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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My x will not stop causing drama. We have a 6 year old daughter together im worried she will have long term effects by all of this. He continues to cause problems during pick ups and sporting events etc. I am in a new and wonderful relationship, my daughter loves him and we are exspecting a baby boy in October. The x is still verbally abusive to my daughter and I. I think he may be bipolar? The x is still with his secratary that he cheated on me with so I cant understand why he still bugs us. My new man has to watch what he says and walks the line in order not to fowl up custody, but he has had it. The x threatens on a daily basis. My new man has made things so much better but the x will not let up. He is always pointing the finger when he is the one causing the issues. Last week he stood on my door step screaming and yelling in front of my daughter about somthing so unimportant it was sad. I hated to let my daughter go with him. My daughter reached up and covered his mouth and told him to stop yelling. What can I do its like nothing protects us. Do I have to resort to calling the police?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 September 2009):
Why on earth haven't you called the police???A man is threatening you and your family and you are just letting your children learn that this is acceptable?No. You teach your kids by example and you teach them to stand up to bullies like this and not letting them get away with it just because they are a boyfriend or husband.Teach your daughter that if a man ever yells, threatens, or anything like that then she dumps him and calls the police. She will thank you the first time a man is horrible to her and she knows not to take it from him.Good Luck!! xx
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