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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you lie to the court house about being married before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok i just want to know do you have to tell the court house that you were married befor?... (19 words)

Why is he acting this way? The accident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey ever since my boyfriend had his crash on a motorbike head first into a wall.. ive been so paranoid and getting upset like loads when he tells me things like " i nearly died vik" i tell him i know because i was there in the hospital with him.. and it just makes me so upset... (115 words)

He liked my best friend better...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I met a guy at a party. typical story i know. he's a friend of a friend and we felt an instant connection. i'm very shy when it comes to boys and have very little experience. my past boyfriends have not been great and i was hoping for a fresh start. however, the guy met my best ... (149 words)

I don't want to watch him die

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My bf is 25 and im turning 23. He's got high blood pressure but taking medication right now. Should we even think about getting married or should we end our relationship? I don't want to see him die. I don't want to be left alone to deal with the pain. I am losing... (88 words)

Bleeding after anal sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband and I have been experimenting with anal sex for the last year after wards there might be a spot of blood or two but this last time there has been more..now two days and there is still a little mainly with a bowel movement is this okay? I have no pain no where, this ... (90 words)

Is my ex my soul mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 28 years old. I lived for 2 years with my fiance in that time,we NEVER MARRIED because after giving me the engagement ring, he realized he was not 100% sure about marrying me, according to him because of the age gap,he is 57 years old now and in that time he was 54. I ... (437 words)

Breaking up--I want to be single and enjoy life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, I'm going to try and keep this short and to the point. I love my girlfriend, but recently we have become distant (we have a long distance relationship, I'm in college, she's in high school). I have been thinking about us for the past week ever since she mentioned taking a ... (141 words)

Why can't he see that we're perfect for each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Why can’t he see that we are perfect for one another? My guy friend and I have been friends for more than a year. We get along and finish each others sentences sometimes. He always brings up a teacher that I don’t like and he does just so we can argue. Today I said the teacher ... (270 words)

How can I accept he loves/likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been in a relationship for just about 2 weeks with my boyfriend, but we had been hanging out for about a month before that. Before all of this we knew each other years ago and then he moved away, came back, but we never got back in touch til recently. I would consider ... (558 words)

How can I make him go WOW!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey I would like to know how I can make my bf feel satisfied when we are having sex....how do I know if I'm good or not...what do men love in bed??I want him to say "wow you are good"....but how?? What would he enjoy best?? Guys any answers??girls to can give me ... (54 words)

My girlfriend was drugged and raped and I blame myself.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18, We have been dating since high school. I go to college in a town that is 4 hours away from our home town. Last April during our last week of school I invited (begged) her to come down and attend the last class bash with me. She came down and ... (363 words)

Test all say negative but my husband thinks I"m pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, i am 19 year's old and my husband thinks im pregnant. and every test that i have taken said negative. and im having all of the symptoms. and not to mention i got off of the depo shot almost a year ago.. and i have had my period but not a normal one but were normal up until ... (67 words)

He flirted with me, but now doesn't want my number.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok, Iv been on about this lad I can't stop thinking about. And how he was flirting with me at my brothers 18th. Well when my bro saw him a few weeks after he asked for my number but my bro couldnt give it him cos he has a new phone and didn't have my number. But then at school ... (222 words)

Is he getting it somewhere else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Men get off quicker when they havent had it in a while. Thats from my experience. Is that true or does it depend on the person? Because my b/f and I havent had sex in 3 1/2 months and then when we did he didnt go quickly. Not that I am complaining but I am worr... (85 words)

Relationship going down the drain because of my depression

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Relationship going down the drain because of my depression. My partner just does not understand why i hate the thought of going to sleep and why i cant stand waking up to face another day. Why i cry myself to sleep every night. He says i should just get over it and puts me ... (181 words)

Is it normal for attached guys to flirt with other women via email?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I need a mans point of view please. My question is: Do guys write/email etc.. other girls in a flirting/even inappropraite way even when your in a relationship with another? Is it an ego thing? Do guys usually intend on something to happen or is it harmless? Thank you ... (67 words)

I'm having anxiety attacks and she's confused!

