New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244964 questions, 1084314 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in September, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (114), 2 (116), 3 (99), 4 (96), 5 (83), 6 (83), 7 (100), 8 (94), 9 (97), 10 (101),
11 (83), 12 (98), 13 (90), 14 (108), 15 (77), 16 (118), 17 (100), 18 (79), 19 (85), 20 (114),
21 (104), 22 (110), 23 (97), 24 (96), 25 (98), 26 (83), 27 (74), 28 (123), 29 (109), 30 (71),

Archived questions from: 7 September, 2009 (see latest questions)

(More questions from September, 2009)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Pregnant without a hope!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. The father is 17 and we just broke up 8 days days ago. I was just about to tell him. I'm so scared he won't do anything and he'll think I'm lying. I'm also scared to tell my mom. On top of that I might have skin cancer. I need help, please someone give ... (77 words)

Do you think he likes me? (He's pretty shy)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met him about a month ago for the very first time, and we were at a park. He was by the roundabout I was on, and he was showing off and being really boisterous with his friends. He saw me smiling and looking at him, and he smiled back at me and said, 'Hi', looked at me for ... (755 words)

She says her sides hurt right after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. and all 3 years we have been having sex. Just recently she started complaining that right after we're done having sex her sides hurt really bad... Can anyone maybe enlighten me on why that can be?... (47 words)

How do you know when a dude likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, this question is more aimed towards males. Its very simple, how do you know when a dude likes you? I cant seem to tell if a guy likes me or not!... (32 words)

Help! I think my husband is cheating on me, I just don't trust him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age - I really need some help, I had found emails where my husband had been talking 2 other women, then heard message on his cell from this girl. This is a man that I trusted like I have never trusted another person on this earth, now I don't know what to do, I feel so alone! Help ... (58 words)

I saw my ex kissing someone else and it's hurting me like hell...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm Marco, this is what happened to me. This saturday I found my ex in a bar, I said hi to him and he said hi to me with an attitude, I was with my best friend and my ex hates him, I really don't know why, when we were dancing he was even pushing my friend, the thing is ... (284 words)

Husband's lack of sex drive...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband told me he had a lack of sex drive, and it's not that he doesn't want to have sex with me, it's that he can't - he also said it wasn't a medical issue, but a work-related one. He told me all the hotdesking he does in work has given him severe back pain, he's gone ... (117 words)

He won't give me his phone number but calls me his property...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 4 months ago, a much younger man I met in real life came after me full guns. He won't give me his phone number, but doesn't call me either. We mostly communicate by chat or email. He claims he is divorced with shared custody. He claims he is busy. We have had sex ... (358 words)

He likes to cuddle but not have sex. What's up with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story short... 34 year old attractive female, divorced with kids got into an amazing relationship with an incredibly attractive 37 year old man over 2 years ago. Amazing sparks in EVERY area and life was great....no, no...PERFECT. We are now moved in together and have ... (220 words)

First man ever to not want oral sex! Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm obsessing over this the whole day. I am in my early 30's, and by all accounts a skilled lover, so when I was with a man last night with whom I had been intimate with before and with whom we had simply amazing, mind blowing and most intimate love making a week before woul... (143 words)

Why does he keep pressuring me to have a baby before we get married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, long story short 18 months ago I met my fiance Rob, he was married at the time but filed for divorce shortly after our meeting. I am 24 and he is 34. Our wedding is set for Dec 26/09. Even though we are just months away form our wedding date he keeps asking me to ... (197 words)

Do I confess my feelings or just enjoy the moment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been sleeping with this guy for roughly five months now but Ive started to develop feelings for him as we've started to get to know each other better on a level that wasnt strictly sexual. I enjoy the relationship we have now because it leaves me free of commiting to ... (146 words)

Why am I single? Can anyone shed some light on this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hard to say this. I broke up with my ex in Feb 2005. Yes that long ago! I have been single pretty much since then, no significant relationship since. I moved location mid-2007 (but a non-English speaking country). When I go out with my friends for dinner/drinks I ... (479 words)

