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Would you want to know if I masturbate?

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Question - (22 March 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *oHarryoO writes:

There is this boy i really like that constantly asks me if i masturbate in a jokey but serious way...well i do a lot for a girl of my age (i think) but i awlays say i don't. I just wanted a males opinion or anyones opinion actually, to know if i should tell him that i do...would he like to hear that? would it turn him on?... to the guys: would u personally like knowing something like that? and would it turn you on?... i need everyones thoughts! thank you.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (28 March 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntIt's none of his business. Tell him you're not going to answer that, it's disrespectful.

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A female reader, Ravenxx91 United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2009):

Ravenxx91 agony aunthe may be takign the piss....

maybe it woul be an idea - if hes doing this to get turned on - to maybe hint you want to know more about him sooo uhmmm heres a scenario

him - "do you masterbate"

you - "Hmmmmm, maybe spend more time with me and you'll find out" *slinky sexy voice*

lol i did that XD

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

Yeah guys do find it hot, but he doesn't need to know, you don't know how much you can trust him, plus I'd be wary of his motives for asking you this, it is possible he's taking the piss.

If you don't want to risk people going around slagging you off for masterbating then don't tell him.

If you're wondering whether this will make him like you more, the answer is no, that's not how things work. It's far better if you keep this a bit of a mystery, something he will have to find out for himself. ;-)

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunthun for some reason guys do find it a turn on

but if your embarressed then don't tell him i mean it's none of his business!

but up to you

but yeah guys do find it hott.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

I am a man, and I think you should tell him: meeting a girl that loves to have sexual pleasure is always nice and I think he will be exited. However, maybe he could have asked in a better way or not asked at all, I don't know. It also shows that you know your body, which is a great tip for him: means you'll be amazing in bed.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

Yes, he wants to know so he can think of you masterbating while he's masterbating:) Make him take you to a movie and you can take it from there, together:) (Make him pay for popcorn, too:)).

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2009):

He's just taking the piss out of you.

He's asking you because he knows it bothers you, and also because he's an immature boy and he find the whole idea of a vagina just too exciting to stay quiet about.

Tell him to grow up.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

yes he would like to know and it would turn him on. but he doesn't need to know.

Star.x.

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