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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Making a move on the math teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im a male and i like my male math teacher when he is teaching i fantsise about him and he is so hot. i dont know if he is gay or straight but if he is gay i want to make our relationship go further. i have an A in his class and we talk on facebook and he has sent me pics of him ... (101 words)

I think I need an intervention to leave him. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

23 September 2009 (?) age 51-59 - My boyfriend moved into my house almost four years ago. He has a verified history of keeping outside "relationships" with other women. Last June I caught him in a heated romance with a co-worker, Stacy which he denied, but then suddenly told me he'll never talk to he... (381 words)

How do I stop worrying about him breaking my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm completely head over heels inlove with this guy, we have only been dating for 4 months(I know its not that long of a time) but I can't help how I feel about him. Not to long ago he broke up with me :/ it devastaded me! But then he apologized and said he missed me ... (102 words)

How can I let my friend know that I care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A very good male of friend of mine emailed today and really opened up about how he was feeling miserable (he didn't get a job that he really wanted) and that he is finding it difficult to cheer up. I was really upset when I read his email because I really care for him and hate ... (146 words)

Am I doing something wrong or does he only like me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I get sad If I don't see my guy friend. Me and him have been friends since last year and I thought he liked me! The problem is when its just him and me on the bus we talk a lot and I like that but if his cousin grace, my best friend, sits next to me on the bus he doesn't talk ... (243 words)

Should I turn down my ex by being rude, or do I give him a straight answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there any way I can turn down my ex without being rude and hurting his ego too much? Here's the background. I have realized now he has played with my feelings ever since he broke up with me some 6 months ago after I found out he cheated. I admit I am a fool as a month ... (406 words)

Is it ok to have a passionate kiss on a first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it ok to kiss a guy on the mouth the first date or will he think I'm a whore ? Thanks for any input you can give I have an upcoming date with this guy I have only met once and he is really cute. So naturally I want to kiss him lol ! ... (63 words)

Why does he need to text other women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my Hubby for 5 years, I met him when he was married but he left his wife, before the relationship became sexual.. He is everything a women could want and we have the best time and life together, we have now Bern blessed with a baby girl, the trouble us he ... (228 words)

What else can I do to get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in need of some advice.. i have been seeing this guy around town, well, he works for the law, if u like and i had a complaint, and he and his colleague delt with it, this was about 8 months ago. however, since then i have seen him around town, on the occasions that i have ... (149 words)

How can I let my teacher know he's actually been a great help to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basically, whenever i'm writing something this teacher can be annoying as hell with his picky-ness and/ or advises me to rethink my entire concept. it can be extremely painful (emotionally and mentally) but it's made me write some of my best stuff. i'd love to let him know ... (68 words)

Obsessed with checking up on her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I've been broken up with my last girlfriend for about a month now. We had a relationship for somehwhat more than a year. Her reason to break up with me was because I was being immature, although im 18 and starting my first year as a psychology student at ... (246 words)

Help! How do I overcome those petty things...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate being alone around holidays.. ive never really been with a bf or had a bf around holidays and im curious to know what that feels like to share those days with someone special... i am very shy at times.. but i can also speak out when i need to... i dont mind meeting new ... (116 words)

That lie really hurt me and my self esteem what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My very first boyfriend... from high school broke up with me after two months... he lied about me around school nothing to serious... then we played games back and forth for a whole year...we then graduated but kept in contact.. we decided to meet up one day. but only to hang ... (167 words)

Should I give him oral even if I'm scared?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend likes me to do oral but I'm scared to. All his ex girlfriends gave him oral. He expects me to give him oral to. I tried it once but stopped. We really love each other and I am scared that if I do not do it he will leave me or cheat on me. Should I do it or not? ... (66 words)

I stuck between my b/f and this new guy at college ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right, so i started college at the beginning of september and ive met loads of nice new people. Including this one boy, he is in my class and he makes me laugh so much, and in the last two weeks of knowing him ive become completely attracted to him. We have so much in common, ... (233 words)

What exactly do I do when I play with his penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for not more than a year. I love him dearly and I want to satisfy his every need. He says I do but he always get horny on his own. He does most of the foreplay and I feel bad because I want to play with his penis but dont know how. Help!... (60 words)

