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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love you, but I'm not IN love with you...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If you are the person feeling this way, how do you get back the spark/attraction? If you are the person who was told this, how do you feel and what do you do?... (36 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend of 3 years about my one-night-stand?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started university and last week was my freshers week. One night I really had too much to drink and ended up leaving the place I was in to go to a guys house and had unprotected sex. Only thing is, I'm in a relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years ... (179 words)

Will anyone want me with this virus?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am an 18 year old girl who has recently been diagnosed with genital herpes. I have only ever had sex once. This occured when I was very drunk,and even though I didn't want to, I was persueded otherwise. I now feel as though I will never be able to find a boyfriend, as ... (71 words)

I don't want to lose him but should we go on break for a month?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, My boyfriend and I have been together very nearly 3 years. We went through a very bad patch, involving heavy arguments, often about petty things, but sometimes about my paranoid thoughts regarding him and other women. I'd often get very possessive and hate him tal... (515 words)

I can't get into sex anymore. I feel like we're just replicating porn scenes...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner's porn subscriptions have changed how I feel about him and our relationship. In the beginning, I was okay with it. But the longer we are together, the more turned off I become. I have sex w/ him to please him and derive no REAL pleasure from him (e.g. emotional ... (192 words)

I don't have the strength for any more rejection. How can I find a guy that really wants to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am writing to all of you because I need a little help diagnosing a problem I think I have. My problem is that I form attachments to men that are in one way or another unattainable and in one way or another make me feel horrible about myself. I am 23 years old and am const... (501 words)

How do I get over this silly crush and rekindle things with my own guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Quick question: What do you do when you have a crush on one of your boyfriend's friends? Recently, I've been getting a lot of attention from this guy, I think about him a lot, and I'm always excited to see him. I find myself enjoying the attention, and I'm somewhat attr... (277 words)

Am I considered too clingy in my LDR?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and are in a LDR. I don't want her to think I'm to clingy. I ask her to keep me updated what she's doing throughout the day but not every second like what she's eating or anything. I just want to keep talking to her and ... (155 words)

Should I move back or stay with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, and i believe that i love him a lot, but i went this summer to a city outside of the province to visit my family and my friends. i spent two months there, and made some new friends and had a crush on one of them tha... (163 words)

Is there any way I can climax without having to stimulate myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts, Ive been on Dear Cupid many many times before for various reasons, but this is my most person problem and Ive never asked anyone this before, if you could help me that would be great. Im not a very sexually active person, yet over the past couple years I... (153 words)

Is it 'harmless' for him to lie about emailing his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My first question was about my boyfriend of almost 3 years secretly emailing his ex again : http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-wont-dump-his-ex-or-put-a.html Today I asked him about it. Me- for you to be as "computer-iliterate" as you claim, you've been on the compu... (449 words)

How do I give this new guy a chance? I might still be in love with my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a month now and i really do care about him. But at the same time I just got out of an relationship not to long ago and I feel as though im not giving this new guy my all because of how my ex treated me. He cheated on me numerous times. He claims... (108 words)

My girlfriend is trying to control me and it's getting old.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I have an amazing girlfriend... she is gorgeous, nice, and funny... but there is one thing that really gets on my nerves and I'm about sick of it. She is extremely controlling. I am in college, and she is still in high school and she sounds more like my mother than my ... (165 words)

What is holding me back from committing to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got out of a very unhealthy relationship. It was two years of constantly worrying, no trust, many tears and very rare, but very passionate "good days". Finally I decided to break the cycle, and have since met a great guy who treats me like a Queen. He's romantic, ... (206 words)

How does a loner get a boyfriend? I need to build more confidence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so it's kind of stupid but important to me i guess when i'm with people i go quiet, i'm way too shy and i just stand there like a loner. also when i'm with guys i'm too quiet. I'm not a quiet person usually with friends and family though and i just need to know how i ca... (77 words)

