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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I regret the name I gave my baby! What can I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I have a problem that is in my head! I know many of you wouldnt think its such a big issue but i just delivered my baby girl on july 14th and called her a name i really liked at the time.. and we agreed on... on the 6th day he went to register the name in her birt... (187 words)

Was I right to break up with him over abortion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I was on here recently discussing an issue I was having with my boyfriend of six months. He doesn't like to spend time with my family and friends, and said he doesn't want to. http://www.dearcupid.org/quest... (310 words)

Is unprotected sex the only way to catch chlamydia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is probaly a really stupid question, but is unprotected sex the only way to catch chlamydia? Im thinking of sleeping with my boyfriend for the first time, but I wont be his first. Hes had a test done and hes all clear, and they offer them at my school but id rather n... (81 words)

What are you meant to do if the guy you like finally notices you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Omg. I really need someones help. What are you meant to do if the guy you like (whos drop dead gorgeous, 2 years above you.. in sixth form and perfect) actually finally notices you? He was flirting with me at my brothers 18th (not verbally, but still..) nd i was jst smiling at ... (313 words)

Should I pursue it and give him signals back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25, a single mum and rescently gone back in to education. I think my teacher fancies me. He focuses on me in every lesson, he asks me questions through out in front of the class and quietly asks my opinions on things when the rest of the class is distracted. I notice h... (248 words)

How can he end things with her without hurting her? I want us to be together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 4 yrs ago I was dating a guy named Jay, we had a great relationship and we loved each other very much. We ended up breaking up because I was moving across country for work. We kept in touch and remained friends. During the next few yrs he went through a rough patch and ended ... (287 words)

Do you think a relationship is possible? We had the most amazing sex ever.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Last night, I had the most amazing night of my sexual life. I met a man, who is 33, and I am 18. I've always had a thing for charming older men, and he fits definitely fits that status quo. However, one thing I did not expect to happen, was for my feelings to develop into ... (109 words)

Am I wrong for pursuing her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Weird situation I guess. There are two girls involved. I shall refer to them as just A and B. A I am very close with, and I once started pursuing her as a possible romantic interest which just wasn't to be. B I have started to really like, and I believe we could hit it of... (115 words)

Do you think she'll give me another chance even though I cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my ex met wen i was 18 and she was 16 we was going out for about six months wen she told me she loved me and i felt the same but about a month later one of her friends started texting me and we became close i ended up seeing both of them on and off for about 6 months it ... (569 words)

How should I apologize for accidentally touching her breast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, theres this girl in my 9th grade english and P.E. classes, and we been hanging out alot. I like her, she likes me, and we get along really well. I hug her almost every time we have to leave eachother for classes/ bus, although were not actually hooked up or dating. Today ... (165 words)

Can we not be friends because it may hurt our partners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so confuse. I have this bf before, i meet him online and d relation last 5 years but we never meet personally, but we both know we do love each other. i did not try to meet him personally because i know my family will extreme mad at me if i go to the man that doesnt have muc... (247 words)

I'm tired of being burdened with issues. Can anyone help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have graduated highschool but returned for a semester; not because of poor academics, but because I was not in the right mindset during my senior year to be thinking about University.. It was a year when I was just really getting to finally know myself, and develop some ... (686 words)

Where's the passion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I have been in a relationship for 3 years. Our sex life is not that great, the passion is gone. And to honest Ive never been satisfied..(He is my first) But what bothers me is that there is no passion. I want a man who really wants it from me and is excited. And I... (108 words)

His past is littered with ex girlfriends and I'm scared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was hoping someone might lend some insight to this -- I've been someone who has been rather picky about relationships and most have been all very serious. I will go out on first dates but if I don't see a potential first dates turn into last dates. For the past year an... (278 words)

Is it normal that I can't orgasm after a drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal that I can never seem to reach orgasm when I have alcohol in my system? I don't drink often, but every time I've been anywhere from slightly buzzed to completely drunk, it seems like orgasms are out of the question. My boyfriend and I don't have sex, we just do ... (242 words)