Does her story make sense?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend who I have been dating for over a year came into town this weekend. We have not seen each other for over a month. She came into town with her friend a gay guy I have never met. She told me she would call me when they got into town and all, which she did. Her ... (306 words)

What should I do with a Bi roommate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm male, 28 and I could use some advice -- I'm sort of in an awkward situation. I'm beginning to suspect that my roommate is bisexual and may be following me around online. I'll have to be honest here: I've always been kind of androgynous looking and somewhat bi-curi... (328 words)

Am I trying to hold on to a heart that no longer belongs to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm struggling with myself so much right now. I've been dating this guy for 3 years. We had ups and downs. Broke up once and got back. He used to care about me and like me only. He had a first love that he always seems to keep in his heart. She was his best fri... (327 words)

I have no feeling in my clitoris. What is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short, I have almost no feeling in my clitoris. I can and do get aroused, but trying to masturbate results in slim to nothing. Currently I'm still a virgin, but since I want to have sex, this is a huge issue. Could the problem get better when I have someone else ... (97 words)

Is weight loss an early symptom of pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok im with a guy well id mainly call him my f- buddie at the moment, and recently 2 people who have had children have said your not pregnent are you, Basically im doing things with him and last week he put it inside me and pulled out just before he cum anyway to be honest w... (195 words)

Why do you think we keep getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Around 3 years ago, i was with a girl which i didn't know. She was a friend of my friend in school, I ended up talking to her, and we met up. A few days later we were still meeting up, and going out for the day. I asked her out and she said yes. We were going ou... (538 words)

Why does my ex take so long to return my things? He makes excuses.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To males especially: What does it mean when an ex boyfriend took so long for him to return your things with so many excuses. When he finally returns it, he calls you after you get your stuff back and tells you, "its not finished yet, ok? Call me anytime you need anything. I ... (149 words)

Is this man trying to be my friend or is he just crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and have two children. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Our marriage is great but can be a little better. Before I met my husband, I was with a man that was a cheat and very dominating. Beside all the flaws, he was great to be around. At times ... (410 words)

My fiance and I split and he got another woman pregnant. Where do we go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I were together for a year and a half. 6 weeks ago we split up. He started seeing someone else, yet we kept in touch. About a week ago, he told me he wanted me back. 2 days later, he found out his new girlfriend is pregnant, yet he doesn't know for sure if it is ... (96 words)

My husband will be having a baby with the woman he cheated on me with! What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband since we were sophomores in high school. We married after he graduated college (I never got the chance to go to college because I was busy working so I could keep a roof over our heads). Neither of us were kicked out of our homes, but I decided to ... (563 words)

Men: Would you feel justified feeling the same way I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I just recently found out that I could be the father of a 5 year old little girl from a 5 year old ex relationship. She dropped said bomshell on me several days ago, just bringing it up in our convo. She's on her way to my location soon so a paternity can be giving. But my ... (509 words)

Is it unhealthy not to masterbate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it unhealthy not to masterbate? Well, i've been somewhat involved with this girl lately, and I just haven't felt the need to masterbate, i've gotten horny and stuff but doing something about it hasn't crossed my mind. I'm suddenly worried because I saw this girl earlier and ... (92 words)

Nervous in boys gym class!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i have a problem at school this year this is my first year in gym and its just all boys, see im not the type that like to play sports and in front of alot of people because im shy i get so nervous because i'll think they talking about me and other stuff and if we are ... (160 words)

How do I get her to admit her feelings? She says they are mixed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here's the deal: about 5 minutes ago i was an a** to my girlfriend. we got into a big discussion about stuff and she said she had started feelin these mixed feelins that she didnt wanna state. well bein me, i had to keep persisting she tell me just cause i was curious. she ... (91 words)

