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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's too immature and inconsiderate! Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a problem. I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 7 months. I never really thought I loved him. He never seemed too bothered with spending time together on our own. 4 months ago I cheated on him. We only kissed but I felt terrible I told him and ... (294 words)

I always do all the talking. Does she not find me interesting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey how is everyone i need some more help if you dont mind every time my girlfriend and i talk on the phone she has nothing to say, I'm always talking most of the time its quite and i say i love you to her to brake the silence and because i mean it with all my hart and more and ... (153 words)

Is my online, long distance boyfriend a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - He denied me to other women online that he doesn't have a gf. I am dating this guy online I am from another continent, he is in USA, we have been talking for more than a yr, we're in love but we have not met yet. He has been telling me to meet me but always postponing . ... (250 words)

I've Known Her 5 Years...And I Really Like Her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been best friends with this girls for 5 years ( im male and im 16 btw) and when i first met her i was really attracted to her, my feelings for her wnet away eventually but they have came back stronger and i dunno what to do. also latley my uncle has started dating her ... (105 words)

Different to Other Boyfriends...He's Not Very Nice to Me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - been with my bf for about 2/3 weeks he is not my usual type as previous boyfriends continuously told me they liked me and wanted to be around me. my current boyfriend doesn't and it makes me feel insecure that he doesn't want to be around me i know that sounds daft. ... (199 words)

Surely I deserve an apology???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age - Ok, so I found suggestive texts between him and her, flirting, goading, and daring one another, sexually explicit inuendoes that really hurt my feelings. Previously asked him to stop her sending innapropriate 'rude' jokes to him, but he chose to ignore that, and totally ... (310 words)

I'm falling in love with my friend's boyfriend... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my names jemma. My other best friend has got a boyfriend and so have I, we have been with our boyfriends for the same amount of time, 7 months, But here's the thing, im falling out of love with my boy friend, and im falling in love with her boyfriend, I really like him ... (596 words)

Oral... should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to perform oral sex on him but I always refuse. I can tell he really wants me to and we have already had sex. Should I do it or not?... (34 words)

What are your opinions on sex before marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. I don't believe in sex before marriage, or so I think. I'm 17 and never really been in a relationship with anyone so it isn't something that's really bothering me. I've been brought up as a Christian and I agree with no sex before marriage. Not just because of religiou... (129 words)

My Girlfriend is a Control Freak

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age - I am a 46yr old man and have been dating my partner (26) for 7yrs and have a young son. My problem is my girlfriend is so very jealous and insecure. I was married before and have 4 children which my partner flatly refuses me to see, I have done my very best to be the perfect ... (118 words)

Do These Signs Mean He Likes Me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Am I right are these the signs if A man fancies you Signs he was giving: Staring eye contact corner of his eye on me Looking at me and holding the glance. I wrote to him saying like Am sorry and that..(Long story) and I put 3 dots and when he replied he put 3 d... (100 words)

One of My Friends is Trying to Push Me Out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i had a group of really good friends last year and now school starts again and i have more classes with them. ones even in my hr. but lately one of them is showing signs that she doesn't want me around anymore. i told one of them that and she just told me that she was being a ... (164 words)

We Don't Get To Spend Any Time Together

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My man and me have full time jobs. We work so much that we sometimes dont see each other. On the weekends when we are both off we make plans to do something together including the kids. But when that day gets here he acts as though we didnt make plans at all.he at times acts as ... (92 words)

Sometimes I feel like walking away even though I really do love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There's probably no way I can post this question without you thinking I'm insecure or irrational. I don't consider myself to be either, in relationships I definately like my space and the biggest problem I have come up against is ex's not giving me any space in a relationshi... (308 words)

My Ex Keeps Threatening My Girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts, Hi got a problem and its i mean shes been bugging me for a while.My X wont leave me alone.We broke up 8 months ago.I have a new girlfriend and i love her to bits but my x keeps threating her.i hate her so much.ive never lead her on r anything i told her... (85 words)

I'm Stuck In a Messy Love Triangle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Ive liked this guy lets call him Robert. (because i dont want to keep writing the guy i like).Well ive liked Robert for a year and a bit now and recently my best friend told me she also likes him and it left me heartbroken.My Sister is Best friends ... (191 words)

The Condom Came Off Inside Me, Could I Be Pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ...is there a high chance of pregnancy when the condom comes off inside you??... (14 words)