Am I going to have to start fighting in order to defend myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have 2 problems. In my gym class i have boys that like to pick on people. They don't mean it but they play to much. Its this boys who hits on me constantly real hard and i let it slide and ignore him but he will keep doing it. I'm a person who doesn't like to play fight, real ... (558 words)

How do I keep my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age - I arrived to Bogota at 2008 and since then I started relating to women because I am divorced. I met a woman who was also divorced and with two children. She was living with a man but I did not know . I tried to coquer her and it was pretty easy. However I was ver... (395 words)

Boyfriend obsessed with my boobs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm not sure what to do about my boyfriend. He is obsessed with my boobs, to the point where it's stupidly irritating. I only see him at weekends, usually Friday to 7am Monday, and during that time he touches them as often as he can. I will be sat playing a compute... (201 words)

Cheating, playing around and suddenly she disappears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Both Married ben strongly flirting and playing arround i suddenly told her ((i love you)) she suddenly dissapeared afterwords what happended did i lose her??... (31 words)

Is it important to know your partner's sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently dating a guy who I like a lot. I have a feeling that he may have "got around" a bit when he was younger, but to be honest I just simply do not want to know. Is it immature for me to be thinking like this? Do you think it's important to know your partner's sexual ... (98 words)

Was he even into our relationship or just looking for a way out the whole time?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my ex boyfriend of 5 years started seeing another girl from his home town a week after he broke up with me. Im so upset, its a girl he knew and was friends with during our relationship. I didnt know her as I live in a differnt area but i have met her ... (144 words)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was at a party two weeks ago and a lot of kids were drinking beer. Not me cause I am only 17. A really really hot popular girl from my class was drunk off her ass and was having sex with guys at the party. She was with at least 3 guys that I knew about. As the party w... (286 words)

Emotionally abusive daughter in law

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age - My daughter in law in emotionally abusing my son. I stepped back from their relationship some time ago as they were having problems. My support or advice was not required by his wife. Her mother and I started to contact each other by text or email hoping that between us we ... (217 words)

Leaving for the military in 4 months, start a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok...I just want opinions on what you guys would do. There is this girl im really diggen,right, problem is, in 4 months I leave for the military. I've been just playing it cool with her because I personally feel it would be selfish to start a relationship with someone at this ... (100 words)

Men's point of view on extramarital affairs

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was wanting some male input into extra marital affairs. Often on here there are questions from women who have become involved with men who are married. Everytime there are answers from women who chastise the women from getting involved in the first place and obviously it... (198 words)

What makes a man lose his hard-on during sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What makes a man lose his hard on during sex?... (10 words)

Is my husband looking elsewhere because he's not happy anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I often feel that my husband is looking else where for relationship's. He often has female friends that I am sometimes aware of but do not have contact with for one reason or another. In the pass year he has been in a friendship with another women, who he said it was innocent, ... (218 words)

What pubic hair design should I have for first time sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my Boy friend are planning to have sex for the very first time, at the moment i am a virgin and am ready to loose my virginity. And i do cut my pubic hair but i realli don't know how boys like it. boys do you like all pubic hair gone or a little bit? and how?? And... (89 words)

Why do girls look for robot guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why every girls hate emotional guys? Why they look for robot in guys? Would anyone like to guide me on this? Zahir, Pakistan... (30 words)

I confessed to my teacher that I love him! He said it can never happen...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 17 year old girl and am in love with my teacher.He is unmarried, good-looking amd an absolute charmer.He is an extremely talented person and is loved by all his students.i have been his student for alomost one and a half year and i have a crush on him since then.recently ... (87 words)

She's the love of my life but do I need to quit kidding myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years, in the main its been great, travelled the world together, have lots of fun and hang out all the time. Then out of the blue she said she needed space. We are both at college far away for away from each other, but during the holidays we ... (242 words)

Relationship Crisis: he cheated but I want it to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So this month has been my worst month ever, boyfriend cheated on me and everything. I took him back we had a long conversation and I told him that it will be a long time for me to trust him and I continue to ask him to keep 100 with me all the time. But after all the long ... (246 words)