I'm confused! We haven't had a real conversation for a week.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay..so my borfriendd is the type that needs to talk to me every single day..and more then once. He always makes sure we communicate one way or another..and he always makes it a point to tell me he loves me everyday. this past week, he was away on a hockey trip, and he goes ... (184 words)

Now that his wife knows he doesn't get in touch with me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a married man for over a year now and it has been very painful. He tells me that he loves me and hasn't met anyone like me. The reason for him not leaving his wife is because of his children. They mean the world to him and I truely understand that. I truely ... (248 words)

Married almost 20 years and have no experience with building new relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 40 year old Widow with two boys aged 14 and 7. I have been in contact with a man I have known through a sport my husband was involved in. My eldest son still plays and this guy is a coach. We started communicating via emails, then texts and phone. Texts are at least ... (236 words)

Husband thinks I'm cheating, I'm not but now he doesn't trust me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have not even been married for a year...and we are already separted...When I left the house it wasn't supposed to be forever it was only to try and push him to grow up we are only in our early 20's however I am older than my years..When we became married in December of ... (256 words)

Is this girl in my class gay or not? I'm clueless...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres a fairly normal situation for once. I just started college, there's a girl I like in one of my classes. REALLY like. Problem, is she gay or not? skip the intro/context if you want ...................................................... This is wierd for me. I... (952 words)

How can she say that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I was just wondering if you think this is normal. My girlfriend said that if I was to die she knows that she would probably love someone else, and that she would love that person as much as me, but how can she say that ir even imagine that if she really does love me, and if she ... (64 words)

Any tips on how to get boys to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i know this sounds kinda pathetic but here goes im 15 and have never had a boyfriend. i go to an all girls private school so dont get a chance to talk to boys, thats the main reason i have never had a boyfriend. i dont really do any out of school clubs so dont really know... (184 words)

Will he get bored with me when he turns 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfreind are getting on really well and have been together for 7 months. But hes a year older than me, and turning 18 soon. Im really worried he will get bored of me, want to go out all the time drinking, and possibly meet other girls at clubs etc. I know i should ... (70 words)

I can't read the signs! Does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi long story but to put it simply... I like a guy but am terrible at reading men and "the signs"... so was wondering if you could help me out...? Does this guy like me? Only want one thing? Want anything? Im so confused... A year ago I got with him the night I first met him ... (430 words)

I'm torn between my husband and the man I always wanted but thought I could never have...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - torn between lovers. i'm married to M for 6 years but in love with C for 9 years. C has always been there for me no matter what but he was married until about a year ago thats why our relationship never went any further. i love him i feel secure he's honest, loyal and very very ... (278 words)

He disappeared on me and now won't speak to me. What's going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - The situation is this: I am married (separated), he is not, we were friends,we had a sex a few times,now he never contacts me... ran into him recently, he ignored me but looked uncomfortable, still he stayed close by all night. SO I decided to text him to put an end to this ... (152 words)

I know I should stay for the best, but I'll be happier with someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my daughters father for almost 10 years. We never married but we live together and have a happy life together. However, I do not feel attracted to him anymore and I constantly find myself thinking about other men. There is one guy in particular that I have been ... (198 words)

Cheating with the oposite sex... how to deal with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So...My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. I just found out that he cheated on me two weeks ago...with a man. He has had an online relationship with him for the past 4 months. He didn't tell me the truth, I found out on my own. Also, he lied to the other ... (126 words)

How can I be more dominant in my relationship like she wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I asked what my girlfriend liked, and she said she wanted a dominating man. I am pretty dominant in my own life, I run it no one else. But I'm not sure how to be dominant in a relationship. I try to initiate the kisses, I lead in the conversations, and I choose when to h... (183 words)

I've broken up with him so I don't get hurt.... but it hurts so much!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy for almost 11 months.. We stopped seeing each other about 2 weeks ago, because he was not ready for a serious relationship ( but we were exculsive ) I had to cut him loose cuz i wanted more. Yea it took me a while to let him go.. I just could not do it cuz ... (163 words)