Why are men so hard to understand!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this boy for around 2 months. I'm 17, he's 22 and he has a 4 year old son. He's happy with how things are between us and doesn't want to change it while I can't stand waiting for something that might not even happen! Because of this I'm thinking, shall I just ... (159 words)

Yikes!!! Am I pregnant? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 but I'm really worried. I had sex with my ex boyfriend and we used a condom but I've missed my period, I'm 28 days late and I'm really scared because I've had this funny feeling in my stomach and sometimes I feel like I'm about to come on then I don't. I haven't had ... (120 words)

My hormones way out...Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the last fortnight I feel that my hormones have been out of sync. I am the type of girl that needs to be brought out of her shell in the bedroom with my boyfriend of 6 months but these last few weeks I have been wild and horny a lot, so not like me. My hair has been ge... (139 words)

I'm having to lie to my parents, how do I get around this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This Friday my boyfriend wants me to stay round his, he has the house to himself so his parents don't know. The problem is my parents won't let me sleep round his so I have to make up an excuse I've already said my friend is having a sleepover and I'm invited but they said ... (87 words)

Opinions needed, I just don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so this is what happend This girl and I were friends and this guy she had liked and sort of seen for a while and her sister's best friend got together. I kinda told the sister's best friend some stuff that she said that she wouldn't say to him but she did and my exfriend ... (145 words)

How do I tell all five lads, that they may or may not be the father to my baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do? I know it sounds bad, so please don't judge me, or leave nasty comments! Well 8 and a half months ago I slept with 5 lads in a period of two weeks, and now im due a little boy any time soon, but all the lads know im pregnant and they all want to come with m... (178 words)

How can we compromise on our introvert/extrovert personality traits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship and have been together five months. I am 25 and was in a long-term relationship for three years before. There is a big problem - he is not interested in integrating with my friends and family. He says he has no in... (318 words)

How can I show my long distance girlfriend of 2 months that I love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay how can I show my long distance girlfriend of 2 months that I love her? She said I'm not allowed to send her antyhing because she's not a materialistic person and there's more to dating than gifts. So any ideas?... (41 words)

How long should I wait to take a test again if I don't start my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are trying to have a baby, so maybe just like every other month I am just anxious, but... I took a test today because today is the day I should have started my period and I was negitive. How long should I wait to take a test again if I don't start my period?... (116 words)

He's flirting with me now that I've lost all the weight but I don't know how to handle it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so heres the story. About a year and a half ago I fell in love with a friend mine, anyways, it all got really really awkward cuz he didn't feel the same and stuff and I was acting kind of crazy cuz I was going through a lot at the time. About 6 months after that and afte... (211 words)

He makes me feel so insecure... do I stay with him? What do I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my name is Preeti (24) dating a guy (28) for one and a half years. My boyfriend has a really close friend who's a girl and I just feel like I'm no one in his life.... I'm very insecure about him but I love him and he loves me too but I feel he's going to go for another girl ... (96 words)

He won't dump his ex or "put a ring on it", should I move out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last year I found out he had been emailing his ex the whole 2 years we had been together. I wouldn't have minded if not for the fact that he made me sever ties with all ex's and male friends from my past. He had been accusing me for months of secretly talking to other guys and ... (338 words)

My husband is jealous and controlling. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age - First off my husband is and has always been the jealous and controling type right down to hitting me and making sure I'm isolated with no female friends unless he's with me and can oversee everything and even then he gets jealous. For the first 14 years of our marriage he ... (315 words)

I still like him...could he like me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i went out with this kid lets name him joe but me and him only went out for 2days becus one of my " bestfriends " at the time told me i should break up with him and i did . but me and him still talked like bf gf calling eachother babe and stuff . it was beingin of ... (242 words)

How can I keep her from blocking me and get her to trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well here it goes. Im sorry this will be long, ill make it as painless to read as possible. i feel bad for asking, because i never have time to respond to questions anymore but you guys have been the best when it comes to this stuff so im just going to spill away. ---backgr... (1441 words)

How can you dry hump?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hola, Hello, I wanted to know how you can dry hump? I looked it up online and it's not very descriptive "Rubbing privates against eachother" and I wanted to know how to do it like the bestest way... does anyone know if theres a video that shows the best example of humping with ... (109 words)

