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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a married woman, and share a good relationship with my husband. Just moved jobs,and my new boss is a really attractive man. While we behave really professional at work I feel he has feelings for me. How do I find out?
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 Why would you care what your boss thinks? I hope you are only curious. If he tries to get fresh with you, reject any advances and treat him with professionalism, hopefully that will do. It is not desirable to keep reading into this and if you are, ask yourself why.You see attractive men every day and usually you notice them especially when you have some relationship wobbles and want to find an easy way out the bad route; I hope this isn't the case though. Focus on your marriage.
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reader, amazonlady  +, writes (22 December 2009):
I suggest you think about the following:
1) You're married.
2) He is your BOSS!
Simple as that. Harsh, but true.
If you have a good relationship with your husband, then why are you even caring whether your boss has feelings for you?
He may be attractive, plus it may be a nice ego boost if he seems to have feelings for you, but I would advise you to remain professional at all times. If you do find out he has feelings, then what are you going to do about it anyway??....you're opening up a can of worms trying to find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): why are you trying to find out? that is unfaithful and dishonest towards your husband. If you have a nice life with a man who loves you, why ruin it? You have it all, why let it go?
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