I think I've really hurt him... what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... so here is the situation. I work in a small company and I am talking really small. I think we have about 30 employees total. So anyway I made friends with 3 guys, we all hang out together. This is the first time all my friends have been guys- all the females that wor... (471 words)

I'm cheating on my wife while she is trying to make it work... how can I stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am a 41 years old and have been married for 25 years. My wife and I were High Schools sweethearts. We have two children on in college and one in high school. I love my wife but really haven't told her that enough over the years. Sex for me has always been good but th... (409 words)

I'm worried my PE is stopping me getting a girlfriend....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, my friends think I'm too fussy when it comes to girls and they keep telling me that it is the reason as to why I've been single for the last 4 years. This is partly true as I have to admit I am fussy but the main reason that I choose to stay single is that I suffer... (214 words)

He wants space to find himself... or does he just want to cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started dating when i was 17 and he was 18 he was my first everything. Now 4 years later, he tells me that he wants to find himself, because hes unemployed and taking another semester off for school. We still spend time together and talk and txt not so much ... (151 words)

My Boyfriend is Shy and I'm Disappointed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy confessed to me few months ago. I liked him too but I felt insecure because as friends you feel fine but after romance comes in the awkwardness and shyness might ruin it. We're both from single-sex schools. I'm his first girl. We've only met a few times but we chat ... (339 words)

Is he too young for me and how do I ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 15 and he's 1 and a half years younger than me but I really like him. We've known eachother for like 3 months now and always flirt but i only talk 2 him in afternoon and morning for about half an hour each time coz we get the same bus. He has like loads of friends who are ... (164 words)

Help! I've been cheated on and I'm being bullied...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well basicly my life has been shite since i started highschool (no shocker)well this last month has been the best, me and my boyfriend just had sex and now ive found out he has been cheating on me since we started dating, and im so confused now...people are really takeing the ... (84 words)

Can I be his friend now I'm no longer his mistress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hello I recently broke up with a married man with whom I was having an affair. Actually, he was the one who broke up with me saying that he didn't want to lead me on and he didn't want to hurt his wife and family. He got this wake-up call when he thought his wife was che... (496 words)

What is going on with him? He's been very distant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age - I am in a dilemma. A guy I dated 15 years ago and I have reconnected. We ran into each other about six months ago. He said he and his wife were separated after seven years of marriage. We exchanged numbers and he would call me about once every couple of weeks and we would joke ... (209 words)

He wants to know every single thing I do and if I don't tell him he goes in a mood...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help, my husband seems to want to know every little thing I am doing and when I don't tell him as I am busy doing something he will go out in a mood. He has been known to go to my mum and say all sorts so she rings me having a go at me. Why does he do this and ... (70 words)

When does a guy you met on an internet dating website get serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have met a guy on an internet dating site - we've only met up 3 times but all seems to be going well though it's still very early days. My question is how many dates do you think it should be before he stops looking at other prospective dates??? Or is it a case that whilst we ... (120 words)

Is she really interested in me or does she just want my friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a girl that I get on with extremely well but I'm not sure if she is hinting she wants to take it to the next stage. We both used to work for the same company. As we both had jobs that meant travelling around the country (most people at the firm didn't) and we were bot... (466 words)

I'm so confused about my feelings towards her and need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a confusion since 8 months regarding whether I love this girl... I dunno from where I should start as a thousand things have messed up badly into each other. In short, I dumped her 5 months back as I wasn't sure about my feelings, I mean I deadly like her companio... (195 words)

I like him but I can't look up to him like I did for my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy A two years ago, he is handsome and successful and has a stable relationship with a girl for 5 years. I went crazy over him but didn't pursue cause he has a gf, but eventually he fell for me too. This lasted for 2 years.. we weren't physically involved. During ... (340 words)

