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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Divorced and remarried, but I am still in love with my ex-husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age - I was married for 30 yrs. We divorced, and I remarried almost a year later. He has not. The problem is we still love each other, and I dont think I love my new husband like I do my first husband. I dont think it is fair to keep this marrige going when I dont feel the way I ... (86 words)

I cant decide which boy to date, but I love them both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like two guys and I am going to describe them to you, and yes, their names have been changed. Thank you for taking the time to read this. DJ 1. He is so funny, and always makes me laugh. 2. He asked me out. 3. He loves rap, and hip hop just like me. 4. We love the same bo... (161 words)

Met him online 6 weeks ago, he wanted to take it slow, didn't know what he wanted and I ended it because I couldnt be just friends. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I met this guy online six weeks ago and it went well. We dated but only once a week. We'd call almost every day or every other day. Every time I am at his house we kiss and hug and touch each other but did not have sex. He never said anything sweet to me such a... (854 words)

He says I never cook for him, but he is never around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age - I have a 6 year old girl for a lovely guy who I spent some of my holiday in the Caribbean with. I made a big effort to be there while he was there as I heard he was going although he did not tell me and that hurt. We spent some great time together and I did not want it to e... (300 words)

He went away for a month and now we hardly talk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Readers, My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, before we got together we were best friends. At the beginning of our relationship, we spoke often, he called often, we saw each other often, communication was not a problem. But he recently went... (225 words)

He says we don't have a future together, but he won't let me go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Friends[would really want guys to answer this] I have a situation here. I am dating [3 months now]this guy of arabic origin. He is 25 and we met on facebook. I am a 27 yr old indian girl. Things happened slowly in the beginning. It all started with a casual kiss in hi... (958 words)

Why didn't he open up to me when I opened up to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I was in a relationship for 3 years with this guy who would always cheat and I would always forgive him. Finally I had enough when we moved to another state. I started seeing this guy(Guy1)behind his back so we broke up. This guy turned out to be a total jerk. Somewhere ... (545 words)

My friend keeps hitting on my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been going out with this boy 4 atleast a month now and my mate has a boyfriend in a diffrent school and she just flirts with my boyfriend alot and me and my b.f talk on msn and he says he doesnt like her shes a dog and stuff but it really pisses me of that she keeps fl... (77 words)

Do you think theres a huge diffrence in age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have a Problem . I really like this guy , But he is a year younger than me and also the younger brother of one of my very old friends i havnt seen in awhile . I know he wants to mke us offical but im not sure , even though it seems almost TO perfect when were together . Do ... (86 words)

Does he love me after what he said?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who is almost 20 and I'm 18. we've been dating for 16 months and he says I'm the best thing ever in his life and that he'd die for me. so we watched city of angels on the couch the other day and we were talking about pregnancy and although were not ready I ... (140 words)

Should I believe him? or still worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 16 months i'm 18 and He's almost 20, hes just a jerk now. He acts like my dad... literlly. hes exteremely sexual and I am too but not as bad as he is.. I dont love him like i used too he asks me for 3 somes all the ... (319 words)

Will I have control on cocaine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always wanted to try having sex on cocaine and my boyfriend scored some and we'll be getting busy on coke this weekend. The thing is that I don't want to lose all control of my actions. I smoke pot occasionally and it stimulates my sexual appeites. When I smoke wit... (146 words)

I've fallen hard, but can't understand the signs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i really need some help. Im a 17 year old girl, and i would consider myself quite attractive. I was with my boyfriend for 1year and a half, but things turned rather sour, i stuck it out, until i fell for someone else, he didnt even no i existed but ive fallen hard, so ... (646 words)

Should I just settle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 and have never been married. I have been involved in a couple of serious relationships, but have never lived with any of my boyfriends. I don't put up with a lot of games or garbage and some call me too picky. I have a full social life and am close to my family b... (236 words)

