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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

These sexual feelings for my ex are driving me insane!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid: I dont know whats taken over me! My ex and I broke up maybe 5/6 months ago. Before then I never used to masturbate, but since I have discovered something very amazing! I cannot stop fantasizing about my ex and pleasuring myself. Its to the point where I feel li... (181 words)

Is there any way to make this smell go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I think about anything that has to do with sex, I get really really wet. I think that it has a bad smell and I'm scared that there's something wrong with me. Sometimes it soaks my underwear. Is there any possible way to make the smell go away? (I take showers everyday) and ... (59 words)

I am pregnant, but my boyfriend isnt the father. Its his brother. Should I tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and im pregnant My boyfriend is not the father of my baby, it is his brothers, his brother knows about it and he too thinks it might be his. Should I tell him the truth or pretend that it is his?... (45 words)

15 and pregnant. I don't want to tell my dad as he doesn't know I have been seeing anyone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm pregnant and the guy wants me to keep it however he is 18 and I know it is illegal. I also don't want to tell my parents about it. The father and I have always talked about starting a life together once I leave school and have kids but he wants me to have this one and run ... (93 words)

4 months and he still hasn't kissed me. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf knows that I want to kiss him..and he told me he wanted to kiss me too..but he doesnt kiss... We havn't even hugged each other and its almost 4 months we have been in this relationship...what do I do..?? And yeah he also says that you initiate it and I'll kiss you fo... (75 words)

Are these symptoms of pregnancy? I am too scared to go to the doctors

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, my boyfriend is 18, we have been together for 2 years and the condom split 2 weeks ago, my period is due in 9 days, I have; headaches cramping but no bleeding nausea more clear discharge than normal (no smell or irritation) mood swings ovarys hurt I had watery bl... (114 words)

My mum has early stage alzheimers, and her partner isnt coping. I don't live close, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder if anyone can offer me some advice?...i found out 15 months ago that my mum is in early stages of alzheimers, she is only 60 so as you can imagine it came as a massive blow to all the family. Myself and my brothers and sister have all moved out of home and most of ... (521 words)

I want to be with a man I can't have. How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major problem that I hope someone can help me with! Its driving me crazy. I have the hots for someone I cant have! He's one of my good friends and my ex's friend and for complicated reasons, I know I cant have him and even if I could I doubt he'd want me. God I just t... (123 words)

He is a mummys boy and I cant take it any more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had date with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is mama's boy. After 1 year I want to get out of this relationship. Cause he just listen to his mom. His mom didn't like me. If his mom say dont have sex with me then he wont.I dont know what to do. We had talk about it millon ... (107 words)

Whats some cute things I can do to win a girl back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So im in 9th grade, and theres this girl britny, and we arent REEALLLY in a relashionship, so we didnt REAALLYYY break up, but were not far from being in a relashionship, we flirt constantly, tease eatchother all day long, and she says "hey boyfrieennd!" when we pass eachother, ... (213 words)

Should I tell this new guy about the abortion I'm about to get?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A little over a month ago, I had a one night stand. Unfortunately, I did not use correct judgment and we used the withdrawal method. As it turns out, I can attest it is not as effective as I'd hoped to believe. An Abortion has been scheduled for this week. Well, a couple ... (140 words)

Should I still make contact with my ex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend split up over 2 months ago now. We were together for 18 months but broke up for a variety of reasons, mainly that I saw no future in it and that he had a lot of baggage. The break up was a mutual agreement, there were no rows or massive bust ups, we just ... (222 words)

How to make masturbation more fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do u wank?? i just do it the normal way, got any ideas to make it more fun??... (19 words)

Should I wait for this man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 yrs old....i have been in relationships before...but as of my previous relationships.....i had committment issues......now i am in love with this guy....he is an year younger than me.....i am pretty sure i want to date him...but i am not very sure if he wants that ... (81 words)

Sex hurts three months after having a baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Here goes, I gave birth vaginally three months ago. I had an episiotomy and was stitched up. The thing that I have noticed now is that tampons are painful (to put in and take out) and I have a terrible time getting the tampon back out (almost like it gets stuck) and it's ... (155 words)

