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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want an abortion but I don't want to risk my sisters health!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and 6 weeks pregnant. My uni course starts in 2 weeks where i will be studying Law. So my boyfriend of a year has me all focused on having an abortion, when it will break my heart to do so, and even worse my family has a history of depression. I cant tell any ... (396 words)

How to initiate a threesome if your shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year female old college student. Ive been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and think its time I bring another woman into our bedroom to spice things up. Thing is, Im completely antisocial. Im a computer programming student, shy, and only have male friends. I am, ... (171 words)

My LONG story and current situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right this is a VERY long one.. Back in October last year i was seeing another girl casually, i had been single for a long time and well we began talking and a few things lead to another we never slept together though i told her i didn't want sex, she did. So naturally we fel... (1163 words)

Dreamed I had sex with a stranger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a dream that i had sex with someone that i didnt even know. what is that dream trying to tell me? is that normal?... (26 words)

What do I make of his reply?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, Just a little advice please. I work for a very large organisation, we all work around a 24/7 shift pattern. I noticed a guy at work 1 year ago, thought he was not bad looking. I then met someone on my team, started seeing him, split up after 8 months, didn't ... (191 words)

My girlfriends still in "friend mode"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship and some help. Here's how it started i asked her if she liked me more than a friend and she said no, Well she already knew i liked her. Well the next day came and she told me she loved me. A day after saying she didn't like me. Well i asked her out and she ... (218 words)

Sometimes I feel she see's right through me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I just wish she loved me. We've been together for 7 years and have 2 children. I love her, in love with her, she isn't. It's reaching obsession point now and I'm craving affection and her love. I want to marry her but she won't marry me. I adore her to bits, it's not just a sex ... (177 words)

How do I keep my family happily together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for almost seven years, and been living together for nine. We went through some rough times early on getting to know eachother, routines, etc. She already had a three year old when we met. Once we got married, not much changed in our lives, ... (362 words)

Arguing with my friend is leaving us hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, this is going to sound INCREDIBLY boring and immature, and this situation is something I don't normally find myself in however, recently I have been intangled into a very immature situation. Since about April I've been talking to a friend more than is probably healthy... (420 words)

Should I keep him or walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well people are gonna think im a right bitch i just have to tell someone, im 17 years old, and having an afair with a man who has a gf and little boy! i feel really sick about it but i didnt know until about a week ago, i really liked this man but hes 28 years old is this too ... (168 words)

I'm so confused about my sexuality!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a bit confused lately. I'm split between the two orientations so for the moment I'm calling myself Bisexual. The point is, I think I am gay, but I don't want to be. I'm not being a homophobe or anything, but I just never envisioned myself being gay. After all, I've been b... (409 words)

I'm in so much pain after sex but I've had sex before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right - sorry if this question shouldnt be asked on here, im just gettin a bit annoyed now, im seventeen and im single, but for the past few months (ish) ive been meeting this guy, (age 23 for if it matters) we met at a party in july and since then weve met up about 12 times, ... (395 words)

Raw egg as lube? BS or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A friend sais somthing that i found odd, so i thought id ask if it was true or not. he said somthing about Raw Egg Whites can be used as sex lube.I called BS but i got to thinking about it, and it kinda makes sence. so am i right about the BS part or is he right and do i owe ... (77 words)

Boyfriend wants to rent,i want to buy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Myself and my boyfriend have been together for 6 yrs! we both live at home still. He is with his mum and brother, and im with my mum and dad. Over these years i have been saving up thinking we will move out, get a mortgage sometime. But he isnt so good with money. He had a ... (325 words)

Is she just stressed or cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing.I am 18,my girlfriend is 16 going on 17.We usually have a great sex life and do it whenever we can.However,lately,since she has started college,our sex life (and me for that matter) seem to be the last thing on her mind.It used to be a case of if i mentioned us ... (135 words)

How can I clear my head over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im driving myself mad here and i hate myself for it. Im not joking yes i know im probably over reacting but i seriously cant carry on like this, ive tried to get over this guy but it just aint happening, hes one of m best friends and i never ever want to loose him. Hes made ... (551 words)

