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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I was wondering if people could help me with ideas/concepts for a short film that would be feasable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there, I suppose this question is a little different, but I'm still looking for advice/help. Also, I'd like to think this could be a little fun, and be a little more light than some of the topics discussed on the forum. Briefly, since finishing university this ... (225 words)

Is my BF ashamed of me? He won't hold my hand in public or tell his friends we're dating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf won't hold my hand in public! We have been together for two months and last night we went out to the store and I went to grab his hand and he 'acted' like he needed to grab something and let go of my hand. We held hands for less than 30 seconds; sad I know. Not only this, ... (560 words)

I tell him that I love him and want to be with him constantly, but it's never enough.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im 16 years old, turning 17 soon and im a junior in highschool. iv been in only two serious relationships and iv had my heart broken many times. before me and my ex started dating i would resent it soo much because i afraid of getting hurt and i thought that he would be ... (1076 words)

Messed up life...

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my husband for 7 years i had left my whole family for him ever since i have been touch with my family on and off for the past few years over the fone iv not seen them i give up for a couple of years then ring them again for 4givness, my family want me to leave ... (248 words)

How can I stop pushing everybody away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I lost my virginity when I was 12. I had been dating the guy for two years. He was my first everything. First boyfriend, first kiss, first and only partner, first love, even the first person I held hands with. I thought that since he always cheated on me that he'd stop if I did ... (261 words)

Should I stay and be with number 2 or go home and be with number 1???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is that, About 4 years ago I was with a great man who adored me. We were together for 2 years but I really wasn't ready for the relationship at the time and made the worst mistake and cheated on him near the end of the relationship (which is something i've never done ... (378 words)

I am undecided about children, meanwhile he just had a vasectomy

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a nearly year long relationship with a man I love. He is absolutely wonderful to me in so many ways, and we seem to click. I am a few years younger than him, just finishing my Master’s degree, and still deciding what I want to do with my life (PhD? Work internation... (302 words)

Help needed!!! Mixed signals...

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26 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have known this girl for a while and we held hands after her friend died once, and I kind of like her, but I'm getting mixed signals. One minutes she hugs me nd stuff than she talks about this guy she likes. Is she just someone that like being close to people. sometimes we ... (105 words)

How can I start a conversation?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: THis is not a question, please just aedd this onto your original post. hey!!!i talked a lot about the huge cruch i had on this really cool boy(who really liked me 2) n i said before i never talked 2 him cause whenevr he tries 2 talk 2 me i do anythin 2 stop i... (454 words)

Is he still with his ex? Am I the other woman?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - He told me that him and his ex are over, but they have a kid together. We've been together 6 months, but I've noticed a few things: 1. He told me he doesn't have MySpace page. But I found it- He's logged in very recently, and he's had it for over 2 years. Why would he l... (447 words)

7 years and now this...

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The major problem i have in my relationship is TRUST and DEPENDABILITY. 2 major problems in my book. I've been with my love for 7 years and I love him. We have gone through some s*#t and we are still together. We have never cheated on one another, BUT I feel like I can't depend ... (240 words)

Why why why?????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Ok I asked a question some hours ago... I'm having so many problems understanding this, and I just feel so bad! The thing is, I had lied to my boyfriend in the beginning of my relationship, and ever since he has judged me for being a liar, but last night I found out he had been ... (957 words)

The problem that's surfacing right now is a recurring one - blowjobs!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, my boyfriend and I have been hitting some... impasses. This is a source of some grief for me, because otherwise, our eight-month relationship has suffered no rough spots whatsoever. We don't get into screaming matches or even real fights - so far, whenever there's ... (457 words)

31 year old and an 18 year old???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I'm turning 18 in october and i've been head over heels for a former teacher that I had a while ago. He's turning 31 this year i think. would it be ok if i dated a 31 yr old once i graduated high school. cuz in school will def be wrong even though hes a middle school ... (111 words)

He didn't really rape me as such... but what do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

26 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - so im going to tell u a rather lengthy story but i REALLY need to vent and get it off my chest and know an outsiders opinion about it before i go telling anyone that could know the people involved: im gona be 16 in less than a month and i went to a party at a friends house 2 ... (1112 words)

Husband's head games...