My boyfriend does'nt find the time to spend with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need a solution to a reoccurring problem with my boyfriend. Often when I have free time, I will go over to his place and spend time with him. I will get there and he is often multi-tasking. He is a single father so I understand when he has to clean or cook or do things with ... (475 words)

Why is he angry? he broke up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

- I slept with my ex boyfriends friend. Me and my ex boyfriend split up four months ago it was his decision to end it and I was crushed by his decision. During the four months in which we weren't together me and a friend of his who I had met while I was with my ex grew clos... (170 words)

Why do I always think I'm pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - hello everyone, im a 17 year old girl and i am on the contreceptive pill however every time i have sex im convinced im pregnant. No matter how many negative pregnancy test i have i still convince myself im getting pregnancy symptoms, even when i use a condom and the pill i ... (60 words)

He's married and I want him back!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got back in contact with my ex that i was truly in love with but he cheated and left me for another women and married her. Years later I moved into a certain area and he stayed across the street from me. We talk and got caught up with one another but he wanted more and ... (102 words)

What should I do about my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Sorry this is so long! I have known my friend 10 years now. We’re in our 20s, so we’re not in high school, even though this sounds like a high school problem. I moved away and my friend hung around more with her co-workers. They gave her a lot of flack for being single and a ... (746 words)

I can't commit whats wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok then . . . I'm 26 (almost 27) and I CANNOT COMMIT. Seriously, when I think about it, I freak. Well, I don't but whenever a relationship gets too serious I just bolt. Completely. I'm out the door like a gunshot. All the bf's I've had are really quite clingy and I REALLY nee... (212 words)

Should I be concerned about our age or the length of our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have been going out for about 5 months and he said he was ready to have sex (we're both 18). should i be concerned about our age or the length of our relationship?... (37 words)

I'm very worried because in my dream I was lesbian!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago now i had a dream i was a lesbian, before that I was perfectly straight. Now i'm really confused about my sexuality. I have a boyfriend but now i just don't know; i feel really happy when i'm around him and i really love him. But everytime i think i've sussed ... (115 words)

I don't want him to notice or talk about big boobs, mines are small!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 18...and I wear a 34 A.. im beautiful yes but im so self concious.. I wish I at least had a B. my mom had smaller boobs than me all the way up til she was 30 then she got a boob job but i hate wen my boyfriend is around his friends they all talk about big boobs and ... (164 words)

He said he owns me and I'm his property?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has told me that I'm his and stuff before but the other day we were driving and he said in his famous 'joking yet serious tone' "you're mine...your My property and i own you your stuck with me" he said some other stuff pertaining to that then went back to basically ... (151 words)

Why do I feel guilty about having fun sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old girl and came out of a 2 and half year relationship in about May of this year. The other night I spent the night with a guy I have known about a week, he is a friend of a friend. We get on really well and he's great and good looking too. We had sex in the ... (116 words)

He cheated..She told me..He's trying to be a better bf

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Now I posted this once with a few replies, however a few questions are on my mind that I need advice on... here's the story once again, I'll ask my questions at the end. Story: I met my boyfriend online a few years ago, but we didn't fall for each other until we met in person... (1093 words)

How could I find my birth father having these few details?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am desperately trying to find my birth father. I know very little about him apart from his full name and his approximate year of birth. his details are not on my birth certificate. please help!... (38 words)

Should I even talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (Sorry this is REALLY long!) Last November I was in a play at my previous college (it was a 2 year and I graduated and moved on), during the play my friend (Carrie) and I met a guy named Brian. Well him and my friend got close and started dating; Brian decided to hook ... (1591 words)

We had lunch together, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Last week after class I had lunch with this cute guy Dave. We talked about school, sports and home. He told me how he went to his dad's friend's wedding. It was held in a hospital because he was so ill. He was very polite. He asked me if I minded if he checked his mail. At the ... (109 words)

