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anonymous
writes:I kissed my cousin i dont know why we was talking about something and we where close and i just kissed her i didnt mean it i felt like i was dreamin.I have this huge crush on her like huge but was never gonna tell.she didnt even move when i did it i kissed on the lips i just told her i didnt mean to she said it was ok.she just left after that if she tells i will be in to much trouble if she tells i can never see my family again i will have to move to antartica or mars.im so nervous shouldnt she be mad about it will she think im a freak is it even normal to like your cousin so much i try not to like her but i just cant do it i cant figure out why its like everyhting about her i love but i can never tell her. any one have advice on this.
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reader, tjazzy  +, writes (23 December 2009):
Reduce the number of occasions you have to run into her. And try to be friends with other girls. It's a crush and you'll get over it. But you have to work on it. She's family and that makes her totally off limits to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): honestly its not that big of a deal. she more than likely wont tell or mention it again. just be cool and calm down...take a deep breath and relax. i think it will be fine. just dont do it again. :) mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): when your young this like this happends b/c you dont really understand what you should and should not do with family. when i was young i did hear of stories of how cousins would have crushes on cousins and so on. but i think sometimes you dont know how to control feelings. i bet she probably feels the same way as you which is why she did not move or acted surprise. try to keep ur distance from her. maybe there is that one person in ur family like brother, sister, close cousin or someone you can share this with and maybe they can help you with this. and NO this is not a reason for you family to abandon you.hope this helps u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): try talkin 2 her and see how she feels about it all and just tell her that you are really sorry about kissing her n ask her to please not tell anybody about it. (there is not much that you can really do about it now whats done is done) good luck any way hope this helps.
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