What do you reckon he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone! just need some advice here. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost seven months now. It is long distance but nothing terrible and over the summer I broke up with him because he was acting as if he wanted out himself (forgot my birthday, was no ... (337 words)

Any ideas on how to make things better between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here is the issue, my boyfriend thinks that I act like a 26 year old child. I will admit that at times I do act like a irrational. I have asked him what he wants me to do to change the issues in the relationship, which I am willing to do. The only thing is that I have asked ... (123 words)

Is this a case of "we love each other but can't be together"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a recently divorced, 40 year old woman who lives in a small town - my former husband and I are good friends, and I am well-respected in the community. In June of '08 I was reconnected with a local man, he's 51, because we have a few activities in common which we are both ... (847 words)

Should I work on it or leave it now before it gets worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 15 months now. I am so sure that I am in love with him and I was so sure he felt the same way. But at times he gets mad over something and decides to change his mind. The last time we fought he told me he didn't think he was in love with me. Th... (186 words)

Pubic hair yes or no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a boy of 18 years the problem is that i hav lots of pubic hairs, actually i have hairs on my hips and lots of hairs on my legs although i have no or very little hairs on my chest. I want to know will my gf or any other girl like my hairs on hips and legs or she will have ... (98 words)

He always threatens to break my face and I cry. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my name is piya(24)dating(28)for the past 1.5 years.we love each other a lot and he promised me to marry me.but for the past few months are relationship has turned completely sour.we love each other like mad and cant do without each other.hes got a very close friend whose a ... (122 words)

I finally plucked some courage to talk to him but how do I keep it going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey!!!i talked a lot about the huge crush i had on this really cool boy(who really liked me too) and i said before i never talked to him cause whenever he tries 2 talk 2 me i do anything to stop it cause im too too too shy. in this summer break i kindda suffered cause i was ... (429 words)

Can anyone give me advice on my singing voice and vocal range?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i was wondering if someone could give me some advice on my singing voice and my vocal range. I have just really started to grow in the last few months so obviously this shows that i'm a bit of a late bloomer. I don't think my voice has broken very much yet but i have found ... (184 words)

I love her but am no longer attracted to her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Can I endure a relationship with a woman I love very much but to whom I am no-longer sexually attracted to what-so-ever, even though as a result that would mean having to look for extra-marital sex? ... (37 words)

Can I be pregnant if I got my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex about two weeks ago which links to my previous question two days age. I had unprotected sex whch I'm not proud of at all!!! It was my first time having sex period. Anyways I was wondering if I could be pregnant if my period came. My period came two days early and it ... (113 words)

I don't understand what's happening with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex split up with me 6 weeks ago, making me leave our home, in that time he told me he still loved me and wanted to work things out but hed had issues with himself and who he was which is aparently the reason we split. For the first 2 weeks he told me he still loved me... (406 words)

The qualities she originally found attractive in me now bother her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Ok here goes..I'm a 34 yr old man who has been dating a 31 yr old woman for the past 8 mo. Our relationship is good and we are serious about the future. We have come to a huge roadblock in our relationship as far as moving in is concerned. We live about and hour and a half away ... (229 words)

Semen leakage normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever I get sexually aroused due to my girlfriend in university or wherever, a drop or two of semin from my penis leaks. Is that normal? I workout 2 hours every day and do not masturbate more than twice a month. I haven't done sex as well uptill now. Is that sticky liquid ... (67 words)

I miss him so much

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was really good friends with this boy in my class and we used to have fun hanging out tgether. We were reasonably close for about a month but then suddenly on monday, i went to school and i felt like he was cold shouldering me. I thought it could possibly be beca... (258 words)

Trying to chose between 2- one older, one younger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - which to choose between 2 women: one is abt 10 yrs older than me, very sweet giving person also fun to be with,but towards whom I have lost all physical attraction. the other is 10 yrs younger than me , very attractive, passionate and loyal but more demanding. I have known ... (77 words)

