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How does sex feel?

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Question - (20 December 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How does sex feel for a guy, when i decide to have it with my girlfriend, it will be my first time. Like what does it feel like in the inside and in your mind

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (24 December 2009):

Will it be her first time, too? If so - the two of you really DO need to talk - before trying sex.

Physically it feels about like "DoubleM" said. I think the difference between vaginal sex and other stimulation is that the stimulation is more gentle, and it's all around your erection - but it's very effective at bringing you to climax very quickly. In fact, if you're like most guys, you will probably climax very quickly. If she's considerate and skilled, she'll help you to an orgasm shortly before you try insertion.

Mentally and emotionally it's hard to say what you'll feel. The first time will probably be a lot of nervousness and excitement. Maybe some fear - not necessarily a bad kind of fear. If she's a good choice for your first partner you'll probably feel quite close to her. Afterwards you'll probably have a confusing mix of feelings you don't really understand. If you need a little "space", or a few minutes (no more!) of alone-time, don't be afraid to ask for it.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (21 December 2009):

bharat mehta agony auntHi Boy !!!

Most interesting question about sex I have never read, heard and even thought.

The beauty of question is your curiosity to know, how it feel like in side and in mind !!! ???

My answer run like this...

How it like 'insdie ?'- it is about sense of touch, and this sense give you information about smoothness,roughness dryness, wetness,etc about object before it. Sensually what you feel is the same every one feel, through sense of touch.

But, what it feel inside mind is really the thing, it is not the same for each one. Mind is real doer, real director, real producer, or it is all. And, mind's feeling or in proper word- mind's perception and conception depend upon mind's ability to deal with 'abstraction' and not how it deal with particular but with universal [ or abstraction ]

But, certainly your perception will be far far better than any one around you, is my confidence in judging you.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (21 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntTheese answers are great wow Gwwarm, "then you have to talk to her" rotfl. i like the factor of ten thing too

This will be interesting to hear from the female perspective

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (20 December 2009):

DoubleM agony auntYou have supposedly masturbated. Multiply that by at least a factor of ten. As far as what it feels like inserting into a woman, it's warm, slippery, wet and very comforting.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009):

Wait and see! It will depend very much on who you do it with and the circumstances so try not to have expectations, just curiosity.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009):

"Garm" - TALK to her? You will have rolled over, farted and fallen asleep, surely?

LOL!

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A female reader, Confronter Canada +, writes (20 December 2009):

Well my boyfriend told me that it feels like sucking on your thumb..lmao yes it sounds funny but apparently thats what it feels like. And whats going through your mind is probabbly WOW! :P hope I helped

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A male reader, Garm United States +, writes (20 December 2009):

Well, first it feels wet and squishy (tight too, if you're lucky). Then, after a while, in your mind it feels like you're about to have a seizure. Then it feels like goop is squirting out of your weiner. If it's your first time all of these sensations will happen in the course of les than a minute.

Then afterwards, if it's your first time, it gets awkward and you'll have to talk to her.

Good luck!

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