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please help My husband of 5 years keeps playing head games with me, when he Is not feeling happy for various reasons he starts being weird with me.. He will act like he is having an affair, he has told me he was going out one night and I got a friend to follow him and he sat i... (251 words)

Why am I attracted to my guitar teacher and older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on my teacher. He is my guitar teacher and he is awesome and we have so much in common. He does private lessons with me and my best friend and I had a dream yesterday that my best friend was ill and he tought me on my own. He put his arms around me to help me ... (190 words)

Should I approach a stranger in the bus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every week there's a guy on my bus that I find really interesting. The problem is: i'm way too shy to talk to him! We have made eyes contact a lot of time but every time I looked at the floor after for like 2-3 minutes because I feel stupid! Next time, I'll try to sit next to ... (70 words)

Why can't I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm finding it really difficult to get over my first love... the only guy I've ever been in love with. To begin with, it wasn't an official relationship due to long-distance circumstances but I ended up falling for him. In the few months that we were seeing each other and ... (240 words)

So confused, where do I stand with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I met this guy three weeks ago. We hit it off wonderfully. We went to the movies and had a great dinner. I spent the night cuddling at his house. We then spent the entire weekend together and even raided the swings at the park at midnight. Things quickly dwindled... (211 words)

I feel so guilty for not being able to try again with him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a miserable situation. I have been married for 10 years and have a 9 year old child. For various reasons, I have grown to resent my husband, he has barely shown me attention sexually for years, hasn't bothered to play much with our son, has just not bothered really in ... (166 words)

Help!!! Why is he acting like this?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just started college and i really like this guy in the same course as me (he is nearly 2 years older than me) - we have a lot in common, and we get on well. I 've been trying to work out if he likes me too but im not sure. The first few days he was really nice and we ... (163 words)

Was I wrong to email him and confront him about our relationship?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for a few months now. Initially, we would go out on dates etc. He was always busy, but did make time for me and our dates Recently, we began to just hang out around his apartment more...instead of going out... which was fine. Well recently we began ... (157 words)

I just can't trust him, should I even bother to keep trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's my situation, i've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and I really love him a lot. But, I can't trust him, and I want to. He has done so many sneaky things behind my back and that makes me think he doesn't care what I think or how I feel. I've given him so many ... (141 words)

Have you ever obsessed over your EX wifes/GFs NEW boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I know we hear about it on the news or from friends at a get together but why do men after we have blown many opportunities with the a wife/GF, why do we obsess with her. After a divorce or break-up and especially after finding out that that have a new boyfriend, why do we ... (326 words)

Am I wrong in thinking he likes me...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - It starts off like any night would.... So my will-be stepbrother and his mom came over last night b/c they and my dad had an event the next day. We all sat on the couch watched movies and just had a good time. Our parents finally said at 10:30 that they were tired and had to g... (409 words)

Do I just walk up to a girl and introduce myself? Maybe I'll miss that chance if I don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I keep seeing really pretty girls walking down the streets of New York City. Often we make eye contact and sometimes they smile at me. Is there any point to stop and introduce myself and talk to them or are women not receptive to meeting people in that context? I think I'... (180 words)

B/f has alot of female friends and I feel uneasy about his talking/texting/lying about it

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26 September 2009 (F)

age - my boyfriend and I have been together for a 1 1/2 yrs and my problem is he has alot of female friends that he went to college with and still talks to and text they all live out of state and that is not a problem the problem is there is one that he knows thru another friend and ... (236 words)

I get really jealous and insecure when I see my girl talkig to other guys

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26 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on beating jealousy and insecurities. I'm seeing a very attractive, very outgoing girl which is the complete opposite to me (I'm very ugly and very shy and no I don't need any sympathy I'm happy being that way). :P My question is ... (199 words)

Jealous of a vibrator. Will she get used to the thicker girth?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This may sound ridiculous but I really cant help feeling like this. When I met my girlfriend she had never had an orgasm with any partner and she believed she couldnt have one. she also said that her previous partner didnt even know or probably care that she never had one. ... (556 words)

Having an affair with my first love, but he confuses me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Sorry a long question... i have been married for 22 years .. not always great but managed to bring up two kids. 12 months ago i meet up with my first love , he had split up from his wife ... we started a affair.. i know , stupid . at Christmas he gave me a choice either i left ... (154 words)

Why do people come into our lives to make things difficult?

