New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244966 questions, 1084314 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in September, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (114), 2 (116), 3 (99), 4 (96), 5 (83), 6 (83), 7 (100), 8 (94), 9 (97), 10 (101),
11 (83), 12 (98), 13 (90), 14 (108), 15 (77), 16 (118), 17 (100), 18 (79), 19 (85), 20 (114),
21 (104), 22 (110), 23 (97), 24 (96), 25 (98), 26 (83), 27 (74), 28 (123), 29 (109), 30 (71),

Archived questions from: 9 September, 2009 (see latest questions)

(More questions from September, 2009)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm struggling to see if this could progress into anything further!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm 42 and I've been in an intimate relationship with a 43 year old man for 3 months now. He lives an hour from me and I rarely see him. He only comes to me if I invite him for a reason, such as a firework display etc. I go to his place most weekends but he doesn't think ... (329 words)

How do I reconnect with the girl I love and met online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl online last year and she is just so amazing. I told her about 6 months ago that I loved her and she said she loved me too. We would message each other all day long and we really opened up and got so affectionate. It was really amazing, but then she started ... (240 words)

Who do I believe... friend or boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If your friend for about 1 year said that she slept with your boyfriend and your boyfriend for about 1 year and 3 months swears he didn't, who would you believe?... (31 words)

My friend was raped and is now pregnant and I'm assuming the "father role".

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My female friend who likes me is 14 and was raped, she is now pregnant. I have assumed the father role, i love her. I held her for 3 hours after she was assaulted, trying to calm her. My question is am i doing the right thing? My heart says yes but I'm not sure if I should. I ... (77 words)

I feel cheated...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) age - I have been married for 28 years to my spanish husband. His parents lives in Oklahoma. He goes out there and leaves me at home at least 2 times a year. I know they are getting on up in age but, we need a vacation together sometimes. Is it wrong for me to feel hurt and angry ... (180 words)

When is the right time to ask a girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - When is the right time to ask a girl out at school? Because I can never get her alone to talk to. I'm always texting her but recently I've given up because she never seems interested in msn and stuff. Please help me I want to talk to her In person but there is never the right ... (64 words)

Help! How can I shake myself out of this depression???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I thank everyone who takes their time out to sift through my ramblings. I suppose I am lost as to what I should do. For the past year or so I have had then daunting feeling of unhappiness. I am so completely unfamiliar with this I do not really know what to do, wher... (522 words)

I'm just now sure if he really likes me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend I think likes me, I can't tell for sure though, he hugs me and we always laugh together and he looks in my eyes. I really like him and he pokes me a lot and I was like I dont love you any more, he was acting like he was about to fake cry so I said awwwe I do love you ... (75 words)

Can this work with no confidence, trust or compromise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have only been married for just over a year and my husband and I are already having problems. Not just issues that any marriage will go through and can work through but he refuses to trust me unless i provide proof that im not seeing someone else. I used to just deal with it ... (280 words)

It was like the fairytale ended...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my bf of 8 months because i have been having weird thoughts of getting back with the father of my child, but i feel like thats not what my heart wants. I feel that is the right thing to do for my child but we broke up after our daughter was born cuz he ... (254 words)

How can I get my mom to agree to me going on birth control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been trying my best to have my mom get me on Birth Control... I called up to the help department and they said I could come in there by myself but you know a young girl always wants her mom there with her... I dont know why she is being so lame about this. I wish she ... (76 words)

My dad wants me out of "his house" should I fail any subjects.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I am 17 years old. I have a little problem with my parents, I hope someone out there could advise or make a reasonable comment. I know my parents love me. I know I love them but, today, something really.. disappointing happened, and my parents have been buildin... (395 words)

Why is she playing me around saying she wants to be friends with me and next moment not wanting to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Help me out i'm in a situation and don't know what else to do. I've tried my hardest yet it just gets thrown back in my face. Me and my long term girlfriend of nearly three years split up just over a month ago. It was relatively mutual with no arguments obviously one or two but ... (330 words)

I feel a bit left out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am just starting grade 12. I have my group of friends that I always hang out with at school. I recently found out that for the past year and a half they have gotten together on saturdays at one of their houses and I have never been invited. This weekend they are having a ... (110 words)

