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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any sexual fantasies about him have evaporated due to his size. Is this shallow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is directed mainly at other women Hi, I've been out on a few dates with a guy and I'm ready to take it futher than just kissing if you know what I mean. However, the other day he was round at my house, I put my hand down his pants and his cock was hard but felt tiny ... (191 words)

I'm in a jam....does he like me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and this boy we flirt a lot i think and we always smile at each other and im always hitting him and flicking him {ps i like him so i flirt} and we get into these fake arguements.... and on friday he kept hitting me with this air hockey thing that goes in the goal just ... (131 words)

Queasy around girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - whenever i am in a relationship and the girl wants to hang out i get really really queasy. Then recently this happend and i broke up with her... then later she kissed me and i didnt feel queasy.... (38 words)

Are there any physical signs to determine if someone has had anal sex before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in a relationship with a girl and i want to try anal sex with her, she said that she has never had anal sex with anyone before in her life, her previous boyfriend is a friend of mine and he told me that he had anal sex with her.. but she denies it, are there any physical ... (85 words)

Am I going to have to just keep waiting and dreaming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am 16 and have never had a boyfriend, well i say never i have had silly boyfriends that have lasted about a week, i have never even kissed a boy or anything. does that makeme fridgid? there have beenlots of guys ilike but i have never had the cofidence to say anything ... (105 words)

Shall I tell the girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my sister (30ish) met a guy (30ish) on a two week business trip. They had a couple of brief encounters but it was essentially a friendship. Anyway she has recently found out that she is pregnant. The guy has a girlfriend of a year and a half who he claims to love a... (331 words)

How can we learn to fight fair? He says mean things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well I've been having a problem with my boyfriend. Well yesterday we got into a very heated fight, that lead to him twisting my words around completely and sccusing me of breaking up with him. I tried to explain to him what I meant but it was so hard because once he gets ... (213 words)

Drifting back to the life we used to have that caused problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age - Hi everyone, It's Saturday night and we normally go out for a meal together if we're not doing anything else. Tonight we've stayed in and it's weird because for the first time since I discovered the sex text betrayal of my husband in June 2008 and subsequent times since th... (382 words)

Sudden change in partner, and I want to feel comfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm feeling a little confused and it's stressing me out. Over the course of the summer, I dated a girl who lived locally to me. The relationship was a little turbulent. There were a number of things we disagreed on, but we persisted, knowing that the relationship cou... (270 words)

Do I need to take the morning after pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help, i had unprotected sex last night with my bf and my period is due today/tomoorrow, is it likely that i could get pregnant? I had heard that this time (just before period is due) is safer because I am not ovulating? if not then i will need to get the morning after ... (82 words)

Am I being unreasonable in asking him to stop this behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an issue with my boyfriend who gives a light kiss on the lips of a married woman every time he passes her. He said it was just a game that they played before he started dating me. This has been over a year and he continues to do this. I feel that it is not respectful ... (113 words)

He's going out with my best friend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I love this guy but he's going out with one of my best friends. I don't know how he feels about me exactly but we flirt with each other loads. I can imagine myself being with him forever because he seems so right for me. We're very close to each other and he makes me laugh. My ... (114 words)

Help! I just don't know...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this..is about my boyfriend and i... we re in a long distance relationship.. its..weird.. when we re actually together..in person..things are amazing.. but..on the phone...things..are not so great. we fight..constantly..about stupid things. actually..its gotten t... (520 words)

When you are in NC is it possible to block 'the ex' from IM's or does that just end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to get back with my ex however since he is the one that has slowed things down without explanation I decided to let him make the effort. The problem is we share the same IM's and it hurts my feelings to see him online but we aren't talking. I've already told him ... (250 words)

Am I going crazy here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is the first time I've posted anything like this, but I'm in desperate need of advice. Here is the situation: I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We were engaged at one point, but we called it off in order to try working through a lot of trust issues (he told... (712 words)

I don't wanna lose him forever but I know I will if I leave.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey cupids, i hope someone can help me. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over three years now and I'm afraid I've just fallen out of love with him. I still love him, but I'm not in love with him.And its really difficult because recently I've started having feelings for ... (196 words)

Why can't he quit smoking???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the thing. I've been with my now ex boyfriend,TJ, for almost 2 years. I really do love him. Honestly, I do. But he has a huge problem with lying, usually about the smallest things! I went out with a guy last year, after breaking up with TJ. We eventually got back ... (418 words)

Would you get rid of someone if they told you that they had a personality disorder?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Since they say personality is what you look for in someone first and foremost, it puts me in quite a dilemma. I have a personality disorder, well... actually I have two, Borderline and narcissitic personality disorder (yes I've been diagnosed). If you met someone and you were ... (119 words)