Are we falling out of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm going to start this question by saying this... I'm 21, and this is only my second serious relationship ever. Anyway, I started dating a woman (I'm also a woman) in April. We hit it off right away. We were madly in love with each other and couldn't keep our hands ... (348 words)

I have Asperger's and I'm dating a lesbian. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so a couple weeks ago, I met this girl while I was having an anexity attack, and it turned out she had those kinds of issues too. We swapped each others phone numbers, and constantly chatted through text messaging. She seemed really nice, so I asked her to homecoming. She ... (211 words)

I'm gay and want to marry a woman so I can have children. How do I go about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi,am a gay man.36 yrs old have not hraed sex with woman but am willing bcoz i have to.i want to live a normal life.i want children.but am sacerd to have sex,i dont no if i can get it up.am african and is really important i have children.and if i cant do this i will kill my ... (74 words)

I feel guilty for leading him astray. Should I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 14 nearly 15 and i've been talking to this guy i've known for about 6 months we get along really well and i like him and he's said that he really likes me the problem is that he's 20 and i've said to him i'm 17 the proiblem here is that i'm feeling guilty for leading ... (88 words)

How do I go about living in New Zealand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i need some help, i would like to go live in new zealand. Now i'm not exactl sure what the law says at present, i have heard a few weird things about work permits i have been on a few new zealand goverment sites but its not giving me what i'm looking for. I was born ... (97 words)

He says I'm the love of his life but he wants one last chance to put his family back together?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been friends for 13 years and started dating 6 months ago. It was the first relationship I've ever had that felt right. He's separated and when his estranged wife found out how serious we were she decided she wanted him back. He's confused because he ... (125 words)

The thought of losing him makes me shudder. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was younger there was a boy i was always close to, we grew up together and was always best mates, we went out when i was like 10 (he was 4yrs older) but our parents stopped us. A few yrs later when i was 14 we went out again, but it was hard to keep it from our families, ... (598 words)

He used me and broke my heart twice. How do I finally move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I have been on and off with my ex boyfriend for the past 5 years now, 1 1/2 of which we were seriously involved, but now things have completely ended. I am very hurt and devastated and need lots of advice on how I can move on and let him go already but it's hard. We first ... (841 words)

I'm in a wonderful relationship that's lost its spark. He says he doesn't want to marry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a wonderful relationship for two yrs having been single for most of my life. I love him dearly and he is very loving in return however, he does not believe in marriage and I want to, I've always wanted to. At the moment I'm finding I'm not feeling secure or happy ... (111 words)

Intimacy has become non-existant in our relationship. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hello... I am seeking an opinion to what I believe I already know within a relationship that I am in. Intimacy has become almost non existent within it and even though I express the need nothing happens. There is no more touch these days and even though I ask nothing mu... (124 words)

Can you give me some suggestions on how to speak to a boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey :) i am 15 years old i am a female in an all girls school. My frineds say i am stunnin,buubly,outgoign,funny,georgeou but there is just one thing ! i have never had a boyfreind i know its probably the stupidust (dont know how to spell it ahah )thing yo... (132 words)

Can anyone tell me what this smelly discharge is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is quite embarassin. I am 21 and off the pill. I recently started gettin a yellow white substance comin from my vagina. It looks alot like cum but its not. Sometimes it smells a bit too. This is really annoyin me and makin me feel wierd bout myself. Could anyone tell me ... (58 words)

How do you break up with a habitual cheater for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in desperate need of advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a 1 and a half year old son, and live together in a home that we own jointly. He has cheated on me countless times (I've caught him at least 25 times over the past 3 years.) Y... (231 words)

Is snooping ever a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have just come through a very difficult time. I dearly want to believe he has changed like he says he has but he has lied to me a lot and the trust has gone. I know it will take time to get this back and im prepared to work at it as I do think we have ... (209 words)

I like him as more than a friend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated this guy for two months, and then he broke up with me saying that he didn’t fancy me and that he could only be my friend, so now we have been friends for a year. I like him more then a friend and not sure what to do?... (50 words)

Self esteem shot..can it be recovered?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Can your self esteem recover from years of being put down by your boyfriend? My boyfreind and i have been together for nearly 3 years. I moved into his house when he asked me to, and things were great. Until small things started to emerge, he sent another female a rose on Valen... (760 words)