He has been separated from his wife for 20 years, but still is unsure about divorce.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm dating my polar opposite. He's swedish, I'm american, he's 62, I'm 30, he's an engineer and I'm an artist that can't seem to hold a job. He's been married for going on 40 years which isn't quite as bad as it sounds as they've been seperated for 20 years, living on different ... (162 words)

He is ignoring my phonecalls, is our relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over two years now. Several times during the relationship - 6 to be exact, he wouldn't take my phonecalls nor answer my texts. I would call and ask him to return my phonecalls, but he never would until many days later. Anytime ... (192 words)

Please advise on my dilemma - to let go or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is going to be a long one...I thought I'd lay out the background info first, so please bear with me! My girlfriend and I are both of the same age, and have been dating for 3.5 years. It was quite a storybook romance: boy meets girl through mutual friend, both realised th... (970 words)

Is it wrong for a man to want to climax too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and have had two serious relationships, one seven months before I found out she was cheating on me, and the other three years and a half-planned wedding before she dumped me without explanation. I've performed and kinda-received oral, but have kept my virginity, as did ... (572 words)

Masturbation-how long is too long?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 793 days ago

10 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How much time is too long to spend masturbating? I have only been recently introduced to it and I've found that it's very liberating and I've been trying to see how long I can "hold it in". I recently spent 2 hours trying different things and it felt amazing. Just would li... (67 words)

How do I talk to a guy I fance but have only just met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started college and I really like this guy only after knowing him a few days. I've managed to have a few conversations with him, we like the same music. But there are a lot of awkward silences when we sit next to each other in class, im scared he's gonna get bored ... (81 words)

LDR and I wonder if its really love..he cheated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If you are in a long distance relationship (south carolina and texas) and he tells you he loves you and you have been together for over a year but he cheated on you once and he realizes how horrible it was and cries about it still because of how bad it hurt you and it has been ... (185 words)

I like him and want to ask him out but I'm afraid he'll say no!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need help... There is this boy at school that I really like, but I don't want to ask him out for the fear that he will say no. I have known him for some time now, but he was frequently off school; so we didn't speak that often. Now we are in our final year of school he is ... (151 words)

Do I have a chance of winning this guy away from his fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Right, so my question is fairly straight to the point - do I have any chance of winning back this guy from his fiancee? Allow me to elaborate. I am in my mid twenties and for a couple of months (2007) dated an awesome guy that I fell madly in love with. He was perfect in e... (1152 words)

Is my husband jealous or is this a way to control me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have gone through alot of arguing etc for about 7 or 8 years. We have been together for a little over 9 years. I have been disecting it throughout. My husband is military. I stopped working when we transferred the first time about 6 years ago. I had friends ... (308 words)

He told me if I left him he'd be a "walking dead person"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been trying to break up with my long distance boyfriend for what seems like a month now...We live in different countries and I'd have to wait a lot of time in order to meet him again. Maybe even a year. I know it's horrible to break up through the internet or thro... (450 words)

When is it time to draw the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Background: I have 2 children from a previous relationship. I have been with my fiance for 2 years and we have just had a baby together 2 and a half weeks ago. We had planned to get married, but put it on hold when we got pregnant and now are planning a 2010 wedding. O... (1577 words)

I'm 16 but look 25, does this happen to others?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

10 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I look 25 years old but I'm only 16, I'm wondering if this is normal I hear more complains about looking younger than age but not a whole lot of the opposite. and I'm also concerned will I always look older then I am, I would really hat being 35 and looking 44 years old.... (55 words)

He seemed to like me, told his friends about me but we never met up and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont quite understand what went on here. There was bascially a guy that seemed to like me, i was shy and wasnt ure how to respond and then when stuf started to become ALOT more ovious that he like me and the prolems started with other people as they dont even seem to like us ... (656 words)

Husband who lies and gambles

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused as what to do with my marriage. My husband and I dated for about over 3 years before we got married. We moved in together after a year of dating. After a couple of years I started noticing that our bills weren't being payed on time even though I chip in my part ... (220 words)