She can only orgasm through the shower

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend can only orgasm using the shower, she's unable to make herself orgasm either through masturbation and while oral sex brings her to the edge it never goes all the way through. She enjoys sex but gets frustrated by it all. Any ideas? We've tried different types ... (62 words)

So how do I improve my relationship with humanity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, the other day I asked the question about how do I rid myself of heterosexuality. I guess this is a small part of a very complex puzzle. You see, my revulsion towards humanity dwells in the fact that I myself am cursed with this body of flesh and organs. To me it is repu... (326 words)

He said he wanted group sex and now I havent seen him for a week

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Well I have a boyfriend of about 6 months or did have. He was so romantic when I first met him, really interested in getting to know me take me out on fantastic great dates. He was amazing and sex was amazing, he would always tell me I was the best and how beautiful and fant... (380 words)

How can you tell peoples feelings over the internet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you tell if someone likes you online? As in over MSN or something? This one guy starts a convo with me within first 10 mins every single time he signs in. Sometimes straight away. And he's always asking me about myself, and seems to want to keep the conversa... (94 words)

Fell in love while working abroad, how can we make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy I met over the summer (we worked away together and are currently living in different countries) and I completely fell head over heels for each other without even meaning too. It just happened and it swept us off of our feet. The only thing was, he was recently... (252 words)

How can I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today my guy friend on the bus made fun of his cousin sitting next to me so I would laugh. He said mad a dumb blond joke about me and I said that he was a natural blond and since he was a guy that he was stupid and he laughed.Does a guy like you? If you sit behind him and touch ... (132 words)

Fallen out with a good friend after he betrayed me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had a major fall out with a good Male friend and colleague. He recently betrayed my trust. Long story short. We were good friends really trusted each other and did business together under our separate companies. I am married and he is single and I have always f... (360 words)

I miss my ex boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so Im in this new relationship I really care about this guy lets call him jay, and my ex I still think about now that im a senior. I really just want to be over him like I cant help but think about him and everything we did and used to do I hate to admit it but I ... (62 words)

My friends wont accept me for who I am

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have friends who I don't think I can be friends with anymore. They don't accept me for who I am and I am sure they talk behind my back! I am not good at confronting people. What should I do?... (41 words)

I'd like to give him a romantic surprise to make up for our lost time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i need some ideas and was wondering if anyone can help. I am away at college and will be going home for Christmas and was wondering what i should do or give to the love of my life. We have been together as a couple for only five months but have known each other for ten ... (110 words)

He used to be smart and no-nonsense. Now he's a manchild.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

9 September 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I am clueless what went wrong with this guy I dated for a year. He used to be very sensible and even if I wasn't so attracted to him, his being rational, smart and level headed made me fall in love with him thinking I found a man who is unique. He gives me the best advises and ... (370 words)

My husband had an affair -- shouldn't I be putting some distance between us while I sort out my feelings?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been married 17 years. My husband had an on/off again affair with a married woman for 3 years. I found out about it. He told had already decided to break it off because it was hurting him. I was in shock at first, screamed, cried, wanted to kill myself. He swore he ... (202 words)

Ex wants to be friends after our break up but does he mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of just about 2 years broke up with me about a week ago. no matter what i do, i just can't seem to get over him. when he broke up with me, he said it was because he couldn't see himself with me in the future and because we have nothing in common anymore. he als... (289 words)

When I asked if we'd marry he broke up with me saying he couldn't commit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we were about to buy a house together however when I asked if he will ever marry me he has ended our relationship as he said he can not commit. Will he ever come back to me?... (48 words)

What should we as a family do about my brother's relationship with a much older man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was out in town yesterday when a friend of the family suddenly stopped me and told me he had something important to tell me. He told me that my 16-year-old brother was in a relationship with a 45-year-old married man who's also a basketball coach at a local university. Appa... (295 words)

Sweet without being too sweet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How can you say sweet sentiments without being too sweet? It gets to a point where I feel like I sound like a really bad romantic novel.... (27 words)

How much time do I give him? Or do I just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like a boy who i have been spending a lot of my free time with. We IM everyday and we talk about a lot of things. We ended up making out at a party but he didnt say anything for the whole week after. Then at another party, a lot of people asked him what was happenin... (168 words)

