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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you get over the fear of opening up to someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have the generic problem of not opening up to anyone because I'm afraid of being vunerable and/or rejected. This has ruined my friendships in the past, and made relationships with boyfriends really difficult. I am 19 and now in my first serious relationship wit... (302 words)

Am I confusing the signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 16 year old female and over the past 3 years ive had feelings for my female 29 year old pe teacher.The past year has got out of hand, ive grown to love her. Sometimes i wonder if she feels the same way.... Ive been reading a book on body language to try and work out her... (395 words)

Considering a divorce here...what do you all think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Immediate problem: my husband went away to a beer festival over the weekend with 5 other single guys when I specifically told him it made me uncomfortable and I didn't want him to go. The reason why this is a bigger issue than it would be normally: We have already previous... (274 words)

Falling for my long ago ex-history teacher...is this wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is long...Four years ago, I graduated from a small blended middle/high school in Tennessee. I moved to New York for college, and while I was there, I lost a lot of weight. I look a lot more attractive now than I used to. A couple of weeks ago, I came back to ... (413 words)

Will I look like an idiot for writing to the man I'm in love with, "my thoughts are with you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so stupid. I am in love with a man and he recently wrote to me to tell me that he is going through an emotionally difficult time. I responded that "I understand and that my thoughts are with him". After sending it I realised that the phrase "my thoughts are with you" ... (94 words)

I feel like a monster. How do I get her to trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. The beginning of the problem was the junior year of high school. I took *Alexis as my date to the homecoming dance and junior prom because she didn't have one. My friends thought that she liked me but I blew it off because it didn't matter if she did, friends were the only ... (1214 words)

I'll do whatever it takes to win him back. Are you up for the challenge?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I’m gonna tell you the whole story becouse I want help to get him of the other women and I’m gonna fight with everything I’ve got but I can’t do it without your help, well ere goes my husband is the love of my life and when he left it was like I had lost a piece of myself ... (244 words)

Should I finally just give up and realize that we are never going to be more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there is this guy in my life who I've had a crush on (on and off) for about four years. We have both dated other people during these four years yet there has always been something between us that is more than just friends. Some people call it a spark/chemistry ... (312 words)

I really want to go out with her, but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! Basically I Bi (well I have never been with a girl but am seriously interested in them... eg. watches Bi and Les porn)... Anyway, I'm Bi and none of my friends at school no this. But there is one girl I at school I SERIOUSLY like. Everyone knows that she is Bi and ... (147 words)

Still low after his affair. I don't know how to get over it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all really need bit of advice. i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 years we have a beautiful 4 year old child together, we live together and have alot of commitments. thing is, about 18 months ago i found out he was having an affair with a fe... (241 words)

Should I marry him for papers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Thank you for reading my question, I really need help. I'm going on four years with my boyfriend. I love him very very much, but the problem is that I feel pressured to marry him. He doesn't pressure me, he only mentioned this once long time ago, but I can't stop thinking ... (285 words)

What can I do? Before I met him, I was bubbly and laughing, now I'm always sad and crying.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend works with me in a hotel, im a waitress hes a cook.. he works 5 day week i work day in day out.. so theres not lot days that we have togher.. im asking my self why he does this to me .... last week he was dinner shift like me and he took half of it leave.. and ... (466 words)

Can I leave my mom now, one month before I'm 18? She assaulted me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so I turn 18 in ONE month exactly, and I live in Texas. Well my mother knows this is the last month so she's doing everything possible to make it hell. She tells me even when im 18 Ill still do what she says and everything else and im not allowed to have a boyfriend and ... (221 words)

I have no idea what his relationship status is and now just go with the flow!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I met this guy about a year ago at the gym (he works there, I'm a member). After a month, I started crushing on him. It always seemed he liked me too, but he wouldn't make a move (I thought he was a slow mover). Also, he's younger than I am, but he's at least 35-40 (I... (522 words)

He says that sex is chore for him and he'd rather cuddle! How do I bring back the spark?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my bf 23 we've been going out for nearly 16 months now and i thought everything was fine until last week. He said he wanted to talk about us that he feels we've been drifting apart and doesnt feel a connection with me anymore and that he thinks we act more like best ... (238 words)