Am I a squirter? Or just peeing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi okay recently I started masterbaiting not with fingers and once I got the urge to pee it scared me so I stroped and now I tryed something els I masterbait until I get to that point and then stimulate my clit (sorry for being graphic) and I squirted out water I stoped quickly ... (104 words)

How could he treat me like that? We've known each other 2 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! So there is this guy i worked with for 2 years and he started the same uni as me a week ago. I always had a crush on him and one night we went for a night out. He was quite drunk (or pretented to be) and we ended up in his place making out all night but we ... (154 words)

Why is it that society now seems to make it acceptable and even encourage the belittling of men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that society now seems to make it acceptable and even encourage the belittling of men? Adverts and media constantly portray the male figure as being pathetic and never in control and sex mad. It is even worse that mocking and belittling men in terms of sexuality is so ... (620 words)

Did my honesty ruin our chances of being together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, my ex boyfriend and I have been apart for a month now. i saw him yesterday and asked if we could go for coffee some time. he said, yes. i later called him and was honest about my feelings. i told him that i wanted to take baby steps and maybe get back what we once had. he ... (115 words)

The child will be a constant reminder of his cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my fiancé when i was 18 years old.He is the only man i have known.We dated for 2 years but then he got a scholarship to go to america for his post grad.For five years we have been in along distance relationship.He has been coming home each year and we speak on phone and ... (259 words)

"piercings make a girl look slutty"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - guys, do u like tattoos and piercings on a girl?? is a tongue piercing trashy? i want to get my tongue pierced for my 16th birthday in a few months but my boyfriend, who is covered in tattoos but no piercings, says that it will make me look slutty and guys will "get the wron... (112 words)

I'm living like a tenant in my own house and I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone! i've known my husband for 6 years and have been married to him for 3 years. when i first met him he had just moved in with his friend and there was no problem with that as we were still just dating. ... (425 words)

Can someone tell me what dry sex is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey... im a little confused can someone help me. ok im not really into sex but my boyfriend fingers me and the other day he mentioned the words dry sex and honestly i dont know what 'dry sex' means so i just went along with it and changed the subject asap. so can someone ... (70 words)

My boyfriends best female friend hates me, but he never sticks up for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

20 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - sorry this is so long but here goes: me and my bf have been together for about 2 months now. he is a senior (18) and im a sophomore (15). we went to six flags together last night. he used his best friends season pass and parking pass so he wouldnt have to pay to get in. he ... (731 words)

We fight because I don't like the decisions he makes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, i have a problem that i would really like advice on. My bf and i tend to fight alot and i know why i just dont know how i can fix it, and i take blame for the fights. I try to change him into being the perfect bf that i want, but i know i should because he should b... (184 words)

Interpreting texts when getting to know each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know one shouldn't analyse texts too much but would love to hear anyones thoughts!!! Met a guy recently and have actually posted other questions on him - it started out as bed mates and I said no to that - so now we are just getting to know each other to see what may hap... (258 words)

I can't be naked and comfortable around my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I both have problems with our sex life. She has vaginismus and self esteem/image problems and i have had no experience and am embarassed about my self in terms of ability and self image. We sat down and discussed yesterday our problems both physically and mentally and ... (369 words)

What is the solution for a dramatic relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend broke up with me two months ago after a relationship of 2 years. She is Canadian studying in Frankfurt, I am Austrian living in Luxembourg. We had a long distance relationship, seeing each other every weekend. When we met, she gave me the impression that ... (518 words)

How can he just shut off his feelings like that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am completely confused...This guy and I were friends for over a year and seemed to develop a strong attraction to one another. So after trying to fight it, we gave into our urges and had sex a few times. It intense and exciting each time. He even relayed that he had ... (287 words)

Where's he getting all these ideas from?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is away and he sends me scenarios sometimes of sex because we're apart and it's to help us and sometimes his stories have a reality to them that he can't make up, but that we have never experienced together. But he was a virgin and lost it to me and he dosn't and ... (79 words)

Never wants to have sex unless he is drunk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend never wants to have sex with me unless we both get really drunk and that's like once in a month if not less. While since we were blind drunk so it feels like we never have sex. I'm 23 and he's 32 and we live together for 2 years. I'm not ug... (340 words)

I want to change my jealous insecure & untrusting ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with this girl for about 3 months now. In my previous relationships sometime my actions have got in the way, and pushed my last girlfriend away. I cant decide wether it is a trust, insecurity, jelousy or control issue. The best way for me to describe it is that i ... (240 words)

