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writes:i hope im allowed to get some advice here please.im very wooried for my best friend. his wife left him 6 months ago after 10 years and a month ago a girl gave him her number and from that point he has plunged into a relationship with her-they have already been away for a weekend after only knowing each other a couple of days and are taking two more trips over christmas. dont get me wrong it is really wonderful to see him happy and i want nothing but the best for him but is it wrong for me to think hes rebounding -is he ?also on his facebook profile he is listed as single and i joked with him about this and i said he was dating someone so he was not single but he says in his mind he is.what should i do here-whats going to happen to him-i dont want to interfere but hes my best friend and i do care please advise me thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Well someone I lived with got involved with someone before I even moved out and it has worked out, so you never know.
Often these things are rebounds but maybe its what he needs at the moment. Don't do anything, it is up to him, but maybe be there for him in case he does get hurt would be helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Yeah, he's definately rebounding, which is going to end up fizzling out and the girl he is seeing is going to get hurt, he on the other hand will have avoided dealing with the painful feelings of his divorce and feel more ready to move on and dump the fling.
You don't have anything to say about this or any influence over what he chooses to do...he is an adult after all.
Just sit back and watch the drama, it might be fun.
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