I have a crush on him, what should I do (we are Muslims)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy. He is my best friend. He is always beside me. I know him since the time he's still dating his ex-girlfriend. But, now they are no longer together. We went to a vacation together and enjoy weekends together. We are Muslim, so kissings, huggings and ... (105 words)

Do you think my boyfriend has a drink problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

- Do you think my bf has a drinking problem? I am quite worried about him for his own health, as well as our relationship because his drinking habits is placing alot of stress on it. We have been in a relationship for 5 months, and I have literally never been with him wh... (641 words)

I'm worried my vagina isn't as good as the other girls' he's known!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a boyfriend and we've been dating for a few months and we want to start on foreplay. I like the idea of it but I'm quite sensitive about my vagina. I know this may sound creepy/strange/etc. but I've fingered myself and I'm quite self-concious about it, like I don't ... (168 words)

Does he still want/like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a teen who's been dating this guy almost a month, I've liked him almost a year before we started dating and he said he liked me too but didn't think I liked him... he's my neighbor and at first we spent a lot of time together mostly playing games and walking around and ... (292 words)

Masturbation/Pornography Addiction

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All, My problem is that I watch porn movies/stories in computer. I am feeling that this could turn out to be an addiction in the long run. Even though i tried stopping I have not been able to stop it/control the urge. As of result of this habit i am usually late i... (116 words)

He was so nasty, I don't understand why I still think about him all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I hope someone can help me with this problem. I just can't seem to get over my ex even though we split two years ago. I know I should be over him by now and all my friends tell me this. I find myself thinkIng about him all the time. He was a pig when we split, and ... (145 words)

Do you think if I lose weight he will think I look better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 months. I'm about to be 16 and he's 18. We have really good sex but I always feel insecure about my body because he is obsessed with porn! Now I'm really small. Only 5'1" 107 lbs. He's 6'4" 225 lbs. He's a gym rat so he's always ... (364 words)

I gave him bj but he couldn't stay hard and didn't cum

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey i have this boyfriend.. we have been together for 2 years and we havent had sex till now... i am not quite ready for it and well my guy hasnt pressured me either... which is nice. we are both virgins and we are both 23. yesterday was our 3rd year anniversary so i... (232 words)

My husband is mean but not violent but I don't want to live with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi l am a 43 year old woman,l got married at 19 l had my first child the day be4 l was 20 it was a baby girl l had another girl when l was 23 and a boy when l was 25 my husband was 6years older than me.He got very violent l try 2 keep my kids fron seeing anything he always ... (444 words)

Blow jobs & STD'S

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - in regards to blowjobs, are std's transmitted just by having your mouth come in contact with the penis, or does that only happen if he cums into it? ... (30 words)

Pregnant used vibrating toy and now I'm bleeding

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am so scared i am 3 months prego and lastnight i had sex with my partner and we used toys "vibrating dick ring" but its not the first time.. i feel asleep and woke up and i went to pee and wiped my self and i saw blood nothing huge but something sum blood only when i wipe i ... (134 words)

Most of my friends have g/f or b/f within our group..what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - In my group of friends almost everyone has got a bf or gf within the group. There are a few of us who are single and i think one of the girls likes me but i only think, not sure. What should i do? Pursue this girl and find out if she does like me or find a new group of peo... (71 words)

Bisexual with both girlfriend & boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Ok... I'm a bisexual guy and though I have a girlfriend, I've also had a boyfriend for the past 4 months. They both knew about and were fine about each other, so that wasn't a problem and so for a while it all worked out well. I really liked being with the guy and eve... (214 words)

Can we just stay friends or it is always going to be "more thant that"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a massive prob which I really need help with please, please, please. Ok - this is long so I apologise. My marriage is ending cos of various reasons - but about 2 months ago, I got back in touch with an old friend who I haven't spoken to for 20 years - when we were 17/... (721 words)

Threesome is not working out for me and now she lives with us!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 years old and my husband and I have been happily married for 13 1/2 years (until recently that is). About two months ago, my husband and I started having threesomes with an 18 year old female friend of the family. Everything was going great until he had to go out of ... (619 words)