Is this relationship a lost cause?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How far does the rabbit hole go? I don't want to give up but I don't think I could handle finding out a past situation got any worse. Read on to understand the whole situation. The following ended up being very long! But it is only in an attempt to allow others to be as ... (735 words)

Problems in the office is leaving me hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - helo.i have a problem with one of my superiors.there are two of them a guy and a lady.the lady act all nice but go behind my back and complain about me to the guy.he on his part wait until we have a management meeting and then tells me off in the worst possible way in front of ... (220 words)

He wants a baby but I dont!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Recently a couple of my boyfriends friends have become pregnant and had babies and i can see its making him broody. I on the other hand have no interest in children. i find it so hard to feign interest when we meet up with them. I have told my bf that i dont see childre... (154 words)

Relationship with twin sister is in jeopardy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age - I have a twin sister and we used to be very close but since my mother passed away January 2008 we have become distant. My sister makes me feel useless and she is controlling. She is the leader and unfortunately I am a follower. I have tried to talk to her and explain I don't ... (114 words)

My ex is sleeping with his cousin how can they get away with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i fingerd out my ex is sleeping with his 1st cousion. i woz goin out with him till i found out but i cant seem to be able to get it out of my head. his whole family thinks im sick and then to just act like thay wouldnt do that in front of every1. there living with each other in ... (81 words)

I just wanted to know why he rejected me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so I was talking to this guy named Victor for about a month. He seemed very interested in me.He sent me love letters.He would call me 3 times a day just to see how my day was going.We would talk all night about anything. He always made me laugh and smile. He would always ... (164 words)

In a black hole of emotional distress

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this girl that i hang out with and shes 18. We spend a ton of time together and ive fallen in love. But im 16 and that could be a problem. Also just recently she got a Bf they were kissing the very first day. That night i told her how i truly felt about her through text ... (128 words)

Is it OK to date my former sister-in-law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been divorced for over a year now. My former sister-in-law (who was married to my oldest brother) is also now divorced from my brother. We both divorced the same year. We've always gotten along really well. We live in different states, but I want to approach her to see ... (115 words)

Help please am I pregnant?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sooooo, me and this guy have been having intercourse for about 2 weeks now, at first he was using the pull out method, which was 12 days ago, and about 4 days ago he didnt pull out at all. Today when I was in my bathroom I noticed just a little blood, so I put a pad on and ... (135 words)

he needs time to think about dating me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really close to this guy at the moment. He knows I like him and we have talked about our feelings. When I talked to him he said that he is worried about ruining our friendship as we are really good friends, but I kind of feel like we are more than that as we spend a lot of... (109 words)

M I being melodramatic over him not getting me a b-day gift?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm still hurting over something my boyfriend did a few months back, even though i know it will sound trivial. Here goes: on the lead up to my birthday, he said he really wanted to get me something nice, pretty much bombarded me all week for hints about what i would like (even ... (284 words)

Woman like bad boys??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I was wondering about all the myths out there about women love a "bad boy" or a "jerk." Can this possibly be true over someone who is down to earth and nice instead of cocky and rude?... (38 words)

My long term partener is in love with another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i have been living together for 13 years. we never married because it didnt seem necessary or fit our lifestyle. he is a great man and i love him very much. he has always been there for me and he is my best friend. we've had our troubles and seen them through, ... (146 words)

My girlfriemd says she wants to be a one man girl but I don't think I'm that man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been in relationship since 9 months. SHe is the first love of my life and i want her to be the last love and i love her more then anything in the world. so I'm ready to compromise on all fields. but talks about her ex-boyfriend; with whom she had been ... (351 words)

My mum has poisened my boyfriend against me, how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - about 5 months ago me and my mum had a masive fight and she kicked me out, my boyfriend of 4 years still wanted to keep in touch with her, what i was fine about. not too long ago me and my boyfriend had a argument my mum had told him my dad didnt like him and thinks im to... (340 words)

