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Is there anything I can do to stop getting so worked up about these things?

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Question - (22 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello.

I'll get straight to the point, my problem is jealousy. I've always been jealous of peoples relationships, I hate people I love getting close to others.

At the moment I really like my female friend, and I know she likes me because she's told me. The problem is, we're never alone. Our other friends are always with us, and they have no idea how we feel about each other.

I hate pretending not to like her, I want her so much. I'm so jealous of her best friend because they're always together. I hate it, I hate her.

Sometimes I feel so angry at myself for being jealous for no reason, but I just can't help it.

I really need some help with this problem, is there anything I can do to stop getting so worked up about these things?

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A male reader, seanjn United States +, writes (22 March 2009):

your jealousy seems a little unfounded, but you seem to realize that. its probaly just your way of coping with the lameness of the situation.

i think its probally just something you gotta wrk on. the best thing to do is probably to talk to her. if you dont wanna to that, try still being freindly, but not hanging out with her. she may notice this and be drawn more to you because of it.

if she deosnt, well life is crappy sometimes

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