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writes:There is this girl that lives in one state and I live in another. We met each other through my family, and I have known her for about five years. Throughout these years I have visited her state to see family and her often. She has also come to visit me. We both have of have had strong feelings for each ohter. I feel mmore strongly about her than I ever had for anyone. We have had our ups and downs and now she rarely talks to me and spends very little time trying to buld a raltionship, but supposedly she still has some sort of feelings for me. Even though she dates other guys. I have tried for so long to move on but I absolutely have had no luck. I am just jealous and I cant stop thinking about her. What can I possibly do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): Decide whether you want to make a go of it and if so, tell her how you feel. She may be dating the others because there is no indication that you really want her. You need to find out what you both really want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): Ha! Well, OtherStarfish, I think our young friend needs something other than math problems to get his mind on other things. He is in a state apart,.. from his flame. (Starfish does not understand this) I understand, though. Anonymous, (Gosh! I wish people would stop using that stupid name!..I am tired of typing it!) Anyway, so you were childhood friends, right?...because you're parents are friends. Sweet! I had some sweet childhood friends myself. But, we grew up. And these were right under my nose and in my classrooms...This one is a state away...Anon, lets get a little real, OK? Man to man? That girl is going through her high school thing just like you are. She is going to date and party with her friends just like you do...She is going to pep club and cheer her little fanny off for the Home Team every Friday night. She may even be a cheer leader...What if she is? And she is going to go out with the Captain of the team if he asks her. What exactly is it you are wanting her to do? Go into a nunnery because you can't stand the idea of her with another guy...in another state? Oh, spare me! Sorry, anonoynevzx, or whoever,..I am not trying to put you down. I am trying to lift you up. You don't believe it, I know,...sorry. But you need to get yourself up and start living the life of a normal high school guy. You cannot carry on an imaginary relationship with a gal in another state. You have been watching too many movies if you think of her as staring wanly out of her window, gazing toward your town, saying "Anonny, Anonny, wherefore art thou, Anonny...? Cut yourself some slack and get a life, dude. You are going to lose all your high school life before you know it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): you cant stop thinking about her - wow. what happens if i ask you to add 453531 + 4335751 /4514 *2 = (there is an important answer there - do it.
now whilst you were doing it - did you think of her? No?
so you need to keep you head busy. - really busy - think of anything. think of the greatest round the world trip - think of your favourite car - think of being on stage with the chilli peppers what ever boils your noodle - think of anything else.
;) star.x.
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