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30 September 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Were both confused! To give you some backstory on the situation to come. I have just started school (university) and my girlfriend is taking her last year in highschool, I left my 2 jobs, nice car, family, girlfriend, friends, everything I did for the last 3-4 years of my ... (498 words)

Got busted for shoplifting!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I GOT A SHOPLIFTING CHARGE N I DNT WANT THIS TO MESS MY LIFE UP..WHAT CAN I DO TO GET IT EXPONGED N HOW MUCH DOES IT COST? I USUALLY DNT SHOPLIFT BUT I NEEDED SOME STUFF AND I DIDNT HAVE MONEY! CAN YA PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE... (48 words)

Should I go back to the books and graduate, then try for university again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My question may not have any relevance to love... But ill give it a try, back in 2007 i did my matric but i failed so i didnt graduate from high school,i was gonna study neurology, since i had a grade 10 certificate i could go to college and opted to study radiobro... (162 words)

Am I meant to just suffer with longing for my boss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am hopelessly in love with my boss. We are very close and we talk about everything. All I can do is fantasize what it would be like to hold him, to kiss him, to make love with him. The main problem is we are both in relationships. He recently asked me for advice. He asked me ... (152 words)

Had to leave her due to accidental sex, want her back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - i had a girl, because of an accidental sex i had 2 leave her. but now she's out and i'd like the first one back. (i dont know whats in her mind. what shall i do?... (36 words)

I'm beginning to think she isn't ready to date. All I want is to get to know her a bit better!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I pretty much know the anser to this but want some feedback! About three months ago I met a girl and it was an instant connection, something I have not felt in awhile. She was in a stifling relationship so we just met out a couple times nothing harmful. She broke it off... (321 words)

Isn't reality better than fantasy when it comes to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My Psychiatrist BF who is 41 has a 'collection' of over 100 DVD's almost ALL of which are about hetero anal sex, and a few male sex ones. He says he is only "curious" but this 'seems' different to me. I think in the past he had turned to it to cope w a bad marriage in defi... (249 words)

He was a player, he said that he will change for me but I can't help feeling insecure.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hi long story short, im with a boyf, been over 3 weeks, iv been wit him before. hes cheated b4 in the past, on me and past girlfs, and he was a player. he said that he will change for me, and i do believe him but i get these little moments when i feel insecure and sure that hes... (185 words)

Was I wrong to check up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, me and my boyfriend have been together now for almost three years. In that time he has cheated once with a woman for a month, that ended once i found out. He has persued another woman but she didnt want anything with him. Why did i stay? because i have these feelings for ... (407 words)

I want to know about oral sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi...i'm 19 yrs old boy i hav a gf and now she asked me abt sex but i wanna know abt oral sex eventually is it good to lick vagina or anus while having sex?will she like all this or to hav to hav penis in mouth? Please i want answer from girls......i'm sorry but i don't know ... (68 words)

Do I start next months pack as I've lost this month's birth control pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone, i just need some quick advise. I'm on the 28 day pill, i forgot to take it last night, and i was just about to take today's pill but noticed that i must have lost the pack when i was on my way home on monday after staying at my boyfriends for the weekend... I'm ... (88 words)

Like father, like son, in sexual habits! Should I talk to him or be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years and have since the very beginning been very comfortable and sexually open with one another, more so than any of our previous relationships. He has several unique fetishes and I've never thought much of it before, I love him and he ... (180 words)

Giving it a try again with the ex, only now he's gone distant again after his friends saw me out with my girlfriends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i dont know what to do im so confused.... i got back wid my ex and i think he is doing the same as he did before useing me... when we first met back up it was so good to see him again we had a few drinks and a chat he cudnt stop saying sorry for all he has done in the ... (298 words)

He danced with and was kissed by some chick 3 weeks before our wedding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance was out drinking one night and decided to dance with some chick, and he said she kissed him and he pushed her off and walked away. This happened three weeks before our wedding. how do i forgive him and move forward? ... (44 words)

If she's not in love with him anymore, why is our love so wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fallen completely in love with my best friend's husband and I don't know how to stop it. It has been going on for over nine months. I love my best friend, but knowing her and him I know they have been having lots of problems (for years). They have a daughter, which makes ... (751 words)