I can't handle my deadbeat husband.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im married for 8yrs.me n hubby has 3 kids.until lst yr my husband decided he had enough of his job and quit.we have a sideline business that he then decided to do full time from home.the business is not doin that well n i decided to find a job.he provides for our houses bond.i ... (227 words)

No no to doggie style!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a teenager and have been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months. We recently started having sex (he isn't my first). And every time we do it, he seems to be wanting doggy style. I find it excruciatingly painful and we've talked about it several times but he insists we do it ... (105 words)

Help I'm lost and confused... torn in between what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help.. I'm love with a guy that has a history of cheating he cheated on his last girlfriend with his ex and and cheated on her with a mutual friend from before... Im wondering am i just another pawn in his belt buckle i am a virgin he knows that and we have never really b... (204 words)

Help me increase my libido!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I get pain during intercourse and I find myself being less interested in having sex anym ore, I even think I have no libido, what to do?? ... (28 words)

He doesn't want to go out without me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been happily engaged to my fiancee for 3 years now. Both of us previously being married, neither one of us are in a rush. We have too much on our plate, children, education, career, aging parents right now to deal with. Although, he is definitely ready today if I said ... (430 words)

My husband doesn't LIKE me - What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - History: Married 4 years, 2 children ages 2 and 6 months, own house, I'm a stay at home mom, he has a good job with promising promotion capabilities, we are financially stable but not rich :) Problem: He is a very loyal person who believes that once you pick your poison, tha... (408 words)

It's a love story... or is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi again i know i'm not actually 40 i'm 13 i think they got it wrong and soz for length had a lot to explain Right, in my last post i said about being shy about hugging my bf well now i've done it there's more problems.so, i was at cooking class with my friend making la... (185 words)

Help!!! How do I get over my first love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i just dont know what to do... last night i found out that my ex bf and this other girl have been together for a year... this kills me :( me and him havent even been apart for a year yet, it has only been 5-6 months... he has lied to me continuously :( i couldnt believe it ... (811 words)

Was he just toying with my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well,i liked a boy a lot for two years.he was my first love. I was sure he liked me as well and everybody thought the same. he was always after me, showed all the possible signs that he was into me, but as time passed by he never really asked me out, so i moved on and now ... (277 words)

He broke up with me, now he wants a second chance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a major dilemma. I was dating a guy for two years. After a year of dating, I moved to his city and we got a place together, where we lived for a year. We had discussed marriage, kids, etc. Well back in December his mother suffered a stroke and he left to take care of ... (388 words)

How could he do this to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Basically my Ex broke up with me this month. It was because I'm off to uni, he told me he can't commit to a relationship or can't be in one. So fine, I was gutted but that's what he wants, right? Slowly getting over him, decided to have a look round on Facebook and wha... (172 words)

Should I ask my son to live separately on his own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age - My son recently got married. He is staying at our place with his wife. Time to time we catch them play kissing games, or making out openly in the living room and everywhere in the house, although they would keep apologizing if they get caught. As his bedroom is just beside ... (86 words)

I'm worried I'll never find someone who wants to be with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I split up with the love of my life 2 and half years ago. I'm now 22, nearly 23 and that was probably the hardedt thing in my life. We were only together a year and a half but he was my first love and I thought we would be together for ever. I've been single eve... (182 words)

Masturbation concerns.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently realised that when my penis is erect, it bends slightly to the right, it only bends slightly and i've assumed that it's been caused by masturbation. Is this normal?... (31 words)

He still wants to be best friends, but won't explain why he broke up with me. I still love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm just looking for a bit of advice really. My boyfriend of a year broke up with me recently giving me no reasons why. He said that I was still the most amazing girl he has ever met and there is no one else he is interested in, and he said that he didn't know why ... (903 words)

Will she come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am an 18 year old that has jus gotten out of a great relationship. the problem was my 16 year old girlfriend was not ready for the responsibility of being serious. i understood her point of view( she has been really closed in her whole life and wants to "just have fun"), ... (151 words)

