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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I avoid premarital sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a tall handsom guy, girls love me and i love girls too, but i dont want to have premarital sex, my urge for sex is too intense to the extent that i wake up every morning to see my boxers wet. I want to go into a relationship without sex. Is it possible and how can i avoid ... (73 words)

How can I ever get rid of these thoughts as they are driving me crazy and are stopping me fully enjoy loving my wife once again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I found out my wife was having an affair from her emails, trouble is the numerous emails (i read them all) were so graphic about what they would be doing and what they did do together and how great it was that I was left totally devastated, hurt, worthless, lacking and really ... (303 words)

I need a female's opinion here!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, i've been seeing this girl on and off for about 2 months now. I haven't gotten any clear signals that she wants to date, although she can get frisky when we're out drinking. Last weekend we went out and ended up hooking up and I stayed over at her place that night. ... (311 words)

My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I don't know what to do. I've tried almost everything and nothing seems to work. He doesn't feel he has a problem. I'm getting more depressed by the day. All we ever do is sit around and he drinks. I love him with all my heart, what do I do?... (59 words)

First time sex with my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, I'm 16 and I'm going to have sex with my bf for the very first time!!! *squeals with happiness* As you can probably tell, I am *ahem* more than acceptable about this, and my bf is so lovely and sweet and willing to wait for me although I've assured him I want to. And beli... (248 words)

Should I break up with my girlfriend or keep things going...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So i have this gf i been with for 8 months. I love her so much but its scary at the same time. from the begging i never planeed to stay with her this long. I heard she was real easy and yea she was, but i never been able to break up with her. yea she was kinda aho before but it ... (173 words)

Relationship of three years and finding sexual texting from other women,

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been with my b/f for 3 years, We have been living together for a little bit over a year. Recently (4 1/2 months ago) I found texts from women on his phone to him. One girl wrote " No I wont allow it! Do what you want to do but I wont help you cheat" , " you... (257 words)

I really wanted to help my friend but I don't know how.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a friend his name is Ruben, he is just really my ordinary friend but a very close friend. He has before a girlfriend, and i am a witness of their loves. they really love each other that almost got married. suddenly. his gf go abroad for some important reason. but it ... (385 words)

I'm confused as to whether he likes me or not...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay then . . . I play county badminton and there's this REALLY hot nice guy I've had a crush on for AGES. No really, it's been ages! Anyway, it doesn't sound like much but we've been kind of having some light-hearted banter between us and at a recent tournament he de... (296 words)

How do you handle stress in a bad marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been emotionally eating and have gained a lot of weight because of my marriage problems. Now I would really love to lose like 30 lbs, but things in my marriage are just not getting any less stressful. What are some good ways to deal with the stress of my marriage? ... (54 words)

When we are together things are great, but when we are apart I feel like he treats me like a fling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I feel like he doesn't put any effort into our relationship. First off, we have a long distance relationship, we only see each other once or twice a week (I'll spend the night at his place once a week). He doesn't see it n... (394 words)

Why is he like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HHhhhmm, i am caught in a serious problem. two weeks ago, i met a guy through my friend..first, i thought my friend n that guy is dating but that was'nt true and suddenly me n that guy got contact, we started texting eachother, and meeting everyday.. the attention i wanted ... (229 words)

I'm self-sufficient and attractive, but only seem to find losers -- why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age - I have been waiting and waiting for my so to be called bf to commit. spent a fortune on a holiday to be near him. Only saw him for 3 out of 14 days. Decided that was the last straw. Trying to make links with new people via dating agencies as I do not seem to meet any out ... (174 words)

What's a casual way to ask a guy if he will be at the fall dance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What's a casual way to ask a guy if he will be at the fall dance? I don't want to know if he wants to go with me or if he already has a date... just whether he'll be there or not. you see, i think i'm interested but i'm not sure so and i don't feel ready to go on a date... (103 words)

Is his age that bad and am I a bitch for having an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well people are gonna think I'm a right bitch i just have to tell someone, im 17 years old, and having an afair with a man who has a gf and little boy! i feel really sick about it but i didnt know until about a week ago, i really liked this man but hes 28 years old is this too ... (173 words)

