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writes:I'm 19 years old and i'm thinking of moving in with my boyfriend of a year, i really love him and we get along great when were together, but he's in the army and he goes away alot. Sometimes hes away for two weeks or even a month at a time. he's going to be posted next year and and this time he could be away for up to 6 months, and since he'll be training for it he'll be going away more frequently during the time leading up to it. we never usually fight, he's not really a fighter he just agrees with me and will do anything to make me happy but i get very jealous and angry when hes away, maybe just because i miss him, and i always take it out on him. little things he says when he calls or texts or even on face book. He isnt that open and doesnt really tell me how he feels about anything (except when he's drunk, but how can i beleive thats true?) i'm really worried our relationship isn't going to last through 6 months because of the distance. So really my question is, is it worth it? or will it last?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 September 2009):
It will work if you both work very hard it it, something you both need to prepared to do. That means talking to each other and making time for each other. LDR's can work, but not easily. Be prepared to work for it. If you cant' do that, better to end it now.
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