Creepy ex using our daughter to get to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a question regarding visitation. I have full legal and sole custody of my daughter due to the fact that he never showed up for the court dates. Child support is set up, but he has not paid a dime and he owes about 1,000 dollars. He is set up only to pay 70.00 a month ... (619 words)

I just can't get over the father of my child!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant stop obsessing over my ex. i think about him every minute of the day alls i want to to is chat to him every second of the day.i miss him so much. we had a rough break-up and he says the reason he doesn't want to get back together is because of what happened in the past... (182 words)

I don't understand what she meant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been friends with a girl for quite some time and hoping to get serious. I asked her as a joke how come you don't have a boyfriend and she replies i don't know you well enough to answer that. how am i supposed to understand this?... (48 words)

She had conditions before she'll give me a bj

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - hi my girlfriend doesn't give me a blow job if i ask her she tells me first you lick my pussy and anal and suck my breast then i will do for you but i feel awkward to do to her . i really care about her . is it okay to do things what she asked .i think she neglects because... (103 words)

Should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently ran into a guy that a year ago I had a relationship with for about 6 months and I thought we could become more. We spent 4 days out of 7 together usually on a weekly basis and he called me everyday. He was married for 6 years and just got divorced when i met him. He ... (676 words)

First time sex worries!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had sex for the first time and we used a condom, but it slipped for a second and we both decided to put it back on the right way of course, he didnt ejaculate and we didnt do much intercourse action, but i was just wondering about it and getting a bit worried bout being ... (187 words)

My girlfriend teases me about how small my penis is!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

23 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - my penis doenst erect properly it is only 4 inches while erecting my gf makes fun that it is very small in parties i cant speak out all make fun of me please give suggestion one of her friends told me why dont you use Viagra i am helpless ... (49 words)

Will my breasts be a turn-off for all men or is it just bad luck that I'm with a guy who doesn't like them!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had previously asked a question regarding the fact that my breasts have started sagging as a result of weight loss and my boyfriend hates them and wants me to have surgery. I want to know if d cup but saggy breasts will be a turn off for all men or is it just my bad luck tha... (65 words)

I've really fallen for him but all he focuses on is the distance between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I dunno how to start this or what to say tbh. I know this might sound stupid, but oh well. There is this guy i've spoke to for ages now, must be 2 years at least maybe longer or shorter..but anyway he is the nicest guy i've ever met and is really caring. He puts himself ... (148 words)

I'm still a virgin but could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14. Still a virgin. Problem is me and my boyfriend of 7 months now well we've been messing around. And, i know of cases where a girl can be pregnant yet still a virgin. I know how that happens. What im worried about is i should of had my period around 2 days ago, yet i ... (70 words)

Do I really love him or is it just love you feel for a family member?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Ok my problem sounds small but its pretty big. id like all the help i can get. So i was talking with my Boyfriend the other month because my father made me so paranoied by saying we are related, so my boyfriend went and spoke to his mother she looked up in the famil... (188 words)

She said she wants 3 days to decide about the future of our relationship.....what does this look like from an outsider's perspective?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello i have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now and recently we seem to have drifted apart a bit i spoke to her about this last night because it has been an on going thing now for a while. Just to give you a bit of back ground we've been on holidays abroad together... (384 words)

Help! Where do I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I have known this guy for 18 months, we have been best friends and lovers. After 9 months he emigrated to Australia, and though I thought that was it he's come back once and I've visited him once, things have blossomed into true love. Long story short, I know desperat... (131 words)

Emotional abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i desperately need some advice, i have been with my partner for over 3 years now and then i found out that before i met him he used to download illegal porn and sell for money, as he said he needed the money. I found out that he lied on a few occasions about staying at ... (547 words)

How do I break up with him without totally crushing his heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been with my boyfriend now for just over 2 years and it's been a good relationship. He's 25 and I'm 22 and we live together. The problem is that I love him but I'm no longer in love with him. I've been thinking for the last 5 or six months about how I don't want to be ... (327 words)

She's used to the single life. I'm not sure she would be faithful if we started something. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl this week. I've been coming over to hers, we've been having dinner together and lot of sex. However, having spoken to her about the concept of starting a relationship, she's hesitant. She has trust issues, as she's had a number of guys just use her for sex, and who ... (185 words)