Can't let go of the past, and keep starting fights over it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm living with a man for almost 4 years now and also engaged. I met him after he just broke off an 11 year relationship with another woman and I was his go to person (yes, sex too). I thought during that time I was the only one he was seeing. 5 months later I found out he was ... (360 words)

How can I get these pictures back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - So I'm almost 16. I'm just under 5'2" about 105lbs. little less at times, really big green eyes and long, naturally straight dark brown hair with black and auburn highlights/lowlights. I usually have pretty high self confidence and carry myself as such. I'm a really friendly ... (349 words)

I don't know what to do, as I still need her in my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this girl have been best friends for about 7 years, even though we moved different schools and everything. we always kept in touch through phone and we met up a lot. i told her everything and she told me everything. we trusted each other with everything, i always gave ... (214 words)

I'm 13 and never been kissed. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 13 I havent got my first kiss. My boyfriend wants to and iIhevnt kissed someone yet because I dunno what to do. I know you close your eyes and go for it but im stuck. Do I give a peck on the lips before a snog or what and like when ya snog do you move your tongue and ... (76 words)

I hate my sister-in-laws sister and its causing problems in my family relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a real problem with my sister in law and her family. She is married to my brother with whom to be fair I have an ok relationship with. We are close in age but not close to each other. We email eachother on average once a week but then we could go weeks without ... (373 words)

I pushed my live in boyfriend away, can we salvage this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my live in boyfriend have been together for roughly a year and a half. He is 29 and I am 25. Me and him were so in love but it seemed that when we moved in with each other (about 6 months ago) our relationship started to crumble. we did not have sex, hang out, do ... (438 words)

I'm 15 and had sex with my cousin, she wants us to do it again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Lately my cousin and I have been seeing a lot of each other. We are both 15 but we both have a thing of ending up on our own some how. Then one day when my mum and dad went out to go shopping they were gone about 2 hours. I can't remember how but we ended up having sex. Luckily ... (125 words)

Husband has gone off sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I m Shams I m married I have a question. When I married my sex life is 2 or 3 days a week and after then one day a week and now don't know how many months a day then why???? I love to having sex with my husband and he was like tomorrow and then next day same answer tomorrow ... (75 words)

Met with an old flame after 7 years and have invited him and his wife for dinner... was this a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost two years. We have been together for 6. I am 27 years old and we have no kids. I love my husband but recently I have met up with an old boyfriend who also is married to an old friend of mine. First me and his wife went out to dinner a few ... (217 words)

I dated a girl in the past that she really hates so she broke up with me. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi people really hope u can help me out. there's this girl i have been dating for 2 months and she was the only girl that i had ever felt this way about. I loved her with my all and she loves me too. She said i was the greatest and the best boyfriend she ever had. I really ... (293 words)

I need your opinions here. What does love feel like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - There appears to be two types of love. One is the love for a sibling or family member, and the romantic love between intimate partners. I myself am devoid of either. I never have (and probably never will) felt love for another due to my abnormal personality (Narcissistic pe... (87 words)

I want to break up for 3 months.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't have the courage to tell my girlfriend that I want a break for 3 months. A good clean break up! I live with her and I still would pay half of all bills. Would writing a letter be a good idea? ... (45 words)

I'm beginning to think I'm terminally unattractive!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a difficult one to come out with, as I'm genuinely beginning to think I'm terminally unattractive... I'm 26, have a great job, a fab circle of friends, enough freedom/money to go enjoy myself travelling, etc, but am permanently single. My last relationship was three ... (139 words)

Should I ask my brother's ex girlfriend out???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I am a brother who likes my brother's ex girl which they lasted for 3 weeks, I wasn't first interested in her but now I am, after seeing her around without my brother, what do I do?... (37 words)

He broke up with me but still loves me (I think) moving out today!! Will we get back together???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

Any ideas? How can I last longer in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys and dolls, just discovered this site as I'm getting fed up with my sex life. I'm going out with this gorgeous blonde girl for 3 years now and when it comes to sex its over like that a few mins 5 at the very very most, even with foreplay or when she plays with herself I ... (117 words)

Confusion...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20, have been in a relationship for 3 and a half years and absolutely adore my girlfriend however she is currently having issues and one minute we're on and the next we're off. I am physically being worried sick because I don't want us to break up because I love her so much ... (127 words)

