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writes:hey i am 21 years old. i have a boyfriend who is of the same age and we have been together for 3 year.he is a great guy. very devoted to me and i know he would never intentionally hurt me. we both love each other very dearly.... but something doesnt feel right to me of late...intially when we started goin out... he was all over me... wanted to spend every second with me.. which was so adorable... but it isnt like dat anymore. and that makes me sad. I dont feel as important to him anymore. quite frankly i feel like he is taking me for granted. i have tried talking to him about this buy he just gets angry. According to him he has done nothing wrong.some time back i asked him wat happened to his romantic side. and he told me that he just wasnt in the mood these days and dat he was getting bored of the place( we both study in the same college away from home)And so i told him that i am scared that one day he'll grow bored of him.And so he asked me ....wat should i say to that?And that broke my heart. he then went on to say it wasnt me.. but he was just bored of the same things we do everyday....i cried that whole day not knowing wat to do...i have a conservative family...i go out with my guy when ever i can buy my family has rules. and we live in a small town where the only thing you can do for an outing is dinner and coffee...so please tell me wat can i do, to get him interested inme. i want him to look at me like he used to, when he first started dating...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 September 2009):
Start talking to each other! He's still interested, or he would have walked by now. Suggest that you try new things together, in and out of the bedroom. And talk! And the post below was talking about the book 'Men are from Mars, women are from Venus'. Read that too, it is actually very good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): Every relationship goes through times like this. We can't stay at the same level of happiness all of the time because we are just human. This doesn't mean he's lost interest in you, just that he is momentarily bored with doing the same things all of the time. You could try suggesting new things to do. One thing not to do, though, is to keep asking him "what's wrong?" because this will make him pull away from you. If you want to understand this cycle in relationships better, try reading Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.....it really makes sense.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhelp me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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