Still numb from past, don't know how to go on in the present or future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im back. ive been on here before. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-lost-and-numb-to-the-massive-pain.html that is my last question and this is a update of sorts. i took everything i got out of that and just bottled it up. now i seem to act like i used too. but ... (613 words)

Married 3 years and lust for other men is driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for 3 years. we have no children yet but will be soon. However, I am finding it increasingly hard to stop thinking about being with other men. I imagine having sex with them more than I want to with my husband. I love my husband so much and all his family ... (101 words)

My girl is a sex addict

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - HI im 18 years old 6'2" 180 lbs average body size and there is a reason for the specs so keep reading. Theres this girl she is amazing and she wants to start dating but im not sure about it i REALLY like this girl shes beautiful wild and random but she is also a NEMPHO and i am ... (237 words)

Boyfriend pushing me to get a breast lift

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and my breasts have been sagging since I was 18, when I lost a lot of weight. My boyfriend has for quite a long time been asking me(frequently) if I could get a breast lift done in the future. As of now I don't have the money but should I consider this in the future? Is ... (109 words)

Partner has too many friends and it makes me jealous and insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my partner has so many guy friends she says she knows them she tells me theyre just friends i trust her but im naturally insecure it hurts i want the attention im jealous am i being selfish? am i thinking wrong? what should i be thinking? should i risk the relations... (70 words)

Is it bad to see this man when there isn't something more interesting out there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I keep dating the man who has said to me in the past that he isn't interesting for a serious relationship. Although we don't discuss this subject quite often i haven't really gotten over this. But i see him sometimes when he arranges that. I don't keep asking him to meet each ... (282 words)

What do I do for the best? Keep the baby or terminate?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my partner were togther for about 4 years and now have been broken up for almost a year now but he now has a new girfriend of about 6 months. He wants to terminate, he feels as if he's not ready and that he is scared he won't be able to be a ... (126 words)

Should I ask her out anyway after what she even told me tonight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

21 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - :RECAP: - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-ask-her-out-again-after-all.html Last week I asked if I should ask out an EX after 8 years of not seeing other and divorces on both sides. We have been talking for the last week and a half and well things were going d... (650 words)

Why is it so hard to get over someone...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it hard to get over someone even though you know that there are so many better guys out there that are fighting for a chance to date you? I am just so confused!! I compare every guy to my ex, and even if the new guy seems to have every better quality, I still th... (175 words)

Do I want friendship or do I just miss him?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After a troubled relationship we had to broke up, and I had really bad time and awful summer, we were happy in the first but we reached a point that we couldn’t stand each other , and my boyfriend had to broke up with me ,was his choice and he didn’t give me any chance again to ... (253 words)

Help, I've been dumped... what can I do?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dumped by my boyfriend of 2 years, toally out of the blue when all had been going well for months no arguments or drama. we had a small argument one morning before he left for work, all day he didnt message me ( which he usually does all the time) i finshed work at ... (529 words)

She's got a boyfriend but desires me

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl this summer. I'm extremely attracted to her. We have a lot of sexual tension or some sort of desire for each other. It's a radiating energy that we feed off. I've been single and met a lot of girls over the past 5 years but this one really draws me in. However, ... (300 words)

I'm desperate! I don't want to lose her...

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just joined this site, out of desperation. I really need help on this issue. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years now. I have always been jealous and a bit insecure, because she is very attractive and i'm not all that. Deep inside I always have the fear of her ... (897 words)

Why can't you be in love at 17?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont get why people on here say you cant be in love at 17 or you cant love two people, not trying to seem too blunt about it, but seriously i just dont get why at 16 or 17 "you cant possibly be in love" ???? or if you have feeling for 2 people thats impossible, people get ... (88 words)

How are we supposed to make ends meet?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have 3 boys 11,14,17..they are all good boys..but i cant feed them..they eat to much and me and my husband cant support them..we rent a home and work work work to feed and cloth them and provide for them but they are always hungry and need stuff and we just dont have any ... (215 words)

Will reverse psychology work to get him back?