She's doing the same to him as she did to me and I don't know how to react...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was friends with a girl for 2 years before I fell in love with her. I confessed but she turned me down. After 5 months, she is not talking to me any more. However, she found another friend guy and she kind of acting with him the same way that she was with me. Some kind of ... (72 words)

I want my wife back... it's breaking my heart being apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I have posted on this before, it was about my marriage falling apart. I have been married for 10 months now and the last 6 weeks we have argued constantly. 2 weeks ago i went a bit crazy as we where not managing to resolve the issues, all be it before this poin... (450 words)

I thought she was perfect for me... then she broke up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with this girl for a month, she's amazing, she's beautiful, funny and makes me soo happy everything was going great! Then she broke up with me she said I'm an amazing guy and I treated her perfect, I'm the best boyfriend she has ever had! but she doesn't want a ... (131 words)

When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When do you tell your boyfriend he's too controlling? I wrote earlier but it was far too long. Why do women, who were at one time strong and fierce, allow men to do these things to them: Demanding to see you on webcam while you are in class or at work? Telling you ... (293 words)

How do I tell him I need that I don't feel special without it turning into an argument?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I tell him I need that I don't feel special without it turning into an argument? I dont understand whats going on with my boyfriend. i love him more than anything but im having serious doubts. He started renovating his house before we met, we've been together for a y... (433 words)

Help! What do you think he means when he says he still thinks we have a future together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend had been ignoring me for a few days, he said at first that has been battling depression, and had problems at work and at home (money issues).. I asked him if there was any reason to it, if he was with another girl or if he didn't care about me any more. He said ... (190 words)

Can I make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Ok strange question and one I have pondered for a while... Well basically there's this guy (isn't there always?) He's a cashier and 20, he always takes the time to chat to me and remembers what I tell him, he is fond of attempting to find common ground. However ... (136 words)

I keep hearing stories about him and other girls.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a lady aged 26 going out with a man aged 38 (he is divorced and has 2 children). I am in love with this man but the problem is I keep hearing stories about him and other girls. Today my good pal told me that a girl went to her to ask if my man was truly going out with me ... (163 words)

Helppppp!!!! Could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, I've been on the pill fot 3 months now and I'm on my 7 day break from it, but I have yet to get my peroid. I'm starting again on Thursday and I am starting to worry. I have not had sex in over two months but on Saturday, two days after I finished my pack of pills... (106 words)

We've had a huge argument. How can I sort this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, I'm in need of some help. I have been with a wonderful guy for 6 months and when we started off we saw each other as much as we could and fell in love, problem is i have a job that requires me to work different shift patterns and now id be lucky to see him once or twic... (535 words)

He says its over for good this time

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my fiance has split up with me for the 3rd time in 8 years, he said the relationship wasnt going anywhere and we always argue over petty things. we have 2 kids together and we seemed ok till last week when we had a little argument which sent him to move out. we keep in contact ... (172 words)

I'm the love of his life but he won't marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My problem is this. My boyfriend, whom I live with, who says Im the love of his life, will not marry me. I decided to lay off him but the only way to do this is to emotionally disconnect from him so that I can deal. In my eyes, not wanting to marry me is the same as not wanting ... (114 words)

Do I tell her I saw her asleep, under the covers, with her shirtless (but with trousers on) ex on the top of the covers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Just before I get started, I known this girl for 9 years, she always wanted me and I wanted her, we date 6 years ago, didnt last cause she was busy with school. Now we are dating again, and Im the first person she fell in love with and I love her so much. You can tell she want... (600 words)

He hasn't replied to texts for a couple of days, and I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy a week ago and we really hit it off. He gave me his no and I texted him a few days later. He replied and we exchanged a few messages. Now though he's not replied for a couple of days and I don't know what to do. We don't stay that close to each other but had said ... (97 words)

Has anyone given up on finding love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (?) age 51-59 - This is a strange one. Has anybody out there ever been close to giving up on the idea of ever finding someone whom they are very compatible. In a sense is it sensible to give up o finding love. In the past I was with a girl and we broke up. Ive gotten over it, I think ( circa ... (120 words)

Is his motive just for a booty call or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Since I broke up with my ex 4 months ago, we have been communicating every now and then. But our talk wasn't usually good, there was this blaming and starting a fight on my side. He tried to ignore me but somehow, he would communicate back in a calmer mood just when I start to ... (476 words)