How do I make him realize I'm not rubbish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have hit an awkward patch, where he has come out that he doesnt enjoy sex anymore. and it realy hurts, because its only him thats not enjoying it which means im the one going wrong. can you give me advice on how to spice it up a bit, make him realise im not ... (58 words)

My husband tells his family every detail about our private life. Should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) age - My husband of 26 years ago continuously tells everything to his family what happens in our life. Then the family becomes judgmental of our life. This is very humiliating for me. And we don't even live in the same country. They never tell their own private stuff to him, but he ... (215 words)

Should I worry about the pictures and texts on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my current boyfriend for 2 months and I think we are really happy. We both have a lot in common in that we have been married before and have children. Things seem to be going really well apart from my trust issues. He went on holiday with his 8 year old ... (202 words)

His family hates me, is the only solution for him never to see them again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for almost a year and a half. We had both filed for divorces prior to meeting each other due to our spouses infidelity. He has 2 children w/ his ex and had been w/ her since high school (almost 15 years). My ex is not in my life at all and ... (485 words)

How do I not push her away when she's on my mind all day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Ive been in a Long distance relationsip for a year now and its going fine altho I find myself a little dependent on my GF that I have to txt her or call her most days ... recently she for no reason stopped contacting me and it did worry me a bit cos its not like her at all ... (232 words)

I wish I was asexual.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is there any cure to help me with this disease that's called "hetrosexuality"? Can it be cured by medication or psychotherapy? This is not a joke, I hate my sexuality. During my teenage years I often thought about being castrated, to cure me of this but didn't want femi... (173 words)

I'm not due for my period, and yet here it is! What happened??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hellooo(: i am slightly confused ! i am not due on my period for another two weeks but yesterday ( while masturbating) i started bleeding like i was on my period! what happened ?? by the way i am a virgin. thanks your comments will be appreciated. love confused ... (64 words)

Why doesn't she want anyone to see us being affectionate in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a woman for over a year, she is a mom of three. Her kids are 17, 20, 25. In the beginning, she would show affection in public, in the car, anywhere with no mind to anyone, thing etc. We even got busy outside her oldest daughters place. We live two hours away ... (120 words)

He's got feelings for another girl, but wants to take things slow with me... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I have been with my boyfriend for about 15 months. We've had a good relationship, had our ups and downs, but that's normal. Recently he became all distant and after I continuously asked him what was wrong he admitted hes got feeling for another girl. He was crying as ... (152 words)

How can I deal with the crushing lonliness I feel when I'm not with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 20 year old male and have been in a relationship with another girl for about half a year. Everything is going well, and we're happy together. But... When she's not around I sometimes get really lonely. I see her around 2 or 3 times a week, but in between tho... (142 words)

Should we give it another go for the sake of the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here's my question. I recently found out my boyfriend of two years cheated on me. We split up but now I have found out I'm pregnant. I still love him and I know he wants me back. Should we give it another go for the sake of the baby? Please help. ... (53 words)

Any advice, because I'm not over her and want her to see we can still have something special?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, she called it quits! Im the guy who wrote the question titled "Is she still mourning or is it over?" Well, she came to me and told me its over here is what she wrote to me (told her to write me becuase of our schedules and I didn't wanna keep dragging it out): Hey ... (618 words)

Wouldn't my ex say something if he wanted me back? Why is he acting like this?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I need to get some advice and quick! My ex has gotten back in contact with me recently and I still love him so much. There is still a huge spark between us and we get on so well together. He has told me a few times he still loves me, he is making an effort with my friends ... (122 words)

I think I love my boyfriend, but I'm dying to experiment with a woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, and just about to move away to university and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year now, he's 21. The thing is i'm very confused at the minute. I think i love my boyfriend - but i don't think i'm completely happy with him like he is me, because i ... (370 words)

My sister is faultless... but I still can't stand her! How can I help but resent her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Right, where to start?! My problem is probably one that a great number of people suffer from - for every family with more than one child there is usually a form of rivalry... mine has just gone too far! The fact of the matter is that I am extremely jealous of my older si... (823 words)