I feel lost and unwanted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age - I am married and not happy. I am 60 but look 50 my husband hasn't given me any affection for many years. i have worked at my company for 14 years and have meant someone who is married and 6 years younger than me. i have commented adultrey and feel bad for it. he does not ... (177 words)

Do I get out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do I get out? I am a 30 yr old female. With husband for 10 years and married for 4.5 with no children. I am very unhappy with my relationship and with my husband. I have been unhappy for years. And I hate to admit it but I was unhappy before we got married. And I ... (1454 words)

I am concerned about my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a christian and have been talking with someone for 2 years. He wants to have a good time for instance driving out to the country and stay for a night at a resort. I really dont want to do that. Should i give up on him and try to find someone else. Also he was married and ... (97 words)

He was so rude on while texting me but was the opposite in person...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am just confused a bit..if anyone can help. I saw my ex the other day which at first I tried to avoid because I am still too hurt about our break-up and upset that he ignored my IMs and text messages and even my last email. I really feel he doesn't love me anymore so I ... (315 words)

I discovered he is married!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - He told me he was divorced. I just found his myspace page. And his wife's myspace page. both updated within the past week. both listed as married. i am sick and angry. really angry. i suspected. do i confront him? i haven't heard from him in 2 weeks. i had asked h... (64 words)

How am I supposed to tell him I only want to be his friend without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy who i met a few days ago when his mom brought him around my house.I agreed to talk to him as a friend only.but his mom wanted to match make us.i made sure that i was only giving out friend signals to him but then i overherd him asking someone if they thought ... (326 words)

Since he lost his job, he's changed: alcohol, drugs, lying to me, avoiding me... should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a man who in the past has been a very thoughtful, kind and decent person. He lost his job three months ago and since then, has been drinking heavily and taking narcotics to "numb the pain". He is exceptionally depressed and worried about losing everything - his ... (183 words)

She doesn't always take the pill at the same time. Can I ejactulate inside her??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question about birth control. My girlfriend was on the pill (Ortho Tri Cyclen Low) for about 4 years. She took a 6 month break and has been back on it for about 10 months now. She takes it each morning when she gets up, but that time varies. Usually its around 7am ... (277 words)

So he's been uncontactable for 2 weeks, and now our mutual friends are ignoring me! I don't need this drama!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Please can I have some advice. Cheers guys! I have a guy I have been in love with for many years, in fact 10 (oh my goodness, has it been that long) we met, fell in love, usual not go smoothly stuff happened from outside influences, he ended up getting married, I fo... (385 words)

How can I see the positive in all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, So here is my story, I am feeling really really low, I don’t know where to start a massive combination of things. Firstly I hate my job, I have been here 2 years almost and am treated with no respect. I am 30 and treated like a teenage work experience girl. I ... (843 words)

What can I do about my vaginal rash? It's been almost two months and won't budge.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I went overseas in July of this year and ever since then I have had this consistently annoying rash around the entrance to my vagina. That's almost two months now! It started when I got my period a few days after arriving back home and it was the WORST and heaviest period ... (273 words)

How long does sperm live outside the male body?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I want to have a baby, She is the dominant one in the relationship, however she wants to have the baby. She also does not want to have sex to get pregnant, so we are trying to come up with other ways to get her pregnant. I want to know how long sperm can ... (77 words)

Are 2 fingers enough to break a hymen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. i'm very confused about something. Last night i slept next to a guy i recently met and i let him finger me however i didnt bleed. I hav never had sex before. Am i still a virgin? are two fingers enough to break the hyman? ... (47 words)

Is this relationship between cousins wrong and how do I tell my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I know this may sound weird but I'm in a relationship with my second cousin twice removed. We only met recently and had no interaction as children and our families aren't very close. I really like him and he likes me. He's told his family about us and there fine about it but ... (76 words)

How do we stop from breaking up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years 3 months ago....but i want to get back with him....we have started meeting as friends and both said things need to change etc but how do i go about this so we dont end up breaking up again in the future?... (50 words)

