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We show each other our private bits, is this wrong?

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Question - (22 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

there is this girl but im not dating her.

we do this thing where she shows me her self exposed i mean breasts and all that and i show her things like my penis

is it wrong for me to encourage her to do so.

i am being mature about this so your comments would be help full

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009):

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emilyanswers

i told her i loved her and wanted to be more than friends

she when lashed out saying stuff to make me think otherwise

but i have this ability why i don't give a damn what some people say so that was ok

again thanks for your help and this break up turned out good for me as now i have more time to study as i have multiple tests coming up.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (23 December 2009):

That sucks but at least you now know.

Did you tell her you wanted to date her or did you just tell her you wanted to stop doing stuff together?

If she thought she was getting dumped she may have lashed out and said something hurtful.

If you know she meant it though then at least you can start moving on.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009):

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thank you guys

I've talked to her and well e kinda broke up

i say kinda because in not really dating her but i love her.

i told her i want to stop it and she said is i do stop then see will have no use for me any more, I've never seen this side of her before.

i decided to end it

thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009):

The "you show me yours and I'll show you mine" game is as old as the hills: just natural inquisitiveness.

Just do not put those parts together, it is illegal at your age.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (22 December 2009):

You have to figure out what she wants from this.

Is she just after a bit of fun and curious to experiment?

Or is she doing this because she thinks it will make you like her? Is this her way to get you to be her boyfriend?

If you want to check this is ok, then talk to her about it. Ask her if she wants to be more than friends or is she happy with the way things are?

If one of you wants to be friends, and the other wants to be more then you have to stop doing this so no one gets hurt.

Good Luck!! xx

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