After 5 years the relationship is so boring!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for about five years now. The relationship has become so boring. We do not do anything like go out to a movie or dinner. We just stay at home. He's pretty cold to me too. No cuddling or kissing. We don't even talk anymore. It seems as ... (88 words)

He won't have a child with me, so I'm refusing to deal with the mother of his children. Am I being terrible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age - My question could possibly be viewed as spoilt and childish but it matters to me so here goes. For a long time I have wanted a baby with my new husband. He already has three children and doesn't want anymore children. He made this clear prior to us getting married but yes I th... (285 words)

I can't get over my love affair! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so Ive been with this guy for 7 years. Im 26 and hes 32. Everything has been ok between us. We have our ups and downs. There has always been problems in the communications department. Its like we argue instead of talk all the time. We are like total opposites, but hey ... (517 words)

I am suddenly attracted to girls but don't know how to approach one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been attracted to guys and i always had relationships with guys. I used to always think if girls were cute or not, but i thought thats normal everyone does that. But lately especially since ive been at college (I'm 18), I have fantasies about girls and this one in ... (145 words)

I don't like my knees I think they are ugly!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. ok my problem is pretty weird. Any lets get to it. Im 14, And i dont wear anything that shows my knee's. is there something wrong with me cause i think my knee's are ugly and i get embarrassed by them if people see them i mean its fine around home but when theres peop... (92 words)

He doesn't trust people and takes it out on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do I draw the line? My boyfriend is constantly struggling with his ability to trust people, and unfortunately that is taken out a lot on me. I have never been unfaithful and I have never lied to him - so please do not comment that I am possibly doing something to rai... (678 words)

No money, too much pride and now no respect for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 35. We both got made redundant in jan 2009. We are currently in big trouble financially, my partner has not found a job since january and is obsessing over the idea of going to college. my partner used to earn £40,000 a year, now we live on b... (846 words)

How do I build a wall between me and this colleague...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with my colleague, whom I have fancied for a long time, (I never hinted that I liked him though), he has been having fantasies about me as well. So, we did it but spoke first that there won't be feelings involved, as he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. Problem ... (177 words)

How can I trust a person without honesty?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF and have been together for 7 months. I think he may be cheating. He still talks to his ex and doesn't see a problem with it. Some of the messages and calls between them have been very suggestive, I can feel that his ex is still loves him because she hates when my boy ... (330 words)

My neighbour saw me being spanked by my mom!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was recently being spanked by my mum in our lounge, after 'backchatting' her, when my neighbour's 13 year old daughter came round and saw (and heard) everything!!! I was in the middle of the lounge grabbing my ankles yelling out, whilst my mum swatted my butt a few times... (189 words)

Is it weird for someone to go clubbing by themselves? And is it dangerous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

- Is it weird for someone to go clubbing by themselves? And is it dangerous? When I go clubbing I often see alot of guys just by themselves and I see them the whole night, just standing by themselves, like as if they arent there with anyone. All of my friends are now in s... (140 words)

The weirdest dream ever...!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, any psychological help on the following, last night was the very first dream I could remember for a really long time. I'm not sure if it could mean something.... It goes like this, there was this house, a house which my family and I stayed in many moons ago. Everything was ... (216 words)

I would love to have a boyfriend and have sex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and I still live at home with my parents and brother. I've not had a boyfriend since I was at school and I am still a virgin. I'm very shy and don't go out much. I would like to have a boyfriend and have sex. What should I do?... (51 words)

I don't know how to approach her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Friends, I'm 27 and have been in love heaps of times, but I have found the right girl (I think). I hardly know her but she is always on my mind. She is only 24. Is there anything wrong with that? I dont know what to say to her. I believe I am in love, just love. T... (68 words)

A twin thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Please help.. I have been in a loving relationship with my girlfriend for a few years, she is completely different to anyone else I have been with, but I cannot help finding an attraction to her twin sister. I have never been someone to cheat as I have had my heart bro... (407 words)

Is it right to have sex before marriage or is it better to wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it good Sex before Marriage? We have seen many questions from teens who loss their virginity in teen age and some boys and girls wait for his/her life partner and enjoy the virginity loss with his/her life partner. So, is it right to have sex before marriage or is it better ... (55 words)