14 year old needs help leaving an abusive relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a abusive relationship and want to get out but i don't know how. I'm 14 and my bf is 18 i have been with him for a year now and have been beaten up 7 times i haven't told anybody about him or what he does and i cant because of a age difference my parent would flip if ... (82 words)

Is she ignoring me to get rid of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do and it has me confused my gf for a few months used to want to talk all the time and now i cant even get hold of her ever. She just went from hot to cold almost over night, i feel like she is ignoring me because as first she had an excuse and now that ... (162 words)

Boyfriend went to stripclub without telling me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year. i am a bit of the jealous type but not controlling. basically, i was went through his emails without his permission and i found a trail of emails where he went to a strip club with his friends. i was really sad when i saw ... (192 words)

How can I reach orgasm more easily during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having trouble reaching orgasm during sex. I am a 21 year old male and have been dating my girlfriend for a while. We've been having sex regularly, and my girlfriend has told me repeatedly that she's enjoyed the sex very much. The problem is, I have some difficulty reaching ... (229 words)

How do I get her to start talking to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - At the end of the school year last year, i was talking to this girl that was pretty much in all my classes. Things were going well and we were thinking about dating over summer. I hung out with her on a friday and hooked up with her, and that weekend it seemed like she was ... (148 words)

My son is saying he needs his space; I love his g/f like a daughter. Is there any way I can help them stay together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My son is 23 and he has been dating a girl, also 23, for 5 years, since they both started college. I love the girl like my own daughter, she is smart, kind and patient and up until now, my son and her seemed to have had a wonderful relationship. I always hoped and still do ... (270 words)

I broke up with him and I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfiend have broken up after going out for a couple of months. We weren't in love but I could of fallen for him. The start of the relationship was brilliant i felt safe and that it would work and I would be very happy. He was caring and wanted to please me. However, ... (359 words)

My boyfriend is not as affectionate with me as he was with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid my boyfriend of three years is hardly ever afecionate with me. he told me he doesn't like public displays of affection and that he has never been very romantic etc...however i found out about four months ago that he used to be romantic, affectionate etc with hi... (326 words)

Haven't been attracted to my husband since the baby arrived. But I really like his friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I have been married for 3 years my husband and I have known each other as friends for 11 years when we decided to get together in 2005 we moved in together in 1 month got pregnant in 4 months and married in 9 months. Sex was great the best I'd ever had, but since we've ... (458 words)

Advise please on if I'm being "unreasonable"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm looking for some insight into whether Im being stupid or not....my boyfriend of three years has decided that when i go to univesity next year he will split up with me. this is extremely summarised because it is a long and complicated problem we have been going through ... (227 words)

Does anyone else have this gift?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dearr cupid.. ok basicalyy, im 14 years old and i am, ovcourse, a girl (: i thought my life was a averagee life. As any 14 year old girl lead.. I used to have a really bad childhood. i got bullyed, and i lived in a really rough neighbourhood, so i new i was more maturer than ... (174 words)

Why did he have sex with me, when he knows he's dumping me?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend.. he'd been soo distant for quite a while now so i confronted him and he started yelling at me callin me a nag.. but we made up after the argument..cos he said sorry he was just angry and begged me to forgive him..we made love.. it was really sweet.. ... (142 words)

Did I completely kill our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Well...theres this guy i've been crushing on for MONTHS. He said from the beginning that he cant see anything happening. But I continued to like him. Then it turned sour today. This is an extract from our MSN conversation: [HIM] said: I just cant feel any spark and y... (288 words)

He left how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - he left for another!i know he loves me but has gone to her for sex,cause im one of those who'll wait to get married... how could i make him come back begging to get back with me? ... (40 words)

He says to suck it up! am I being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,I am simply seeking an outside opinion to a situation with my boyfriend. My boyfriend has a friend that I have yet to meet in person but I have had the opportunity to witness communication via yahoo chat between the two of them and find the guy to be a bit of an idiot ... (242 words)

