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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I stop obsessing over my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know the title is a little bit misleading, but I find myself obsessing a little bit too much over my girlfriend. I am a 21 year old male and she is a little bit younger than I am. I care a lot for my girlfriend. We've been dating for about 6 months now, and everything is ... (275 words)

Should I forget aout my old best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm Charlotte. OK, so I started to be best ever friends with someone. We were so close and told each other everything but we kept arguing. Every week it would be something new. But when we made up it was fantastic. The first few arguments, we both cried and made up and were ... (176 words)

Locked in his room all day looking at porn when I'm in the next room

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together just under a year. the relationship had a pretty rocky start as he was still in love with his ex. a few months ago we broke up, after he'd been to see her, and he told me that he didnt love me. he called me the next day and asked for me ... (460 words)

How do I get back the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid (I guess it's an appropriate why to start), I have been going through quite a bit of distress and frustration the last 2 months or so. I never thought I would turn to a service like this for advice or answers but I've come to the point where I need some advice. ... (887 words)

I'm 20 and parents won't let me date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and I am still with my high school sweet-heart. Our relationship began 4 years ago and we feel to be really in love til' this day. I really love him and wouldn't doubt spending the rest of my life with him, we have been going to the same university without ... (160 words)

How can I have a relationship where I won't get hurt and abandoned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This is kinda long, so I hope you all have the patience to read it. I'm not good at shortening things and this kinda takes place in a lot of time. Flash back to about 8 years ago when I was around 4 or 5. We lived in a city in Utah called Orem, pretty much in the center of "H... (1557 words)

G/f spends weekends with her daughter & ex at his place

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age - What I am troubled with is my girl friend seeing her daughter on the weekends. Kind of a long story,but her x husband has custody and she has visitation's on the weekends. Well, She has to have him X pick her up, She has no D.L because she is eppliectic and has secers and Cailf ... (280 words)

I'm married and my ex keeps coming around trying to get back with me

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been married for 2 years now, and life has been good, yes, it has its ups and downs, but on the whole, it's been good. However, for the past 4 weeks my ex has been coming round, demanding to see his son, so I've allowed him to. Except, he never sees hi... (306 words)

Am I wrong in not wanting sex before 9pm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has just told me he thinks we dont have sex enough and i never initiate it. its true that we only have sex once a week but the thing is we never, and i mean never, go to bed at the same time. I start work early in the morning so i always go to bed before him as i ... (104 words)

My friend killed herself and I just don't know how to deal with it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am about to be 18 in a month, and ive had this friend since I was 14. She's been a great friend and we dont get to see each other often so we just talk alot on the computer. I found out last night that she hung herself the night before and no one knows why, and this pain ... (110 words)

Since I found out I was pregnant he's changed...should I have an abortion so things get back to the way they were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i remain happy about being prego when he is so unhappy. he said that he will be okay just take time but i feel him slipping away from me. we dont talk like we use to we dont smile are snuggle. im wonder if i should kill my first child. like have and abortion are ... (193 words)

I thought our relationship was great...so why did he end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week, what I thought was a perfect relationship ended. My bf and I have been together for over three yrs. things have always been good, we lived together for a short while and I was even pregnant with his baby (unfortunately I lost him). We are not one of those boring ... (249 words)

We don't have anything in common, so how can I keep the relationship going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend of 6 months. She's 25 and I'm 7 years older than her. We don't seem to have something in common. Sometimes we argue over things that we have different opinion and she always insists her thinking is right. I love her. How can I maintain t... (65 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I don't know if he loves me, one minute he's happy with me, and the next angry with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend, deeply, but I don't think he loves me. You see, we've been together for 3 years already, and things were going great until a few weeks ago. I don't know why. I mean we have had issues, because he's jealous and he has problems with ... (750 words)

Simple question: how can one end a relationship without the hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how can u breakup with somebody without it hurting you or the other person ... (14 words)

How do I broach the subject of moving in together and having kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My boyfriend and I have been going out together for just over 2 years now. We are in a long distance relationship. He said at the outset that he wanted kids. (I do too and he knows this). He was very keen to move in with me about 8 months into the relationship but I ... (321 words)

Is he trying strange tactics to get me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have this small problem and I have posted other questions on this site and it has always helped me. I was seeing someone for 4 years. I ended it with him 3 weeks ago because we went on holiday and it was good but when we returned, he was being very nasty with me. ... (331 words)