Does he think I'm a freak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i started throwing up in the middle of the night and intense pains in my abdomen, i started freaking out cus i was alone and started calling pals at 3 in the morning...i also called this i guy id been seeing and know for three months. the next day he text me asking me if i cal... (92 words)

I lost my virginity last night but he was huge and the pain was unbearable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and just lost my virginity last night. Almost all my friend lost their virginity during teenage, so I told my bf that I have had sex with few person before but when I saw his penis size, I almost fainted, he is about 9" and very very thick around. I thinks his size is ... (440 words)

Should I tell him how I feel? Or let things continue the way they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, i dont really have a problem but its more of a curiousity thing. my friend lives like nextdoor to me and we've been friends for 6 years, hes the type of guy to name call as a joke. he doesnt do anything bad, he has a girlfriend and we all get along fairly well, ... (108 words)

I love him, but what's happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hey, so i met a really fit boy and i fell in love with him, i asked him out and he said yes.i have been dating him for nearly 3 weeks now but i have got very shy and everytime i try to hug him or talk to him i mess up, so i asked my friends for help one of them joked and said, ... (111 words)

How do I tell her I'm not interested without making things akward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going to collage for a few weeks and there is a woman that has been in my english class. She could very well be as old as my mother or a little younger and she has been looking for me all the time and making passes at me after i helped her fix her computer problem ... (234 words)

She shot me down yet went out with some other guy 4 days later! Why would she destroy 13 years of friendship in this way?

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22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well a few days ago i asked a girl that i had liked since before i really had interest in girls out to go see a movie. She shot me down but at the time she almost seemingly sayed yes and basically said that she wasn't over her ex yet and i thought ok with her ill believe this ... (285 words)

Loving someone with an expiry date hurts!

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I fallen for the most beautiful boy in the world, only thing is he's leaving the country. I always knew he wouldn't stay here, but now the date is set i'm shattered. Do I continue to play in the sun and enjoy our time, or stop this heart ache before i'm too far gone. He's ... (89 words)

Cant get over her even after 9 months and we're both still single!

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22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i dated my ex for about one and a half years and we were really tight together. she broke up with me exactly 9 months ago, saying she doesnt love me enough. we have been friends since then and i'm still not over her. we got together for movies, etc as friends and even kissed ... (286 words)

Why would this crush make me sad?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For some reason i am punishing myself for likeing this one guy. I hate that i think about him, and want to get to know him better. I met him maybe a week ago, but I am married. My marriage is going through a really hard time right now and the last thing i want to do is think ... (179 words)

I really want her back but she is seeing her ex!

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22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hiya my name is ben im 19 and about two months ago i split up with my first girlfriend i was only with her about 2 weeks but i liked her a lot. im not much of a talkative person and i never really opend up to her as much as would have liked to. we still talk and i have met up ... (189 words)

My b/f doesn't make an effort during sex, what to do so I can enjoy sex?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why my boyfriend like me on top during our sex? He is lacking of effort as to do some preliminaries not just jump into fucking. He does not want to kiss me all over my body specially my neck and back. I mean, he just touches my ears, neck, and run his fingers at my back but no ... (139 words)

What's wrong with my girlfriend's best friend?

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22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a terrific relationship for several months, and at this point hope to become engaged and eventually married to my girlfriend. One serious issue, at least for me, is her best friend. Her friend is married, 40, and has a baby. Both of them like to go out about once ... (291 words)

Porn addiction is ruining my life!

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22 September 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I'm looking for advice on how to overcome a porn addiction. I started viewing it during my teenage years out of curiosity and then eventually started masturbating to it, and have been doing that for the past 8 years or so (since I was 22- I am now 30, nearly 31). The activity... (794 words)

Lost my sex drive for years and now its come back really strong!

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 yrs old, female. About 2 years ago I went on antidepressants, but I only stayed on them for about 6 months, I stopped because it was causing lots of strange side effects, the worst being constant shaking. Anyway I noticed once I went off them my sex drive complely di... (172 words)

She's so flirtacious with her ex, how should I handle it?

