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anonymous
writes:is there something wrong with me? I am constantly afraid my boyfriend is upse with me. When I write to him and he don't reply I think he is upset with me. When I call him and he doesn't pick up I think he is upset with me. Something I do something that might upset but for the most part I'm always great so what's wrong with me???I need help as soon as possible this is already a problem but I want to solve it. Righ now he just told me he doesn't want to talk tonight even thought we saw each other earlier and had and amazing time. You I write and ask him if he madd at me. I really need to know ASAP Reply to this Question
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reader, busy04 +, writes (6 September 2009):
 I think you need to take a chill pill & relax!!!!
If you haven't done anything, then STOP worrying before you really do something & really upset him.
I'm not sure why you feel this way, but it doesn't make any sense to me. If you call and he doesn't answer, then maybe he was just busy or doing something else at the time & couldn't get to the phone, it does not always mean that he's upset.
Just relax, if he doesn't want to talk about it tonight, then talk tomorrow. It's always good to have just a little space even in a true loving relationship, you don't want to come off as being "needy" or "clingy". A little absence makes the heart grow fonder :) So give him a little space right now. Just relax, if you've done nothing, then there is nothing to worry about.
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