G/f is messing about with 3 of us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girlfriend is messing me about and has 3 other people she has feelings for i asked her where that left me and her relationship but she never gave me a proepr anwser wot do i do?... (37 words)

Once unsure of your love, do the feelings ever come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up one month ago because he was unsure if he loves me anymore. After a few days, he said he came to a decision that he does not love me. Love according to him is a feeling and full acceptance of a person without expecting the person to change. We h... (257 words)

Ask him out? Or wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Simple question- should i ask out a guy that i like or wait for him to ask me out? We are friends and a few of my friends say there is a chance he likes me from some of his behaviour. I don't want to jeapordise the friendship but what if he's just as shy as m... (69 words)

What do you make of his behaviour? I really like him but he is acting really weird!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey There, I've been having a problem and i really need your help! Basically there's this guy i've been liking on and off for a long while and only recently have we started chatting. But he can be very confusing in his signals..you see i really want to find out if he has any ... (211 words)

I feel like my ex is just using me now...how do I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me after 5 years together about 6 months ago. We had been together since I was 17. We've been sleeping together pretty much since we broke up. In the beginning he would say things like "You're a girl I'm thinking about marrying but I need some time to be on ... (228 words)

The argument was blown way out of proportion and he asked me to move out! Was I over-reacting or was I right to expect an apology?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Last month when my b/f was away on business, I noticed that someone had tried to egg my car but missed almost completely. I wasn't sure at the time that it was even an attempt, but I found broken egg shells and a slime on my tire. I washed it off and didn't think more about ... (335 words)

He knows I like him so why hasn't he developed feelings for me yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :D okay so I have been close friends with a guy for a few months now, at one point I liked him, I told him, he said he loved me, but only as a close friend. I then moved on with him, which I was really happy about. I moved onto other guys and he lent me advice and stuf... (277 words)

My boyfriend is physically/emotionally hurting me but he doesn't think he is

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two years now. when we first started dating he always wanted to touch me and love on me. later now in the relationship he keeps teasing/taunting me, he pokes me, hits me ( in the arms and legs), he keeps grabbing the back of my ... (166 words)

My boyfriend blows hot and cold on me, do you think he wants out of this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

- How do men act when they really want to end the relationship but they don't have the guts to do it themselves? My b/f of 5 years goes through extreme mood swings. One day he'll be sweet and wonderful, and two days later he's yelling obscenities at me and telling me to get out ... (175 words)

The test came back negative but I still havent had my period! Am I pregnant or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

- I have this amazing boyfriend when we together everything just feels so perfect. The problem Im having now is I don't know if Im pregnant or not. In july I got my period on the 20th of the month it lasted for about 5 days. Than in august I got my period either the 20th or 21st ... (137 words)

My partner has gone off sex yet he still masturbates daily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner is not interested in having a sex life with me. He is under a lot of financial pressure which worries him constantly and living with me also means he has the added pressure of living with 2 children that aren't his own, which he finds very difficult to deal with.With ... (202 words)

How do I cope with turning 30?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am stuggling about turning 30 this saturday. I dont know why but i cant get excited. Im kinda sad and feeing down about this situation. I guess a part of me doesnt want to grow up. I am so used to being in my 20s and im not looking forward to my 30s at all. Any adv... (74 words)

How do I overcome the pain during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am married one month ago and I cant take the pain of having sex plz help me... (18 words)

How do I talk about sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiii....i'm 18 year old boy i'm in true love with a girl.we are enjoying with each other but i feel shy in talking about sex with her,she too never asked me anything about sex but now i think we must talk about sex and have some sexual relationship. Another question this is... (101 words)

Why don't guys like to talk about feelings or their exs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - why don't guys like to open up and talk about their ex or talk about feelings in general? My guy recently broke up with his girlfriend of 8 months (i think it was because of me and the fact it was a long distance relationship) but he still says it hurts him whenever i menti... (93 words)

She used to be the one that hated me going out with my friends, now it is the other way around! How do I deal with my paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hiya, i've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year now. We've had some up's and down's along with some trust issues but everything's been going well lately... Except ; She's always been a bit of a loner, never had a great many friends or a lot of self confide... (322 words)