I love him, but he has aspergers, and he finds it hard to show how he feels about me. I really need to know if he feels the same!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a real issue just now with this guy i'm seeing. We met about seven months ago and since then, things have been good but not exactly plain sailing. Its very important for me to say firstly that he suffers from mild aspergers and even though i've researched as best I can, ... (641 words)

After one month apart she got a new boyfriend but I still want to marry her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex have been together for 5 years and after a month apart she got a new boyfriend. I had planned to marry her before we broke up and still I want to marry her. What should I do?... (41 words)

Is she stalking him or am I going nuts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do about this girl.... I started to date my current boyfriend about 6 weeks ago. When we first got together, there was a bit of a problem with a friend of his . She had a huge crush on him, though she knew it would never be more that just friends and wh... (418 words)

Females only, please: I'm in love with my sister!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Probably I'm gonna get flamed here but I'm just curious if there are people out there like me and my sister. Everything started out as kid play. We both loved our Barbies and dressed up as princesses. We made up these stories about being saved from dragons and evil witches... (712 words)

Part of me wants to give up on her but my love for her won't let me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I was married for fourteen years and got a divorce and stayed gone for seven months. So we got back together for another year and a half. I left again due to her going to bars with her girlfriends two to three nights a week. Now we have started dating again and the same thing ... (107 words)

Help!!! How do I get out of my marriage without complications?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If you've been married for two years and you dont love your partner any more because you got married too soon (but dont talk to your partner about this) and you know you've made a big mistake, how do you tell your partner that you want a divorce? How do you get out of it ... (57 words)

How is having sex with me not leading me on???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I have started talking again and theres still feelings there on both parts, we talked about taking things slow and seeing what happens. The first night we met up we spent the night together and the same a few days later. She then went really cold with me and afte... (134 words)

My weight and subsequent lack of confidence is making my relationship suffer!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is most definitely a confidence and health issue. For a while now, I have been trying to lose weight, because I'm low on confidence and my partner and I's sex life has suffered from it, simply because I can't bear to have him touch me or sometimes look at my naked body... (189 words)

What are my chances of a getting a cold sore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im kinda worried ill get a cold sore my girlfriend had one for 3 weeks and it was almost gone but we kinda kissed, a lot, about 4 days ago. it wasnt a blister just a little bump at this stage so whats the probability of me getting a cold sore? kinda worried, i know it... (97 words)

How do I get closer to this girl in my class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl i just met in one of my classes in college, during that class we were the only ones talking and i am not sure of what she thinks of me. how can i get closer to her?... (41 words)

Am I stupid for taking him back? Or should I just ignore what people say and continue to work things out with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - After a break up with my ex we started to try and work things out, going for dates etc, and things seem to be going well. However a lot of people have commented that im stupid for taking him back as a lot of things have gone wrong with our relationship and because they said his ... (99 words)

I would rather have him in my life as a friend, than not in my life at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I was/am devastated as I love him in so many ways. Before we even started dating we were close friends and had so much fun together. Then we started getting more intimate and before long were an official couple. We went out for a year ... (594 words)

How do I be there for my friend now he has found out he is HIV+?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a gay 24 year old male and my best friend and i went for a sexual health test the other week and got our results yesterday ... It turns out that i was all clear but my best friend has been told he is HIV + ... As you could imagine this was a huge shock for both of us ... He ... (215 words)

Size does matter to me! Should I just be honest and tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid,I met this guy last September(2008),and we dated for about 3 months.The first time we got intimate with each other was kinda weird for me.It was unexpected yet great.He performed oral sex on me,he is the pleaser type guy.I was enjoying it so much I couldn't hold it ... (178 words)

To the ladies... how big should I try to make my penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay my current measurement on a good day is 6 and a half long (non bone pressed), or bone pressed 6.7. The problem is my girth is quite small, only 4.7 inches thick. This is a concern because girls seem to prefer girth over length. I read about jelqing and I've been doin... (174 words)