My boyfriend has wandering eyes. Should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It has already been two years since i last wrote about my bf wandering eyes problem. Yes, two years had passed and my bf is still staring at girls when i'm just right beside him. i have spoken to him many many times regarding this problem. each time, he promised to change and ... (175 words)

How do I know if he really cares or if its just a game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i ran into an old classmate from highschool and we had dinner to catch up on old times. It now has turned to something else its like we are drawn to each other and cant help our selves. We never dated in highschool. The chemistry and the way we can talk to each other is ... (114 words)

Do I take him back or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago, I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me four times. Three of the times were just kissing, one time was more (it involved taking clothes off), all with the same girl. Two days before I found out he told me he loved me. We had been going out for about 4 ... (134 words)

He is giving me a lot of mixed signals and confusing me. How do I unravel my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I am in highschool and there's his guy I really took a liking to..So I kept admiring him from a distance. There were a few times we talked but it wasnt really a conversation. So after a while he started giving me signals that he does like me back such as, Looking at me ... (246 words)

How can my girlfriend and I adjust our ways to eachother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my gal frnd is very caring and loves me alot but she is very silly gal will feel bad and get angry on me even for a small thing even if i insist her not to do the things which i dont like.even though im taller than her she always insists me to grow height , please help me out ... (70 words)

Girlfriend hesitant to have sex and not sure why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - (Edited by moderator) any way Simply i want to ask why could it be that my girlfriend would not like to have sex with me. I love her, really love her but i also want some satisfaction.. She gives me time,no doubt, allows me to kiss, but she stops me everytime. I want ... (97 words)

I am scared of new guys, is it because of never voicing things to my ex crush or why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) ok this is will be long but i could really use some help so please take the time to read it :) basically i like loved this guy *bob* for 3 years. its crazy, it started way back in year 10 as just a crush, and then it got so much deeper, i couldnt stop thinking about him! ... (855 words)

Is it a bad sign if your boyfriend has pictures of his ex but not you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a bad sign that I am not in a good relationship if the guy I have been dating for almost 4 months still has pictures of his ex on his computer and facebook but none of me anywhere? I can deal with him having pictures of her on his computer but the fact that he has none of ... (156 words)

Me and my bestfriend, who I have feelings for, have just moved in with another girl and she's all over him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I've lived with my best friend for a few years now and have had a crush on him for a long time. Nothing has ever happened between, we've just always been there for each other and a very close. We recently moved into a new apartment with another girl who is basically throwing ... (192 words)

My parents won't let me go out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,so im 15 about to be 16 in 2 weeks and me an my bf have been dating for 5 months now but we never get to hang out outside of school and im afraid he'll break up with me because of this. My parents don't think I'm of age to be dating even though im more responsi... (115 words)

Why can some women be so cruel and man hating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello i would like opinons first from the guys have you experenced this secondly from the girls do you treat guys like this and why. I was out the other day saw some beautful women many of them so decided to talk to a few i had a beer so decded to walk instead of takin... (758 words)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend's friendship with all these men, or is it all in my mind?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girlfriend has lots of male friends and I need to know If I am losing my mind about this situation or have reason to feel somewhat let down. I started seeing someone who I used to go it with for over a year (4 years ago) two months back. We previously split up because... (1538 words)

He has sexy pictures of women that he knows! Should I bring this up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok heres the situation I know alot guys look at porn, and i accept that, but recently our sex life has been next to nothing and we share a computer, and i recently found pictures saved on the computer of women...not just any women, women he knows... all the good looking fem... (197 words)

FAMILY FUED!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the story, my cousin is a pathological liar, emotionally retarded and cannot keep her pants buttoned and male genetailia out of her mouth, she passes out blow jobs like hand shakes, basically we've never got along, im a pretty good girl, I've been with one person and ... (303 words)

What is the easiest way to have first time penetrative sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the easiest way to have first time penetrative sex?? Hi - sometime in the future I plan to give my virginity to my boyfriend - but wonder which is the easiest way without too much difficulty/hurt.... (38 words)

In love with my best girl friend, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this one girl for a few years now; since our freshman year of high school. We're now second year students at a community college and are both getting into the workforce straight after. I've had a thing for her since I first met her and we've hung out so many time... (333 words)

I want to have a Gay relationship with my cousin. Is this ok?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hai,I have a cousin,just call him kel,he's 21 and he is gay. Recently, he called me, telling me he liked me, and asking me, whether I want to be with him or not, I do admit I like him too,and I want to accept him, but the problem is, we are cousins. But even so, our families ... (81 words)