It really hurts that he could move on so quick! How can I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there. i broke up with my ex about 3 weeks ago due to him having feelings for this other girl. for the past 3 weeks we have been keeping in touch and he still told me that he loved me. however he has just started going out with this new girl(the one he had feelings for) and ... (110 words)

He cant get over his ex fiancee and wont let me in

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so my boyfriend and i broke up 4 days ago. This is a really confusing story - so try to stick with me... I moved back to my home town, after living in the city for 3 months, and when i got home, my bestfriend - Whitney* and i hung out together everyday - she ... (514 words)

Will my operation cause me problems during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I'm concerned because had had an operation nearly 2 years ago on my foreskin to remove a cyst but wasn't aware that they would remove such a large area and the subsequent nerve damage i would have. It was just below the frenulum and now all my frenulum and surrounding ... (200 words)

I've messed up my relationship due to my mood swings and now I have lost the best thing that ever happened to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I have messed up a relationship due to my moods and strops i have now lost the best thing to happen to me and i dont know what to do. These are texts that my ex has sent to me today its the first time we have spoke in over a week since we split. i just want some a... (346 words)

Is my relationship falling apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok first off let me start by saying I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months, we dated a little before but we have been "official" for 3 months. We started going out back in the summer and everything was great! We saw each other every day and never got in any fights or ... (427 words)

I want to give my boyfriend a blowjob but it will be my first time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

29 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - i want to give a blow job to my boyfriend but i am feeling scared, bcos i have not done this before. one of my friend told me that he will like it, he lets me touch his penis when ever i start playing with his penis pure water like fluid oozez out i would like to taste but how ... (77 words)

How do I tell him I don't love him anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone. my problem is that ive been with a a guy for many years now. i have put up with a lot for the sake of my children and because i was so in love with him. i thought we would eventually get married and stay together forever that he would change his very abusive ways ... (306 words)

How do I make a girl say "wow he's good" after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i make perfect sex? I mean as in, How do i start and end to make 'a lady say wow! he's good?... (26 words)

I'm in love with my girlfriend's best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am inlove with my girlfriends best friend and i realy don't know what to do. I once kiss her, which has makes me fall inlove with her more. What must i do?... (35 words)

My wife's pubic hair is a turn-off!

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a bit embarrassing but by wife has a hairy vagina that I find quite a turnoff. I don't know how to discuss the issue with her without hurting her feelings. I trim and shave myself but my wife seems to prefer herself untrimmed. We've been married now for nearly five ... (82 words)

I need advice on my relationship with my sister...

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really just needing some good advice new friends: I am a only child of a single mother. I was a lonely child amd always wanted siblings. I met my sisters at church when I was a teenager and they were 4 and 5. We did grow up togather. They are both adults now. The... (500 words)

How can I deal with girlfriend's past

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriends past bothers me alot. I know so much about her past and I always get these images that pop into my head of her doing things with other guys and its all I think about. Just looking at her kills me sometimes. The one time that has really been bothering me the mo... (268 words)

Curved penis better for hitting the G spot?

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a curved penis so i want to know that it reaches the G-spot inside the vagina... some girl answer this question what they feel while having sex with curved penis guy do they get better orgasm then the straighter one.... (42 words)

Can't make it work with guys my age, is something wrong with me?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a thing for guys younger than me. Not like it's illegal or anything. The guys I'm talking about are both 19, and I'm 23. I've tried dating guys my age or older, and it's always something. I just find that the younger guys are easier to handle. Plus I kinda like the fact ... (94 words)

I'm so cunfused with this girl, help....

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I'm going to try to make it as short as possible. Ok I met this girl she was really into me I can tell. She would come down and hangout even though she live 1 hr away. We hung out in groups so it wasn't like a date but I like her so much that when I got drunk... (590 words)

Was our relationshp sabotaged?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age - My guy and I dated for a year and were about to commit exclusively to a long-term relationship Without any warning,and perplexed by his sudden change of heart, I knew something went wrong. Just before he abruptly broke off with me, a male co-worker of his joined our churc... (317 words)

She tickled my palm..what does that mean?