He was newly separated when we got together, and his stories to me don't mesh with what his wife tells me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid i need your help, i been with a man who is seperated for over 2 years its been a really rocky ride as he didnt tell me the seperation was fresh when i met him and i was thinking the divorce was nearly through. anyway last yaer i had a converation with the wife and ... (400 words)

He needs time, what does he mean?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a fight with my boyfriend he broke up with me and he switched off his phone for 2 days. He finally picked up the phone yesterday. I tried to get him back. He wanted to break-up with me. Says he's doing fine without me and doesn't want a relationship. He was in tears ... (302 words)

I'm in love with my cousin help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my first cousin, and i am absolutely positive of this. Ever since i first laid eyes on her when i was 12 years old i had the biggest crush on her. She is 2 years older than me. i am 21 now and she is 23! as years went by we got closer and closer to eachother ... (206 words)

Straight but kissed another guy, and feeling really crappy about it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a straight male and this weekend I made out with my male friend, while we were drunk. I've been sort of wanting to experiment with the same sex, despite not really being attracted to other guys.. and only having a history of dating females. I also always kind of kne... (215 words)

I'm to weak to brake up with her what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a humungus problem i need help with. I´ve been together with a girl for the last two years. However, we became together when I was in the height of my puberty, so I aimed for the first and the best. (If you dont understand, I mean that I could have picked just a... (390 words)

Pregnant, cheated on b/f and now not sure who is the father

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , im a pregnant teen and like most teen moms out there , i have many problems with my boyfriend. The main problem is , we dont know for sure if he's the father. I admit i cheated on him and i own up to what i did , but we both find it hard to talk about it. We find ways ... (96 words)

Smiles, eye contact -- does she like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I wanted to know if this girl likes me. We're in the same classes and its only been the third day of the course. She doesn't talk to me, but when she looks at me she always smiles, and I usually catch her looking at me out of the corner of my eye. She'll usually sit ... (97 words)

Where to buy tasteful gay pride jewelry

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi So I've recently came out to people as being gay However I can't be bothered to tell everyone, and tbh I don't really know how to bring it up in conversation So I want to buy a small gay pride rainbow badge or item of jewlerey, something that will hint to people, and le... (139 words)

Secretly going out with a waiter, my friend likes him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i have been going out whith a waiter who works in a Restaurant we go to quiet alot but no one no's about it i went there at the weekend with my family and my best friend and her family and he was working but didnt serve us my best friend noticed him and she kept wisperin... (143 words)

Do I have normal expectations or am I being ethnocentric?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for quite some time, are in a long-term LDR and reside on different continents. We have all of the normal couple issues but thus far they are something we seem to have been able to work through. Many of his closest friends are female, of which I ... (627 words)

My little sister walked in on us having sex, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so basically, last night me and my boyfriend were messing around, i had my trowsers down but my top still on when my little sister who's only 12 walked in, we managed to sort ourselves out abit before she completley saw everything but i feel completley sick that she ... (193 words)

Addicted to stealing my mom's credit card!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think im addicted to stealing from my mom, im 13 and i've been stealing her credit card for about 2 years. I have spent over 1,000 on it over the 2 years. She finds out right away everytime, shes a banker, she gets reallly mad every time and i just cant stop. I always find ... (80 words)

I quit my job! Do I have to show someone else how to do things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age - I have handed my notice in at work having worked there for almsot 8 years as I cannot stand being picked on indirectly-anymore although I havent got another job to go to-unwise I know but I couldnt stand it after the last straw when one of the staff accused me of hitting her ... (176 words)

I get excited when I think about my best mate OR his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i think i fancy my best mate and his ex... when even i think about when i've seen him topless i start to think about kissing him ect ect But whenever i think of his ex girlfriend, i get hard instantly,, whats going on?... (51 words)

Is this normal when rimming?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys =] recently me and my fella starting messing around rimming each other, using flavoured lubes n licking 'em off. But everytime im going to go do it to him, he'll run off to the loo and return a few mins later (im pretty sure hes having a cheeky clean) Everythin... (309 words)

Why is it the woman who has to initiate the communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Why is it in relationships....99% of the times, it is the woman who has to inititate the communication. It is said that men are different from women..they are not as emotional and don't spend half the amount of time as we wommen do, dwelling on the breakup, how the... (190 words)