How do I get over my insecurities about (not) dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I used to joke a lot with my best friends about growing old together as cackling cat ladies, and how we'd all live in a string of houses on adjacent properties and sit on our porches with shotguns in our laps, terrorising the neighbourhood children. I'm now 21 years old, an... (656 words)

Has anyone tried Eharmony and does it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Just wondering? Has anyone tried Eharmony? Does it work? Or are they just a bunch of guys looking to get laid like plentyoffish?... (23 words)

Can anyone make any sense of this???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I am in desperate need of advice. I began seeing this girl back in the winter of 2007. We became official before christmas of 07 on the phone when she was in her hometown. She called me and asked me what we were because some guy was 'chasing her hard', taken back I thought w... (1571 words)

Another "I need space" story.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I just wanted to find out if you guys think I should worry or should just move on. I admit that we had some fights here and there. Just recently my girlfriend left for a internship for 5 months more than a thousand miles away and she promised that I shouldn't worry ... (359 words)

I struggle to trust men and I think this has taken its toll on my relationship, how do I stop my boyfriend from leaving me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone ! I need some help. I have ruined my relationship with my boyfriend. I love him a lot and so does he. But in the past i had unsuccessful relationships and due to my past i couldn't trust my boyfriend. I always fought with him and blame him for cheating with me. ... (197 words)

My ex is sleeping with his girlfriends best mate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone Well my ex bf is now like my best friend we get on really well even if we do have are little tiffs, But basically he has a gf who is pregnant and i slept with him once after that and it hasnt happened since as i felt guilty even tho i dont think he did An... (251 words)

He said he needs time to think.....does this mean I have lost him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well here goes had a huge fight with my BF of 6 months this weekend after a night out, I ended up leaving his house at 5am in the morning and going home in a rage, i call sunday and he wont answer my calls or the texts, we usually speak all the time so i left it thinking he ... (167 words)

Can anyone tell me what my dream means?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello :D I appreciate it if it is hard to answer this question, but I am extremely curious. Last night I dreamt I was inlove with my crush, and he was my boyfriend (along with other random stuff happening, e.g us going on a giant bouncy castle.) I actually thought we were goi... (151 words)

My boyfriend has threatened to break up with me if I have an abortion! How do I get him to understand it is my choice?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Yesterday morning I did a pregnancy test and it came up positive but I don't know how many weeks yet. I have no desire to be a mum or ever have a baby I just don't like them so I knew straight away that abortion is the only option. However my boyfriend wants me to keep it... (264 words)

Are my legs weak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I am 21. I have been a strong masturbator in the past 3,4 years. I did it almost everyday but for the past 1 year, I gained control over myself and minimized this habbit a lot. Now I don't masturbate more than twice a month. But when I ejaculate, I feel strain in my legs ... (85 words)

Nothing concrete but more seems to be going on than meets the eye!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm new around here and could do with a bit of advice, sorry for the novel. I have two young children with my husband of 7 years, he is a builder an works quite closely with his customers in his home, which normaly I dont have a problem with. Things havent been great since ... (923 words)

Am I being used by my girlfriend and her mother?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone I will try and keep this brief. I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18, we have been going out for about 6 months now and in that time we have never been anywhere without her mother, I stay at her house 7 nights a week and I feel like I am trapped. I do love her but tod... (406 words)

I'm a 20 year old mexican girl wanting to date a 30 year old white man, is this wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I'm new to this so I hope some one helps me is it bad if I date a 30 year old man I'm 20 s don't know if its a problem....I'm mexican and he is white!! Idk what other people would think. It shouldn't matter what others think but I'm kinda concerned if things will not work ... (60 words)

Has he changed his mind about getting married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about one year. A couple of months in (when we started talking about exclusivity, etc.) we discussed what we were looking for. I'm 29, and I don't want children and haven't really thought much about getting married, I always figured I ... (224 words)

How to tell my girl of 6 years that its just not there anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok so i have been with a girl for six years and we have had our ups and downs like every one else, but the problem is ive sat down for a long time and asked myself do i really love her? i have feelings for her and i do like seeing her but not being around her for too long. she ... (280 words)