I need opinions from others. What's he playing at?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi This is a long story so hear goes... Well there was this guy I met at a club. He saved me from another guy who was trying to basically attack me. We hung out for the night swapped numbers. He contacted me we would talk on the phone for hours, send texts all that kind of... (434 words)

The girl I'm seeing has a very high sex drive! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I'm currently seeing has a very high sex drive. Yesterday, we had sex four times, and if she had gotten her way, we would have had it even more than that! Obviously I can't complain too much, as there have been times in my life where I have been without sex for long ... (114 words)

How can I pluck up the courage and talk to him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy at church but I've never had the confidence to chat to him before, but recently at a friends suprise birthday party he started talking to me. We spoke for a long time and he was making a lot of eye contact with me but i was so nervous that i could never ... (296 words)

I keep running back to my ex when I get lonely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, im 17 years old and I'd really appreciate some advice. I was with my boyfriend for a year and seven months, but at the start of the summer we hit a rough patch, where i fell for someone else and felt myself drifting away from him (I had never experienced feelings... (874 words)

How can somebody live a lie forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man who has been happily married for 12 years. I recently met a married woman who has been with her partner for the same amount of time. We started as friends but the relationship quickly grew into love. Just love, not sex. We both feel as if we have found... (291 words)

Do other men experience this same sensation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm gay and my question is really for other gay men: Whenever I'm kissing or touching my partner, along with the usual signs of arousal, my butthole starts to tingle and even sweats at times(sorry if this is a bit crude) like its longing for him to enter me or physically ... (96 words)

How can I be there for him without making a bad situation worse?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age - How Do I save My Best Mate? As a single male I'm concerned for my male married friend and Neighbor.We have known each other for two years, he knocked on my door one day with a petition to sign. Since then we have become good friends we have the odd beer together and enjoy ... (426 words)

We used a condom but I am late, and worried!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband have been having intercourse and only used a condom for protection. My period is now 5 days late. And its never late unless i'm pregnant. I am tired, i have sore boobs, and a few other pregnancy symptoms i remember from previous pregnancies. But i keep having ... (93 words)

Am I reading this all wrong or does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, What would you think if a guy you liked told you this... 1. That he really, really liked me a lot. 2. That not many people 'get' him, but I do. 3. That he feels he can talk to me about anything. 4. Flirts, and accidentally drops in sexual hints. 5. Calls, texts and e... (98 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend, it was a huge mistake. I don't know whether to tell

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year now. 2 months ago she left to go overseas on exchange but I'm going to see her in 2 months and stay with her for 3months. I love her enormously and we've had an amazing relationship. 2 weeks ago, I was drunk and ston... (346 words)

A little help for the guy stuck in the friend zone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy that always has girl-friends but never in a relationship I'm starting to believe I'm every girls straight gay friend you know. I can talk to a girl for weeks or months and go slow find out more about them and try to show them that I'm interested but I want to make ... (205 words)

Why do I keep pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I have been with my bf for almost 2 years and I keep pushing him away. We have a very loving relationship and life would be perfect if I didn't keep getting paeranoid that he was going to dump me! I struggle not to ask if we're ok all the time and when I can't resist a... (189 words)

I want to be friends with a married man but he has feelings for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, This problem is to do with a guy who previously ran a community music group in my area. We get along really well, he's married. I wasn't really interested in a romantic relationship at all, he's just cool and we like hanging. I should mention I'm 19, and he's 30 ... (348 words)

How can I deal with this situation without seeming clingy and insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I usually spend every night together and most of the day. This just works well for us. It's been going on for 8 months now and we haven't gotten tired of it. We both agree that we have something wonderful and special and are deeply in love. It's honestly one ... (355 words)

My boyfriend tells me that I'm ugly and I look anorexic with no boobs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend tells me that im ugly have no boobs and that im starting to look like im anorexic. i have already tried splitting up with him that lasted about 6 months and now i been with him over 2 years all together and i cant get over him. Please help i really dont know what ... (108 words)

The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes when he feels, in the middle of ... (114 words)

