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Does Sex hurt as bad the second time as it does the first?

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Question - (22 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I had sex for the first time with someone I really care about a few days ago. But it hurt- a lot, and when I went to the bathroom afterward, I noticed I was bleeding a little. At first, it hurt so much and I think part of it may of been because I was feeling a little nervous, but after I relaxed, the pain decreased a lot and it actually felt pretty good. But I'm just wondering- is it going to be like this the second time too? Does it hurt the second time? I just want to know what to expect.

Also, I've never been to the gynecologist, so does this call for a first visit?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010):

For me, sex hurt more the second time around than the first. Of course, the first time we had more time and I was better "prepped". Make sure that you have plenty of time, relax, and remember, foreplay is essential!

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