I would like to know what guys think of girls when they look at them like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys if a you kept staring at a girl and watching her and checking her out, Looking in to her eyes every minute and when she laughs, also when your talking to your friends your friend notice you watch her and she turns around shyly -- what are you trying to tell her... (247 words)

Is it true that abscence makes the heart grow fonder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it true that absence makes the heart grow fonder? And does a guy that youve spent so much time with, day in day out, reminice about all the moments and memories you two shared together; even if it were for just 4 months. Is it true that you could fall in love with someone ... (108 words)

We have been married 10 months and I still can't have sex with him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.. I got married in the month of November but not yet had sex with my husband. I love my husband a lot but when it comes to sex when he inserts his finger I feel very painful and stop doing further. He desperately want to have sex with me but im very scared because I cant bea... (86 words)

My sister is having an affair. Should I tell her lovers wife.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My sister has been having an affair for over a year now. They are both married although only content in their marriages. I want to reveal the affair to his wife but do not want to reveal my sister's identity because she has young children in the local school and this could ... (70 words)

I'm not really comfortable with having an open relationship, but I just don't want to lose her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months now, im 18 and she is 17. She as recently entered that phase in life where she wants to go out and have fun with other guys, but she also wants to stay with me. More to the point, she has told me that she wants to be ... (426 words)

I don't know whether to believe my boyfriend when he says he is not interested in any other women...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try to make this as short and clear as possible. The thing is, i am insecure (as i have mentioned in my previous post) and probably will never overcome this character trait. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We are happy...well i guess you can say we're happy ... (284 words)

My girlfriend has just disappeared! It's been a week now, how long should I wait before moving on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has dropped off the map for a week now and i have sent online messages, texts, and left voice messages, but she did not respond to any of them what so ever. I did however get a response from her cousin that said that she had left the phone at her friends hous... (691 words)

Is anybody familiar with divorce process in Canada?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age - Is anybody familiar with divorce process in Canada? I have made my decision ,to leave my husband, but I don't know where to start. What happens if I move out before the divorce papers? I'm not sure I can deal with him, he is not going to cooperate,and I need space to take car... (164 words)

My question is regarding a male friend of both myself and my wife, who is also an ex-boyfriend of my wife's.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My question is regarding a male friend of both myself and my wife, who is also an ex-boyfriend of my wife's. Before I get all the advice about not having an ex-bf around at all, his former best friend (I'm now his best friend) introduced my wife and I after this ex (I'll ca... (440 words)

She told me she wanted to be with me again, but then had a one-night stand.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My mind is torn. I have dated a girl for three years. I went through a lot and was emotionally closed off for a long time. She finally reached her breaking point and left. It took her leaving me to realize the dark place I was in. While separated, I relized what I had done ... (408 words)

Should I encourage her to keep her options open or just stay out of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine has been with her boyfriend for a long time. She loves him and he loves her. They have issues though. I've told her they will never change because he is unwilling to change the drinking addiction he has. He is also unemployed and isn't looking for a job on ... (135 words)

Spotty skin! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'd like some advice about my skin please. I used to have very clear skin when I was younger, I didn't really need to take care of it, it just stayed spot-free all the time. But about 4 years ago I started having the contraceptive injection, but after a while I ... (347 words)

I need advice help with my long distance relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a month, now. We were together in Arcata, CA for my sophomore year (her freshman year) in high school; but my father's in the Army, so I got transferred to Albany, NY during the summer. We promi... (428 words)

I'm making myself sick over this... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age - I'm new here so hope I don't sound toO crazy. I do love my husband but the things I have found out and the lies ARE about toO much, my first marriage I put up with more than I should have and said I would never let another man hurt me again and I feel I'm starting to let it ... (119 words)

I’m completely infatuated with this guy who barely knows I exist.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I would really like some help. I’m completely infatuated with this guy who barely knows I exist. We’ve been texting a lot but when I see him, he acts as if I’m not there. So I’ve now starting doing the same to him and just blanking him. I don’t know why. It’s stupid, ... (222 words)

I am seeing a wonderful man... so why am I so insecure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age - Hello, I am seeing a wonderful man, he is full of compliments and hugs and makes me feel great. So, why am I so insecure? He has a LIFE! lol.. he goes and does and stays busy and I sit and worry and am so afraid this wonderful thing we have will end! I am told I am pre... (227 words)