I'm so confused about the way relationships work...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im so counfused about everything how relastionships work How they start Where do couples go or do usualy I never had a proper relastionship and im 17!!! I have no answer and watching my mums relastionships didn't help me the way I am now I am more counfused Can somo... (92 words)

Why do I feel she is too good for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi!, So, I have been in love with this girl who became my best friend (I am male) after over half a year, and I suspected that she may have feelings for me too but because of past pains she is reluctant to, I guess let them surface. Recently we have been getting ... (304 words)

My friend is getting too close to my boyfriend, how can I stop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Last year, my friend and my boyfriend got really close together, going out together, texting each other spontaneously, playfully touching each other in front of me, to a point where I felt like crap and like any other human being, I felt a sting of jealousy because I hardly ... (529 words)

I am sick of just being his "friend"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Okay so I have this close guy friend who I am quite literally crazy about. I have known him for about 6 months now. The problem is he is a huge player, and an even bigger flirt, he will flirt with any girl whatsoever. But I really like him. Recently I gained a small cr... (268 words)

Argh! He is always fluctating, and I don't know if I should let him know I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would a guy text you only to get questions answered? Last night I accidently texted him that someone liked someone else and he texted back answering who is this person and who is that. I answered who the girl was but I didn't tell him who the guy was. He kept asking! Then ... (214 words)

How can you tell if your boss is having an affair in the office?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How can you tell if a boss is having an affair with someone in the office. There's a manager at work and she follows her boss around like a little puppy dog, when he comes to talk to another manager she always call him over to talk to her about work and then she gets him to sit ... (116 words)

Should I let it go because he strikes me as emotionally unavailable like my ex husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age - I was married for 18 years to a man who was emotionally unavailable. I don't think he was even capable of any depth of feeling or love. I have been divorced for four years now, and it has been lonely. I met a man four weeks ago who I thought was wonderful. He has a lot of t... (173 words)

Can a woman have sex with her husband and lover without giving anything away?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age - I'm a guy of 54 years and was happily married for 19 years,there have been no Kids,which is the choice of my 44 year old wife (and mine).About six weeks ago I noticed my wife taking the odd call late at night and walking out of ear shot from me,this made me curious but not ... (467 words)

I'm emotionally confused,and I tested the water to see if he would come running back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, this site is new to me, so lets see how this works out. I am a gay male and I have been dating my partner for 10 months now, its been the greatest 10 months, complete with roller coasters, emotional confusion the works of a long-term relationship. Ba... (529 words)

I want him to be with me, but he is made to feel so guilty by his ex. Is he scared? How can I help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - His ex causes him pain and distress. They split up officially 4 months ago and he has been emotionally involved with me for 7 months. He told me he had feelings for me and really, really wanted to know if I felt the same, he gave me time to think about it and when I ... (236 words)

He talks of 'us' seriously. But is it a huge redflag if my boyfriend never compliments me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This might seem like a really egotistical question, and perhaps it is, but nonetheless it is something that bothers me. With every partner I've been with, I've always told them what I found attractive about them, from the beginning when you form the most superficial physical... (299 words)

How do you build a strong relationship not built on sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two weeks. A few days ago, we made a big jump and spent the night together. My boyfriend is worried, though, and doesn't want to base a relationship on sex alone. How does one go about building a strong relationship?... (54 words)

We hooked up, because he lied about his status! Why do I feel bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy on the internet and we really got on well.... We eventually met and the sparks were all over place.... It was my first time in my life to bed someone on the first date. Never ever happened through out my life. I was in a relationship that ended in disas... (484 words)

Why she didn't say I'm meeting my boyfriend? What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, just after a second opinion please. I met this stunning/amazing girl this week, we worked together well in a task we were set and got on really well (have similar interests, views, styles, experiences etc etc). When we had to head of she asked me if I was heading in t... (391 words)

What should I do? My relationship is plagued by my love for my old bestfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i don't really know how to start this but ill start here. I used to have this really good friend (best friend) who was a girl. We used to hangout all the time and each time would be amazing. I often thought of it as love at the time. Well one day i opened up to her and ... (341 words)

My bestfriend forgot to mention that I helped her, my mum says I should say something? Would you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm jealous of my best friend. But not for the reasons you'd expect. My best friend moved away a year ago. We often chat online. I have always been very interested in graphic design and art and suddenly she has muscled in. I don't mind much, but it's annoying me beca... (318 words)