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22 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok, I posted here recently and got some fabulous advice. I'm in a really tough dilemna right now. I've been hanging out with my ex for over a month now. When we hang out, I have the time of my life. We're all over each other and get along so well. The thing is, she still ... (306 words)

I'm looking for some clarification when it comes to dating...can anyone help?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been out of touch with the dating world for years now. Now I'm completely over my ex and getting out there dating guys, but I'm not quite sure what the usual expectations are when dating. I'd love some clarification on any or all of these points... - At what point when ... (241 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about the rape? I'm scared I will lose him

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Last year i was raped at a city bus stop. My mother and father both know about it, but my new boyfriend dosent. We just started going out 3 weeks ago and i dont no if i should tell him or not. "Rob" tells me everything and i want to to, but i just dont no if i should tell him ... (160 words)

Should I confront him with all these weird happenings that I know about ?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this man on a singles site, he is 40, I am 26, I don't feel like the age is an issue at all. I have been seeing him for about 2 1/2 months, from the beginning I was very straight forward about the fact that I do not like cheaters, been very adamant that that was why most ... (1629 words)

I try to be nice to my ex because we have a child together but I hate the things he does!

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This isnt exactly a love question,but it does have to do with my ex boyfriend.We have a 5 year old daughter together and i broke up with him about 4 years ago.I really cant stand him,when i started dating him i was only 18 and still not the brightest crayon in the box when it ... (314 words)

Confused over two guys...I need help figuring out what I want!

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Yes, this is another of those "confused about which guy" questions...but it's not your typical question of based on these few paragraphs, which guy is better for me, who you've also never met... so please read on! I really need to sort this out because I'm supposed to be ... (332 words)

Should I leave things as they are not totally fulfilled? Or push for more?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am completely taken with a man who i have known for a little more than 3 years. he has on and off shown attraction to me too and even though our communication is maybe every other week, he will call me after a night of being "with the boys" playing poker or watching ... (115 words)

Wondering if I should have broken up with him?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old and just broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months who was 21. after 3 months of dating he asked me to move to FL with him because he was going to school and originally i said no, and then he got really upset and gave me this whole schpeal about how he didnt want ... (608 words)

Why doesn't my ex want to be a friend or a lover?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he find me so repulsive?! I've loved this guy for 4 years. He always was such a flirt and a player and we liked each other for two years, and dated for about 2 weeks when he broke up with me in text and I never replied. I was crushed. I hated him and loved him at the ... (206 words)

Any other ways to get a sensation like this?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old, and i am DEFF not known as a "bad girl" and no one would guess that i touch myself in ways! sometimes when I am alone, i will take offf my close and finger myself. is there any other way I can get a good sensation like that?... (53 words)

If a guy cheats on his glrlfriend every once in a while for six months, does he love her?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I understand sometimes if a significant other cheats once it can maybe be forgiven in some realtionships--and if he is truly trying to make the relationship work and tries to change his ways... but just curious what others think...If a signaficant other cheats how many ... (228 words)

Is this just some weird 9th grade girl way of flirting?

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22 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, i been hanging out with this girl for a couple weeks, shes really cute and alot of fun, and while i dont mean to gloat, girls do tend to grab at me sometimes, usually my hair (because i got lucky, dark brown hair with a light redhead tint) but this girl "Becky", has grabbed ... (209 words)

He's in jail and could be there for a long time...

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres my story yesterday my bf also my daughters father go put in jail in a holding cell he went to court today and didnt get bail so they trasfered him to the county jail and i dont know when he will get out but i was told in someones appinion that he will be in there a very ... (191 words)

Why is it wrong to tell someone that their partner is a cheater?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age - I have a question I would like views on please. With regard to finding out that a person has been having affairs all their married life........... Why is it so wrong to tell someone that their partner is a lying, cheating so and so? Why is it OK to "mind your own business", w... (125 words)

Her past relationship screwed her up mentally, physically and emotionally, so she pushed me away!

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22 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the deal me and my ex were together for nearly 2 years and throughout those 2 years our relationship was amazing. I must add that we were and still would be long distance (her sf me la) anywho we were really good together.....she shared nearly everything in her life ... (285 words)

Paranoia, delusion, intuition or gut feeling?

