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She left and now she wants me back

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Question - (6 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2009)
A male France age 30-35, *lliiott writes:

Well, She left me on Friday, Since Thursday was going to well, We didn't speak, Never even looked at each other, So the same night, I phoned to speak to her about things, Telling that I'm going to try to improve our relationship, She didn't sound to motivated that night, The next day, I did try, Making eye contact, Speaking, And nothing was working so I stopped, Since I didn't know what to.

Then around 12, She got two friends to tell me it was over, I walked off, Devestated and Angry. And then on Saturday, One of her friends was slagging me off, Saying how I didn't care, How I was over the moon. I was quite happy, Since everyone tells me I deserve better, And I know that in some way I'am better off without her, But I kind of still love her .. Anyway, Saturday night, She told me she regretted what she did on Friday.

I really don't know if I should take her back or not, And If I do take her back, Nothing would be the same again ..

Help ?

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A female reader, bethevans United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2009):

bethevans agony auntOkay, hey hun, first off think of it this way, you don't want a girlfriend if your only together because of her decisions, you should be involved in it to.. you see when she said she regretted what she did, i think she's just saying that because she's finally realised that she no longer has a boyfriend. I remember you saying in an older post that your girlfriend is not exactly the best of looking, but you still love her.. and hun this suggests to me you really do like her. So the decision is down to you.. but honestly make sure you think about whether it's the right choice or not.. much love x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009):

WHAT!! ok first of all that's like the stupid thing to break off a relationship because it's too long. no offense but you have a weird girlfriend, if she dumped you and then wanted you back, wow if i was in your situation i definetley sure as hell not take her back but it is all on you man. Good luck

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A male reader, Elliiott France +, writes (6 September 2009):

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Elliiott agony auntOhh, And I forgot to say that her reason for leaving me was that she though ten months was to long ...

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