We fight so often about the dumbest things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We fight so often about the dumbest things! First of all, the things he has to say about me and how im messing up our relationship is myspace he wants my password to see who i talk to blah blah blah this and that cause according to him i have a secret life going on he get ... (558 words)

I feel as though my life is at a stand-still. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please Help, I am 20 years old and have recently bought a house with my boyfriend of two and a half years which we moved into May 2009. Although I was over excited at the time I regret the decision I made with a vengeance. I feel like when I reach the age of 30 or so I am go... (389 words)

How can I be strong about this and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - did i do wrong in looking in my boyfriends phone? i looked at his text messages.. he texted this one chick i always thought he was screwing around with. told her to get some rubbers, im speechless. i dont wanna think about it. im the saddest girl on earth. i asked him and all ... (162 words)

I'm scared I'm going to be held back from life because of my anxiety! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is pretty long... I'm 16 and I've never been in a proper relationship with anyone..boys or girls in my case. I've always been very introverted and in my own world..and whats more i have generalised stress disorder, which is pretty common but still sucks..I've had it my en... (465 words)

2 months pregnant; scared and confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In July I found out that I was pregnant for the second time from my boyfriend of 4 years. The first pregnancy was twins and I terminated it, against his wishes because I didn’t feel like we were ready or mature enough for them. I’m 21 and a senior in college and work full ... (278 words)

Should I give up on her? We were getting on so well but suddenly she has gone cold on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I started to become interested in this girl in my class. We got on really well for a few months, and she became the person I texted the most at that point in time. Then the rumors started, and though I am not much of a well-known person in our school, she is. Because I wa... (265 words)

Am I pushing it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey world, Well my name is angel and ive been talking to this guy and it seemed as if we were getting closer and atuff but now i dont know.We have fight now like couples i talk to him about everything,and anything on my mind.Well yesterday i texted him and asked him where we... (200 words)

Should I tell my ex boyfriend I am having worries after we slept together or should I just ignore them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years split up around 3 weeks ago due to stupid things and my boyfriend feeling like he was under pressure from other sources. We have stayed in contact and over various discussions he has told me that what he did was a mistake and that he still loves ... (201 words)

I have a terrible sister, should I kick her out or give her a second chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I could use advice my sister is driving me nutts, she leaves and 12am in the morning and goes to who knows where shes brought a guy home at 2Am when i asked her whats with this guy she told him not to worry about me im just her brother. shes doing bad in school doesnt go have ... (1557 words)

I want him to WANT to spend time with me, not because I forced him to do it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now. once the end of the year comes, we'll be going to different countries to study uni and we have both decided that we have to go our seperate ways. we're both 18. the problem is, i can't even seem to enjoy the time ... (275 words)

Will writing my feelings down help me get over my ex or will it bring back all the memories?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago and I'm still getting over it. I'm wondering if writing things down will either help me get over it (by letting some stuff out on the paper) or it will make me reminisce and think about all the good times we had and make ... (127 words)

Irritated vaginal region!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i tried searching for a medical site to help me but got lost and didnt find anything useful , have been two days since my vaginal opening is irritated and has little white stuff on in that if i scrathced can be removed but it is uncomfortable to do so , and the area so so d... (119 words)

Every other aspect of my life is good but I find it difficult to make friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 23-year-old man with Asperger's syndrome. My social skills are good [not being boastful], I am told, but I consider them to be average. Recently I've started to go to a particular gay bar in my local city during the daytime in an attempt at making new friends, as I... (226 words)

We planned to have this baby and try to make things work, but all of a sudden he wants me to have an abortion!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, Just want some outside opinion on a tricky situation. I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months and last week we found out I am pregnant. I know it is iresponsible, but I don't want a lecture! We talked about it, and even though we were both in shock we decided ... (263 words)

My boyfriend thinks its a bad idea to go to the police after I was raped, what should we do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - About 3 months ago I was raped by a man I met in town on a night out who I thought was nice-looking but wasn't a nice person, then I met my boyfriend in mid-July, and he is far nicer than my exes or the guy I met. It's only recently I told him what happened, and he was disgu... (199 words)

Is he really into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - dear rock and roll,if you read this message please, please answer this as i guess you were named before as rif raf?i really appreciate your answers.so please please and please reply to my question.and let me know if you are really rifraf.but i remember that every single day i ... (366 words)