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - IM 18 and this girl i like told me she like me very much and today while we were sitting in the car she tickled the palm of my hand i want to know what you think she want from me... (41 words)

Geographically undesireable is becoming desireable

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Great longing and an aching heart for someone far away brought me to you tonight. I look towards the wisdom and divinity of dearcupid.org to lean on. First, I will get right to the point, then provide support details and describe the internal struggle. R... (501 words)

What can I do about a boyfriend that hates my past?

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29 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - What can I do? My boyfriend hates my past, I never did something wild, but there was a mutual friend involved. It happened before I met my boyfriend. Then that same friend introduced me to my boyfriend. Then after 6 months my boyfriend asked me about my past, I told him and he ... (570 words)

How should I react to him hugging me?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I know and I are not that close, but were friendly. We sit together in class, and have a few mutual friends, and its not awkward to talk to him outside of those two situations. Recently he's been hugging Me and random moments, like it makes sense why he was hugging Me, ... (109 words)

How do I get this horrible night with my ex out of my head?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I didnt think id need help with this because i had been doing so well..but now i feel like crap:( please help find a way to finally get over this feeling. i have been broken up with my ex since the begging of the year and he has a new gf but we had still been seeing each... (437 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant again?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im pregnant for the second time and how do i tel my parents,my first baby is three years and my parents are pastors and wel knwn people they wil b ashamed of me wat must i do... (37 words)

How can I help my boyfriend get better at oral sex?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend needs help giving oral sex. He's got the right attitude and loves doing it, but to be honest he's not very good at it. The thing is I've never had it done well so I have no idea what to tell him. Can some people give things to do that will feel great? I'm not ... (95 words)

Tatoos and where to get them?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this isnt a realtionship question or anything but i was wondering if someone could help me with this decision. i have a tattoo on my back towards my neck and its fairly decent size tattoo about 7 inches in length and about 4 inches wide. now i want another tattoo of ... (245 words)

How can I stop lying to my boyfriend and regain his trust?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a serious problem that is causing havoc in my relationship. I have been lying to my boyfriend about money being spent and not telling him about it, taking things like my cell phone without asking him if i can use it and taking him for granted. I lie because i am scared ... (137 words)

I'm in love with my older male cousin

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.... I have a cousin complex. Meaning, I'm in love with my cousin. We never saw each other in a couple of months(maybe even years) so I don't know how he looks like in awhile. But yesterday(09.27.09)at my other cousin's(his older brother's)wedding, we met again. At first ... (254 words)

How can I truly make this relationship work?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi...i'm an 18 year old female in a complicated relationship. it all started last year when i met a guy at my college. we clicked instantly and became very good and close friends. he had a girlfriend at the time, but told me they were on the rocks and hadn't spoken for a while. ... (380 words)

We just broke up and he's dating my best friend!

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i need some help. My and my boyfriend of 6 months just broke up and now he's dating my best friend. I have to see him with her everyday since i have no other social connections. We broke up saturday while she was over at his house they started dating that same hour. So, idk ... (84 words)

Will a sexual relationship enhance our love for each other?

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and i love a girl and she too loves me but i never had a french kiss with her altough i have kissed her a few times on her cheeks.Actually i want to know is it good to have sexual relationship with her,i have never asked her about it.will the sexual ... (73 words)

I think of others having sex and it gets me off focus!

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 year old and i have a problem i think of people and sex all the time and it bothers me and make do crazy stuff, i think of different people all the time picturing them doing stuff or saying stuff its like crazy entertainment in my head and it gets me off focus and i think ... (114 words)

Girls: Can you help give me a female perspective?

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 18 years old and i'm a virgin the problem is that i have a slightly curved penis, its a bit curved downwards and very little to the left ,its very little curve not a big one.this makes me a bit distressed.Altough i have read many topics on this but they say its ... (145 words)

I can't take this marriage anymore!