I don't like the idea of her going out with her cousin as she will get hit on all night. It winds me up, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am going out tonight so is my Girlfriend. I was m going to stay in with her cause she asked me too but I feel as if I had to go to my friends party as he is 21. Now my girlfriend is going out with her cousin who gets about and she will have a better night than I will.... (199 words)

Wife only turned on for sex after a blazing row!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I are both well into middle age, but I still enjoy sex - I'm up for it far more often than my wife. I have noticed something strange though: the only time my wife is turned on is after a blazing row. She finally admitted that arguing with me really makes her horny, ... (97 words)

I got angry at my girlfriend who was nearly raped, now she won't see me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend was lucky enough to escape from being raped by someone that she knew but not very close. She didn't want to talk about it or pursue the matter further then. After sometime, the guy who tried to rape her was disturbing her by coming to her workplace. He did not ... (153 words)

It's fading , but online boy wants a second chance? Should I give him one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hai there to whoever is reading this..I hope you can help me on this one.I have a boyfriend,yes,i am THAT.Anyway,he is 3 years younger than me,and im 19.We dont see each other that much,let alone talking.We only talk online.There are times when we didnt contact each other for ... (123 words)

Threesome suggestions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Me and my wife are married for more than 2 yrs now. She has a fantasy to indulge in sex with more than one person.. actually she has suggested about having it with me and my close friend who is a nice guy. Initially she had fantasized about my younger brother and told me.... (261 words)

She cheated, should I go back with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is Tyrome I have been going with this girl shana for 8 months we were both friends before we started going out.Before we started going out we did everything together we joke we went out to eat at places everything except sex back wen we were friends she never looked ... (380 words)

Friend still talks to my ex FWB guy even though she knows how much it hurt me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i had a fwb relationship with a guy in my group of friends. It was a horrible experience where i got very hurt and emotionally abused. I still have to see him every now and again because he is still friends with one person from the group, my ex having been exclud... (227 words)

I want to talk after sex, he doesn't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - when i have sex with my boyfriend i love it but when we get done he is always tired and it seems like he never wants to talk after we do and i love to talk after im a romantic girl that likes to talk about it after its over. he is always tired i dont get it i asked him if he ... (101 words)

How do I find peace withint myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is a little vague, but I would love to hear any advice that anyone is inspired to share. Thank you in advance. How do I find peace within myself, and hold onto it? I feel like I depend too much on others to sustain my happiness, especially in romantic relatio... (363 words)

Should I go for this guy, or accept it as impossible and drop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i really like this guy who most likely returns the feelings, and on top of that, we're already friends, so it's perfect. Plus he's adorable. Although there's two major problems: i only know him because he's one of my best friend's(a guy) brother. the other problem; YOUNGER ... (183 words)

Should I ignore what I think are lies and try to move forward in our marriage?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Several years ago my wife and I had a real problem. My wife moved in with another man. We had 2 young children (2 and 3). At first she asked me to move out and take the kids with me. Anything my wife really wants I will do (within reason). A good friend said to me "You dont ... (661 words)

Dating one month and it seems like he doesn't feel anything very deep for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for one month. I was so happy the first two weeks--it seemed like we had such a connection, and he was romantic and passionate. Now, after just a month it seems like the newness has worn off already. I feel like he is taking me for granted. I don't ... (234 words)

He asked me what I want from him, but I am so confused about our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay(breath)- I am so confused about my relationship with my boyfriend. First of all, I should mention that I am 31 yrs old and this is what I would consider my first real bf. I suffer from extreme anxiety and esteem issues. Bearing this in mind, I will also say that I was ... (594 words)

How do I ask her to be my girlfriend? All the boys like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, i'm 13 and i live in india. i really like a girl and i want to propose her for being my girlfriend. while playing truth and dare she said that she likes some other boy. i'm planning to propose her after a few days when my braces get off. she is a shy girl. all the ... (96 words)

I'm away for long periods of time, is she cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age - I am the same guy who asked this question on August 31st: "Her past has been eating me inside as my mind can't accept it, please advise." Thanks ever one. I never wrote as to why her past has been bothering me more now than ever. Due to my immigration related issue, I have been ... (264 words)

4 year breakup--still loves me ut only as a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I met 4 years ago and immediately hit it off. Instant connection. We started talking and seeing eachother every day. 2 years later, we moved in together... 3 weeks ago, she broke up with me and said that she feels as though we've become more of roommates now... (406 words)

Still so confused - fix me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Here I am again - Another Holiday weekend and I am still reeling about the guy who I was seeing for four years and who found someone else when my mother was dying. It has been four months and it is still like a fresh wound. I know we were having problems about the same i... (401 words)

Should I be mad or is she just nervous about not having a plan for the future besides getting married?