Why is this working for him???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How's this working for him? Does this sound happy? My husband of l0 years lost his business and basically hit a mid life crisis. He decided to leave to sort out his anxiety over having lied about money issues. I doubt that now..but about a month after he left 1. He began ha... (284 words)

I don't want to make J jealous and don't want to quit spending time with my friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Got a situation that's been nagging me for a while now, but first, let me give some backstory. About a year ago, some of my friends introduced me to their other group of friends. I hit it off with them immediately, and very quickly became good friends with everyone in the grou... (338 words)

I'll be 14 in January and I really want to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well I'm thirteen and I'm turning 14 in January and I live in a group home cause my parents abused me but thats all going good now and I'm going home in October I have been in placement for over a year and there's this feeling that i get sometimes that just makes me want ... (170 words)

I feel my girlfriend treats me like shit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey whats up guys and girls i need help i dont know what to do. my girlfriend always dresses nice when im not going to be around and she never wears nice things when i am does she have something on the side, is she cheating on me is she going to cheat on me i dont know please ... (177 words)

Married for 8 years, and I don't love him any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 8 years but I am no longer in love with my husband I love him but only as the father of my son and has been this way for some time, I always felt we are two very different people and we never seem to agree in any issue, he always wants things done his way ... (967 words)

I feel this is so real, is it possible it could work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met a man and it felt like love at first sight. We are falling fast. Soon after we met I found out he is engaged and miserable. He is breaking it off with her after 2 1/2 years. Everything is happening so fast. He is telling me he loves me and I feel the same way but ... (119 words)

My LDR seems to be fading away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started college not too long ago. It's a long distance relationship. I had the upper hand since I started it during summer, and everytime class ended or between my classes, I'd call him and he would always pick up. The long distance relationship wasn't as ... (560 words)

Met a girl online 3 weeks ago, we have met up, but I don't know if she is playing me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl online 3 weeks ago. She is 20 and I am 28. We talked a lot on msn nearly every night, and even though she lives 3 hours away, as we both seemed to like each other a lot, we decided to meet up on one saturday. So I went to visit her, we went out for dinner and I ... (474 words)

My Mum is having an affair; I need advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My mum is having an affair. My dad found proof, and came to me. I am the eldest of three children (19/17/14) and i think im mature enough to deal with this. So i tried to help him out, also a personal trait of mine is rationality so he thought i could be of help. He is goin... (1196 words)

Been on two dates. How do I get him to sleep with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We went out on a first two dates a few days ago and i just found out that we have so much in common. Today he invited me to his house for tonight ... but since we went out on a first dates and he wasnt making any moves towards me and when it came to the kissing he said that he ... (153 words)

Any ways to do oral sex without gagging?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My boyfriend he really enjoys blow jobs but he is wanting to cum in mouth and I'm worried about if theres a way to do it without gagging. The taste doesn't bother me but theres so much. How do i keep up? ... (48 words)

B/f is battling depression so we talk rarely, what can I do for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has stopped talking to me, it has been 2 weeks. He talks to me one day and then the next he dissapears. I asked him what was going on, why was he ignoring me all these days and he said it's because he is battling depression. I know that his life at the moment is a ... (274 words)

I'm letting her set the pace, but I'm not sure if she's being candid about what she's comfortable with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i have a question and asking for any tips.advice out there. I have been with my GF for almost a year now, and have not done anything sexually, except sometimes it seems like shes rubbing onto me while were makig out(if its sitting shes sit on top of me while my legs are ... (310 words)

Gift ideas for my boyfriend as we are dating for a year!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help getting a gift for my boyfriend for our one year and /or christmas. we will be dating for a year in the very beginning of december. we're both 16, but we've been friends since we were about 13 and i've helped him through other relationships weirdly enough. we're ... (136 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I still love my ex, too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate this. Ive been with my boyfriend officially 5 months but really its been like a year. I love him sooooo much and hes completely amazing, hes helped me so much and literally worships the ground i walk on, hes basically perfect, but i still am in love with my ex. I think ... (117 words)

If you're 16 do you have the right to get engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16, my boyfriend and i have been together for year+ , he is amazing and ive never felt in away towards anyone as i do for him, hes helped me through so much, we've talked about engagement but we just dont want to cause the drama with our parents, even though my mom got ... (84 words)

What's next when the relationship with a drunkard boyfriend comes to an end but still continues........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in relationship with a guy who was 6 years younger than me and drunkard. We went around for almost 1 and 1/2 years. We shared a good chemestry but I didn't understand why he had refused my proposal of getting married with him. From the day first he had different reasons ... (341 words)

