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writes:I met this guy through work. He is a truck driver who drives for the company I work for but works for another company he is 50 I am 49. He is divorced and a single cat. (He says this many times in front of me) to let me know? possibly? I am newly separated. I work with all men who tease me relentlessly about hooking up with this guy. I'm not sure if they see something I don't see. Anyways, I do know we have been flirting for the past month or so. He always does nice things for me, like opening doors when no one else makes a move. Like I said, he only comes in the office 2 -3 times a day, sometimes no days at all. I started crushing on him big time so I thought I'd give him a Christmas card with a note in it to call me. Well much to my surprise, that same morning he presented me with his Christmas card first with a small gift card in it for me, then I gave him mine. Our notes were pretty much on the same level except he didn't ask for me to call him, but the pet names we call each other were the same as I wrote. Anyway, I added that call me note in his card but did not put my phone number in it because I didn't want him to think I needed to latch onto a guy so soon after leaving my EX, ya know? Now the ball is in his court again. When he pulled up to me in the truck yard in his rig to ask if I liked his card! I said yes thank you it was so nice, I asked him if he opened mine, he said yes and yes we can go out and have a couple beers sometime, But he didn't ask for my phone number! He did stress that he didn't want anyone to know that he gave me a card because he didn't want to be teased. The day after the card exchange, he didn't even come into the office like he usually was doing, but when I did turn around, he had a hugh smile and wave that he at least acknowledged me. I hope I didn't scare him away by asking him to call me. anyone know if this could be what happened? He didn't seem to be avoiding me, should I be bummed that he didn't ask me for my number? any suggestions? I really like this guy and I want to make it work. Just not sure how. I definately feel an attraction between us here, but did I blow it by asking him to call even though I didn't put my number in the note? HELP~
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): right darling just because this man hasn't asked for your number it does not mean he doesnt have the hots for you . if he has already agreed to go out with you sometime then take it from there. dont come on too strongly though because that does not always attract men and you might push him away. just be careful play it cool and find out if this man is really into you look for all the real signs. good luck !
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