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22 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, Am I being paranoid, my intuition or gut feeling...my girlfriend love each other a lot and intend to get married one day, but I had this bad thought that something will break us up the other day that we will end up with different people. Our parents no about us and we ... (112 words)

How do I nudge him to fall in love with me? Or come clean that he can't?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know you can't make someone fall in love with you, but does anybody have any tips to move it along? We spend all our free time together, can talk about anything, and never fight. I don't know what the hold up is. I let it slip that I had fallen in love with him a few months ... (306 words)

Am I expecting too much, too fast?

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22 September 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I need a little advice. Maybe I'm expceting to much to fast.I ran into this guy that I use to work with 2 weeks ago. He told me that he was divorced and ask about taking me out to eat. When we worked together he seemed to be a nice guy and he thought I was a nice woman,so the ... (509 words)

I wish I could hate him and forget about him but it's not happening. Help!

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am miserable. Year and something after a break up. It was long and hard. I love this guy ... I really do and I just cant see myself w anyone else. I tried ... We dont talk ... we dont see each other. I know he is with someone else ... but I have strong feelings for him.... (256 words)

I'm a little obsessed with this one girl so should I ask her out?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm a 14 year old girl and recently I have found out that I'm a little obsessed with this one girl in my school. Last year I thought it was because I was jealous that she was prettier than me, and this obsession has been there since I first met her. I'm not really on ... (200 words)

I'm married but my ex boyfriend who claims he loves me keeps cancelling our dates! Why?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a complicated story, well my boyfriend and i broke up years ago cause i found out that he cheated on me and got some girl pregnant. i finished the relationship as soon as i found out. He tried to convince me that that it was not his baby but it was a lie. anyway he was ... (224 words)

How do I politely say, "I'm a moron!" ?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I accidentally dialled a guy that I like. I don’t know how that happened. Seriously. I didn’t mean to go anywhere near his number. Seemingly his number was still on my call logs from weeks back (??!). The situation is awkward because he and I swapped numbers a few weeks ago,... (210 words)

Ladies: What is the 'decent size penis?

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22 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - One for the ladies, i know most of you will say size doesn't really matter it's the way you rock the boat, but what do ladies think is "the decent size penis" ... (49 words)

How do I accept and tolerate the things I don't like about him?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Some of my partner's behaviors are turn offs to me (his porn subscriptions and very rare pot use). He's a great guy who treats me like gold. But, I can't get past these two issues that really bother me. We have talked about it and he offered to stop. However (to me) that feels ... (108 words)

He's amazing but registers on dating sites. How do I get through this?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been with this guy for over ayear. he totally shows me that he loves me and my kids. i'm totally inlove with him and would marry him. but he recisters on dating sites. that sems to me like he looking for something better. he says its nothing but it really bothers me to ... (89 words)

What is your opinion of tatoos and should I get one?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I need some opinions. Well, my family was talking the other day, my dad had two sisters, and a brother. Well one of his sisters passed away and so his other sister and brother talked about them all getting a tattoo that their sister had. Well it got me thinking that I want a ... (265 words)

Partner wanking to porn after car accident!

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If you found out that your husband/SO was looking at porn after he got settled in at his hotel on a business trip RIGHT AFTER he left to go out of town and you were in a bad car accident TOGETHER, how would you feel and what would you do? Yes, you were both ok (you only had... (81 words)

Help!!! Is he losing interest?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay..so my boyfriend is the type that needs to talk to me every single day.. and more then once. He always makes sure we communicate one way or another..and he always makes it a point to tell me he loves me everyday. this past week, he was away on a hockey trip, and he goes ... (183 words)

But I want a relationship and not to be a f**k buddy.

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I like this guy, and I think he likes me too. We have been hanging out all summer, and recently we kissed. Then last monday I told him I liked him and his answer wasnt really informative. So I asked him if I was wasting my time and he said no. Anyway I left it there. S... (241 words)

I need your opinion here... AM I still a virgin?

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - AM I still a virgin? Me and my boyfriend tried having sex but when he put it in alil it hurt really bad so i made him stop. But also he's had multiple partners and knew what he was doing. But I wanna know how to make the next time we try not hurt. I get fingered and oral, e... (73 words)

Am I addicted to sex???

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22 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have a question. After I lost my virginity to my ex bf, we had sex all the time. I used to only do it to make him happy but then I met this older guy and the sex with him was sooo much better then my ex. Now I find myself wanting it all the time but me and this guy ... (162 words)