My girlfriend no longer gives oral, how should I talk to her about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Ive been with my GF for just over a year now, theres talk of engagement, moving in together etc..in short its a serious relationship. We get on fab and when together the time flies by. But as far as intimacy goes things have gone downhill a bit.. we still make love regul... (226 words)

Did what I said push him away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age - I need help. I've been dating this guy for over 2 months. while we speak each day sometimes more than once,he is never clear on the direction of where we are going. he recently invited me to a family bbq who i know pretty well and he expected me to meet him there. we had a... (276 words)

I feel like I can't live without my crush

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i really need help, i met a boy in a school trip he was very funny and i like him, we talked everyday until late hours, he flirted on me but i knew he got a girlfriend, when i asked about her he didnt talke alot about it he only told me they were having problems, he used tu ... (626 words)

Help! I've fell in love with my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in college and living with 4 other girls..two of which are my best friends...however, one of them I am very very close with and she knows everything about me and I know everything about her. She is by far my very best friend. Only one problem..I am in love with her. I ... (210 words)

Should I fight for our 7 year relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok heres the layout.... Me and my wife has been together for 7 years sept 13 we have been married for the last 2 of the 7 we have a beautiful son that is turning 1 year on oct 1 i am really excited and for those of you wandering he was planned not a mistake.. i am 25 she is 21 ... (497 words)

How can I introduce this so early into the marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello aunty,I just got married 3 weeks back and am on my honey-moon,it was an arranged marriage (we knew each-other,our families decided that we should get married),now we are havign our honeymoon!! I have been fasinated by bondage sex and want my wife to try it on me!! I mean ... (73 words)

How long does a guy usually last when you go down on them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my BF and I have reached 3rd base. (hands onley so far) His b-day is coming up soon, and I think I'd like to try going down on him... All I'm wondering, is how long does a guy usually last? I'm not worried about the whole coming in mouth thing, thats no issue for me, but I ... (68 words)

How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally or with out knowing, tries ... (468 words)

I've fallen for my best friend. What should I do? I don't want to ruin what we have

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so ive known this girl for about 2 and a half years and ive always had a little bit attracted to her. weve always been really good friends. But within the past few months she has gone through family issues and has become very dependent on me for things and ive become ... (103 words)

Every kind of relationship I have FAILS! Should I give up now, or could there still be hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i am a complete and utter failure at every attemp of relationship i shoot for. whether that is a geunine relationship, fling, one night stand, or any thing not mentioned i crash and burn like the hindenburg and titanics bastard love child. i dont even know what m... (186 words)

Is is common in a relationship to not have balance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my current boyfriend said this to me in a fight "You don't care for me as much as i care you you, why can'y you return the feelings i give to you" When he says this I defend myself asking on what basis does he use to judge how much I love him. It's such a silly topic for ... (112 words)

Stress causing boyfriend to smoke and I don't like it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has recently taken up the habit of smoking. I know that he's under a lot of stress in college. His mother and nearly entire family smokes, so he's pretty used to the concept. Here’s the big points: I have a breathing disability. Cigarette smoke makes it very ha... (301 words)

How can I let her know how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So there is a girl who I like, but she said we could only be friends because she got back together with her Ex. I want to know what a good thing to say to her would be to let her know how special she is to me.... (48 words)

I want my b/f & best friend to like each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey my name is Kate and I am 22 years old, my best friend for the last 10 years has been a guy named Derek. and when I say best friend I mean my everything, the person who I could spend hours watching movies with but neveer saying a word to, telling every deep dark secret, the ... (287 words)

Can a player settle down so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man for the past 3 months now – he treats me really well, he’s a great cook, clean, loyal, has goals in life, promising career, a little overprotective (but that’s ok), independent and most importantly he puts me as his number one priority – to sum up – he ... (405 words)

We fight sooo much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, im really torn. Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I love him very much, but we fight soo much that it makes me crazy! Its little stuff that it is dumb to fight over, but we constantly are arguing or pushing each others buttons. idk why. it just always seems to ... (98 words)

Pregnant, not ready for a child but cannot have an abortion either

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me!!!!! Idk what to do. I skipped my period last month so I took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back positive I'm gonna get myself two other test just to make sure its not wrong but I'm so scared. I'm only 20 and me and my fiancee arnt ready. He suggest an abortion ... (109 words)