Is he shy or am I kidding myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well i'll start from the beginning, I've just been in Greece for 2 weeks, went with a male friend who used to be my boyfriend. I went with him because we get on well and wanted to see if we could get back together. Over the course of the holiday he probably held my hand/put ... (645 words)

Opinions please. Do you think he wants to get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

- My ex broke up with my 3 weeks ago. He then said he really wanted to see me. So I met up with him, but he didnt have anything overly 'important' to say. We chatted and laughed a fair bit etc. He asked me if there were any other guys in my life and I said no and he laughed and ... (371 words)

She just keeps hooking up with her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

10 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing the girl of my dreams off and on for about 2 months now. She was suddenly dumped by her ex about 6 months ago who she had dated for about 2 years. Everyone I know say he is a absolute jerk and hated that she was dating him, but I've never met him so I'm not ... (226 words)

My boyfriend has moved back to France and I'm distraught without him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was with a french man for 8 months. we worked together, and lived in at our job. he had a stressful time here, but stayed because he wanted to be with me. one day, he handed in his notice, tellin me he couldnt work here any more, and as a result was homeless. he has gone back ... (141 words)

How do you react when you break up but your ex wont give you the space to heal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - you are dating someone and you break up and you don't have time to heal because they call you and act like nothing has changed and then they suggest to you to move in and act like roomates but they also say I love you and call you sweetheart and so on and ask for a hug once in ... (112 words)

Is he sending me mixed signals on purpose or is he just confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age - I broke up with my ex four months ago (we dated six months). I did see him all summer because he is involved with my daughters hobby. We ended up having lunch twice in one week. After the first lunch I was reminded of how much fun we have together. I have tried to meet ... (661 words)

Is it wrong to want to hurt him the way he has hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My current situation is the most difficult one Ive ever had to face. I know it may be difficult for some to understand why a person such as myself chooses to stay involved but please bare with me. Well Ive been in my current relationship for nearly 6 years. I have a 2 year o... (669 words)

We hooked up after a wedding - should I suggest we meet for a drink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A month ago I went to a wedding and met a guy there. After the wedding reception was over we wound up drinking and talking for 5 hours and then hooked up (everything short of full sex, as neither of us had condoms with us). We live in different countries, but exchanged numbers ... (210 words)

How do I stop telling the world every detail of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem.... I must not email/text everyone over every detail and tell world my news.. Not good It is like I can’t deal with my emotions, and so I have to air them to everyone else, then I say something and then feel bad, guilty or conflicting about what I have sa... (259 words)

Is he too young to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently heartbroken. i had been with my boyfriend for over a year but lately i realised he had become distant and didnt want to see me as much. i asked him what was wrong and he finally confessed that he didn't kno what he wanted anymore but that he still loves me. he ... (181 words)

I don't want to be seen as a homewrecker if he leaves his girlfriend for me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a bit of a messy situation. Last year I reconnected with a very old friend of mine. We have history, massive attraction and flirtation, and an emotional connection that I have never felt with any other guy before or since. The only reason why we never got together in ... (220 words)

What can I do to make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've like the guy i'm dating for months and just over a month ago we finally got together. everything was going really well till recently he cancels on me without really letting me know. i'll bring up the date we're meant to be meeting and he goes of wait i cant i'm sorry. and ... (206 words)

Does my husband have another life in the UK???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've become concerned at the amount of time my husband has been spending flying out to the United Kingdom. I've noticed a lot of flight bills for flights to "Manchester, United Kingdom" and "Bolton, United Kingdom". At first I thought it was business trips so forgot about it,... (252 words)

I want him back, but don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner of 2 years split 2 days ago, and i am heartbroken! i have always had trust issues to do with my past and stuff, but he gave me the fuel to make me think that something was going on behine my back when it wasnt. We are still living together, he has taken the ... (97 words)