I want to suggest my ex that we be F Buddies, but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all my girlfriend and i have recently finished, on good terms i must add. like we are still going on hloiday together and things. i dont want to try and have another relationship with her, but i also dont want anyone else. i was wondering if anyone has any tips on... (76 words)

Wish I could stop flirting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey right here goes im 13 and a big flirt i know i am but the thing is that i dont know im flirting and now i hardly have any good mates cause i keep flirting with there boyfriends but my best mate she invited me to go on holiday with her family last week and there was this ... (110 words)

Is it worth telling him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so here's my problem. I've really liked this boy for about 6 months now. We're good friends and we talk to each other almost everyday. I think he might like me too, I think he's shown some of the signs (Looking at me alot, getting nervous, being really nice to me, find... (203 words)

I don't know how to act around him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story short, I like this guy that is a few years younger than me and that I have known for the past few months. We went out once years ago and liked each other. We would have still been seeing each other if I hadn't moved away. Four years later, I am single and happen to ... (580 words)

Is he ending it? Very confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I got an email from a guy I have been seeing briefly saying that bad things have happened to him lately with his job and other things. He didnt go into detail. I have only seen him 3 times (the last time we had sex), we both are in other relationships but had great fun. He ... (298 words)

Is it worth contacting him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f and me split up 5 months ago after 3 years. He said he 'couldn't do this anymore' and I was so hurt. I still love him and he was also a big part of my 8 year old daughter's life. I received a parcel last week with a few objects that I left at his house (a hairbrush, ... (132 words)

How do I choose between friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey.. so recently ive been going to my friends house often and he has an older sister (called celine) who is almost 15, my friend and I are 13. While I was there his sister had a friend round too called catherine who is almost 15 too.. so basically a few days ago they both told ... (167 words)

Really want to know whether he genuinely cares about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody,Sorry in advance as this is a little long but there is a lot of important details. I am 'seeing' a guy but in a confusing situation. I keep overreacting when there is no need to be. I am wondering if I am scaring him away. This guy is a very sociable person.... (995 words)

Can anyone tell me what he wants? (Guys opinions especially needed)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. So I really need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and I have been distraught without him. I cut contact owever, because I read it was the best thing to do if I ever wanted to get him back. He got back in contact with me recently and has been ... (148 words)

I've found pictures and messages on his mobile but I cant confront him because I was sneaky about checking his phone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner has an ex which he is in touch with as they have a daughter together .. i have been into his mobile phone without him knowing and found a pic of a female ... why ?.. i also found a message from another female . i dont think he is cheating as we spend all our time ... (137 words)

Will my girlfriend and I ever get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a question to ask. Recently my girlfriend and I broke up. We were best friends for 2 years before we got together. She said she liked me as soon as she set her eye on me but overall we were best friends first. Talked about everything, didn't hide anything, j... (426 words)

Am I too big up top? My partner said I could do with losing a little weight!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Guys, can I ask you a question I am a size UK 8, I think a US size 6 on my bottom half, my top half is a 34D UK size Is this good, I mean am I too big up top??? 34 D, good size or too much??? as my partner has said maybe I need to lose a little weight, I use ... (88 words)

I feel like a failure in life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Please can you help me??? feel like a failure.. and feel like all these things are wrong with me. I am 28 and 29 in Feb, that is almost 30 and have not much in my life, I don't have my own house, car etc. I live in a rented room in a house share with 3 21 year old... (397 words)

Will he ever speak to me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Will he ever speak to me again? Was with a man for over a year - on and off for the last 6 months. A year and a bit. Recently found out I am pregnant in July. He didn't take the news well at first and freaked out via txt. I found that weird and so ignored. When he finally ... (755 words)

I can never be the one to end relationships. Is this a bad thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship that will unfortunately be coming to an end in less than a weeks time. We are both going to university and have decided to end the relationship on mutual terms. However, last night we had a bit of an argument which became quite heated. The opportun... (248 words)