My feelings have changed for her without me wanting them to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I currently for the past 4 1/2 months have been questioning myself to death about my relationship. A year and a half ago I was close to getting married to a girl I had dated for 3 1/2 years in and out fo college and she dumped me out of nowhere. I bounced back real quick and ... (231 words)

He wants to change my status of virgin to non-virgin

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and there is is boy that i really like. we've been going out for about 3weeks and 1night we were talking on the phone and he said,"are you a virgin?" so i said "yes" and then he said "do you want me to change that?" i didnt say anything back bacause i was too shocked. i ... (84 words)

How do I tell her that I'm interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl online,and we've been talking to each other.then one day she asked me if i had a girl friend,i said no.then i askedg if she had too,she said no.she said she has had in da past like 10 but they where all jerks,she suddenly logged out.i tried to msg her back but ... (75 words)

I had feelings for another woman but it was disturbing my family

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18 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im not gay or bi i fell in love with another women we got really close but we would only meet each other at a park. she never told me that she was gay but her body lauguage told me she like me.we got close and she knew i was in a abusive relashionship but split up with him . i ... (307 words)

Difference between just sex and a real relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do the lines blur? If you are having just sex relationship and both sides are happy with it, really is just that. Meet up, have sex, then leave, very little talking. You move in the same circles see each other around at work. It's quite exciting, finding places to have ... (524 words)

Help! my baby's dad could be a rapist!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dearcupids, i really dont know who to go to now! im hoping someone will have a bit of advice, im 17 and i met this great guy when i was 14 and i instantly fell for him, i didt think he was interesting so i guess it was a secret crush i had on him, for about a year, we ended up ... (462 words)

Her fancy dress nights from the past are getting me down.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful girl and have been for almost a year. However I have an issue. I can't get over the fact that when she was single she used to love dressing up on fancy dress nights and Halloween etc. Obviously in a sexy way (what is... (408 words)

Is this selfish of her or am I overeacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think it's selfish of my best friend to buy a new dress to go out clubbing for my birthday (On Saturday) when she knows very well I'm only going to be wearing black pants and a nice top? I DON'T wear dresses, period. She knows that. OH she knows it very well! Yet she has ... (298 words)

Do all guys go off a girl when they've been together for a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do all guys go off a girl when they've been together for a while, like a year? I know you have to work at relationships but it just seems that my boyfriend has more fun playing games n having a laugh with his online friends that he rarely thinks about doing anything with me. He ... (221 words)

My girlfriend had sex with someone else more than a week after our break up. We're back together, is she more likely to cheat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i were dating for a year and i broke up with her on our one year anniversary due to constant fighting and other bullshit. (nothing big though) after i realized that i shouldnt have been so quick to let her go, i quickly asked her to forgive me and work it out. ... (105 words)

After 2 years he told me he was still in love with his ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I are living together and have been for one year. Prior to this we had broken up for about 2 months, in this time he told me he was still in love with his ex. I was so gutted!! We had been together for two years and so happy and when he dropped this on me... I was ... (158 words)

I want to break up, but I can't afford to pay the bills alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi thanks for reading! I can't figure out for the life of me what I can do to resolve this situation. I am living with my boyfriend and we have been togther for a while, but it is not so great anymore, and I am not happy. At first I thought I was just worrying, but every da... (206 words)

Feeling lonely... is my boyfriend going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I dont know whether im being pathetic but this is just the way i feel. I'll start by telling you how old me n my partner are as i feel at this age i shouldnt be having these problems. im 23 and partner 24 and we av bin togetheer for 2 years well ....basically i am ... (556 words)

Help me get over her please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been hanging around this amazing woman for about 2 years now, about 4 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend and I told her a few days ago that i had a crush on her and really liked her, but she had an EWWWWW look on her face and said she just sees me as a friend ... (230 words)

What steps can I take to show her that I love her, without overwhelming her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, So my girlfriend of two years and I broke up a few months ago, late June. She immediately started seeing a guy that had asked her out when we were dating. I tried hard to get her to talk to me, but things came up like my mother feeling it was her responsibility to ensur... (572 words)