Is there a more subtle way to get the conversation going than just walking right up to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I talk to this guy i don't know in the year above? we don't share any classes but we walk home the same way from school. I'm a bit shy so I don't want to just walk up to him and say hi, so is there a more subtle way to get conversation going? thanks ... (62 words)

Should I be worried by the little white lies or focus on the bigger picture?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long term relationship for nearly 6 years. We live together and generally have a healthy relationship. We spend quality time together, travel a lot together and also have our own circles of friends. To the outside eye, it would seem like we have a perfect ... (259 words)

Should I call him to confirm the date or should I wait for his call?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a very nice date last Friday with a man I met online. He bought my dinner, so I texted him the next day (Saturday) to say thank you and that I had a great time. In his text reply, he said we should get together again soon and after exchanging a couple more messages he ... (130 words)

I really believe we are meant to be together; has anyone got any advice on how I can show her how great we can be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance ended our 3 year relationship last month. We had the most fantastic relationship. Yes, we had little bumps along the way (as everyone does I'm told). However, this year I let her down in areas that are most important to her. I'm talking about drinking, gambling, ... (528 words)

He called off our wedding, should I give him time to clear his head, or is he stringing me along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance broke up with me 3 months before our wedding. He said 90% of our 3yr relationship is great but there was this 10% of uncertainty. He left the country for 1 month to 'sort out his thoughts'. When he came back,started calling and told me he's not sure if he made the ... (200 words)

Should I break up with my fiancee before I go to Iraq?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i suppose i'm here because im just at the end of my rope. i recently got out of boot camp and just got notice that i am going to iraq next week on tuesday. and i am aware i will be a different person if i make it back home . so i want to know, should i tell my fiancee ... (123 words)

Why did he deliberately have unprotected sex with me when he knew I could get pregnant?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex (father to my daughter) and I have cultivated a friendship or so I thought after fourteen years of separation. As consenting adults we were involved in consensual intercourse. However, he purposely came inside me knowing I can get pregnant. I am baffled at his actions. ... (86 words)

How do I fullfill his sexual needs without feeling uncomfortable? Try it again or don't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have brought other people into the bedroom before. Only 2 times have we had this experience. I was uncomfortable with it but Im trying to please my husband who enjoys it. We have rules, no kissing on the mouth and no sexual intercourse but everything else is ... (147 words)

Please help me understand my true feelings...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no matter what it's like we'll ... (313 words)

What can I do to overcome this shyness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How come when I see girls I wish to go out with, or get to know better, I have trouble talking to them? What can I do to overcome this shyness? ... (32 words)

My sexual and drinking behavior is out of control and is now frightening me. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I am an attractive female with a nice ok regular life who does not have sex very much by choice, but then when I do, I tend to go nuts, and am worried about my behaviour, as I am indulging in sporadic risky, drunken threesomes/gangbangs etc.... I have not been a... (674 words)

Anxiety problems...

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I suffer from anxiety and have done for the majority of my life, I have spent a lot of time worrying! I have been on anti-depressants for a long time of my life and they have never done me much good, and recently after a relationship break up (4 weeks ago) i decided to come off ... (222 words)

Do I go back with the ex or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

- Do i get back with my ex or not? We broke up 6 months ago over him not wanting to spend more time with me .... we have recently met up again he says he as missed me loads and cant stop thinking about me. i don't what to do i do know i still love him, should i give him a anoth... (84 words)

My boyfriend and friend don't get along... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

- hi, I'm kind of stuck between my friend and my bf. I've planned to go out with my friend in 2 weeks time, my problem is that I've recently got back together with my ex and they dont get on with each other, i don't know why. It's very hard as i really want things to work w... (110 words)

He deleted my email without reading it, but I really want to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've got a very close friendship with an old colleague and we often email each other and occasionally speak on the phone and we are quite flirty (and I think he's lovely). We live miles away from each other, so always try to catch up if either of us is near the other. I've... (244 words)