Thinking about an ex now going out with my best mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey ill get straight to it, i keep thinking about my 1st girlfriend. i went out with her for 3 months and i broke up with her about 3 months ago and im on to my third girlfriend now. ive been going out with my new one for about a month and its been amazing. i broke up with my... (205 words)

Is he worth waiting around for to see if our relationship will work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, as in 2 days ago, my boyfriend and i had a massive fight, because he keeps calling chicks names like "hun" and "babe" on his bebo, and he was mad at me for bringing it up again because we once had an argument about the same thing. He thought i accused him of cheating ... (626 words)

My son has admitted that he likes to wear womens clothing, but I have no idea how to deal with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age - Last night my 19-year-old son admitted to us he had a secret which was shocking, but that he needed to get off his chest. We were worried what it was going to be - but his response shocked us. He said he liked wearing women's clothing, explained to me it wasn't a sexu... (391 words)

Does he regret breaking up with me in the heat of the moment?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

- My ex bf broke up with me a month ago. Since then he has been messaging me quite a few times throughout the week, calling me etc, saying how he I am beautiful and how he still cares about me and that he is wanting to see how I am etc. And just making general conversation abo... (316 words)

Can't stop thinking about my crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What Should I do Now?? I like this girl and I cant stop thinking of her. I really miss her badly when we are apart. She treats me like a friend although I dont have her number. Everytime my phone rings I rush to pick it up to see if its her, I lay on bed all day thinking of ... (154 words)

The lack of quality time is putting strain on our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25, my boyfriend 27. We've known each other 20 months, lived together 10 months. Recently he has been very depressed - unhappy in his job and feeling, in his own words, he lives "a hollow existence". Both his birthday and the death of one of my very good friends seem to ... (409 words)

The father of my children doesn't understand why I'm so hurt by his behaviour!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Right this is going to be a lil long and I do apologise. Basically ive been with my man for years we have three beautifull babies together but I dont know what to do next. This relationship has been anything but easy but I love him dearly and know there is a good guy in there ... (1025 words)

Am I right not to want her at my wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am getting married next may. Next week we are having our engagement party. We have been together for 2 yrs. I have not met his 2 best friends yet as they live interstate. They will be coming to the engagement party. One is his best mate who he grew up with ( a male ), ... (344 words)

I can't cope with all these new feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im having mixed feeling about my bf. We knew eachother 3 weeks before we became a couple. Now weve only been a couple for 2 weeks. We clicked from the first minute. And fell for each other before we were an item. He treats me like gold, spoils me and compliments me all... (209 words)

Am I pregnant and paranoid?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

7 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for some time and we are expecting a baby. I dont know whether its horomones or me just being paranoid but im scared that im gonna lose him forever. I dont trust the girls he talks to since there is a girl who is his ex. And her new fella ... (97 words)

Am I asking for too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

- Are my expections from a relationship too high? Or maybe too low? What I want is, someone who respects me and accepts me for being who I am- conservative, quiet, shy and reserved at times. Someone who accepts my values of wanting to wait for sex (ideally wait till marriage, h... (248 words)

Is my hymen broken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time ever a few nights ago with my boyfriend. It did hurt but not alot and there was blood, does this mean my hymen had already broken or is there a chance that it is still there? My boyfriend is very understanding and we have talked about it.... (55 words)

21 year old in need of wise words!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's it is. I'm 21 years old and have never been kissed, in a relationship, or even asked out. As weird as that seems, that's not the problem. The problem is that, although I "fall in love" everytime I leave my house with some random guy or the next, I've only had two, ... (160 words)

Old issues still have me trapped

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now, been "together" for longer. Whilst I love him, there are issues about him that bug me. I need to confront him about old issues. Stuff that doesn't happen anymore, but that I am afraid will resurface. Firstly, ... (405 words)

Why does my husband prefer anal sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Anal sex, why does my husband prefer it? we have a great sex life and we both enjoy anal sex, however it makes me feel like my vagina is second best because he tells me that his first choice is anal sex. He tells me the reason why is the forbidden factor and that it is better. ... (98 words)

