spot for singles

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3 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently became single me and my girl friend broke up. I dont really have much time for dating, Because of Work and School. At work I have some Vacation days. Looking for a place for "single" only kinda thing. Im pretty sure there round any one could help me or give me Ideas? ... (70 words)

Relationship trouble and I'm so hurt!

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3 September 2009 (F)

age - I have been in a nice relationship for eighteen months after coming out of a painful marrage. After two years being single and bad dates, I met this wonderful man through a business associate. The honeymoon stage seemed to have lasted through the whole first year. "I'm... (306 words)