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26 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do people come into our lives to make things difficult? Is there any way to remove oneself from society so much so that nothing or no one can interfere in our affairs? I feel like people in general hate seeing other people happy, and try their hardest to cut them down an... (258 words)

My friends smoke weed. How do I tell them I don't toke anymore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please i need help, im going to a gig soon with some mates ill be 16 then and basically, my mates are taking weed with them and I dont know what to do. I used to smoke it with me old mates and i really dont wanna get back into it. It messed me up at the time. I just dont know ... (125 words)

She wants to be with me...minus the sex! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Really confused here. Basically, me and my girlfriend broke up 2 months ago due to 2 things really. She completetly lost interest in sex/couply thing. Before you say im shallow blah blah blah im not. Secondly we were constantly fighting, and we got to a stage ... (293 words)

How do I find out if he's single and interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have met this guy at a club I go to, once a month. But I met him and another girl who seem to be good friends but i cant tell whether they are dating...they seem to know each other quite well. However, he seemed kinda interested in me?! Im very new to dating and dont know how ... (113 words)

I want revenge..how do I make this guy look stupid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im gonna put it simply, i want revenge on an ex boyfriend Now i know people will say that just getting over him will be enough and that i should move on and make him realise what he's missing. And no offense but ive tried that Im far to pissed off and hurt to let him g... (379 words)

How do I get this guy to 'fall' for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey... I'm 17years old and fancy a really good friend of mine, we live on the same corridor at our schools hall of residence and get on so well. He's cute, funny, sweet, caring, everything I could ever want. No only that, he has pulled me out of my year long depression (he... (180 words)

How do I forget this guy and move on?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help. Its been 4 years, I've been liking this guy.. We'd even been in a relationship..there have been breakups n patch ups often..I've broken up now...I really can't forget him..what do i do to forget him? He's on my mind always..Can't sometimes ... (88 words)

I want what's best for the baby -- how soon should the father be left to care for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just recently split up with my boyfriend of 6 years and i'm comeing up to my eighth month in pregnancy. We spoke on the phone last night and both decided that we would like to get back together at some point,(when he has sorted himself out and both feel ready and comtable ... (251 words)

We agreed to break up because of different views about sex, but he's still messing with my head

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

- My ex bf broke up with me a couple of weeks before he was due to leave for a long overseas holiday. This is how it happened. We had a huge fight one night because I wouldn't have sex with him. I believe in waiting, where as he doesn't view sex as anything special, he feel... (661 words)

G/f doesn't want the relationship to go beyond "liking"??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this is a bit long, but i have to get this off my chest and i want ur opinions..I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months. I am 22 and she is 19. the first five months , the relationship was great, we would spend a lot of time with each other, she told me that she is ... (573 words)

Sex, pregnancy and health problems

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex for the first time and the condom slipped when he just pulled out but not pulled out in the sense of being close to ejaculation but it just slipped after a few minutes of intercourse and we put it right back on , but since then ive been kinda worried tht i might be ... (179 words)

I really like him I just don't know what to do next

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I will try and keep it short as I can. I'm shy and I like a shy guy and I thought he liked me so I asked him out - so scary btw! Anyway he said yes, we went out he text me later to say he had a nice time, I asked him again and we went out, again I got a text telling me he had e... (346 words)

I'm married want to know if its ok to indulge in sex with someone else?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a married for last 3 years, last year i met a guy who is single. intially it was a good friendship. he is 3 years younger to me. we used to talk a lot. gradually he started expressing his feeling and talking all about himself. one day i saw his laptop n it was full of ... (171 words)

Is it weird for a girl to enjoy porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a girl, with a pretty damn good sex life, but i secretly love to watch porn. is that weird? my ex thought it was hot, but he was very open and adventerous, to "normal" guys is it weird for me to like to watch porn?... (46 words)

Was her text normal or a hidden love message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi friends, Please clarify this doubt of mine. I know a neighbourhood girl for about a year. I have her mobile number and she has mine. She was the one to start sending me forwarded SMS's. I too send her forwarded SMS's quite regularly. For quite a few days I was bus... (110 words)

Should I listen to what he has to say, or keep on with moving on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I would be grateful for some advice please. There was this guy I used to date but he used to mess me around. We used to be on and off, he never made a commit with me. In the end he disappointed me, he let me down and I decided to move on with my life. We hadn’t spoken f... (388 words)

26 and tired of my dad butting into my life!

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26 September 2009 (F)

- Im sick and tired of my dad trying to butt his nose into my life. He's forever giving his opinion on the men i choose to date and the friends I have. Im only 26 but he tells me that ive messed my life up just because I havent been to uni or gone travelling. This isnt because I ... (330 words)

Should I learn to trust my girlfriend despite all her lies, or should I throw in the towel and give up on this love?