She's trying to sort out things with her ex, doesn't want to hurt him, but where do I fit in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well i could do with some advice here if possible, Ive been dating a girl for a month or so. So far its been awsome we both look forward to seeing one another, chat on the phone etc. The last date went went on was great until the end of the evening when she started to tell me ... (611 words)

LDR and suddenly he's not responding

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, im in a bit of a muddle atm. you see, im in this long distance relationship with this guy ive known since i was a baby. Im 16, and i left England to live in australia 2 years ago, at this time we had been dating for about 8 months. We decided to stay together an... (135 words)

Fallen for my best friend and she's a female!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody ? I need some help plz! Sorry for the length btw, but ther was a lot to say!!! Ok I'm not entirely sure where to start, but here it goes... About 6 months ago i noticed i was really attracted to one of my closest friends. I have only just turned 16, so thi... (1014 words)

My parents never listen to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my problem is that my parents never listen to me or understand my point whenever i am in some problem.. i dont say i am right always but still when i am right they dont agree at that point of time wheras they agree to it in future when they realise it... if i say... (135 words)

I've never been so drawn to someone!

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Not really sure where to begin with this one, but I guess I'll just tell my little story from the start. Basically, I can't get this guy out of my head and I don't know why. From the moment I first saw him in one of my university lecutres, I just couldn't stop thinking ab... (236 words)

At Uni with a jealous possessive bf calling me, all the time! How do I cope?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, this might be a bit long but i have two really big problems. I'm currently in university in Cardiff (my first year)and my boyfriend is in Swansea in his second year. Now i love him to pieces and couldnt imagine living my life without him but I have a really big probl... (367 words)

How do I ease the pain of heartache after breaking it off with a guy, I adore?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age - can anyone please help the pain to ease. I have broke up with someone i adore. I may have been a bit needy recently with heart problems. we see each other at the weekend and lately we have been what i would say quiet with each other, i do get jealous of his roaming eye and i ... (189 words)

I can't get over my ex girlfriend....any advice?

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I can't get over my first girlfriend. I'm 21 now, and she was my girlfriend when I was 18. She's a year younger than me. She broke up with me on New Year's Eve after four months. It was horrible, i was completely heartbroken. Since then, i had two relationships. I... (146 words)

Another guy kissed me and I liked it...but I have another bf! Help!

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! Well, i went to a party yesterday in a forest with a couple of friends and i met many new people. But one was a boy i never met before and he is a year older than me. We talked for a while and then we went for a walk and he stopped me and kissed me and i had to pull away ... (108 words)

He gives me pleasure but doesn't seem to want it from me! What's happening?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and i hope its true when he tells me lovely things. yesterday he told me that hes fallen for me, and hes not the sort of boy who likes saying i love you etc. But there is one problem... whenever we do things, he always wants to give ... (111 words)

My current guy doesn't excite me anymore...what should I do?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I dont know what to do, I am currently in a relationship in which i have been with him for 4years now, I do love him but i dont know if this is enough he does everything for me but the excitment is not there anymore, I have grown feelings for another guy, he is much older ... (169 words)

Hormones are way Out...Why?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the last fortnight i feel that my hormones have been out of sync. I am the type of girl that needs to be brought of her shell in the bedroom with my boyf of 6 months but these last few weeks I have been wild and horny alot, so not like me. My hair has been getting greasy r... (128 words)

I've repeatedly told her I don't love her and don't want children with her but we are still together

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for about five years and lived with her and I have reapeatedly told her that I don't love her and I don't want her to be the mother of my kids I just don't know what to do. She has lost her job and now has a new job but only part time and I an... (125 words)

I gave him my virginity and he's already moved on

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just broke up from a short relationship problem is i lost my virginity to him im 17 and i thought he was special we broke up on monday and it was last night (saturday) and hese already found someone. I keep crying and i don;t know wether its because i gavehim my ... (79 words)

His priorities are all screwed up how can I make him see this?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I feel kinda silly asking for advice online, but I am confused and in need of the advice so here it goes... I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He just recently moved out into his own place that he shares with his friend, but prev... (403 words)

I hurt her because I told her about my mixed up feelings about my ex

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - First to understand my situation..you have to know what I have been through the last year. For the last 3 years I have been a recreational/serious poker player. I'd go the casino on a decent basis. There was this poker dealer that I slowly got to know. We started texting... (898 words)