How can I prepare mentally for first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 14, almost 15 and my gf is 13, almost 14 (her bday is 3 days before mine) I havn't been on this site for a while because i havnt had much going on that i couldnt talk to my friends about. But i have recently gotten back togather with me girlfriend from last year. We ended ... (340 words)

My passionate feelings are disappearing for her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age - How would you act? I have a wonderful woman, lovely, sexy, intelligent. She knows how to please me, she has a lot of love in her, she is honest. We are a few years together and have still an intensive sexlife, what we both need. We have a good spiritual connection. I am ... (640 words)

I was terrible to her and now she wants space but I want to make things right!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - i am a guy who is in a relationship, that is six years old, and recently my girlfriend told me that she had enough of me, she wants to break up with me, because of all the abuse and painfall things that i have said to her in the past, and it is actually true that i have abused ... (326 words)

Relationship had to end but she's heartbroken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and me have had to end our relationship today, as I am going back to university, and neither of us want to continue our relationship in long distance circumstances. We both knew this day would come, however, she's really upset and so am I. She's texting me saying ... (168 words)

He only wants to meet with me privately

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for about three months. Hes wonderful and I really love him.The problem am having is he almost never wants to meet me during the day time. We only meet in the evening, mostly in private places or chat in the car. I have suggested we go to some places ... (170 words)

She was hot but now cold and I don't know what happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this girl Louise 23 for 4 dates. She's a barmaid at our local pub and after chatting to her one night after a lock in we got on really well. I saw her the week after and asked if she wanted to go out sometime and she said yes. I called her the next day... (1017 words)

Her past with men I know is ruining us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I work in a small company, with a ration of only eight other men including myself. I met my girlfriend at a work related function, as she herself use to work there until only a few months before I started. I sensed a curious vibe from my male colleagues not long after I beg... (240 words)

Wife had an affair, I'm considering divorce and now she's threatening to harm herself!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

14 September 2009 (M)

age - A few months back my wife confessed to having an affair with a married man after almost three years of stubbornly denying it. She only confessed after my doctor told her it would delay my recovery from a mental breakdown i had over her affair. After she confessed to me i was ... (292 words)

How can I achieve the closure I need from this relationship and move on?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently split from the bf. it was my choice, i didnt feel like i had any other. he was flirting with another girl and got caught out. i just felt it was disrespectful to me. he didnt deny anything was going on, and argued back with me. dont get me wrong im glad i made the... (319 words)

I put so much effort into her because I love her! Should I push through this pain a bit longer?

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14 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with this girl for about 2 years already. I love her to death. I have changed my ways for her to make her happy. My everyday is to make sure she smiles and laughs but at the same time im hurting. I am afraid to talk to her because she just wants to gi... (345 words)

Family have made my relationship hell,. Please help, where do I go from here?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well this is how my story began its kinda long so i hope you can bare with me... (i would appreciate it).. so i'm a 17 yr old about to be 18 in three to four months. i met this guy about 8 months ago and we've been talking ever since. surprisingly we are not together he has a ... (483 words)

Argh, What am I doing to this guy? What should I do here?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I want some opinions on what to do with this situation. I went out with this guy three times. He paid each time, was a total gentleman, didn't overstep one boundary and so on. I for some reason freaked out and told him I wasn't ready for more than friendship. I've been treate... (235 words)

Should I get outside my marriage what my husband won't give?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and am married to a 38 year old truck driver. We have been for 3 years, my husband is not the type that tells me he loves me and he can go without sex with me for weeks. He does not pay any attention to me even after he has been gone for days. I have even ... (224 words)

How do I get over him but keep him as my best friend?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, aunties! I've had feelings for a guy for what's now approaching 3 years. 34 months. We dated for nearly 5 months. I genuinely believe I've loved him for 9 months. (Though I do understand that my perspective is very limited, as I am only in high school. I recognis... (142 words)

What to do when you have given it your all

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 35yr old women who has always wanted nothing but happiness and I am a true beliver of that god answer all questions but you first have to give him your all. I have prayed for a good man and the whole nine yards so I thought the only way to true happiness is to give ... (735 words)

I left my shy, dull wife for a wildcat. I feel like I'm on a rollercoaster!