I love him but I want to leave him. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I've been very upset recently. I'm in my mid 30's,married with 2 kids. I have extra marital affair for a year now with a married man who was once my ex-boyfriend during my school days. I was touched by his approached that I fell in love with him again. During ... (311 words)

She doesn't understand my problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am curently in a relationship with my bestfriend since I was born. The thing is, is that I have type 2 Bipolar Disorder and I feel like she doesn't understand me at all. I've explained what it was to her, I told her how it makes me feel but it just seems like she writes it ... (91 words)

I abused her and now I think she's cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupis to ladies me and my girlfriend we have problems,and its all because of me, i have treated her badly for the past two years, so bad, and we both responsible for our problems,that it hurts me now, we spoke about it, and she told me that she needs some time to hea... (267 words)

I'm in love with my brother's g/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 21, my brother is 23 an his gf is 23. They have been together for almost 2 years now. We have always been close friends, she is so caring, nuturing, an She is so beautiful, smart, sweet and overal a very nice person. He treats her like shit, he cheats on her behind her back, ... (165 words)

I've fallen for two older women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i've had feelings for a 39 year old woman for 2yrs now. i realized it after she had gotten divorced but she also has a 10yr old daughter. but she's not the only older ... (277 words)

Can we have sex without him knowing I'm a virgin? Will it hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. My BF who I love dearly is experienced (he`s had three other partners, one of which was a virgin) and I`m a virgin. Well... a virgin as far as never had a MAN penetrate me. I`ve participated in oral sex before and I also masturbate often. I lied to my BF though and told him ... (179 words)

I need some advice on how to get to know her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well to start off..i know this girl that i really like before..she was my batchmate from highschool and at the same level until graduating to 2007 but we never really had any communication i mean were not even classmates due to the fact that our school divides boys and girls ... (239 words)

He says he's bored with me and that I'm unattractive. Should I still try?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little more than two years now and we have been living together close to two years. Just a couple of weeks ago he had been coming home late at night around 4 in the moring every night. He says he is with his friends and I trust him. He ... (368 words)

Common sense is telling me to move on. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a very loving, caring relationship with a guy for almost two years. At the end of July he had to move to Pennsylvania for grad school, and I stayed here in Hawaii to finish my undergrad degree. He will be there for the next year and a half, and I have to be in Hawaii ... (252 words)

Can we salvage what's left of our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My friend and I have been drifting apart since last year. It started with her leaving me for a new group of friends, accusing me of being jealous of her having new friends, but in the end she would apologize. Even though she did, she still acted like she didn't want to be ... (319 words)

Is it your opinion that this could be rape?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok i know sum one that is 13 and she has a boyfriend that is 18 and they been going out for a while and she lost her virginity too him and they both wanted it and some of her friends says thats rape i don't think its rape if the too people that is together and agreed together ... (84 words)

I feel like using condoms is making my sex life go down the drain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now, and the problem is, whenever we have sexual intercourse, (we use condoms) I tend to dry up so easily. I really love him and want him very much, although I will admit we do not do any foreplay or oral before. We just ... (90 words)

Do I meet him and risk feeling broken all over again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Please, I need fast responses. I feel so sick about this, I cant focus on anything else. Quick summary, I was with my ex for almost two years, my first everything, only guy i ever dated. Same went for him. Everything was fine, we never fought and when we did we always made up.... (401 words)

Should I have another baby by a sperm donor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I have a serious question. I am twenty years old and I have a two year old daughter. Her father and I are not together and have not been for a loooong time. He has not cared to see her up until now and keeps threatening to get custody of her. I know for a fact ... (472 words)

I'm a virgin getting married with questions! Like, why do people call sex "lovemaking"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just had a few questions about sex. I'm getting married in a couple weeks... and I kinda feel embarrassed admitting this but... I'm a virgin. :/ I would just like some tips and stuff.. I wouldn't dare ask my mom these questions because she says that your not suppose ... (120 words)

Follow-up: Do you think she's really into me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey! Just after a second opinion please following this... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-she-didnt-say-im-meeting-my-boyfriend.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-met-last-week-and-now-suddenly-shes.html Basically following this she has remained sing... (316 words)