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21 September 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Still trying to get the ex back. We got into an argument because i think i rushed into things to quickly and this is what he sent me on a tex message. " I'm not lookig for a relationship and you are, so I think it would be better if we just didn't talk on a regular basis, a... (295 words)

She questioned if I liked anyone else/I've probably been clingy

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating my girlfriend for about a month. We hit it off right away but then one day during lunch at school i talked about a girl that i previously dated shortly with but many months ago. (Both of them know each other since middle-school.) The conversation was just ... (215 words)

After being rejected how are you supposed to act like it doesn't hurt?

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When you get rejected by someone. Someone that doesn't feel the same way for you. How are you supposed to act like it doesn't bother you? How are you supposed to act like nothing ever happened? God, I have been praying forever and talking to him to erase her from my thoughts. ... (280 words)

Why is she not taking my calls?

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that i love, I Knew her for about 1 year but we are not very close or intimate because she lives in the boarden school, but when she completed her secondary education i started communication with her through phone only, this is because i cant visit her at her ... (208 words)

Not cheating but the handwriting is on the wall?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need clarity, My b/f says he is not cheating but is the writing on the wall? Please PLEASE help!???!!? OK I have posted before but I can't seem to find clarity. My b/f who I have been with for 3 months and I have known him for 2 years. He moved in with me about 2 months a... (277 words)

I feel like he's playing with my emotions

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's what's happening... I really like this one guy. He's sweet and doesn't go after looks like most other guys I know. I first met him two years ago when I was upset and he gave me tissue to wipe my eyes with, I thought it was sweet of him. Ever since then I've been ado... (369 words)

I'm having my brother's baby and I'm worried

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need serious help! Im pregnat and its my brothers. Im 2 months along and Im affraid of the outcome might be. This is my first pregnancy. We're both very young. I want to keep it because Im against abortions but at the same time I don't want to ruin my family. They would be ... (88 words)

Why does losing your virginity hurt?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend started having sex the other night.Hes not a virgin and is experienced. But im a virgin and he got in alil but it hurt so bad i made him stop. But I wanted to try again but i dont want it to hurt. Why did it hurt so bad?!?!? Am i still a virgin. because he ... (62 words)

She won't be with me because of my self destructiveness. What do I do?

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me n my ex broke up a month ago cuz i become mentally adicted to aerosol cans after awhile we hung out again n we told eachother we loved eachother we had sex a few times and all the feelings came back but her parents hate me and wouldnt let her be with me while she lived in ... (106 words)

Do his comments reflect what he'll think if he sees me naked?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to sound really silly but here goes. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and the other day we were bumming around watching tv when a song clip of Rhihanna came on. He made some comment about her having really fat thighs. He was trying to make it a com... (128 words)

Who out there has orgasms in their sleep?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going to just throw this question out there, who out here has orgasm's in their sleep? I do quite often, and its very pleasurable. I was just curious if anyone else out there has them.... (39 words)

Can good looking women make men insecure?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Everyone tells me that i am a very beautiful women and i have a good personality. I was in an abusive relationship for many years, but finally got out. My ex even used to worry about other men looking at me whilst we were out shopping! I am not a show off or anything like that ... (147 words)

Does he want to get caught?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Married lover just asked me to come to his place while his wife is out of town, and children sleeping. First time he has asked. I think he wants to get caught. I think he wants to push the matter. I am debating continuing the relationship. ... (52 words)

I'm depressed being a woman and being stuck with my sex organs...

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately I've been feeling incredibly depressed about being a woman. My boyfriend is amazing and is always doing everything he can to make sure I'm completely satisfied in bed. I like sex a lot and have it frequently and almost always finish. Yet all I can think of is how unfair ... (242 words)

How does one work at getting their ex back?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 2.5 years and i broke up 3 months ago. I was not able to give him what he needed due to a number of reasons, a job that required most of my energy, i averaged 12 hours per day, aging parents living in a different state, my youngest son having an addiction ... (286 words)

Should I never speak to him? I've put up with enough of his mistreatment.

