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writes:Does anyone know what i can do to help strengthen my tongue so i can give oral to my girlfriend for longer? right now i have to take breaks every few minutes and just keep going without the aid of my tongue, which i presume wouldnt help get her an orgasm. i need help!
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (7 September 2009):
 It is true that you have to relax the tongue on occasion when giving oral for more than about 10 minutes or so, but "satindesire" again has it right. Mix it up by providing various forms of finger massage, along with my favorite technique (as the provider), a G-spot massage. Meanwhile, I think that the best way to "strengthen" the tongue is to give this pleasure for your girl frequently.
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reader, meganutts +, writes (6 September 2009):
 U can start this by slowly savoring whatever u eat. By savor I mean, using ur tongue to taste the food. Candy is an awesome workout for ur tongue, especially the hard jolly rancher candies, ull be wotking out the muscles in ur tongue without even realizing it. Try to work on a whole bag within a month if can, that means refrain from sex for a month also if u want to give her that pleasure. And when the time comes, treat her clit like a very soft jolly rancher, and please, please don't make the mistake and bite it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): You don't need to strengthen your tongue, you just need to vary your technique. Really you must be doing something wrong if your tongue is getting tired, there's no need to go really hard and fast all the time.
Slow build up is the best, plus vary between tongue and fingers. Look around online for some techniques.
Some tips: Find out what she likes, how she likes to be touched there, what kind of stimulation works best for her, watching my girlfriend masterbate is how I learned, I copied her rythm and pressure and added in a few of my own ideas. There's no need to just focus on the clitoris all the time either.
Whatever you do, don't do what they do in porn movies, that's just acting it's not how it actually works with most women (most women I've dated anyway).
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