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26 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i met when we were 15 and 16. i was a virgin, she had sex with one other guy. lets just say we were really attracted to each other and we had sex a week and a half after we met. (before we even started dating). we started dating 2 days after we had s... (809 words)

What can I tell him during love making to turn him on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age - i need advice on what to say to my lover while we are making love something to turn him on even more... (23 words)

Am a lover? Or his mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am sittin here angry....why becoz I have a Man (boy) in my house that thinks he is my boyfriend. However, we have as often a nun and a monk....and he does not work, I cook, I clean, I do it all...as he sits and watches, doing his thing....we use to talk every night via phone ... (138 words)

How can I tell whether married co-worker fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. This may seem a little arrogant but I'm increasingly starting to feel that this married woman at work may fancy me but is doing her best to try and convey that she doesn't. Is there any way of telling without being confrontational? I know that her marriage is on the ... (166 words)

I think husband's affair is still on after 2 years but he denies it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 11 years - was a passionate afair which lead to us getting married. husband is 2 yrs younger. he is still good looking muscular, I was a bomb but am now very fat around 100 kgs but still considered attractive and charming. my husband had an affair with a ... (371 words)

His family doesn't like me because I'm not Italian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm dating a guy whose an American Italian and comes from an all American Italian Family. They even own their own Italian Restaurant - 3 generations. He's the 3rd generation. Be educated and tons of experience in the industry. I get asked a lot to help out at the restauran... (733 words)

Parents suffocating me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I'm in my early twenties, and I've never been in a relationship because my family has conservative values, and they praise education over anything else. So I focused primarily on school for the past twenty years or so. I don't go out as much as people my age do; ... (458 words)

Broke up, now talking again, but unsure where its going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for 2 years. It was a great relationship.. everything was perfect. He treated me great and we were really serious. However, we are both too young (20 and 21) to get as serious as things were progressing. Basically, we broke up because we were both at two ... (826 words)

In love with a married woman and don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a bit of a long story. We first met in our teens. I had the hots for her in a major way... and she felt the same way for me. The problem, neither of us was brave enough to tell the other how we truly felt inside. We spent many of our teenage years spending t... (1650 words)

How is genital herpes passed on?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is genital herpes passed only through sexual contact or can you get them another way?... (15 words)

Jealous of the time he spends with this pretty popular girl

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i'm having a real issue with myself. my boyfriend has this one close girl friend, and whenever they are out together i tend to get upset/angry. she is incredibly gorgeous, talented and popular, and this makes me feel really insecure. it's not that i don't trust him and ... (227 words)

How can I see her?

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26 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - what can i do? im so in love with my gf..but she moved alway to riverside. n im comin out here 15. we berly see each other. on friday to sunday. but now i only see her sum saturdays n sundays. man idk its hard to be with her. i dont want to break up with her i really love her. ... (92 words)

I don't have the proof of an affair..but don't feel right about this

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My situation is a little different than I've read here. I haven't don't have proff of an affair but... My hubby of 10 months had an ex-girlfriend call him out of the blue. She first called his cell but we have poor reception where we live. She called back to back (within ... (619 words)

I lied in the past and now he accuses me of lying all the time!

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26 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I had lied to my boyfriend about my past and he always accuses me of lying ever since, even though I don't do it anymore. He's always jealous because of my past. And he's always self-righteous about lying and all... I always though he was honest! I have issues with my b... (201 words)

Sometimes he shows he loves me, sometimes he doesn't even care

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so disappointed right now.Me and my boyfriend live together for 2 years. Some time he show me he love me and sometime he don't even care what happen to me. When he don't care about me like that I going crazy. I got mad,(angry extreamly),cry and stuff. He think I need ... (160 words)

Any advice toe help my stressed boyfriend with?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. We are extremely happy and we are planning our lives together. The only thing is that lately he has been having a bunch of problems at home. His parents have been getting divorced for 7 years, his ... (253 words)

Love/hate relationship with many breakups

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have this love/hate/break-up/make-up relationship, but he is always the one breaking-up with me because I can't "handle my emotions" and "I'm crazy". I'm going through a really rough time ( don't have a car/job/live with my parents) life just sucks rights ... (292 words)

Have you ever regretted not kissing someone when the chance was there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

26 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Have any of you regretted not kissing someone when the light was there? If you're reading this. Please don't be afraid... Yeah, that person speeds your heart somehow. Makes you tongue tied. Nervous. Butterflies, etc... But I'm telling you. Don't let the chance of w... (114 words)