If you were me you can forgive a cheater? Do you think cheater will repent and stop hurting others?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We married 23 years and have 3 lovely children. He is 56 and me 43. I am a teacher at school and I am a nice woman. We have a happy marriage and he never intended to leave me. We are French and live in US. One day I found out he cheated on me with an Asian in other side of... (349 words)

He dates other women yet he gets jealous when I date other men! I feel like he just wants to have his cake and eat it too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need someone elses advise. Meet this guy back in january on site we had been chatting for about two months before we decided to finally meet up our first date was great fun and we were comfortable with each other. The following dates were great to it seemed we had a good ... (269 words)

Its all about him getting off and he never takes the time to pleasure me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - why do men think it's okay for them to just raise up their woman gown and go in? the men get ready easy they can get horny just by looking at you or by kissing or just by rubbing your breast but yet they think that just because they are ready we should be to and that's not true ... (147 words)

Girl I'm interested in was violated and I don't know how to date her/talk to her!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone, I need some help here. I care about this girl that i've been (kinda?) talking to, but something really bad happened recently. I was with he one night, drinking, and another friend of hers came in to chill too. He sketched me out, but I said nothing to her, ... (327 words)

How do I let him down easy and as painlessly as possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved from the town where I'd been living for 5 years. I was in a long distance relationship with a guy ("Bob") for 2 years, and we have been broken up for 1 year. In that time, I started a relationship with another guy ("Steve"). I got into graduate school ... (334 words)

You don't know what you've got until its gone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - my ex and i had a very complicated relationship. he is in the military and early on in our ldr he was asking me if i would consider moving with him in the future. he sort of pushed the topic on me and ended up pushing me away. i closed up, and soon before he left for the summer ... (406 words)

How can you love someone and get turned on by other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Here's my story. My girlfriend and I have been dating for eight months and I am now convinced that I'm in love with her. So here's why I'm writing now... A few weeks into our relationship I found out that she gave me several STDS, some were easily taken care of with a few pi... (551 words)

Should I cut all ties with my ex? He is my best friend but he has hurt me so much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - it's so hard for me to fight this. i feel like the person who is closest to me right now, and who knows me the best is my exboyfriend. i wanted us to be done and over once we broke up, but we are still in contact. he has become a closer friend now than he was during our r... (653 words)

Would saliva help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a question mostly it guys to answer . I want to give my bf a handjob . I have before but I didn't use any lubrication or anything . I don't wanna use my mouth. And we aren't having actual sex yet. But I was thinking like if I used my spit and put it on my hand it night ... (81 words)

Other than cheating, what might make a man suddenly avoid intimacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 months now and we're already in love with each other. We started being more intimate and physical after about a month of dating (we both like to take things slowly) and we always have fun with each other and make sure the other ... (212 words)

Do guys fantasize about rescueing the woman they love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys have rescue fantasies? The reason I ask is this, I broke up with my boyfriend last December and recently found out about something that I thought could get him in trouble with the law, so I called him to warn him. When I broke up with him, I asked that he not ca... (198 words)

Which of us is the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - When we romance with my husband his dick is always strong but when we start having sex his dick becomes weak. who's the problem me or him?... (27 words)

I'm feeling insecure - should I bring it up to her and talk about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Ok, i need some help here. I don't know what to do. I have been with my GF for some time now and I really like her. The thing is that I don't know if she's flirting with other guys though. I really trust her and don't think she would do that. But one time I went on her page to ... (193 words)

I've known her for ages - how can we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Sooo...ive known this girl since 6th grade.we were bestfriends since 8th grade.we dated at the end of 9th grade (my first real and my only real girlfriend).and ended everything (stoped talking)the beggining of 10th grade and now im in 11th just starting,a year later and im ... (173 words)

When it comes to sex I'm never pleased! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well, me and my boyfriend are emotionally intimate and everything seems perfect but when it comes to sex im never pleased. I can only have an orgasm when im on top but im so tired of pleasing myself. I love having sex with him and even tried telling him the way i want and like ... (126 words)

What is PMS?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Does anyone know what PMS stands for ? I hear a lot of people saying it but i don't know what it means.... (23 words)

