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Hair disaster!!

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Question - (22 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

MOD NOTE: Age incorrect...

ok well when i was in like in sixth grade my hair was a bit more straight but now im in 8th and my hair is poofy and wavy and gross! i usually scrunch or straighten my hair but i reallllyyy want straight silky hair. im sick of waking up early every morning to straighten my hair for school when usually it gets a little frizzy and looks bad. and if it rains im screwed. what can i do? is there any shampoo or treatment that will straighten my hair for real. anything? cause sometimes i just want to wake up in the morning run my fingers through my hair and be done and ready but i never can i either have to put alot of gel and hairspray which makes me feel sticky and uncomfortable or straighten it which annoys me. also i do not want to get my hair permanently straightened i just want to have natural, beautiful, straight, and silky hair. please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

Working with your hair rather than against it is always easier, less expensive and less damage. Go to a hairdresser and get some advice. First is to make sure your hair is super moisturized, get a deep conditioning treatment for instance. Then, you need to avoid silicones, shampoos with sodium lauryl/lauruth sulfate, heat treating and chlorine.

try naturallycurly.com

I know you say you want to have silky straight hair, but sweetie if it isn't in your genes, it's not really going to happen! You will just damage your hair by chemically straightening it until it's so dry and messed up you will wish you had no hair at all! I've just grown out a chemical straightening, took me 3 YEARS!! and now I don't know why I did it in the first place!

Be proud of your hair! Having straight, silky caucasian hair isn't the only way to look pretty...

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (22 March 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntYou can chemically straighten your hair, it's only usually around 50-70 dollars depending on where abouts you live.. It lasts for about as long as a perm does and causes about the same amount of damage. Consider that or buying a better flat iron from a salon.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

There are shampoos and conditioners designed for frizzy hair.

Have you tried getting a shower in the evening and straightening your hair before you go to bed? In the morning it would only be a little wavy but it's not hard to take thoses out in like 5 minutes.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

Hey i dont think ill be much help but what you could always do is either straighten it the night before, and it will normally stay quite straight for the next day!

i sometimes grad bits of hair, twist it right round untill it become tight and wrap it round into like a knot kind of thing... put a bit of heat (like hold straighteners on it)on it and undo it and it will be quite curly.. if you separate it you'll have smaller curls! sorry if i was no help! xx

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