Why can't women have young lovers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I am an attractive 40 year old woman currently in a relationship with a 24 year old strapping young jock. We initially hit it off as friends while playing on a co-ed softball team together. Then went out with a group and ours eyes met and have been physically attracted to each ... (182 words)

Am I only interesting when I'm unavailable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy has been waiting for an opportunity to ask me out and even waited through my last relationship for me all the while reassuring me everything would all work out BUT of course he also mentioned everything he would do differently if I were with him. Fast forward almost ... (129 words)

I want to get married but marriage is out of the question for him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with the same man for almost seven years now. I am almost 24 and he is 27. i love him very much, but I feel I have given this relationship enough of my time. What I mean by that is that is I want to get married. He loves me very much, but it is like marriage is ... (292 words)

Dating my stepbrother and keeping it a secret from our parents

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it ok for me to date my stepbrother? My mom and step dad have known each other for a while now and got married last year. I have known my step brother for almost ten years now but I have never considered him as a brother. We have lived together for a while but he moved out a ... (129 words)

Can dry humping cause vaginal damage?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dry humping a lot lately and my vagina, specifically my clitoris, has been sore. Can I damage my vagina from doing this?... (28 words)

Any tips on writing a love letter?

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26 September 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I would like to write a love letter to my gf. We have been together for 6 months and to it cool. I want to take our relationship to the next level. Any tips for writing a love letter? Should I mention the possibility of sex and that I would like with her in the letter? What can ... (67 words)

Do I ignore him or keep being mself?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I like this man at my work.(plz NO comments on office romance) Things have been going good btwn us lots of flirting and talking getting to know eachother kinda deal.He did tell me hes totally single and from what ive heard he really isnt seeing anyone. He donest flirt w/ anyone ... (157 words)

Boyfriend was drunk and raped me

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 2 years raped me and i dont know what to do.. I was asleep and he was out, when he came he woke me up and he said things I didnt understand,i could smell alcohol in his breath, the next thing I know he was on top of me and I kept asking him what he was doing, t... (197 words)

I might be held back if best friend goes to same college as me

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, me and my bestfriend have been close for years now, and im currently at a university but i am transferring out to my community college for next semester, where she is. And then in fall 2010, next year i'm looking to go to a school out of state, far away. And of course i ... (206 words)

Boyfriend and female friend--more to it than what it seems?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age - dear cupid, me and my boyfriend have been together for a yr and a half and my boyfriend has to many female friends that he talks to there is one particular one that he talks to and text everyday sometimes they don't talk for months then all of a sudden it starts again. fo... (207 words)

Pain if I don't masturbate often -- is this normal?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I was just wondering if this is normal, I'm 20 and I have a problem with my vagina at times well i have been told that i have a very high sex drive and its seems if i do not masturbate or have some sexual activity i get this pain. My clitoris has this pulsing feeling ... (167 words)

What did she really mean with this note?

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26 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, theres this girl in my 9th grade english and P.E. class, we get along well, and i walk her to her bus and classes, i flirt alot with her she flirts alot with me, and today we did our first note pass during english, she passed a note that said IM BORED Whats up? Why d... (168 words)

After sex with another guy not sure if I want to be with my boyfriend

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 5 months today, we've fought some here and there nothing really serious, I also lost my virginity to my boyfriend, and recently withing the last few months, my boyfriend is just being rude disrespectful and uncaring towards me just ... (124 words)

I get turned on when my g/f talks about her past sexual encounters

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26 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 39 and my gf is 38 and I don't know if I am a freak or got some serious problems but I get turned on when my girlfriend tells me about her past sexual encounters. It is something that I have been dealing with for awhile and I just dont know what to do. She does not like ... (127 words)

My best friend's g/f hates me!

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (Just note, I have asked many questions about this situation on here). Okay, so, my best friend's girlfriend hates me. She doesn't try to deny it (hence, the threatening email. And today, she "bumped" into me and triped me down the stairs at school. And no one will believe ... (165 words)

Can I take this guy seriously?

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26 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i met this guy at the end of july. our first date was a blind date, but the blind date was amazing. we had a conversation nonstop for 3 hours in his car. we have been dating (nonexclusive) ever since and we have perfect chemistry, our humor is the same, things in common, ... (315 words)

How can I attract a flighty woman at work?

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26 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. Okay so I fancy a woman at work. Problem is though that she is rather friendly to just about all the guys. She is a little bit 'flighty' (not to be confused with flirty!). Does anyone out there know how to attract a flighty woman? Are they superficial or are they deep ... (109 words)