Everything my wife does seems to get on my nerves

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age - Hello I love my wife of 25 years. However, I can't seem to talk to her in any other manner other than anger or dismissive. It seems almost everything she does annoys me. I am trying to talk to her more as a friend, but damn she does stuff, that annoys me. (eg she moved the pa... (111 words)

Do you think my ex still loves me and is he playing a cruel game?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up after two months of dating, we had been trying to be together for a year, but I was having a hard time leaving my current boyfriend at that time. Well, we get together, and I was still going through issues from my last relationship. According to my ... (527 words)

I'm shy and self-conscious about facial hair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help i'm in need of advice. Im a 24 year old girl and i have never had a boyfriend, i know a big reason for this is my shyness. It is something that stems from constant bullying i received in many high schools (my family moved around abit when i was younger) Another reason i... (271 words)

M girlfriend is distancing herself from me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so my gf and i have been official 3 weeks.she is Amazing..but i noticed she is distancing herself from me.she doesnt seem to want to cuddle or let me hold her as much..the other day we were together and she was doing it again..i was irritated,but we started talking.she was ... (248 words)

I need to shed the toxic pain from this relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hey i broke up with a girl about a year ago who i had some pretty strong feelings for. the relationship wasn't the healthiest one from the start, my ex wanted to have an open relationship and i didn't, but i really liked her so i went with it. i stuck it out for almost t... (393 words)

Is loss of appetite normal during pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have a question. I'm going to be 18 next month on the 19th, I know I'm young but I didnt post this question to be critisized or told how I'm making a mistake and ruining my life. Sooo with that said, is there anyone else out there who's experienced loss of appetite ... (90 words)

I borrowed from charity money and couldn't pay it back. I feel so guilty.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I feel so guilty about this and I do not know what to do. I can't forgive myself and I have nightmares that I will be somehow found out. 2 years ago a friend and I organised a charity ball in the local neighborhood. We raised $600. My friend had 400, of the money from ... (471 words)

Am I not turning him on, or he just not that interested in sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a new relationship and find that my partner has a very low sex drive and I am pushing (sometimes I feel too hard) to get him excited. We have sex maybe once a week and the other night I asked him to take off his pants so I could have a better 'feel' and he told me not ... (106 words)

My fling gave me the ax, need some advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Need advice on a recent relationship. I've been seeing this guy for three months, he's in a relationship going on 2 1/2 years, I am single. We have had the best times, here recently I visited him for two days and during my stay he told me he couldn't see me anymore because he ... (145 words)

Do I? Don't I? ......Responding would be much apreciated :)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, i need a 2nd opinion on this. Recently i have got really close with "jim" at school, and people have told me he likes me, apparently its really obvious, like the way he stared at me with my ex(we broke up recently), the way he looks at me, the way he talks 2 me and w... (170 words)

I don't want to cry while making love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

19 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend had sex last night (not for the first time) we have sex a lot. but last night he layed me on my back on the couch with my hips down coming off. he was on his knees with my feet on his shoulders, so my legs were straight up pressed against his chest (know ... (260 words)

Should I trust that he really will quit smoking weed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. I just found out last week he has been smoking weed about once/week on and off for the past year and 1/2. Long story short, he told me all about it, and after a lot of crying I gave him the choice…weed or me. He was so ... (155 words)

I was told he liked me, but he hasn't replied to my message

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so hear's the problem.I've had this crush on this guy for as long as i can remember.a few months ago his dad let it slip that he liked me to my dad.and for the first time in a long time i felt really happy.then quite a lot of problems got in the way so i just couldn't go ... (247 words)

Should I walk away, or hope that things can go back to how they were?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Its my first relationship and I came to find out 25 days back that my gf of 9 months cheated me in starting months, with her ex. i got disturbed and still continued with the relationship. but last night, we had a disscussion about this cheating.. and she came up with really d... (961 words)

Suggestive text messaging...is it an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age - My husband has a female friend whom he often goes out runing with. They have been exchanging dirty texts and jokes for the past year which I have expressed my disatisafction over however my husband continues to send and receive such texts. Recently I discovered sever... (145 words)

I want to break up with my husband, but I have never been alone before and don't know what to do

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19 September 2009 (F)

age - I want to break up with my husband of 27 years, but I dont know how to do it. I have a girl of 8years old and my husband and I have a lot of money troubles. I just cant stand the pressure any more and feel I need to leave the home with my child. But I have never been alone ... (107 words)