How do I approach this guy without freaking him out?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I feel like a little kid but here it goes... I am still living at home, Just turned 18 BUT there is a guy the same age as me who lives three doors down, everytime i pass him or see him we have this little staring thing going on he will look at me, i will look at him but ... (99 words)

He doesn't trust me or take me seriousl

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i hav a relation wid my boyfriend from last one year .He loves me lot n i also but the problm is he dont trust me every time i did knowingly those things which hurts him n broke trust n now he is breaking up the relation bcs he donttrust me n dont take him seriously....but i ... (92 words)

Mixed signals/hot and cold

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Just want to thank everyone for answering ahead of time. My problem is with this guy I've been talking to. We've only gotten together twice, but he's nothing like anyone I've met before. I'm bi, and I just starting reaching out to guys because I don't have to do all the ... (431 words)

I feel like I should just give up on ever finding that special relationship

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've only had one girlfriend in my life. We were together for six months then she broke up with me. That was six months ago. I know that her and I are not meant to be. Everyone says that it will get better with time and that I'll find someone else but I don't see that ... (128 words)

Am I bi? Should I confess my feelings to hall mate?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshmen at a college and I live in a dorm. I met this wonderful hall mate who I have gotten quite close to. Oddly enough I can't stop thinking about her and I think I might be experiencing feelings for her. I never really had any feelings for other girls that I kno... (287 words)

Best friend and I messing around but now he's also seeing alot of girls!

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19yrs old my best friend and I have known each other for about 2years. I enjoy being around him, we have hold hands and told each other I Love You before. A while back we were both under the influence and he spend the night at my house. I slept in the floor and he slept in ... (335 words)

She's 26, but her family influences who she dates

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi...I have been in a hidden relationship. With a brazilian women for almost 4 years and she refuses to come out of the closet. 1. She tells me. She doesn't know if she is gay. Bc she is attracted to men ( although she's only been with 3 men. For no more than 2 months). 2. Her ... (398 words)

I'm worried because she's easily influenced by those around her

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi People, I've got a relationship question, I really like this girl that I met about 3 months ago. We get along really well and have a great connection and we have hooked up a few times. I've been reluctant to ask her out properly as she has been living with her ex-boyfriend... (214 words)

My boyfriend thinks he has me in the palm of his hand and I will never leave him

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at a point where i'm so confused. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, and though the following things I list seem like it would be easier to break up, that is just not what I want at this time. My boyfriend is becomming hard to deal with, and I just don't know what ... (420 words)

Considering abortion insure if its right for me or how I will cope

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 years old and already have a young son whos 2 and 9 months, i love him very much but i found it really hard raising him on my own, i wos lucky to have a good family support. And also i started dating my partner and iv been with him for about a year n a half, he treats my ... (344 words)

Am I blowing this out of proportion? I really want to get a divorce because I feel like this is going to be a never ending pattern

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OK well i have been married for two years in october and total time together will be 3yrs. My husband is a solider and we got married before he went to iraq. After seven month when he got a 2 week break everything was fine and loving but he used my cp and i saw a message that ... (421 words)

How do I communicate with this girl and get to know her?

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well to start off..i know this girl that i really like before..she was my batchmate from highschool and at the same level until graduating to 2007 but we never really had any communication i mean were not even classmates due to the fact that our school divides boys and girls ... (239 words)

I want to take a step back but how do I tell him?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend. The dearest thing to my life. He shares my standards, respects me, loves my family, and puts me first over anything and everything. We never really fight, but we are really serious and we back out at random times. I'm younger then him by 3 years, so I'm ... (353 words)

What should I send the girl online that I like? I was thinking flowers or a stuffed animal..

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20 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl online and we have been chatting for almost a year now. I really care about her and I want to do something special for her. She lives about half an hour away and we have been planning to meet, but I want to do something before we do. I was wondering what ... (131 words)

Is there a cure for impotency?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a 20 years old female, and I'm not happy with my sexual life. I have been married for a month now and i feel like my husband is impotent, because we haven't had a normal sex yet. He ejaculates after one min, and can not hold his erection for more than 1 min. We have ... (117 words)

Why didn't he like me? He likes her instead.