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5 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. I will be graduating in a few months and will be taking a very good job near where we grew up. I decided to live w/my parents to save money. My gf will graduate the sememster after me. I have been planning to propose ... (273 words)

Did he have second thoughts, is he testing me? We are both married.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

5 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a married women and have been in an abusive and miserable marriage for the last 15 years. I met another married man and spoke for about an hour. It was very unexpected. I was outside smoking and friend called me over to ask me a question. Next thing I knew I was outside ... (467 words)

Should we just keep things friendly for now because of the age difference?

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met a guy at work who is 24. We have gone on several dates and text one another almost daily. He knows that I am 17 for five more months, but has said multiple times he will wait for me. We are very similar and get along so well, but naturally my family is concerned ... (101 words)

How could she hurt me like that

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend and i were at the movies one night and the guy i really really really, times 1 billion, really like was there. During our movie him and his friend came in and they were talking and she leaned up next to me and told me he asked her out. She knows i love him, and i ... (168 words)

How do I ask out girls?

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5 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have never been the best with talking to girls as I guess im just kind of shy in some aspects. Anyways, I would love to get some advice I could use in this upcoming school year!! Thanks so very much!... (45 words)

What is he up too?

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys, there was this guy, he would watch me and stuff, I noticed it a while ago, a couple of years ago. We became friends..Anyways, he used to watch every little thing I did, even when I was putting on my lip gloss. He would watch the way I did everything, and when... (133 words)

How can I tell that he is cheating?

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating on me. We live together, and he goes out for "guys night" every Saturday and Sunday night. One of my boyfriend's friends has a girlfriend who does my hair. The other day she asked me why I never come with him to part... (243 words)

I told her the truth, don't I deserve the same?

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5 September 2009 (M)

age - Well, I meet a lady about a year and a 1/2 ago. We fall in love . Thinks were kind of shaky and to make a long story short, We stoped seeing each other for about 5 months. We had no contact for that time, and one day she calls and asks what I've been up to ! Again, not draging ... (407 words)

What do I do now that I found out he has never had a girlfriend?

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out yesterday that the 22 year old guy I've been seeing for around 3 months has never had a girlfriend or a casual relationship before. This has completely flipped the way I'd been thinking about him because I thought he didn't seem that interested in me, but now I ... (320 words)

What are we?

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a week ago. But before I start telling you why and all you must know our past. We met in highschool(our bestfriends were going out). I'm 1 year older then him. So we started hanging out and we became really good friends. In 1 year ... (718 words)

Feels more like a bestfriend now

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5 September 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating my gf for close to 2 yrs. We used to have great sex in the beginning but because of certain issues we stopped for a while. Which was fine. However it has been 11 months since we last had sex and now I feel more like shes my friend then my gf. When I as... (329 words)

Looking to much into nothing?

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i have texted just a few times this guy that i like and i noticed something verry small but i wondered if it really mean anything or just me over analyzing it. Anyway he does no that i like him because i have told him. When he knew that it was me he responded it to my hey ... (89 words)

Not even married yet and the sex is gone

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sure this is a common problem but I need help, I am deeply in love with my fiance but I do not feel we are sexually compatible. I have all of the sexual energy in the world and he just doesn't, he's not into it and never has new fantasies or desires and when we try ... (170 words)

Dosent my boyfriend trust me?

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I have a problem with my boyfriend. When I ask him what's wrong with him when he's mad, he starts to tell me but then he says never mind. This whole week he's been upset and he doesn't tell me a thing and I'm starting to get so upset that it makes me sick and i don't wa... (68 words)

My friend has problems getting a girl

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5 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay hi, my friend has a huge problem. he's a male, 16, and can't really seem to get a girlfriend. hes a really sweet guy and perverted but in a joking way. and every time he likes a girl, they always seem to stomp on his heart. i suppose sometimes he comes on too strong with ... (100 words)

Am I a lost cause or just lost

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5 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm sorry to write in again but I don't know where to go any more. I'm a lost cause. A waste of space. I can't get a girlfriend. Never had a a proper one. Never been able to. The problem is with me. And I don't know what it is. I do know that I'm ugly. I've written in previous ... (166 words)