I have been offered three Au Pair jobs in different countries. I don't which one to choose, if any!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I have a difficult decision to make, and i'm not sure what to do.I have been offered three Au Pair jobs, one is in Spain, one is in Austria and the other is in London. I'm not sure which one to choose if i decide to go for any of them.The one in Spain only pays 50 Eruos a ... (414 words)

B/f stayed in the car with a girl from 4 AM to 7 AM, what should I think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - okay, I have a severe proble, well in my case it is. I have a boyfriend Named *chris and we have been going out, or together for a lil' over a year now, and we have grown close, like I have a deep attachment to him after living with him, him being my first for a lot here...and ... (214 words)

I miss him so much now that we've broken up... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - The point is why I miss my ex? its more than 2 months and I cant get him out of my mind. Every song, street, place, smell, reminds me of him. And why? was he something good . he was the most bad thing in my life This man, lied on me, promised me in fake promises, marria... (569 words)

Help! What do you do when you are in love with 2 men and a 2 year old is involved?

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I'm 23 years old and I've pretty much made a complete mess of my life. I currently live with my boyfriend who I have been with since I was 16 but we were broken up for a year until just a few months ago. We have a beautiful little girl who is 2 years old and I love to ... (493 words)

Is it possible to have strong feelings for two people at the same time?

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I had been together for a year and 3 months. It had been a good relationship, we had our ups and downs but we were in love. However a few weeks ago he became distant and after asking him over and over why, he admitted he had feelings for this other girl(I'd had my ... (218 words)

Problems with my wife's daughter (from a previous relationship)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 42, and re-married since my wife left me for another man 5 and a half-years ago. I'm 42, my wife's 43. Recently, I've been having trouble with my wife's daughter from a previous relationship - she's been trying everything to get my attention sexually, including sittin... (308 words)

Insensitive girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in relatively new relationship. It has been a month since we told each other how we felt. We had two great weeks were I have been floating on a cloud of happiness. Then things started going south since. She stopped sending me any "I miss u" texts. I keep telling her how I ... (395 words)

Why can I not have a platonic friendship with men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to know why I simply cant have a platonic friendship with men. I recently met a great guy and we became fast friends. I have no romantic feelings for him, but he has for me. I dont have any female friends and the only friendships with men that are platonic are with ... (87 words)

My boyfriend is wearing bikinis and wants a bikini wax

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me he had something interesting to tell me last night, and I was interested to hear what it was. He announced he wanted a bikini wax and that I should have one too (or a Brazilian wax too), if he is. I don't get it - men don't have bikini waxes done, do... (161 words)

Its hard to keep a positive attitude in life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I expected more out of life... every time i get my hopes up and i have this positive outlook on life i get disappointed every situation i get into just tears my optimism down one more layer. hopefully i won't get down to nothing. slowly day by day i feel the kindness,... (118 words)

Boyfriend's personality completely changes online

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a man for about six months, and things between us are fine when we're speaking to each other in person. He acts like a gentleman, and we get along wonderfully. The problems surface whenever we're speaking online, a different side of him seems to come out and he ... (277 words)

Husband says anything in his life except food is bland

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past few weeks my husband has been saying everything in life is bland, except my cooking and anything food-related. He's stopped having sex with me - and I miss his emotional closeness he had with me as well, he's gone quiet. Yet he insists "I'm not depressed, I'm ... (123 words)

Has my sexuality already been chosen for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have two worries here 1)can i really choose or is sexuality something that has already been chosen for me? 2)But is it possible to just live with love? Firstly, im not exactly sure what is my true sexuality. From around the age of 10, i have plenty of crushes on girls... (370 words)

I want to settle down but g/f is still running around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 yo and my girlfriend of over 4 years isn't into me anymore; we first met at school fell in love and had a wonderful first 2 years together. Both of us are our first relationship. She then continued her education and met new friends. She'd always say she was tired or busy ... (483 words)

All of our guy friends are now singe and looking at me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First things first. I'm in a relationship of almost eight months with a man I love dearly. I really think he's a catch and I can see myself in the future with him, and he thinks likewise of me. I also have basically no female friends. This only bothers me occasionally, since I ... (300 words)

We want to have a baby, I'm almost 17!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm very confused. im extremely happy with my boyfriend, we've basically been together for a year and ive never in my life felt for anyone the way i feel about him, i understand this sounds typical for a 16 (almost 17) year old girl to say, but i guess you have to feel ... (190 words)

My girlfriend refuses to wax her upper lip hair, and it is my one major turn off. Now I don't feel attracted to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years now, and I love her deeply. She has always gotten a lot of upper lip hair, but she usually will wax it over time. Now however, she said she's done waxing and doesn't feel like she needs to. I know this may sound shallow, b... (172 words)

I cannot stand my brother in-law's girlfriend...HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been married to my husband now for about 2 years and have experienced my brother in-laws relationship with his girlfriend..might I add she is by far the most rude person I have ever met! Long story very long but kinda short: She is rude! (my main point!) ... (1441 words)

I want to feel comfortable with this sudden change in partner. How can I stop stressing out over it?