Can I trust my ex?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Can i really trust my ex? She says that she still feels the same way about me as when we were together. But i have a feeling that i cant trust her cause sometimes she tells me ill txt/call you tomorrow cause im sleepy. But then a couple minutes later i call her to see if its ... (93 words)

I just want to try and understand my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I guess I should start with a bit of background. . . I am rather new to published material forums etc relating to relationships. I used to think therapy, counseling, etc, was for people who could not handle things themselves, but now find my self seeking help. ... (576 words)

He doesn't want to be "restricted" by writing to old girlfriends

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

7 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seriously dating a man for two years. I love him dearly and we had been talking about spending the rest of our lives together. However, i have some major trust issues and we both feel differently about boundaries with the opposite sex. While he and I both agree that ... (670 words)

Friend is dating my ex, do I have a right to be angry or not ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there, ok so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 months, and i recently broke up with him like a few days ago, but i found out that my friend is now dating my ex. Do i have a right to be jealous ?? She's my friend and he's my ex, and personally i think that friends are off ... (113 words)

I love my cousin and want to be with him but I don't want to disappoint my mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and I am in love with my cousin we have been secretly dating since I was 13 I never meant to fall for him We met in NYC after not seeing each other for 7 years I didn't feel him like family He is my best friend the one person that knows me best and has been ... (214 words)

I had an abortion but fell pregnant again shortly after, is there a chance I could have miscarried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had an abortion about five months ago it was noting i ever thought i would do anyways i was feeling confident that i would be able to cope with it but it is so hard even harder when i found out my boyfriends sister is pregnant and during the nine weeks i was prego she never ... (185 words)

I want to dress HOT but not overdo it, any ideas?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

7 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so this is kinda a relationship question but i dont know where else to ask it. halloween is comin up and i think im gonna spend it with this guy that im kinds dating. i wanna dress up as somethin HOTT but i dont know where sexy turns into skanky! i neeed ideas to be sexy w... (67 words)

I feel like a slut after a one-nighter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just recently I had a one-night stand kind of situation. But it was somewhat tangled. I went out with some people I know from high school because I'd been a homebody with no friends. When I went out the other person and I ended up alone and we were making out sometimes. (BTW it ... (312 words)

Should I marry her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Been in a relationship with a woman now for about 10 months. Everything up until now has been pretty fantastic in the relationship. We both seem to give each other all the love we need. For me personally, i feel she constantly meets my needs by telling me how m... (914 words)

Should I stay in this violent marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there i am after a bit of advise...iv never done anything like this b4 so i hope it goes ok lol. basically i got married at a very young age i had only just turned 19, im 22 now and my other half is 20. since the wedding he has become violent and aggressive and has put ... (192 words)

I thought he really liked me but then I found out he has a wife and kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have felt so empty lately i guess. the reason is because i like this guy named Kent. Kent is 28 years old. I am 18 years old. Kent used to work at my school as a security guard. when i was in 9th grade i saw him but never paid any attention to him. in 10th grade we started ... (329 words)

What signs should I look for to tell whether he is interested in me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im an aries woman, and I met a very withdrawn scorpio guy @ work about 3 1/2 months ago. We've become friends and talk in person, text and on the phone. I like him a lot. Some days he will share his deepest feelings with me, but I can't tell if he's interested or not because ... (177 words)

Do you think the relationship might not be progressing because he is inexperienced with women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had given up on this guy liking me, but now I find out he hasn't dated anyone before, it may throw new light on things. I thought he wasn't that interested because: - he sometimes wouldn't reply to texts or call me for a week or more, then he'd say he was sorry and had be... (261 words)

How can someone go from lusting after you to not even contacting you anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I have this male friend (or I thought we were friends). We used to talk quite a bit by phone or text. Then in May he told me that he has not been dating anyone for the last year and a half because he has been wanting me. We decided to have sex and at first it freaked ... (280 words)