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14 September 2009 (M)

- Left my wife of 15 years because we grew apart and it seemed like we just wanted different things in life. The thing is, my wife has always been painfully shy. Always hates crowds, or parties or bars. I live for the crowds and the parties and the bars so she's always let me go ... (409 words)

Was he that freaked out that he said this?

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14 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - so i just turned 16 and my bf is 18. we have an amazing relationship tho it is still in the bieginning stages. only about 3.5 months into it. we are together everyday and are extremely affectionate. the problem is, he is a senior and will be leaving for college in less ... (237 words)

How do I go to sleep without thinking of the ex?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had mild insomnia for a long while. Lately, my thoughts before falling asleep are all and only of my ex. We broke up 4 months ago, but he's still my very closest friend. How can I sleep without thinking about him? Thanks! -GG ... (48 words)

He's using his pet name for me with other women too

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My b/f has a sweet little nickname he's always called me by but lately, I've caught him calling other women by my little pet name and it hurts my feelings because I thought it was something special reserved only for me. The first time he did it, I just teased him about it, ... (213 words)

Guy I dated just txt me a month after not talking to me

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, im just really confused about this guy i went out with a few times, just wanted some advice. So this guy ive known since highschool started talking to me on facebook. We talked for a few weeks and he asked me out for dinner. So i went and we had a great night. A... (173 words)

He never says he loves me or does romantic things

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14 September 2009 (F)

- I am so discouraged. B/F of 4 years rarely makes me feel special or does romantic things. I've known him for a number of years before we got involved, so I know he's capable of doing sweet things for the other women he's been involved with, but for me, he does very little and ... (305 words)

Why do I always wait for my FWB to make the first move?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy. Since it began, he's always been the one to call/text me about wanting to hook up, which I hadn't noticed until he pointed it out to me recently. I don't have feelings for him, nor do I see myself ever developing them, but ... (115 words)

I feel stuck with an impossible choice: him or friends!

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14 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a long term relationship with an older man. The age hasn't been an issue until recently. I am in my mid 20s and he is in his mid 40s. We had led a quiet life together which we both liked. I had a bit of social anxiety and was unwell for a while. Now that I am all go... (293 words)

I have not seen this person in 5 years and it is completely crazy that I ever would want to see him again.

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was 21 years old I met someone who has somehow preoccupied my thoughts for the last 8 years. This person is confusing and hateful but has everything someone like me could ever want though I am sure many would say he is out of my league. I have had every corny fantasy one ... (240 words)

Are guys really addicted to checking out other women even if they are with someone?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age - are all guys adicted to really checking girls out when they are with someone else or is that just natural... (20 words)

I do not understand how a man can live with you and still never notice anything you do that makes you look nice.

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14 September 2009 (F)

- I do not understand how a man can live with you and still never notice anything you do that makes you look nice. My b/f never compliments me on how I look. If I get my hair cut. He never says a word. If I come home with a new colour. Nothing. I can spend $150.00 on highlights ... (168 words)

When can I get my normal periods?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i used birth control pills only for 3 months and stopped taking pills 1 month a go and for that month my hubby used condoms.i wanted to start family planning i want to get pregnant as soon as possible. i wanted to know when can i get my normal periods.... (50 words)

Out of the 3 men, who seems more like relationship material?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Which guy seems more like relationship material? SAM- my ex who i was in a relationship with a year ago. i was in love with him. he is gorgeous, smart and shares my similar sarcastic, smarky humour. doesn't know exactly what he wants at times though and has freeked out once... (375 words)

How can I regain her trust especially now that the woman I cheated with is pregnant?

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14 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am asking this question so some of the viewers would reply, I met this girl in a bar one evening after having 4 long island, I ask her to meet me near the bathroom were it was private, she got up and walk back to the bathroom and I waited and started walking back... (450 words)

We flirt when she's not around, and he likes me too!

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. i like my bffs boyfriend. WE always flirt when shes not around. i really like him and he says he likes me to...what should i do!!!!!... (27 words)

I'm in love with him but can't do anything about it!