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do... I went out with a guy for 2 and a half years from the age of 16 until almost 19. He was 4 years older so 20 when we met. In short- i got kicked out of home a week after we got together and he had just been kicked out a week before so we began living ... (1057 words)

Why does he think the piercing is trashy?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There was a boy i realy liked and when i told hime i had my bellybutton pierced he said *wow thats trashy!" then he left! Why do you think he thinks its trashy?... (33 words)

How come guys are never interested in me?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really struggling right now with a few things and would really love some impartial advice. I'm a 20 (nearly 21) year old dedicated law student with plenty of friends and a busy and varied lifestyle. I have a LOT of interests and an eclectic mix of things I enjoy. I am a ... (667 words)

How can I make him feel more comfortable around me? He's shy...

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm dating a very shy guy. At least, he's quite outgoing normally but shy around me. He told me once that he gets really nervous around me and tends to say silly things to me that he normally wouldn't say to anyone. So I'm wondering if there's anything I can do or say to make ... (217 words)

He keeps cancelling our dates. What's up with him?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for about 2 months now. We were doing great for a while but now he seems to cancel every other date we have. Two weeks ago I told him that I felt that he isn't really interested in me and tried to end the situation, but he came back with many ... (179 words)

What shall I say to her? She really broke my heart.

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so this about my ex. We broke up two weeks ago as of 9/19/09 and I thought I was almost completly over her. I had even asked her sister out because I thought that was over her and was ready to move on. Anyhow, yesterday I was at school and sitting in the bleachers when I saw ... (206 words)

We have a phone relationship. Could he like me romantically?

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21 September 2009 (F) age - I've recently struck up a relationship with a man over the phone. We've known each other for many years, but he was married and I was married. He'll be divorced in January and I am also separated from my husband. We started talking innocently enough, but now we talk sometimes ... (317 words)

Are we getting ready to head into rocky territory?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm going to try to make this as brief as possible. I have a great female friend we've been friends for over 10 years. She and my husband are also great friends. They are very much like brother/ sister, always have been, long before I was ever involved. As a matter of fact she ... (282 words)

I have an uncontrollable urge to marry. Am I rushing things?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this might sound stupid. I've been with my boyfriend 5 months. And I just really want to get married. I've had one long term relationship and several short ones, and I've never, ever felt like this about anyone before. My boyfriend has said he wants to spend t... (98 words)

Is he just seeking a friendship or is it more?

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am looking for opinions about the intentions of a guy I am interested in. I cannot tell if we have that special connection or if he just views me as a friend. I met this guy a year ago in the same building I worked in, he was nice, flirty, and I really felt a connectio... (527 words)

Is my penis the right size to have sex?

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey people im really worried about something ive been going out with this girl for like 3 months now and she wants to have sex im 16 and im really unsure if my penis is the right size it is like 4.4inches and im really worried because in my last relationship she laughed and ... (95 words)

What is the male equivalent of a feminist?

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What is the male equivalent of a feminist? I know officially it is about women having equal rights to men which of course is correct but i think in todays society it is thought of (and a lot of people that call themselves feminists think of it as) being almost an anti-men... (245 words)

I just don't think he cares about me at all!

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21 September 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me with this because i feel so lost and hurt and the worst thing is i cant even talk to this guy about it. Thing is hes one of my best friends yet i really think he doesnt give a toss about me whats so ever! I may be taking this abit far but its gone on for a while ... (521 words)

Am I a bad husband?

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21 September 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married for two months (too young to be having problems, no?). She's 32 and I'm 36. I consider myself a laid back kinda guy - so I really assess my position before I blow my cool. We have a 6 month old who we both love dearly. Before we got together (1.5 years ago) my ... (337 words)