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writes:Am afraid i wont be able to get over him.there's this guy,we met late last year.he called me a lot and we hung out alot.he wud tell me things he didnt tell our friends and all.he said he liked me and was really into me.i really liked him too but didnt show it cuz i wasnt sure he had genuine feelings 4 me.he wanted to go out with me but i refused cuz i didnt want to take dat risk.then early this year he went to his school n i went to mine n i didnt hear 4rm him again.his number wasnt going thru n i felt really miserable.after sme months i was able to forget him until recently when we saw each other again and everything just came back.am right back where i was before but this time around he just collected ma number and the day he called that he was in front of ma house i wasnt available so i culdnt c him.like 3 dayz later i saw him n just said hi n walked away(i dnt kno why i did that) n last i heard is that he's gone back to school.i dnt even kno if he has a girlfriend now all i kno is dat i love him n feel so miserable rite now.each time my phone rings or a text comes in i rush to c if its him,i always want to know how hez doing and if hez ok but i dnt want to be like this.he doesnt even kno i feel this way about him.each time i c him i go back to loving him.how do i get rid of these feelings totally?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 September 2009):
It takes time. If you sit there daydreaming and remembering him, you won't get over him. Get out there with some of your friends and have a good time. Don't be alone, socialize. You'll find someone else. There are plenty of good guys out there. Meanwhile, make sure you have nothing to do with him. Don't be his toy or anything like that. You;ll get there, but it will take time. lots of luck
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