I'm worried when I become a teacher the kids wont take me seriously because I look so young!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, Here is my story, although I know this subject has been brought up a lot, It has and is really affected me, I am 33 and I look 23, if that. I dress well, nice make up, hair etc, but I have an extremely young looking face, not just young but the eyes, face all look soooo ... (374 words)

In love with a girl who already has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I love this girl who has a boyfriend. What should I do???... (15 words)

How do I tell my friend that the guy we both like has asked me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my best friend have both liked the same boy for ages last night he asked me out and i dont no what to say! i want to say yes but my friend really likes him as well and i dont want to upset her, she is my best friend so i dont no what to say ... (58 words)

How do I cope with being back in the dating game? I feel like a teenager again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am seperated 3 yrs and have meet a few men on and off, nothing serious, but now I have a longing to share my life with someone. I was on internet sites and made a decision recently to go off all the sites It didn't feel right and decided to let things happen naturally. I ... (274 words)

What should I do when he comes back from his 2 month holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy who gets back from a 2 month holiday tomorrow. I'm really nervous about seeing him again! We've stayed in vague contact while he was away, just the occasional short email. We'd been on a couple of dates before he went away with some kisses, hugs and hand ... (262 words)

How do I stop being so affected by my boyfriend watching porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Okay this is gonna be pretty long so please bear with me! i have been with my boyfreind for 3 years and we're moving in together soon. The other day i borrowed my his laptop and on the visited websites list there was quite a lot of porn. I know a lot of people dont ... (272 words)

How do I initiate a conversation with someone I don't know, with the intent of a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I am a reasonably good looking guy, not being arrogant. I am clever, funny, Polite and have had a few girlfriends in the past. This girl is absolutely stunning. And everything that I would like in a woman.How do I initiate a conversation with someone I don't know, with the inte... (55 words)

I found a condom packet in his bag!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Condoms found in the bag I have been with my boyfirend for 9 months in a long distance relationship. we have managed to spend every weekend together for nine months and i love him so much. He is moving here to be with me in three weeks. This weekend he left his washbag with... (187 words)

Should I end my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi! i posted this in another site and didn't realy get any help so i thought i'd try here. Okay, my hubby and I have been together for 4yrs. married for 2. We have an 8mo. old baby. In the beginning, things were pretty good, we waited about a month to have sex, waited 6mo. to ... (697 words)

B/f wanted to be with his friend and she shot him down

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I would really love some help on this one please......I recently found out that my Boyfriend of nearly two years is in love with his friend ( has been for 8 years) the things is they are thousands of miles apart. so of course I am very upset and sad about this but o... (318 words)

Drug problems broke us up but I still think of him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Three months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. He has problems with drug abuse and told me he was just going to ruin my life. I love him so much and I keep hoping he is going to change one day and things will work out between us. I can't seem to get over him. I still think about ... (84 words)

We know each other too well and too long to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My last relationship has ended and i started thinking about what to do and who to try to move on with, ive always had interest in a girl since before i even really liked girls I liked her in kinder garden lol, and have known her since but we had a odd relationship, like we ... (547 words)

My boyfriend told everyone what we did -- how do I deal with the abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just tryed oral sex with my boyfriend and he told all his friends. now people are calling me a slut, and i have guys from school asking me to "suck them" or "get on your knees for me" any idea's how to stop this or to deal with it. ... (52 words)

If a line has to be drawn then something is up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is kinda hard to explain, but I'll try. My girlfriend lived in the same town. I recently moved. It's been 2 days now. A best friend of mine, a guy, came over last night to her house, and she was in the bathroom straightening his hair, and he stood up, and they sto... (210 words)

Heartbroken by ex and then asked back out by them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just wondering: how many of you have been heartbroken by an ex, and he/she asked to have you back? I want to consider the odds. Thanks! -GG... (31 words)

How to get him to chose me over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there! i have a problem with this guy who two months ago broke up with his girlfriend. the thing is that i was with with him for three months before that(our break up was a mutual agreement) girl (he was with her for 10 months) and i saw him about two weeks ago and he asked ... (209 words)