My friend is living a different life and I am concerned about her family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, this post is about my friend/co worker. I have been very close to her and share most of the fun she is into. She is younger than me and is very beautiful, most men who see her would always second glance at her. She is almost perfect. And life is doing great with her. ... (536 words)

What are the legal limits? Our ages are 20 and 15. Can we kiss? Anything further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old guy, interested in a 15 year old girl. We've been talking online a lot for the last few months, and seen each other a few times. As a normal person, her mum likes me, but when it comes to seeing her daughter, she's against it. If we have a relationship, se... (88 words)

I was born with eczema, how to get over my embarassment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Im 14. I have a weird problem. I was born with eczema so ill have it all my life because in most cases it goes by the age of 7, my grandfather has it too. i dont like showing my legs because im embarassed by it because its on my arms and legs, my arms it doesnt come out... (126 words)

How can I get over my abusive ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I cannot get over my ex and its been more than a year. The last time I ever saw him him beat me including a punch in the face. I was with him for 3 years and so deeply in love. I feel like such a pathetic loser for loving someone that treated me so badly. He also cheated on ... (681 words)

I love him, how do I prove and show to him that I am terribly sorry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend have been off and on for about a year now. we just start "talking" again. Pretty much dating, and i mess everything up and flirt with one of his bestfriends. Which is one of my ex's too. I really do love this guy..and he loves me enough to give me one... (134 words)

Is it safe for a man to ejaculate inside the woman's anus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - is it safe for a man to cum inside the womens anus? does it cause colon problems?... (17 words)

Should she tell, will police notify people at work anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

23 September 2009 (F)

age - Help, my daughter has was caught using work mobile whilst driving. Police issued immediate fine and points to licence. She is traumatised as her work mobile phone policy states that moibile phones should not be used whilst driving, and breach of these rules will be subject ... (68 words)

I don’t know whose right or if we’re both right or anything about this.

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven’t talked to my boyfriend in a day and a half because I left my phone home so I won’t constantly look at it wishing he would call more. He’s been calling me a lot and I call him back when I get home which is pretty late because of classes. So tonight, we finally talk and ... (611 words)

Should I leave the relationship or stay unhappy?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am forty years old and have been in a relationship with my partner for five years. We have a three year old daughter together. For the last two years we have only had sex twice, and now our daughter remains sleeping in our bed, while I choose to sleep on the lounge, this has ... (152 words)

Will a puppy heal my loneliness?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.. umm I have a question. Im 18 years old, i just started college and im about to go away to school next semester. i met this boy in school, and we got together. i fell in love with him and as my first love, i lost my virginity to him. when i was with my ex, we talked about ... (292 words)

Am I just over sexed or is sex just over rated?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 21, multiracial, mostly black female and my fiance is 31yrs white male we been together going on 3 and a half years and im frusrated because i just want him to have sex with me am i just a hornball because im young or is he just not into my sex its so confusing because ... (166 words)

We fight all the time and there's abusive language...help!

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship for the past four yeras and the guy does mean a lot to me.Though he loves me a lot,there's no proper understanding between us and every other day there's a fight and he can get really angry and use an abusive language.It's been going for the past ... (124 words)

I crave being wanted but then feel I don't deserve it! How do I fix this?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't exactly a relationship question, although I'm quite sure my relationship (or lack thereof) with my father affects my relationships with men. I've hardly had any contact with my dad for my whole life. He hasn't wanted much to do with me and I think he finds it diff... (308 words)

I'm worried about someone bringing a gun to school? I don't want anyone to get hurt!

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23 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My friend might get into a fight tomarrrow.I don't want anything bad to happen. I am worried because the guy my friend might fight might bring a gun to school and I don't want anyone to get hurt.... (38 words)

Does this sound like depression or a medical issue?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship question, but here goes. Lately I have been feeling feelings of depression, my mind goes blank, and it's difficult for me to think about certain things, as in my mind has been working slower lately, I zone out sometimes, and I have problems with ... (253 words)

Can I get him to like me back?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So last year I really liked this guy and he liked me and we had a "thing" but it didnt work out and he ended up dating this other girl. Now me and him are both seniors in high school and his girlfriend graduated last year and they are technically not dating anymore but they ... (119 words)

Can someone help dissuade me from thinking about him anymore?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, last semester I dated a guy for about 3 months, with a small break in the middle where he dumped me then decided to get back together just 2-3 weeks later. I liked him a lot and I know he liked me as well but our summer breaks from university are rather long, and since we ... (283 words)

Single mom still in love: I need my family complete again!