I'm bi and I want to have sex with my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am bi and my best friend dose not know i'm bi i would love to have sex with him but i don't know how to bring it up to him. i know he is not gay he will say man that so gay or ya your not gay but i can't tell if that is just a coverup or not. i don't know how to tell him we ... (99 words)

Messages on phone about oral sex with a man..he swears he doesn't know what they are about

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused - last night i wasn't able to sleep so i played the games on my boyfriend's (of 5 years)phone. It's a new touch screen thing that im not used to and i went into sent messages by mistake. Trying to scroll for the exit button i saw a number i didn't recognise and ... (157 words)

I don't want to be unhappy in my life, nor do I want to lose the "one"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, Please help me. I have been having serious doubts about my relationship for some time, but instead of acting on these feelings and breaking off the relationship I worry that perhaps I'm giving up the love of my life. You see there are times,... (365 words)

Whats up with this guy? I'm not sure if he is interested or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so , I've known this guy for a year . We're 'friends' . But last year , he'd always pick on me , but in a kind of flirting way . Like , calling me things that aren't exactly too offensive . Or randomlly poking my arm . Stuff like that . But this year , we talk more and ... (113 words)

He took me to prom and he seemed to really like me, but ever since he has been acting really distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, guys; I met him at my mom’s job a year ago. From the beginning he would make conversation and smile and look at me a lot. Sometimes I wouldn’t talk much and he would as my mom if it was cause I didn’t like him. Time went by and I had to go to my high school prom. He asked... (778 words)

Marriage dead, should I try with someone else? Or go it alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) age - I need some moral support... My 24 years long marriage is painfully dead. My husband stopped being affectionate years ago . and he spends most of his time with work. He is a good provider I must say. I know it great. We are not wealthy, but I don;t have to worry about the bill... (279 words)

Why am I so desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been on two dates with this guy. We seemed to really "click". We have spent the last two evenings together and I want to spend tonight together too. I know that if we do I will probably look desperate or clingy. I also like to periodically text throughout the day to ... (196 words)

Is there something wrong with me or just the situations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and I have never experienced a seriously relationship...okay, I do not think there is something wrong with "ME" just the situation. I can never be with the guys I really want and I have some guys friends tell me that they are afriad to get their heartbroken ... (181 words)

I think he's too shy to have sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a girl I've been with my boyfriend for 1 month al ready and i want to have sex with him but we dont have the place and i dont know how to get to him i think hes to shy for it if i start getting him horny would he want to do it with me'? i think hes a virgin... (62 words)

Does this sound like a problem I should just get over or a sign I shouldn't be with this man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a tendency to want what I can't have and it's really frustrating. I can't seem to help it, even when I know it's happening. For the past 6 months I haven't been able to stop thinking about this guy I'm sort of in a long-distance relationship with. We fly back and forth ... (172 words)

Husband sleeping around but I still love and want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner since we were 16, We're now both nearly 36. We have 3 children together. I found out recently that he was cheating on me with a 20 year old girl. When I confronted him, he admitted he'd slept with (no contraception but he's had the snip). He also then ... (158 words)

I get aroused seeing myself in the lingerie my guy gives me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past three months, I have been seeing a man who is more into "just because" presents than past boyfriends have been. Frequently, these presents are beautiful sets of lingerie. As a result, I find myself dressing in fancy bras and panties much more often than I ever did ... (143 words)

He broke up with me, and just wants to be friends, but I can't. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my bf and I had plans to live together in an apartment. We have been dating for over a year. But then we got into a fight and in theory made up. When we did he turned around and said he didn't want to live with me anymore. Well I was upset but I accepted it because I wanted ... (356 words)

Do I take the risk and start a relationship with my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

7 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so, my best friend and I have known one another for 5 years but have only been best friends for two years, after starting to talk to each other and realising we have a lot in common and also a lot not but that builds conversation and a healthy relationship that has a very ... (281 words)