She likes me? Or just likes messing around with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so there is this girl i met online and we have been talking and i told her i loved her she was fine with it but didn't say anything to me, so we kept being friends but three weeks ago i asked her if she liked me she aviod the question every way possible i had to be super ... (249 words)

I'm in love with my ex's brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so bad about myself right now... im in love with my ex's brother, i know some of you might say that it doesnt matter but the thing is that i had a really intense relationship with his brother but we split cause he abused me and I am a woman who wont stand any kind of ... (103 words)

Worried that relationship with teacher will be found out by police!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried that my relationship with a Teacher will be found out by police. We are no long in the relationship. But I had talked about it via phone/text messaging to a very good close trustworthy friend of mine. Even though I haven't talked about it in a while, im still ... (86 words)

I don't want to work so hard in this relationship anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now. I've always enjoyed spending time with him and fell in love with him only about three months into the relationship, but it seemed like I was always the one expressing my love to him in all sorts of ways. I would always ... (267 words)

B/f says to delete myspace or he won't take me seriously

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend tells me to delete my myspace or else his not guna take me surious!! ok my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4 years. he tells me he loves me an cares for me, and i belive him i know he does i love him too and really care. our relationship as a couple is ... (273 words)

Family put my b/f in jail and will pursue it if I continue to see him

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a boyfriend twice my age... i'm only 17 and he's in his late 30's... he has a wife and two kids... wev'e been together for almost 7 months... now the problem is my parents are really against in our relationship and he also wants to leave his wife... so we planned for an ... (124 words)

I don't want to be the fall back guy for my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well this is my problem my high school sweetheart and i have been dating or been together for 4yrs we have a son together. I eventually broke up with her first cause in a way i was immature saying that i needed to know if she was the one i know i was stupid to do that i loved ... (344 words)

Does my boss want to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I work at an office and recently my supervisor's boss has been showing interest. I am not sure whether he wants to date me or not. Any opinions help. He asked me my favorite restaurant then met me there after work. He paid and I offered to split it but he refused. That was ... (107 words)

Should I take his advice and leave now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! ive met the most interesting guy on earth!and he's the smartest human i know! whenever he's in a room every girl would be looking at him wondering do i have a chance? let me start again and tell u everything i know!im into rock music and votes made him the best vocali... (350 words)

I was raped and my boyfriend says "its really nothing to cry over"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok so i was raped 3 months ago by a guy ive known for a while. it hurt me so so much and i am definately not over it yet. but 2 months ago my current boyfriend came into my life and has made me really happy. until the subject of sex came up. we were in his room and he ... (418 words)

Is is ever ok to cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I know it is wrong, but I am asking anyway....Is it ever ok to cheat. I am in a relationship, and have been for the past 6 years. The man I am cheating with is also in a relationship, for the past 3 years. We are together because it is fun, and we are both getting ... (93 words)

Guys: What goes on in a cheater's mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

9 September 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Does a married man fall in love with the other woman/have feelings for her or do they just go back with their wife and family as if nothing ever happened. I know they have made their choice of going back with their wife but for whatever little comfort it is, I was just curio... (75 words)

I want to date my ex's sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've asked several questions about my ex girlfriend, she was my girlfriend when I asked the questions. She broke up with me after almost 7 months and I think I'm almost over her. Anyhow this question is not about her, It's about her sister, I think I'm falling for her, I ... (220 words)

Am I being too cautious, or is he just a jerk using me as a plan B?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked a question last month about a 38-year-old guy whom I had a great first date with, but he talked (near the end of the date) about a hot 24-year-old who dumped him. Yep, he talked about another chick, on our first date. I'm 35. One week later, in a great, funny fo... (228 words)

We agreed that we'd break for the summer -- I'm a mess waiting for official word

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

9 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Myself and my girlfriend broke up about 3/4 months ago and i dont think im over it yet. we agreed to be friends, speak on the phone once a week and just try to get on as if nothing's happened, just minus the kissing, sex, closeness etc. none of this has happened, we ... (357 words)

Am I actually squirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

9 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all I have been searching about squirting during sex. I played with myself with a toy. When I felt that pressure like I had to pee I was told to push with my muscles. So I did well needless to say warm liquid came out and even though it didnt do what I thought I mean it ... (133 words)