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writes:I just want to ask for some advice about confessing my love to someone very special to me.I've been secretly in love (yes, in love, and I know the difference between crush and love) for this very good friend of mine for over a year now. I think there was a certain time that she did like me back. We'd often talk to each other and usually, we'd always reach the point that I'm already about to confess my feelings for her. But everytime that happens, she'd tell me that she has this crush on another person, although I do not know how she really feels about me during those times. So I never really get the chance to tell her because I don't want to bother her with extra stuff like that or anything. I also don't want any awkward moments with her and I don't want that kind of stuff to ruin our friendship.Now, she has this huge crush on someone, but we still talk a lot. Because I really love her, I'd even help her our in dealing with her crush sometimes, even if it hurts so bad... But one day, she told me that she's going abroad anytime soon. Now, I don't know if it's still right, or if it is right at all, to still confess my feelings for her, even if it's already this late.Please help me. Thank you.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 If she is going abroad you have nothing to loose, so go for it!
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reader, AskMelissa  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 Confess! Being a girl I think its really sweet when a guy loves a girl that much. I would be touched!
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reader, alyssa_4evahz +, writes (22 March 2009):
Confess to her!! She would appreciate your feeling and what if she likes you back? Maybe she is just telling you about her crush to make you jealous! You will not loose anything if you tell her your feelings.
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