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19 September 2009 (M)

Did this guy ever like me? Is he using my friend as a rebound?

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear ,cupid I recently met a guy and he an I were kicking it off really well We got to point of where we can tell each other anything in just one month. But he lives 5000 miles away and when visited him on vacation he offered to take me out to lunch and places. He also off... (193 words)

Our relationship is perfect except for one thing...I feel like he would rather masturbate than have sex with me

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, my name is Abbie, and i have been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half, we have a lovely relationship, and every thing is perfect, except 1 thing. I am unsure if it is a big issue, but i hope u can help. Me and my boyfriend are currently traveling, and i have ... (132 words)

I'm 20 years old and I've never been on a date...can someone give me advice?

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19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm 20 years, and I never have been on a date. Not even just for hanging out. My whole life I have been a nerd and I often was not seen as very attractive by most people growing up. I didn't date in high school cause all the girls seemed more interested in all the ... (184 words)

How do I get him to confess his feelings for me?

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this guy who is my friend. He has feelings for me but he ain't going to confess his feelings for me. He thinks that i don't know he has feelings for me, the truth is i know he has feelings for me. Since he is not going to confess, then i have to take the first ... (90 words)

Are we headed in the direction of reconciliation?

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19 September 2009 (F) - well i made the decision to call him after he ended it kind of harshly last year..and i even contacted him in october b/c i regretted all my jealousy etc and he said he wasn't ready to do this all over again and he can't right now..he did some things i believe that brought out ... (1611 words)

She's committed to him but we sleep naked together. What is going on?

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a girl whom I honestly believe is The One for me. We were dating for barely 3 weeks when she told me that she was seeing another man. I accepted that and continued on with the "relationship" because we never said we were exclusive, and to be honest, I had it in my hea... (153 words)

I'm driving myself insane over mental images of him with her. Help!

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Long, but needed.. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months today. We have an amazing relationship. We've had only a couple minor confrontations, and we always try to make each other smile. He's been living with me for about 3-4 weeks now, and things have been going ... (760 words)

I worry that he still likes her in the back of his mind. How do I get over it?

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am having a totally nice and cute and decent boyfriend.i am truly lucky to have him. he was asking out a girl who we both see everyday.she is a beauty but a true ***** who changes guys everytime she wants and would go anywhere with any guy if she is not busy .he had bee... (205 words)

She is always hiding her past and lying. Can we survive this?

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19 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of 3yrs with whom i have a son of 1yrs old constantly accuses me of chat sex and other things like lying ect. i confronted her on numerous occations that its all made up in her head but she persists. on numerous occations i-ve caught her lying chatting to ex bf ... (159 words)

Should I break up with her? I feel like it's now or never.

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19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf been together for 8 months. very wierd relationship, it was rocky from the start but I decided to move away about 3months into it and broke up with her. we started going out again 3 days later and the relationship has never been better. In fact its the best ... (203 words)

Why would anyone feel jealous in this situation?

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 years old and was dating my boyfriend for about 7 months and everything was pretty great. No real issues or anything. We didn't really have a discussion ever about "where the relationship was going". But everything was fine, and for the most part I'd introduce him as my ... (275 words)

What do you think he's up to? It seems like he can't let go...

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I know this is long, and I'm sorry, but I really want to hear some advice regarding this confusing situation! My bf broke up with me around 2 weeks ago, saying he can't see a future with us and that he still wants to be friends. I was sad and I asked him to rec... (393 words)

How do I stand out during an interview?

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19 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I hope you can help. I found out today I have a group assessment and individual interview down in London next week for a 6 month paid placement, these placements often lead to full-time work. I have been to interviews before for part-time jobs such as working in a ... (112 words)

Am I being needy or is she just a lousy girlfriend?

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19 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, in a nut shell... My cousin set me up with her best friends sister, which I went to highschool with and knew of but had never actually met. I am now three years out of highschool and in University(21) She is also at the same university as me and she is 20. ... (353 words)

What is he thinking? Does he like me?

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19 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy like 2 months ago our moms have being best friends since the were little but they dont live were i do so i had never met him. when i first met him i really liked him and then we saw each other again and i discovered that i had a huge crush on him there was this ... (262 words)