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help! I am 24 and am madly in love with my ex. He is 31,we were together for 2 1/2 years.. we also have a daughter together, she's 2. Ok so here is my problem, like I mentioned I am so in love with him! We have been broken up for a little over a month now. He still calls ... (290 words)

I enjoy masturbation more than sex...is this normal?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive just started having regular sex with my boyfriend of 2 years (ive not been old enough for long) and i seem to find i masterbation more than sex....is this normal and will it change... (35 words)

Should I leave her to experience and learn for herself?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have a good friend and she started going out with this guy about 3 months ago who is an absolute arsehole.. he actually reminds me a lot of my exboyfriend whom i was with for 3 years which only ended in heartbreak... its so hard seeing her put herself in the same situation ... (407 words)

It's been 43 years, I want to contact and comfort an old gf, but I don't want to hurt my wife

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23 September 2009 (M)

age - I was friends with a girl and we even dated off on over a two year period. We just drifted apart. I married and realized I was still in love with my old girlfriend. I tried to keep in touch with old friend but she refused to have any kind of relationship with me because I was ... (331 words)

What are the dating expectations in Australia?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked about this yesterday and got the interesting answer that it varies significantly between countries... so now I'm wondering what the typical dating expectations are in Australia? I'm particularly wondering about this situation: you've been dating someone for say a few ... (169 words)

I love him but ever since our encounter he's been with other girls sexually!

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23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19yrs old my best friend and I have known each other for about 2years. I enjoy being around him, we have hold hands and told each other I Love You before. A while back we were both under the influence and he spend the night at my house. I slept in the floor and he slept in ... (347 words)

Agony Aunts: What do you think is going on?

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23 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Thanks for your help in advance. There's a girl I like, whom I think likes me. This is why I have a question. It all starts six months ago. First, I was havings others give her notes. She kept the first, but threw away the rest, as she got sick of them. I know it was cowa... (512 words)

Is my girlfriend smoking again?

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23 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey once again my girl friend quit smoking about 6 months back when we started dating because i convinced her to and i explaind that its a dirty habit and anything any one could think bad about smoking i told her but now its been half a year and im always thinking about her ... (198 words)

Why did she lie to me about him if she can tell me about everybody else?

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23 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been together with my girlfriend for about an year now, the problem I have been facing through out our relationship is her past, we started off and after 2 months she told me about some guys that were our common friends that she had one night stands with them and I was ... (573 words)

What should I do about him?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a 20 year old female and have been seeing my boyfriend for four years. we broke up about 11 months ago and things got a little crazy between us with fighting and that but about two months ago we ended up what i thought was patching things up and then we started dating ... (256 words)

I'm worried about dating again...

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently divorced, I have started dating again. I have only ever been with my ex husband. After having children, my body has changed a lot and I am worried about dating this new man who has never dated a woman with children. Any advice?... (44 words)

Is it normal for a man to move on so quickly?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 10 years and recently separated from my husband. I asked him for some space and he asked me for a divorce. I found out that after only a week he has had sex with another woman whom he hardly knows. He said that it was his way of getting over me. I find ... (82 words)

Do I tell his fiancee about his flirting with me?

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a problem at work. It started out with my boss flirting and making suggestive comments. He does this with several people at work. He does it in a playful way, and we have a good relationship, so I didn't mind. As inappropriate as it may seem, it was just ... (248 words)

Should I message my ex???

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23 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very lengthy history with an ex. We have never be able to work things out between us and we usually end up pushing each other away. Communication has been a big problem of ours as neither of us are good at bringing up things that need to be discussed relationship wise. ... (240 words)

He said "if we do break up it's eventual," what on earth does that mean?

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23 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend seems to really like me, texts or calls me whenever i don't see him, hadn't seen him for a week, he came over and wouldn't let me go, asked what id been up to that kind of thing then made me promise that if i get fed up or want to leave him that i tell him and ... (165 words)