Am I misreading the signs?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy about 3 years ago. I remember him being slightly friendly, polite even, but we didn’t really hang out or anything. Over the years I’ve gotten to know his parents really well but I haven’t seen him since. Recently we had a brief accidental bump in at a family f... (657 words)

Am I really doing anything wrong by having a relationship with my employee?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My parents and I own our own company as partners. We run a little restaraunt. A long time ago I dated one of our employees and my parents flipped out and suspended me and my ex wound up quitting over the whole thing. Recently, I have become sort of involved with another man who ... (167 words)

We broke up but now he's suggesting FWB

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago. he says that he still cares about me more than anybody else and the only reason that he broke up with me is because he doesn't see us being together forever. he thinks there is someone else out there for him, but at the same time, ... (115 words)

Is it true that anal sex is illegal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it aganst the law 4 a man 2 screw a woman in the butt? ... (17 words)

My Girlfriend of 5 years sexually flirting with her brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I am new to this site. I hope you will give me honest advice. Last year I found an ICQ message from my girlfriend to her brother making a comment that said "thats because your so good at sex". How would she know that? I did not tell her that I found this in her ... (1552 words)

Met up with ex girlfriend, please please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys, so basically tonight, me and my friend went to see a show and my ex from 3 years ago was there, we bumped into her and ended up hanging out with her and her friend all night. however, my ex was just hanging out with me most of the night, talking to me, taking alot ... (201 words)

I'm shy does anyone have tips on talking to guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

- I am 20 years old and am always getting lots of random guys smile at me and even say hi when I just walk past them. This could happen at lots of places whether it be at work, uni, the shops, supermarket, cafe, beach etc... The thing is though I am a really shy/quiet person... (117 words)

She's 14 should I tell her that I love her?!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

15 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i'm 20 and there's this girl that i play video games w/ online who is 14. the thing is, i really love her, which to me is an understatement. we've now known each other for 8 months. i really have feelings for her. i think about her all the time! i love her so m... (109 words)

We both cheated I don't know wether to forgive him or forget him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I recently found out my bf had been cheating on me a couple times with another girl. They never had sex but got close to it. I found out and broke up with him. But I also cheated on him once, only I just kissed the other guy. But I feel its different because I cheated at 3 ... (125 words)

Does he still like or is he just using me as arm candy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So all summer me and this guy have been talking nonstop and we knew we liked eachother so we started dating....about a week later he broke up with me and said things were moving too fast (even though all we did was kiss and i was definately NOT being protective or anything). I ... (175 words)

Should I say hi to him?

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15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i'm crazy about this guy. last year, i had a class with him and we would talk and joke and i'd be so nervous talking to him. then summer came and we didn't talk anymore. i saw him driving all the time and i know he saw me too. but he doesnt know i know what car he drive... (151 words)

How do I get rid of these good for nothing mother feelings

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15 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a SAHM since my son was born. He is 4 yrs old now.Every time someone asks me (what do I do all day or what I'm doing these days) I feel bad. I feel sort of guilty of not working. Its hard to maintain a good life style on 1 person's income(my husband makes 90k) espec... (171 words)

I'm in pain because my true love treats me this way

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15 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - after break , i stayed with my ex for a while , as we planned to be friends , but didn't work out, so i decided to move out , i started packing my stuff , while i was doing this i had to go out for work , so he came home and he saw that i am planing to move , he text me ( come ... (250 words)

What is this behaviour should I just forget about him?

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15 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My brother had a roommate over the summer who I met the night before we left to go home. We had a good connection while at dinner, and he made an effort to understand more about what I was saying and the like. Nothing conclusive, but I felt this unexplainable attraction to him. ... (438 words)

He makes me feel lonely

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15 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I been with a married man for almost six years. He said he loves me but when we had a chance of being in the same place , i feel invisible ...i tell him what i dont like and he keep doing it , he said i fight too much , but i just want him to understand that his attitude affect ... (102 words)