Is it wrong to stay with someone that I'm not sure I could ever love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is the second time I've posted in so many weeks, the last time I was given really good advice so thought I would ask you all about a problem that's been playing on my mind for some weeks now. Basically I've been with Sam for 7/8 months... at first it was very casual, see... (348 words)

I want him to care about me too not just flirt with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do? My guy friend shows that he likes me but he talks to his friends who are girls more than he does me. I don't get it! What if I tell him that I like him and he says no or what if he likes one of his other friends. How would I know if he liked his other ... (149 words)

He keeps talking about his ex all the time and it's driving me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a wonderful man than I just met a couple of month ago. Everything is great except for the fact that he wants to talk about an ex-girlfriend with whom he broke up about ten years ago. He claims to have been in love with this woman. Although he has had several ... (163 words)

Desperate for answers... please...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a gay woman in a 2 year relationship with my partner. I also have a 5 year old beautiful, intelligent little girl. My partner is extremely strict with my child and only shows her affection when we have company around us. This is hurting me so much that I have 'almost' ... (175 words)

Falling out of love with my husband, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband since just beore my 18th birthday and im now 26. We have 2 children aged 1 and 5 and have been married nearly 4 years. My husband felt like my soul mate for years until about 6-8 months ago. We moved area away from my family and I got 2 jobs 1 ... (334 words)

Please help! How do I move on or should I go back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with the father of my child almost 2 years ago and since that time I have been in a new relationship with a man that I care for deeply. The problem is that I don't feel like I have stopped loving my ex. We were together for 13 years and I moved across states for him ... (237 words)

My situation is a little confusing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My situation is a little confusing. I met this guy 4 months ago. We like each other a lot. There is a serious possibility of a long term relationship, but no verbal commitment till date. He seems to genuinely care for me and I do too. But, I discovered a few days back, he is on ... (69 words)

I'm usually shy, how do I introduce my "bad girl" attitude to him without freaking him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. So I finally broke up with the jerk and I'm with this new guy.. Have been for about 3 months now.. Our sex is fantastic but I don't feel like I'm doing enough.. We've done a lot of things that I have never done before.. Like choking and being pretty aggressive which, ... (259 words)

Help, why hasn't she talked to me at all in a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this girl for a while now and I love her. She has told me she loves me too, and we have just been doing so great together. She got out of a tough relationship and has been worried about taking it to the next step. We talk on the phone a lot and the last ... (185 words)

My boyfriend will stare at my face for at least 30 minutes! Why is he doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Somebody please help me, right now i am so stuck and i dont know what to do. I have this boyfriend of mine whom we have been together for at least four months now. My inner voice is telling me that he loves me and cares about me. Everybody know that love at early stage is s... (113 words)

I feel like a complete loser!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im so low in energy, shy in crowds, dumb, nothing ever goes rite with me...i jus hardly talk to any1...or wen i do, they just think i trash man ...im not of their level..get it....rite so i still do try my best to move on u know...been to many social gatherings, event, done sum ... (130 words)

She knows I'm attracted to her and invited me to her house, does she want to hook up?

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - girl who knows i'm attracted to her invited me over to her house while her parents are out of town. Does this mean she wants to hook up? we usually just hang out at bars, we slept in the same bed once at a party but just spooned.... (48 words)

Is he reconsidering the break up?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I really need some perspective on this! I was dating this amazing guy for almost a year, but then he suddenly broke up with me a week ago saying it was him not me, still wants to be friends, blah blah blah. I can't be friends, so when he calls or texts I ignore them or ... (374 words)

He said we need a break, but I found a used condom...

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't even know where to begin. My boyfriend told me today that we need a break. It completely blindsided me. As far as I knew we were fine, even sleeping together not even two days prior. Today, though, I found a used condom in his garbage that was not from me. I don't know ... (114 words)

Thinking about having sex but very nervous about it

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is really my first time asking for any kinda of help in this situation. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a long while now and we really care about each other. We have alot in common except for the fact that he is not a virgin and i am. (I am also a year ... (154 words)

Where did my loving wife go, this lady is crazy!

