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writes:I have been seeing this guy for a couple weeks now. It has been fun and all but I feel that he is only physically attracted to me and not so much emotionally. He wants to get physical a lot and says that he is always horny when Im around lol I know that he is not a player, he is not that type of guy believe me, I've had lots of experiences with those. I asked him where our relationship stands but he always answers with vague responses like "I like spending time with you and lets see where this goes" We are unofficial now and I need a commitment from him before I do anything physical with him. I feel as if he is so physically attracted to me that it really takes away from the emotional attraction. I mean we talk a lot but it seems like he is emotionally distant. What can I do about this? I really like him
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 March 2009):
Unfortunately, you can like his as much as you want but:
a) he is distant and doesn't talk to you
b) you don't feel a connection
c) he won't even be your boyfriend!!
You aren't exactly asking for marriage here, you just want a boyfriend and he's not even willing to do that.
To me, I'm really sorry but it just sounds like he wants you for sex. Just because he doesn't run round doing this to lots of girls doesn't mean he's not capable of stringing you along and using you for sex and then dropping you like a hot stone.
Ask him where you stand and then when he's vague then just say "Well I'm sorry but that's not good enough for me. I think you have to leave now."
You are better than this and should have a minimum standard set. You want someone who cares for you, can connect with you, and most importantly wants to BE WITH YOU.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (22 March 2009):
Well the only advice that I can give u is be ur self make him see the real u;)
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