A
female
age
30-35,
*elples
writes:I can't stop thinking about this girl that has caused so many problems between my boyfriend and me. He said he doesn't talk to her anymore (he chose this) when I asked him one day out of curiousity. But that was during mid-summer. Lately, I've had two dreams with this girl. One where it was just her and her group of friends. Another, my boyfriend was two-timing me with her. It was terrible. Anyways, I didn't think of her at all until I went over my boyfriends house one night to sleep over. My boyfriend and his brother had a game early in the morning, leaving me sleeping. I woke up, they still weren't there so I decided to go on youtube and watch some videos. Now the next thing I did was the stupidest thing I ever did. I looked at their pictures and saw a whole bunch of my boyfriend's brother ex-girlfriend. Then there were some of both the brothers together with that girl I dislike. One was of her alone in a bikini. This picture was from a time long ago, I remember the first time seeing it on myspace was two years ago. I wasn't sure what to think, whether the brother was the one who saved the picture or my boyfriend did? Both of them use the computer but his brother uses it more so that's why I hoped it was his brother's at the time. Ever since then, I think about her a lot. A lot of things that trigger any memories of her happens many times throughout a day. It isn't to the point where I think about her more than I don't but it still bugs the crap out of me that I think about her at all. I'm worried he's talking to her and hasn't told me so I'm planning to ask him soon. This and the dreams all started since fall term began. He goes to school with her ex-boyfriend and they're best friends. Her ex-boyfriend loved her so much so sometimes I get the feeling that he talks about her to my boyfriend. I just want to stay away from all that drama but I don't want to make any hasty rationalizations. How can I stop thinking about this girl?!
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reader, Helples +, writes (27 September 2009):
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): you are not saying away from the drama, you are like a magnet to it! If he says that he doesn't talk to her, why won't you believe him? I would gvie him the benefit of the doubt, just because her picture is on the computer doesn't mean that he looks at it all of the time. I have pics of my ex from 5 years ago on my computer.
BIG DEAL. You are going to drive yourself nuts thinking about her. You are with your boyfriend now. not her. take care of him, and stop thinking so much.
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