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok i have this problem, ALL my friends who are girls see that this boy "bob" likes me right, he is my best guy mate and i really like him. But my other close guy mate has told me that "bob" likes my friend "emily" , she has told me she doesnt want to go out with him as she ... (100 words)

I need help to gain confidence in my small breasts

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20 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, this is kind of a stupid question. First of all, I don't live in America nor do I live in Europe. In the country I live in, men are obsessed with big breasts. They are just ideal - real or fake, they're just considered better than small ones. Honestly, men prefer fake ... (541 words)

How can I increase my chances of getting pregnant?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im trying to get pregnant is there any things i should try to up my chances? i had leukemia when i was 7 and they told me that i have a slim chance of getting pregnant. i want a kid very bad and im scared that im not able to get pregnant. ive looked on websites for increasing ... (136 words)

I want my boyfriend back, it's making me depressed

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my and my boyfriend just broke up and i really want him back but he wont give me a chance....i am completely in love wit him and i just cant let him go. shortly after we broke up he kissed me but after that he started to hate me and i have no idea why. what should i do i dont ... (76 words)

Confused and need help/advise

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been attracted to guys and i always had relationships with guys. Sometimes I used to think if girls were cute or not but i thought thats normal everyone does that. But lately especially since ive been at college (I'm 18), I have fantasies about girls and this one ... (109 words)

I'm pregnant and my husband won't have sex with me!

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 22 weeks pregnant and my husband does not want to touch me in an intimate way at all!! I try and get his attention and suggest sex and let him know I am watching porn, which usually helps, but I am just not getting anything...Any suggestions as to what I can/should do. Its ... (76 words)

I wish he was more romantic

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right, so ive been with my boyfriend a while now, 2 and a half years, and were in love. well I'M in love, and i think he is too, he just doesnt really show it anymore. you know what its like being in a new relationship, you're getting to know each other and its exciting... (417 words)

Too early to tell if I'm pregnant and I don't want to have an abortion!

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, im 15 and just started having sex with my boyfriend. im really happy with him and we always use protection but there has been a few times when he's done it without just for a few seconds. he didnt finish it or anything but ive heard you can still get pregnant and now im ... (83 words)

Why do I want my abusive bf to be happy and successful....even "after" he came at me with a knife??

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a really hard time because my boyfriend was arrested yesterday for domestic violence. Yes, there's a big long history, but yesterday was really bad because he came at me with a knife which he was then going to turn on himself (this is what he told the cops later), ... (250 words)

Help me...I don't want to end up an old spinster!!

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. This is really hard for me. I am 28, and I have never had a serious relationship. I have had two boyfriends, neither of which was a sexual relationship. I live at home due to the fact that I am studying for a postgraduate degree, so cannot afford my own place and I feel... (369 words)

Experienced Mothers: Can you help a pregnant teen with some questions?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi people. I'm a new parent to be, ill be 18 in a month exactly, I know im young but thats not why I'm here, to be told that. So, I was wondering if anyone has had similiar symptoms as I have, Im in my first trimester and ive lost my appetite, no sore breasts yet, diz... (131 words)

I need some tips on anal sex!

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts. I hope no one will be offended by my question. My boyfriend and I would like to try anal sex. I like the idea and am excited about it but I am just secretly worried that there will be p** on him or that it would smell or there might be wind or something embarrasing. ... (96 words)

Any suggestions on how to get a life?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 23 with no life. When I say no life, I mean no life. While everyone my age is out enjoying their selves, doing things that young people do. I'm home, watching reruns, hating my life. Any suggestions on how to change this?... (43 words)

He said he doesn't feel attached enough to be bothered if another man hits on me?!

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about a month now. Last night I was out with my sister and brother-in-law who happen to be roommates with my ex, so he was out with us. He was trying to hit on me and I turned him down because I am only interested in the guy I've been dating. I ... (218 words)

Why doesn't he call me anymore?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, What if a guy called u once every wk, once every other week, to not calling in a month. He messages me online all the time but theres a difference between IMing and calling. I was the last to call hm (3 weeks ago) and I was the last to text him (last week) He used... (99 words)

How do I get the boy of my dreams without embarrassing myself?

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20 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok it would be great if someone could help me :) First i'll tell you a lil bit about me cos it will make it easier to explain, i'm in year 11 and i'm pretty shy.. especially around boys, i havn't had a proper long term relationship and really like this boy. Ok this boy, he'... (423 words)