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I love my wife very much but now she is second guessing me. Ever since we had a baby, 5 months old, she has gotten really angry with me and sometimes goes crazy. I do the best I can to hold my temper but she says such hateful things I have no choice but to lose control of my ... (186 words)

Her friends are bad news and she won't give them up

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this girl for two months now and I have issues with some of her friends. My girlfriend used to smoke weed every day and she admitted she used to date a drug dealer. This is a big issue with me that didnt come out until recently. This is also a big issue ... (237 words)

Is it normal to get bored in a relationship?

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend(ex) went out for about 17 or so months(Year and 1/2)and we live in different states(SF/LA) just recently she broke up with me and it was mutual at the time because I wasn't sure what was going on and how I was feeling. We both thought things got a little ... (146 words)

He thinks I'm playing games -- how do I get more comfortable?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. i have a problem. this guy im seeing, hes 31 and im 18. we've been talking for over a year now and the sex is great, i mean the best i ever had ! when were talkin or textin each other, i never have a problem telling him wat i want him to do to me sexually. and ill ... (143 words)

I just want her to tell me what's going on

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - need a litle help, i am 29 my girl is 22 we both are in army, she is at TN i am in AZ, i got very jelous 3 times in the last 5 weeks, she wants to step back i the relation because of this and i dont know if i did a mistake or not, when she is "hanging" out with her friend she ... (176 words)

He no longer wanted to have sex once he decided we were friends

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all! I'm a 24 year old gay guy, that is for the most part closeted but have come out to a few at work and in forums. I have finally accepted that I’m gay, but not quiet ready to announce it to the world. I don’t have a family so that’s not an issue about coming out ... (475 words)

Is his sex drive normal for a guy who's 20?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm in need of a bit of advise and clarification if its needed. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 7 months and we have great sex. However he is hardly ever in the mood so we rarely have it and least once every 2 or 3 weeks. I'm 18 and he's 20. I asked... (131 words)

I don't know how to explain my love in a way that will get to him

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am dangerously in love with this guy. We been on and off for the past year. And he thinks im cheating all the time. When he's known as the player. And he asks me sometimes how much i love him. I say i can't explain. Words will never explain my love for you. And he doest think ... (95 words)

I'm used to having barriers, and afraid that the next guy won't like me when I let the barrier down

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10 September 2009 (F)

- 3 weeks ago i ended things with a guy (guy a)i was seeing (not exclusively)for almost 5 months, he basically lost interest, i had no choice, i didnt want to be strung along, he hasnt spoken to me since. Now, I had just started to really like guy b who ive known for a couple of ... (392 words)

I love my LDR, but I dreamt about another guy?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I´m in love with this guy with whom I´m having a long distance relationship for almost three years ago. He´s USAF but we are constantly in contact no matter if he´s deployed, etc. I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH! But, recently I´ve been hanging out with this guy at the office in which ... (131 words)

Does downloading 50 gb of porn equate to the use of a vibe?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 25 years old. We've been dating for around 2.5 years. Things are far from perfect, mostly concerning him and other women, and also my own insecurities. Anyhow, recently, the issue with us has been that of porn. In recent weeks, he has been having ... (323 words)

Seems like a mutual attraction, but I'm moving away in a few days

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - been in my current job about a year, liked one of my work mates since i started (lets call him Mark), hes so funny we have lots in commen and hes really hot! but i thought i had no chance with him, i dated another guy for a while but now single. so i move house and so does Mar... (287 words)

Broke up with my girlfriend, and want to ask her sister out

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so my girlfriend just broke up with me and I'm almost over her now. I've kind of takin' a liking to her sister. She is 15 going on 16 and I'm 16 and will be 17 next april. I think I know alot when it comes to these kinds of things, I know I can't move too fast, I know I love ... (249 words)

I'm in love with my best friend's son!