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29 September 2009 (F)

age - We got married december 2008 we met on the internet, hes too controlling..i see red flags, emotional ones, i came back once before he gave me an std. I feel dirty dont want to pursue my marriage with him no more..dont want to have sex with him no more. just cant do it.... (58 words)

Questionable relationship?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 3 months.He is a widow, and I am divorced.We seem to really like each other, but I am still wondering what to make of the relationship.I travel to see him, and we email everyday.But, I am still wondering how he feels about me.I have told him ... (132 words)

How can I ask her out without seeming pushy?

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright heres the deal.. Theres this girl i like, and have liked for a while now, shes 15 and im 14. She is also a grade ahead of me. She said she likes me.. But heres where i get held up.. About 4 months ago i asked her out not knowing if she liked me or not and never re... (153 words)

Does anyone know what the difference between body rubbing and dry humping?

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29 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Does anyone know what the difference between body rubbing and dry humping ( i have no idea if thats even something) ? Or are they both the same thing ? Anyone care to axplain. Thanks.... (35 words)

Why is he so extreme?

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29 September 2009 (F)

- Everytime my b/f and I have an argument, instead of us calmly discussing what went wrong and solving it like two mature adults, he starts shouting at the top of his lungs, trying shift the blame to someone other than himself, and then when he can't win by using this strategy, ... (189 words)

Are there any devoted and patient guys still out there?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - frustrated...im 19 years old and i think i am attractive the thing about it is ive never really been serious with a guy... and im wondering if theres any good guys out there that is still devoted and patient to wait for a girl who is only gonna sleep with her husband on their ... (71 words)

Should I worry about being pregnant?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. So I met this guy about a month or so ago that works with my mom..This sounds really bad but he is only 19, I will be 18 in October...he already has a baby that is 13 months old. Well..my mom decided to let me start staying the night at this guys house..thinki... (308 words)

My boyfriend's brother molested him! Help!

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need help with my boyfriend he was molested when he was n little boy by his brother at the age of 7 to 9 and at the age of 12 he was molested again by a man in the hostel and now he is like a angry bom at work and with me and i really wanne help him but i don't know what ... (152 words)

Boss wants a relationship, but I don't like him that way!

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boss wants a relationship with me but i dont like him like him in that way. im at college til march and then i will be able to get work in the trade that i am learning. i am trying to get an alternative job at the moment but i just cant get one as there isnt much about. my ... (161 words)

I still love him, should I tell him?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, i have a problem, ok.... Me and my ex broke up almost 3 months ago after a year and a half relationship because he ended...to be honest i dont even really know why, something about me being clingy and moody and jelous of his best girl mate. Since then i have rea... (272 words)

How can I get out of this without ruining relationships or breaking anybody's heart?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - their is a boy [friend] and we a kinda way involved..and we know each other for 2 years now. and it have been a while now i have been flirting with his friend. [like really sexy flirting] and my friend told me he don`t want to share me with anyone. now i met a next boy who is ... (195 words)

Are these Red Flags serious? I don't want another abuser.

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've just recently gotten out of an abusive relationship. Therefore, I'm very sensitive about people's intentions. I recently met someone, and he seems very nice, but there are two red flags I want to address: After our first date he's wanted to see me every day, and I... (127 words)

Is he feeling trapped and just needs a little time away from me?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, it got really ugly and really bad. We both did things that really hurt each other and iv asked him repeatedly to try and make things work because i still love him very much and miss him more than anything; he doesnt want to get ... (171 words)

How do I get past this sexual block?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband off and on since we we're both 17 and married him at 22. Once we got married we were completely faithful to eachother, though things didnt stay that way. back in the beginning of "04 i became friends with this girl. i had a baby girl shortly after ... (604 words)

Did he ruin our relationship from the start?

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29 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my husband have been together for almost 4 years and married for 2. in the very beginning of our relationship he lied to me about still talking to his ex g/f...we live in pa and she lives in fl. i found out that she was still in the picture through myspace, she messaged ... (1043 words)