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writes:I've been dating this guy for over a year and a half. We were completely happy before he left for basic training and for a while when he returned. But for the past 3-4 months all we do is argue. We almost broke up and it scared me a lot. How can we stop arguing? What steps are needed to help get us back to being the way we were before? I love him more than anything in the world and I know he loves me but here lately I feel as if there is distance growing between us.
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reader, Pandaholic123 +, writes (22 March 2009):
 I know how you feel! I'm sorry that seems like a typical thing to say- but it's so true, I would be starting stupid arguements with him for no reason...It got to the point where i was feeling like such a bad person i was less than a CM from him leaving me- tears n all- But!-- What fixed it was a little stress controlling, got any stresses, you or your man? Write them down: make a list of stresses then write a list of happiness. I did that- and sex...lol. Sex helped a little also to patch up my stress and our love blossomed all over again. ^_^
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