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have fallen in love with my best friends son who is 21 i am 39 we have had a little contact sexually but nothing is happening i am married and he has a girl friend. i can't get him out of my head, we have not had full sex at all but I dream of him all the time its so hard ... (85 words)

Why wont my man buy a home? Is this a sign of not commiting?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 25 years old and my man is 36 since we have been together ive brought up numorous times that i want to buy a home some day. I understood at the time that i didnt have a job that paid very well or that it only paid 6.75 but since then ive gotten a better job that pays 12.50 ... (103 words)

I promised I'd never be around an ex, but it's either the promise or my best friend's wedding. What do I do?

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for 1 year now, and we continue to have the same problem, and it’s getting worse. I promised my girlfriend that we (or I) would never be around any of my x's back in January. Shortly thereafter my best friend and fraternity brother got engaged ... (232 words)

I love my boyfriend but I don't like him

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big proble with my boyfriend. He's 20 and he acts like hes 42. I'm 18 and I act 17. I love to be wild and crazy and fun is always on the top of my list. him on the other hand he acts like my dad. its embarrasing. We've been goin out 15 months and on our 13 months I ... (243 words)

I miss him and I really miss the sex...

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10 September 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, I recently broke up with this guy (about a little more than a month now). I miss him and I really miss the sex. I do feel horny at times but don't know what to do. Any advice...... (46 words)

Do you think I should break it off with my boyfriend and start fresh in the new school year??

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10 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I started my sophmore year of high school today and my bf is a senior. We aren't in any of the same classes and he's planning on working a lot this year plus I have cheerleading every day till 5 and then games at night. He keeps thinking that we won't have any time together ... (146 words)

Did my teacher find me attractive?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a teacher in high school that almost every girl in the school had a crush on. After being in his class for about 4 months, I developed a crush on him as well. The strange thing about this whole thing is that it kinda seemed like he liked me too. I would often catch him ... (112 words)

Should I tell her about the dream as well? or should I just forget about it?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been a lesbian for 3 years, and when I seen this girl in my class I fell in love with her and we spoke and we've been good friends ever since. So a couple of nights ago I had a dream that me and her got married. I was just wondering if I should tell her how I feel about ... (78 words)

I wasn't the girl in the picture...

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I have a big problem. I fell absolutely in love with a guy that I'd never met but its not like a long distance thing we live just minutes away, anyways we took things reallllly slow just because he was so different from any other guy that i'd ever liked. We weren't ... (256 words)

How can I bring her out of her shell...?

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10 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 30, my girlfriend is 20, and sex is really boring. We are close, and cuddly, and communicate great with each other, but I feel our psychological approach to sex is incompatible. We've been together a year. I want to flirt, touch each other, and be playful long bef... (333 words)

How to prevent pregnancy?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship and we have had our first baby together. I'm on the pill but I still don't want to get pregnant again. My partner doesn't enjoy sex with a condom so what other ways can prevent pregnancy??... (43 words)

I love my boyfriend a lot but I don't think I'm in love with him.

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together but for the past two years we have drifted apart we live together and constantly bicker and fight with each other when we are together. I like going out with my friends and when I get male ... (100 words)

Don't know if it was rape.. it was my boyfriend.

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and have had sex before.. a few nights ago we were alone at his house and he was drinking. I was sober, and we were in bed. This is so nerve racking and embarrassing to say.. We were falling asleep in a "spooning" ... (201 words)

Should I tell him I was looking through his cell phone?

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Last night I borrowed mt boyfriends cell phone to text my children because mine was dead and I did not have a charger. His phone displayed several conversations that he has had with several people and one caught my eye. My curiosity got the best of me and I read it. I have ... (273 words)

Frustrated and confused...

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10 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The man I have been with for 4 years has also been separated from his wife for 5 years. I've asked him to get a divorce but he keeps telling me that costs money. And when I ask him about marriage he just says you never know what the future may bring. Why won't he marry me... (72 words)