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I was wondering if I can get some advice on this situation. I am 20 years old and I think I really love this guy who is 26. I have only known him for only six months and I've never been in love before, as all the guys I have been with were jerks. But this one is so ... (365 words)

I want my boyfriend to think I'm a virgin even though I am not

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i need some help. When i was 20 years old i had sex with a guy....that was my first time. Since that was my first time so i bleed. Now im 25 years of age. And for the last 5 years i didn't had sex. I just wanted to know if now il have sex with my boyfriend will i again ... (95 words)

He'll start an argument over anything!

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I got with my boyfriend around 9 months ago, We were absolutly amazing, he treated me like a princess and he really did seem special, he wanted to spend every waken moment with me aswell as i did with him. We have now got to the stage of 9 months and its drasticlly going... (495 words)

Help me! I want more babies!

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I am so worried so please please help me. I found out on friday that I have clamidiya and I will have had it for two years. I had a std check when I found out my ex had been sleeping around and we broke up. I got the all clear. When me and my current partner got ... (188 words)

I love my boyfriend but he doesn't make me happy

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. I love my boyfriend very much and been with him for 3 years, but he doesn't make me happy. He has an attitude on him just now where he seems to be negative with me or moaning at me all the time. I dont feel that he treats me properly and he is never romantic. ... (192 words)

How do I get this girl close enough to ask her out?

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14 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I work at Morrison's supermarket and there have been a few new staff employed recently. There is this girl who is around the same age as me who I've started to like. I sometimes talk to her on my breaks. She is quite shy and placid. I speak to her but I'm more an accaunin... (88 words)

Should I tell my wife I've looked through her emails and know of her plans?

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14 September 2009 (M)

age - I found e mails between my wife and an old boyfriend in which there have been statements of deep love back and forth and in which my wife says to him that he was her first and only love at first sight and they have indicated they plan to meet in the near future. Should I ... (74 words)

I can't cope alone

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - To make a long story short: I regrett my decision on becoming pregnant. It's been four years now and I continue to suffer my regrett. I am a single mother, went through abandonment when my child was six months old...how could he? Went through a divorce, I couldn't support the ... (474 words)

Am I being insane, or is he comparing me to an ideal that I will never be?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I recently got engaged to a man that I love so dearly, and I know that he loves me too..Here's the background: it took us around 7 or 8 months before he actually committed, once he did, we were very serious and he has "never looked back"...but during those 7 or 8 months, I ... (247 words)

I don't want children so why do I feel this way?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys Ok so this is going to sound a lil freaky of me but i don't understand why I feel this way. I've been going out with this guy for 3 months and have been sleeping together for 2 of those, it's a serious relationship. We had a long talk about contraception and deci... (163 words)

How do I get more control in this relationship? Don't tell me to leave him, I love him!

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14 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im 15 about to be 16 and my bf is 18 turning 19 in a few months. i really do love him. we have been through hell and back twice together. but even since the beginning of our relationship we have brought out the absolute worst in each other. im a sophomore and hes a senior. my ... (256 words)

Why is he with her when he says he felt this way about me? Opinions, from men especially, appreciated!

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend tells me that hes never felt the way he feels when he kisses me with anyone else. He has a new girlfriend (he got back with a long term ex he was with before me) and even though he wants to see me sometimes, no signs of wanting to get back together. He tells me ... (147 words)

I feel restless and want to move on!

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14 September 2009 (F)

age - I recently spent sometime away with my b/f to savage our relationship. Out of the 14 days - I saw him for 3. He has been back 7 days in the UK and I have not seen him. He called and I called back a few days later - he was ill. I feel its time to call it a day. I want t... (277 words)

Was this conversation a compliment in disguise?

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14 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - so i was talking to my step brother and his friends and they were saying what they liked in a girl. some of the things they mentioned were pretty eyes (big with nice makeup), pouty lips and always use chapstick because it makes them soft, don't over do the hair (bump its ... (272 words)

Are we too clingy?

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14 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems like we're perfect together. Both of us have mellow personalities and neither of us have tempers so when something bad happens we end up laughing. We never fight, we never get tired of talking or things to talk about, we disagree but never argue, and we never get ... (169 words)