I swing between quiet and giddy, and people don't know what to make of me. I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever have a social life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know if i'll ever have a real social life. i like people, but i'm quiet. i'm more like a strong silent type (typical male archetype), but stuck in a female body. unfortunately when i'm 'happy' or just feeling more openly friendly, more than one person has specula... (460 words)

Do you think this girl is still attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 2 months now but we have been hanging out as if we were a couple for about 3 months. I have known her for about a year and have always been attracted to her. Our relationship started out with her being very sexual and it ... (364 words)

How to approach him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - im in love with a guy who is a senior in high school but im only a freshman.[tough huh?]i see him every day in school we both have the same lunch and i still cant seem to talk to him. i always catch him looking at me and i get nervous and look away. so what should i do?... (59 words)

After the accident, he won't be intimate with me anymore. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) age 22-25 - Hi my name is Nicole and I am 25 years old. I have been dating Justin for almost 2 years. We have a great relationship and he has never had a problem showing me affection. 7 months ago we went to a party and we got into an arguement and he stormed out. I didn't realize that ... (217 words)

Cheaters: how do you know if they have changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Do men that cheat ever genuinely change??? if they do how do you know that they changed?... (18 words)

Is it unusual to bleed when you first start having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok So hi again.. Im 19 and about a month ago me and my boyfriend started having sex. The first time it hurt like hell but didnt bleed alot. a few days later it hurt some and bled alot. since then we have had sex maybe 3 more times. Everytime we do it hurts a little at first and ... (125 words)

New and improved boyfriend or more limbo land?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I told my boyfriend of 5 years that I wanted a break. He just didn't seem that into me. We are both 48 and he just wasn't popping the question. He kept saying when the house is finished that he is building, he'll figure the rest of the relationship out. So, ... (234 words)

Does this mean he likes me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hey people i have a problem i realy like this guy but he has a gf and every day that i see him he sais some thing diffrent like today he said that some one told him i want to have sex with him and make out with him does this mean he likes me back?... (56 words)

Am I going to have to make the first move since he's shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 163 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am working a 4 month internship at a place, and there is a guy there that i see daily, and occassionally work with. i'm pretty sure he's interested, he's always very friendly and smiling, i've caught him staring in the morning meetings and he stands very close and touches me ... (127 words)

Dating 3 weeks, when do I shave my pubic hair, before we get married or before sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

30 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been dating this guy for 3 weeks. i don't know if i should shave my private area before he and i get marry? or before we have sex? ... (33 words)

Maybe if he thinks I'm sick, he'll drop the tough guy act and want to get back together?

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30 September 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i want my bf back but idk how long or if that will happen and i dont want to wait around for him to realize what he let go and what we had. do u ever really get over ur first true love? our break up ended bad and we havent talked since, iv emailed him but he didnt respond... (270 words)

If I talk to another guy, is that cheating?

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30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been talking to this guy for about 3 months and i finaly asked him what are we and he told em that we are dating... if i talk to another guy is that cheating ?... (37 words)

Is this a sign I should just let him go?

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30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My Boyfriend of almost 4 years told me yesterday that he needs a break because he has not slept with any other girl. He said if I don't want to wait than we can break up. I don't know what to do. I know he loves me more than anything else and on some level I understand. Do you ... (77 words)

How do I help boyfriend long distance? He's really struggling.

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30 September 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Wow, I haven’t posted on here for such a long time… basically, am in a longish distance relationship with this really amazing guy who I love to pieces. Last night he got taken into hospital after having really awful headaches and he is really struggling today too, doesn’t seem ... (141 words)

Is it normal to feel dirty after fooling around?

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30 September 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I recently started dating a guy. This is my first relationship. He was my first kiss, etc etc. We haven't had sex yet but we've been slowly moving forward. A few days ago, we were messing around, to the point where i took off my shirt. I was fine with it at the time. ... (109 words)

Will our relationship survive once I move?

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30 September 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - i have to move house with my parents and leave my girlfriend that ive been with for around 3 months. Basically my mum and her boyfriend loves wales and the go there quite often camping, and had been looking for houses to buy without me realising! about 2 weeks ago i fo... (570 words)