Is there any way I can show him how his gift makes me feel worthless and not cared for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years and my first birthday we went skydiving, but I paid for myself. He also invited his friends and some guys I didn't know along with us. For my second birthday he got me nothing at all, and now this year I asked him weeks ... (357 words)

Do confident people get into relationships if they know they won't result in marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do people with healthy, high self esteem get into exclusive relationships if they know the other person won't ever marry them?... (21 words)

I love her and intend on marrying her, but I keep thinking that we'll end up with different people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, Am I being paranoid, my intuition or gut feeling...my girlfriend love each other a lot and intend to get married one day, but I had this image the other day that we will end up with different people. Our parents no about us and we have no problems. But those images are... (97 words)

Am I crazy? Or is he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Answers from guys will be appreciated. I met a guy who was separated from his wife, but still living in the same house as they got along pretty well and saw no reason to rock the financial boat by running separate households. We saw each other for about 10 months, but when his... (213 words)

How can I put myself first after breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up after a ten month relationship. He doesn't live in my hometown anymore, so that makes it a little easier. I am trying hard to concentrate on my school work this year, because I am repeating my freshman year again. But in class I take a walk down... (162 words)

I really want a baby with the person I'm with now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been thinking lately, and I really want a baby with the person im with now, and he wants one as well. Well a few days ago I went to the rr and noticed a few specks of blood so I put a pad on and 2 specks came out all day. [I know TMI im sorry] Well we had sex ... (233 words)

I'm too young to be in such a mess! Should I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here is my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we already live together (mistake #1) I have grown to be so unhappy but feel stuck in the relationship because not only do we live together but we also work together. I am 21 years old and I go to school ... (299 words)

What do I do about a drunk boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

18 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What do I do about drunk boyfriend? My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years and we have one child who is three. I recentley broke up with him because his drinking has become a problem. I allowed him to come back because it hurt me to see him hurting and I believe ... (310 words)

Should I stay on this committee or go? My ex is causing me problems.

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18 September 2009 (F)

- Hoping people can help. I am on a board of directors. I am the only woman and my ex is on there. He was the one who ended it and wanted no contact but it seems to me he picks his words to wound. He will often repeat back expressions I have used and in passing mention his ... (207 words)

Don't you think he should show me if he wants to be with me?

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18 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I' m Artemis, and I'm gay. I ended my relationship with my boyfriend a while ago and I can't move on, I'm desperate because this whole situation is affecting every single aspect of my life, 3 weeks ago I saw him, we said hi and all that, we went for a walk, we talked and ... (208 words)

Should I see a doctor?

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18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey im asking u guys for an answer cause i want to know if what i expeirenced the other night is what everbody is telling me i did. the other night i was at home now b4 i say anything else let me just say i have a very stressful life im a single mother of twin boys and they are ... (275 words)

He made a horrible mistake. How do I trust him again?

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18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've asked several times about boyfriends cheating while intoxicated, and also gave the story about how my boyfriend cheated and how he's worked to regain trust. Once again I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your amazing advice. Now I need advice for myself..... (1367 words)

How do I show him he needs to work for our relationship?

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18 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - WHAT CAN I DO BOUT THIS**LONG ONE**? I'm in a long distance relationship with a really nice dude. When we are face to face we get along extremelly well.Now that we're apart from each other we communicate through IM,email,text,calls. A few weeks ago I got upset becuz we f... (682 words)

Why is love so unfair for some people?

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18 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I told this girl how I felt before summer, hoping to spend time with her and to get to know her a little better; I asked if it would be okay to pursue her; but of course... of all things, she doesn't feel the same way. I was surprised and have been miserable since. Still ... (367 words)

How should I phrase this letter?

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18 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Nearly 2 years ago my relationship with my parents rapidly deteriorated because they would get drunk and out of control, and then constantly abuse and threaten me and my fiancée. I was thrown out of my home by my mother, who is an alcoholic and, i have realized, is totally ... (369 words)

He wasn't the person I thought he was!

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18 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I have found many questions similar to mine... but there are a few differences and because I am analytical I have to ask. My boyfriend and I broke up because we had been fighting a lot and we had both gone through a lot with our jobs and lives at the time. Like three... (620 words)