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writes:me and my gf have tried intercourse 5-6 times. my penis is not circumcized and I am her first sexual partner. I have had sex before, but this girl is just too tight. my penis penetrates just about an inch inside her and my foreskin is pushed back painfully. she gets aroused well but our intercourse is never satisfying enough since the penetration isnt enuf to get any movement going. any idea how we can solve this? she is on the pill, and we have got ourselves tested, so we dont use a condom. the only position we have tried till now is the missionary position.
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reader, Lee Adama  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 Stop being a dingus & put a condom on.... it'll both protect you & provide lubrication, which from the sounds of it is the next thing you should be applying!!!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 December 2009):
 wow i have no advice on this exept to say i never heard of a situation like this serously you learn something new everyday BAYBAY that was some serous tmi but never the less interesting to kno that theres a solution for this predicament, wait did you say 30 times or more who
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 When you are trying to penetrate, keep going fwd a little at a time until you are all the way in. Thrusting in and out whilst trying to achieve more depth each time will cause your girl more pain than with a slow steady fwd progression, and will also cause less back and forth sliding of your foreskin resulting in less pain for you too.
Use some lube if need be. Silicone based may work better than water based if you are looking for maximum slide.
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reader, baybay +, writes (22 December 2009):
 i had this same problem being to tight
the doctor told me during a pap smear to use lubercant and before sex take two or three fingers and press up toward the belly button about like 30 times or more
it streaches it out an gets it ready for the penetration
also a viberator before sex would work too i have a pink one that has a lil crooked tip on it that i use to push up good luck:)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 December 2009):
 The only advice I can offer, based on some previous experience with very petite women, is to be very slow, very patient. After about a half hour of foreplay, including oral stimulation to her vagina and clitoris, during which she has hopefully climaxed at least once, then place your tip at her opening.
It might be a good idea to use some water-based lubricant, and very slowly insert an inch or so at a time. With each increase in depth, hold for a moment. Gradually, her vagina should expand to accept your erection. Cunnilingus and patience always worked for me, even without extra lubrication.
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reader, anotherjoeshmoe +, writes (22 December 2009):
you should finger her more. use one finger, then two, then three. it will take time. buying lube helps too.
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